What does a BDSM scene actually look like? This week, we got the honor of having our first official guest on the show, and Senior joins in to recount his view of things as well! This episode is focused on revisiting Bird's first real scene as she goes over everything with Goddess, The Sadist who topped her, and how they navigated initial negotiations, adjusting for the setting, what tools and toys were going to be used, what went right or wrong in the scene, and what aftercare looked like. Bird also opens up about the not-so-great introduction she had into the world of BDSM with a fake dom, some of the red flags she looked past and how you can avoid some of the same mistakes she made. Even though she thought she'd vetted this person, there still was a lot of unanswered questions and things that didn't add up. How do you navigate after someone has traumatized you? Bird chose to try again, with someone much safer, and do some immersive, therapeutic, BDSM!
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