**Season Finale: *The One Where We Wrap It Up***

After 20 episodes of laughter, chaos, honesty, and more than a few tears—we’ve reached the end of Season 1. In this final episode, we take a look back at what we’ve covered, what we’ve learned, and the moments that meant the most to us.From funeral disasters to ghost stories, from serious chats to the truly unhinged—we’re so proud of the little griefy corner of the internet we’ve created.But most of all, we want to say a *huge* thank you. Whether you’ve listened to every episode, dropped us a message, or just stumbled across us along the way—your support has meant the world. Truly. We started this podcast to feel less alone, and it’s ended up connecting us to so many brilliant, kind, funny humans. We’re so grateful.

See you soon for Season 2…

Grief isn’t always somber—it can be awkward, absurd, and downright hilarious. In this episode, we delve into the unexpected comedy that arises in the darkest moments. From funerals gone awry to the cringe-worthy things people say when they don’t know how to handle loss, we explore how humour can be a coping mechanism in the face of grief. Join us for a candid discussion filled with laughter, vulnerability, and the chaotic reality of navigating life after loss.

This week, we’re joined by Beth’s self-proclaimed “emotional support human” Sam, who opens up about losing her dad to motor neurone disease.From navigating the early days of his diagnosis to juggling life, care, and the emotional weight of it all, Sam shares her story with honesty, warmth, and the kind of humour that gets you through the really tough bits.We talk about trying to keep life feeling “normal” when it’s anything but, the quiet heartbreak of watching someone you love change, and the comfort of finding people who just *get it*.Sam’s dad’s song was *Sweet Love* by Anita Baker—so that’s where this one gets its name.It’s a tender one, but there’s laughter too. Have a listen.

In this week's episode, we dive deep into the powerful influence of the women (and men) who helped raise us—especially in the absence of our fathers. From the loss of those father figures to the strong, resilient people who stepped in, we reflect on the lessons learned. Whether it’s changing a tyre or just how to girl boss in general, they’ve equipped us with the tools to navigate life with strength, courage, and unshakable confidence. Tune in for an empowering conversation about the people who helped us grow into who we are today.

Therapy—sometimes it’s life-changing, sometimes it’s awkward, and sometimes you get told you don’t need it anymore… because you’re just showing up for fun (Alice, we’re looking at you).

This week, we’re talking about our experiences with counselling—how we got there, what we expected, and whether it actually helped. Beth saw a school counsellor, while Alice went privately after realising she needed support. We also chat about the reactions we got from others, the unexpected ways we’ve found our own versions of “therapy,” and whether we’d recommend it.

We’re also sharing some charities and social media accounts that we’ve found helpful, because sometimes, the right support makes all the difference.

Home - MindIt's TimeHome SUPPORTING BEREAVED

CHILDREN & YOUNG PEOPLE - Grief Encounter

Winston's Wish - Bereavement Support for Children

Schools - Cruse Bereavement Support

Some socials for you all:

Zoe (@griefismynewhobby) • Instagram photos and videos

Marshall Exler (@marshallexler) | TikTok

Talk Grief | Winston’s Wish (@talkgriefuk) | TikTok

This week, we’re joined by Beth’s lovely boss, Kelly. She lost her dad a little later in life while also being a single mum to two kids—so her experience was *very* different from ours. And, as it turns out, her dad had quite the story himself.
He lived three separate lives (yes, really) and was living abroad when he died, meaning Kelly had to navigate grief across borders. From unexpected discoveries to dealing with loss as an adult (and a parent), this one’s full of perspective, emotions, and, of course, chaos.
Oh, and in *very* important news—Alice and Kelly were trying to remember the word *repatriated*, and Beth, brimming with confidence, decided to step in and help. The only problem? She was *very* wrong. Let’s just say she won’t be living this one down anytime soon...

A few weeks ago, we sat down with The Mothers of All Chaos—but now it’s time for the dads… or at least, it would be, if we could actually ask them. (Note the name of the podcast.)

There are so many things we wish we’d asked when we had the chance. Some deep, some lighthearted, and some that are just plain ridiculous—but now, we’re left with the should’ve, would’ve, could’ve of it all.

What advice would they have given us if they knew they wouldn’t be here now? What’s the one thing they’d tell us now if they could? And, most importantly, would they wholeheartedly support this podcast… or be absolutely horrified by what we’ve overshared?

It’s part reflection, part frustration, and full of the usual chaos.

Some things are just things. But when they belonged to them? They become everything.

This week, we’re talking about the objects, the memories, and the little things that still connect us to our dads. Beth’s dad left behind a love for technology (and plenty of gadgets), while Alice’s dad was more of a pen and paper kind of guy. Their music tastes still live on in our playlists, and somehow, the most random objects—things they touched, used, or loved—now hold the biggest meaning.

It’s sentimental, a little funny, and a reminder that even when they’re gone, the things they left behind can still make them feel close.

⭐ A bonus episode for a bonus boy. ⭐

This one’s for the horse girlies—and anyone who’s ever had that one pet who was more than just a pet.

Beth’s horse, Star, wasn’t just a companion; he was there through the hardest times, offering comfort in a way only animals can. In this bonus episode, we’re dedicating some time to him—his life, his last day, and what it’s been like for Beth since saying goodbye.

It’s emotional, it’s honest, and it’s a reminder that grief doesn’t just apply to people. Some animals change our lives forever, and Star was one of them.

They may be small, fluffy, and sometimes a bit chaotic, but our pets leave the biggest paw prints on our hearts. This week, we’re talking about the unique kind of grief that comes with losing them—the childhood pets who were always by our side, the heartbreak of saying goodbye, and why some people just don’t understand how deep that loss really is.

Because for those of us who do? It’s not just a pet. It’s losing a best friend, a source of comfort, and a little piece of home.

So, get ready for a mix of nostalgia, laughter, and love for the ones who made life better—right up until the very end.

We’ve spent a lot of time talking about our grief—but what about the women who had a front-row seat to it all? This week, we’re introducing you to the Mothers of All Chaos: Alice’s mum, Vicky, and Beth’s mum, Karen.

Losing our dads was one thing, but for them? It was watching their daughters go through it—while somehow trying to hold it together themselves. Alice and her siblings were adults when their dad died, while Beth was just 13, so their experiences (and their mums' experiences) were very different.

We asked the big questions—what it was like breaking the news, what they wish they’d done differently, and, most importantly, were we really that angry? (Spoiler: yes. Apparently, we were.)

It’s emotional, it’s honest, and, somehow, it’s still got its fair share of chaos. Oh, and in the process? Our mums became best friends. Of course they did. They’re even planning meet-ups—conveniently on days we’re both at work.

Episode out now—prepare for some motherly wisdom, some home truths, and plenty of stories we probably didn’t want to hear.

Grief changes a lot—including friendships. Some people step up in ways you never expected, while others quietly drift away. And then there are the ones you have to walk away from because, honestly? Life’s too short for unnecessary drama.

In this episode, we’re talking about how our friendships have grown, shifted, and, in some cases, ended since losing our dads. But more than anything, this is a love letter to the friends who have stuck by us—the ones who show up, make us laugh, and remind us that even in grief, we’re never alone.

You’ve heard our tagline: past pain and Pinot—but this episode? Fully powered by prosecco. So, apologies in advance if things get a little rogue.

Expect honesty, a bit of chaos, and a whole lot of appreciation for the real ones. Because in the worst of times, the best people truly show themselves.

This one’s our most unhinged yet—seriously, consider this your big flashing Trigger Warning for dark humour! We’ve laughed and laughed while making (and editing) this episode because, let’s face it, sometimes life throws you a comedy routine when you’re least expecting it… like at a funeral.

From one of us wanting to perform to the WORST sunburn imaginable, of course things were chaotic. We’re diving into the mishaps, the hilariously awkward moments, and the unexpected chaos that somehow always finds its way into these situations.

But it’s not all giggles—this episode is also about how humor can lighten the darkest situations and make the unbearable just a little more bearable. Because grief may not always play by the rules, and neither do we.

Listen now for a blend of chaos, catharsis, and a whole lot of laughs.

Grief has a way of turning your life upside down, and then just when you think you’re getting a grip, it hands you a “new normal” that no one prepared you for. In this episode, we’re talking about the things people don’t tell you about grief—the insomnia, the random bursts of anxiety, and why a simple phone call can now send us into a full-blown panic. (Seriously, just text us!)

We share the quirks and chaos of how grief has quietly wormed its way into the most unexpected parts of our lives. You’ll hear about the irrational fears, the bad habits, and the weird emotional baggage we’ve picked up along the way—and somehow, we’ve learned to laugh about it (most of the time).

This isn’t your typical “grief talk.” It’s raw, ridiculous, and all about finding humor in the things nobody warns you about. Because honestly, if this is the “new normal,” we’re going to need a bit more wine and a lot more snacks.

Tune in now for all the unfiltered truths about grief and a few laughs along the way!

Grief has a funny way of sneaking up on you when you least expect it—like in the middle of a mundane conversation or during a random tv show scene. In this episode, we’re sharing some of our own funny, touching, and downright bizarre stories of when grief hit us out of nowhere.

We’ll also talk about the emotional rollercoaster of losing a parent, why those moments are so unpredictable, and how to embrace the chaos of emotions (even when it feels impossible).

Tune in for laughs, relatable moments, and maybe a few tears. Let’s navigate the mess together!

Why do people get so awkward around grief? In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the bizarre, cringeworthy, and unintentionally hilarious things people say to you when you’re grieving. From the well-meaning-but-off to the outright baffling, we’re sharing our personal experiences and unpacking why talking about loss makes so many people squirm.

We’ll also chat about how humour can help break the tension and share tips for handling those awkward moments—whether with grace, sarcasm, or a laugh. If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of a grief-related word-vomit, this one’s for you!

Welcome to the very first episode of Bye Dad, Hello Chaos! We’re two millennial daughters navigating life after losing our dads, and we’re here to find the funny, messy, and relatable moments in grief.

In this episode, we’re kicking things off by introducing ourselves, sharing our stories, and diving into what inspired this podcast. Why laugh about grief? Why embrace the chaos? We’ll tell you all about it.

Plus, we’re giving you a sneak peek of what’s to come, expect awkward moments, unexpected breakdowns, and finding joy in the middle of it all. Whether you’re grieving, supporting someone who is, or just here for the chaos, you’re in the right place.

Grab a drink, get cozy, and let’s get this show started!

Don’t forget to subscribe and share your own grief stories with us—we’re all in this together.