Once you start rediscovering your purpose after divorce, the next question becomes clear: how do you turn that purpose into a plan you can live by?
In this practical and encouraging episode, we explore how to rebuild structure and direction after divorce by setting meaningful goals, creating daily habits, and designing a life that truly fits who you are now. You will learn:
Why purpose needs structure and how to create simple systems that support healing
How to design goals that are realistic, measurable, and kind to your current season of life
Ways to build confidence and consistency through small, repeatable habits
A listener’s story of regaining peace and direction through simple daily structure
A journaling prompt to help you turn vision into daily action
Whether you are newly divorced or deep in your rebuilding season, this episode will help you find focus, regain control, and move forward with clarity and peace.
If this message speaks to you, share it with someone who needs hope after divorce—and if you’d like to share your story or thoughts, reach out anytime at twicedivorced45@gmail.com.
Because your story matters, and no one should have to rebuild alone.
After divorce, many people ask the same question: “Now what?” When the roles, routines, and relationships that once defined you suddenly disappear, it can feel like your purpose has vanished too. But this season isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of something new.
In this powerful episode, we explore how to find purpose and direction after divorce so you can create a life that finally feels like yours again. You’ll discover:
Why purpose feels lost after divorce—and how to rediscover what matters most.
How to reconnect with your values, passions, and inner calling.
Practical ways to build a new life that feels meaningful and aligned with who you’re becoming.
A listener’s inspiring story about rediscovering purpose through service and creativity.
A “Purpose Path” exercise to help you visualize and shape your next chapter.
Whether you’re feeling stuck, lost, or ready for a fresh start, this episode will help you rebuild your sense of direction, confidence, and hope for the future.
And if this message speaks to your heart, share it—with a friend, a Divorce Care group, or anyone who needs to be reminded that purpose and joy can rise from even the hardest endings.
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it can leave you questioning your value, your identity, and your strength. Feelings of failure, rejection, or “not being enough” can crush your confidence. But here’s the truth: your worth was never tied to your marriage, and confidence is something you can rebuild.
In this episode, we explore practical and encouraging ways to regain confidence after divorce and rebuild self-worth:
Why divorce shakes your confidence and how to recover from it.
Simple daily steps to grow courage and self-belief.
How to shift the negative inner dialogue that keeps you stuck.
A listener’s story of rebuilding self-worth one small habit at a time.
A healing practice to strengthen your mindset every morning.
✨ Whether you feel invisible, broken, or uncertain about your future, this episode will remind you that you are worthy, you are enough, and you are becoming stronger than before.
And if this episode encouraged you, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with a friend or community who needs hope and healing after divorce.
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it shatters trust. You may struggle to trust your ex, your friends, your family… or even yourself. But trust isn’t gone forever. It can be rebuilt—slowly, wisely, and with courage.
In this episode, we go deeper into the journey of healing after betrayal and learning to trust again after divorce. You’ll discover:
How to stop blaming yourself and start trusting your instincts again.
Small steps to rebuild trust with yourself through daily promises.
Practical ways to approach friendships, family, and new connections with healthy boundaries.
Why forgiving doesn’t mean forgetting—and how to use past lessons to protect your future.
A powerful listener story about learning to trust again without losing wisdom.
✨ Whether you’re learning to trust yourself, open up to others, or simply take the next step in rebuilding your life after divorce, this episode offers hope and practical tools to move forward.
If this episode encourages you, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with someone who needs to hear that trust can be healed. Nobody should go through divorce alone.
Divorce doesn’t just end a marriage—it reshapes every relationship in your life. Friendships shift, family dynamics change, and trust feels fragile. But healing isn’t only about moving on—it’s also about rebuilding trust, connection, and community in healthy, intentional ways.
In this longer episode, we explore:
How to heal the most important relationship of all—the one with yourself.
Navigating old relationships with friends, family, and even your ex.
Building new connections without fear or desperation.
A listener’s story of finding friendship and hope in unexpected places.
A simple “Connection Challenge” to help you take practical steps toward rebuilding trust and relationships.
✨ Whether you’re struggling with loneliness, learning how to co-parent, or simply wanting to feel connected again, this episode will give you encouragement and practical tools to move forward.
And if this episode resonates with you, don’t keep it to yourself—share it with someone else who needs hope. Nobody should go through divorce alone.
Divorce can leave you feeling lost, broken, and unsure of who you are anymore. But this season of life doesn’t have to define you—it can refine you.
In this longer, hope-filled episode, we go deeper into the journey of healing after divorce—exploring how to rediscover yourself, reclaim your passions, and move from merely surviving to truly thriving. You’ll learn:
Why divorce can make you feel like you’ve lost yourself—and how to find your identity again.
Simple ways to reconnect with old passions and discover new ones.
Practical steps to redefine your life and roles on your own terms.
A listener’s inspiring breakthrough story of building a life she now loves.
A weekly “adventure” practice that helps you reclaim joy and confidence.
✨ Whether you’re just starting your recovery or are ready to take the next step in rebuilding your life after divorce, this episode will give you practical tools and heartfelt encouragement to keep going.
And if this message resonates with you, don’t keep it to yourself. Share this episode with a friend, a Divorce Care group, or anyone who needs to hear that there is hope and a way forward. Nobody should go through divorce alone.
Divorce can leave you feeling broken, lost, and unsure of how to move forward. But what if this painful ending could also become a powerful new beginning?
In this episode, we go deeper into the real work of recovering from divorce—how to grieve honestly, release guilt and shame, and begin building a life that feels authentic and free. You’ll learn practical steps to heal your heart, rediscover your identity, and create a new vision for your future.
We’ll also share stories of listeners who turned their pain into growth—reminders that healing isn’t just possible, it’s happening every day.
✨ Whether this is your first time listening or you’ve been here since the beginning, this episode will give you hope, clarity, and strength for the road ahead.
Because divorce may change your story, but it doesn’t get to define it.
Some nights feel endless. The house is too quiet, the pain too sharp, and the future too uncertain. If you’ve ever wondered how you’ll keep going in the middle of the hardest season of divorce, this episode is for you.
In this deeply personal conversation, we speak directly to the heart of those who are still in the thick of it—reminding you that hurting doesn’t make you weak, that small steps are victories, and that you are not as alone as you feel.
✨ The nights may feel long, but the light is still coming.
What happens when healing isn’t just personal, but shared?
In this episode, we highlight a listener who took Dealing with Divorce: The First 30 to his Divorce Care community, sparking powerful roundtable discussions around each chapter. What started as reading a book became deeper accountability, honest connection, and shared encouragement.
We’ll also explore how you can make these ideas your own—whether in a group setting, with a trusted friend, or even around a campfire. Because there’s no wrong way to share healing tools, as long as you’re intentional about building community and supporting one another.
✨ Healing multiplies when it’s shared.
What does “success” look like after divorce? For many, the old scorecard—marriage at all costs, appearances that look perfect, keeping everyone else happy—no longer fits. And that’s the point.
In this episode, we explore how divorce invites you to create a new definition of success—one built on peace, authenticity, and joy. You’ll hear a listener’s powerful story, reflect on your own definition, and be reminded that success is no longer about proving yourself to anyone else.
✨ Success after divorce is not about perfection—it’s about progress, healing, and building a life that finally feels true.
Big news—our book is finally here!
In this milestone episode, we celebrate the official release of Dealing with Divorce: The First 30, now available on Amazon and other online bookstores. This book gathers together the lessons, stories, and encouragement from our first 30 podcast episodes—expanded with journaling prompts, bonus content, and healing practices to help you rebuild with strength and hope.
I also want to thank everyone who requested an early copy—your books should be arriving in the mail right now. And to everyone who has written in with success stories, renewed strength, and words of encouragement: this journey has been worth it because of you.
We’re not done—this is just the beginning. The next 30 episodes are already on the way, and I can’t wait to keep walking this road with you.
Because nobody should go through divorce alone.
After divorce, your world can feel wide open—and vulnerable. Without boundaries, old patterns creep back in, emotions get drained, and healing stalls. With boundaries, you create the space to breathe, rebuild, and protect your peace.
In this episode, we explore why boundaries aren’t walls, but doors you control. You’ll learn how to set boundaries with your ex, with family, with friends, and even with yourself—so you can move forward with strength and clarity.
This isn’t about shutting people out. It’s about finally showing up for yourself.
And a quick reminder—the new book, Dealing with Divorce: The First 30, is in the works and coming soon. It’s packed with the most powerful lessons from our first 30 episodes, plus journaling prompts and bonus healing practices to help you go deeper.
Because boundaries aren’t rejection—they’re protection. And they’re one of the most powerful ways to claim your new beginning.
Healing after divorce isn’t linear—and sometimes, just when you think you’re doing fine, a memory, a song, or even a trip to the grocery store can send you spiraling.
In this episode, we unpack the reality of emotional triggers—why they hit so hard, what they reveal about your healing, and most importantly, how to respond without losing yourself in the past.
You’ll learn a simple, practical framework for handling triggers when they sneak up, plus real listener stories that prove you’re not alone in these moments.
✨ And don’t forget: you can request a FREE copy of our upcoming book, Dealing with Divorce: The First 30, by emailing TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com.
This episode is a reminder that triggers don’t mean you’re broken—they mean you’re healing.
Divorce doesn’t just end a relationship—it often leaves behind a bruised sense of self. In this honest and empowering episode, we explore the truth that so many people forget during heartbreak: your worth was never defined by the marriage, the breakup, or the way someone else treated you.
Whether your confidence was chipped away by years of neglect, emotional abuse, or self-doubt, this episode will help you begin rebuilding a foundation rooted in truth, strength, and unshakable self-worth.
We’ll walk through real listener stories, shift toxic inner narratives, and remind you that your value didn’t disappear when the relationship did—it’s been there all along, waiting for you to reclaim it.
✨ Want a FREE copy of our upcoming book, Dealing with Divorce.
Email TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com to reserve your copy.
This episode is for anyone who forgot how powerful they truly are.
Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do for someone going through divorce is simply to show up.
In this special episode, I share a recent email exchange with a listener named Patrick—someone in the middle of his own divorce who reached out for a free copy of our upcoming book. His message was short, but it carried the weight of someone walking through the hardest season of their life.
Patrick’s story is a reminder that none of us have to go through this alone. Healing isn’t just about the work we do privately—it’s also about the moments of connection, compassion, and encouragement that keep us moving forward.
If you’ve been feeling isolated or wondering if anyone understands what you’re facing, this episode will remind you: you’re not alone, there is light at the end of the tunnel, and there’s a community walking beside you every step of the way.
✨ Want a free copy of Dealing with Divorce: The First 30 when it’s released? Email TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com to reserve yours.
What happens when the pain fades and the peace returns… but the past comes knocking?
In this eye-opening episode, we explore the emotional pull that often shows up after healing begins. You’re stronger, clearer, maybe even happy again—but suddenly you find yourself wondering: “Should I give it another shot?”
We unpack the difference between genuine growth and emotional amnesia, why nostalgia can cloud your progress, and how to protect the peace you’ve worked so hard to rebuild.
This episode is a reminder that healing is about honoring your future, not revisiting the past.
✨ Want a free copy of our upcoming book, Dealing with Divorce: The First 30?
Email TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com to request yours.
After divorce, happiness can feel foreign—maybe even forbidden. But what if the real breakthrough comes after the heartbreak?
In this uplifting and thought-provoking episode, we explore the emotional whiplash that happens when joy returns after deep pain. We talk about the guilt that creeps in when life starts to feel good again—and why you absolutely deserve to embrace it.
Through listener stories and honest reflection, you’ll be reminded that healing isn’t betrayal… it’s permission. Permission to live. To smile. To dance in the kitchen without apologizing.
You’re not “moving on too fast.” You’re moving forward—on purpose.
✨ Want a free copy of our upcoming book, Dealing with Divorce: The First 30?
Email TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com to request yours.
This episode will remind you of something simple, yet powerful:
You’re allowed to be okay again. You’re allowed to be happy.
We’ve reached a milestone—30 episodes of raw, real, and healing conversations. In this special episode, we pause to reflect on where we’ve been, what we’ve learned, and what’s coming next in this journey of rebuilding life after divorce.
From letting go of guilt and navigating loneliness to finding your voice again, the first 30 episodes have touched on the pain and power of starting over. But we’re not done—we’re just getting started.
We’re excited to announce our upcoming book, Dealing with Divorce: The First 30, which will include highlights from these episodes, bonus insights, healing prompts, and brand-new material. And here’s the best part—you can request a free copy by emailing:
📧 TwiceDivorced45@gmail.com
Tune in for a recap of powerful lessons, a preview of what’s ahead, and a reminder that this community is here to walk with you—one brave step at a time.
Leaving a marriage doesn’t always come with freedom. Sometimes it comes with guilt, shame, and judgment—even when it was the healthiest choice you could make.
In this deeply personal episode, we respond to a listener email that asks a question so many carry in silence: “If I was the one who left… am I still allowed to grieve?”
Together, we unpack the emotional weight of being the one who walked away—what it means, what it doesn’t, and why choosing yourself isn’t selfish… it’s brave. This episode will challenge cultural myths about divorce, break apart the guilt narrative, and help you reclaim your right to heal, even if others don’t understand your decision.
Whether you were left or you made the call to leave, this is a conversation about truth, courage, and the kind of self-love that often goes unrecognized.
This may become the episode you listen to more than once—and the one you share with someone who desperately needs to hear:
You’re not the villain. You’re human. And you’re allowed to heal.
Divorce doesn’t just change your relationship status—it can quietly (and sometimes painfully) reshape your circle of friends. In this raw and honest episode, we explore the unexpected grief that comes when friends distance themselves, go silent, or—worst of all—stand by your ex.
If you’ve ever felt abandoned or blindsided by people you thought would be in your corner, this conversation is for you. We unpack why friends “choose sides,” what it reveals about those relationships, and how to rebuild a support system rooted in honesty, loyalty, and growth.
You’re not alone, and you’re not to blame. This episode will help you protect your peace, grieve the shifts, and recognize that your healing deserves people who don’t flinch when things get hard.