Guest Lana Rico, a female-dating strategist, joins John & Nicole to dismantle modern courtship: Why won’t women give compliments? Do both sexes secretly crave a “traditional” relationship? And has social media killed masculine pride?⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 | Intro & Lana’s mission: help women attract quality men2:15 | The compliment gap—why many women refuse to praise men6:00 | “Interview dating”: men feel they’re on job trials9:45 | Who should make the first move in 2025?13:40 | Modern-traditional mash-ups: both sexes want the old model… differently18:50 | Men’s disappearing pride and the rise of passive masculinity24:30 | High standards vs entitlement: where the line breaks30:10 | Social-media illusions, Tate culture, and skewed expectations36:45 | What women really bring to the table beyond looks42:20 | Practical attraction tools: compliments, invites, feminine cues50:15 | Rapid-fire Q&A + key takeaways👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site – https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram – https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify – https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly straight-talk on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Does accepting a check from Mom and Dad mean surrendering control of your entire wedding? John and Nicole rip into the ultimate “Big Day” power struggle—money strings, guest-list guilt, dress disputes, and whether you actually owe your parents anything once you’re grown. If you’re planning a wedding—or arguing about one—prepare to pick a side.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00  Obligations 101: why John says you owe only spouse and children3:30  Parents footing the bill: blessing, bribe, or both?7:45  Setting boundaries early vs “bridezilla” accusations10:50  Big bash vs intimate vows: whose dream wins?14:40  Guest-list guilt trips—inviting cousins you’ve never met18:25  Budget bombs: $50 k for one day or invest it instead?22:10  “This is my day,” says Mom—narcissism or inclusion?26:35  Traditions people hate but still follow (dress, speeches, seating)31:00  Divorced parents & step-families: navigating nuclear drama35:45  Saying “no” gracefully—scripts that stop manipulation39:20  Post-wedding regrets & lessons the internet never tells you41:15  Rapid-fire takeaways & next-episode teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Workhorse husbands, “I-don’t-need-a-man” girlfriends, and the question every couple secretly asks: Is today’s relationship just a transaction? John and Nicole tear into the clash between female independence and masculine purpose—arguing over exclusivity rules, whether men should ditch all other women (real and virtual), and why some guys feel useless in an era that says women can do it all.💥 Expect raw takes, stats on provider burnout, and a 50/50 split in the comments.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Intro: “If a man wants to stay exclusive, why keep backup women?”4:30 – Transactional vs covenant love—who really benefits?9:15 – “I don’t need a man” culture & the male purpose vacuum14:20 – Provider pride vs emotional bankruptcy: when money isn’t enough20:30 – Protect, provide, lead: legacy duties or outdated shackles?26:45 – Female independence: empowerment or polarity killer?33:10 – Real vs virtual temptation—cutting ties or harmless DMs?40:40 – Friendship with the opposite sex: micro-cheating or mature trust?47:55 – Why men cheat: ego, opportunity, or unmet needs?54:30 – Women’s secret standards: transactional scorecards exposed1:02:00 – Building purpose outside her approval—John’s blueprint1:09:00 – Agreements vs assumptions: rewriting the relationship contract1:16:30 – Rapid-fire takeaways & next-episode teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Is calling the shots a man’s duty—or a gateway to abuse? John and Nicole dissect the razor-thin line between healthy masculine leadership and controlling behavior. From “submit to your husband” verses to women’s fear of domination, this clash splits audiences right down the middle.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 Fear of “controlling men” — why the topic triggers instantly3:00 When leadership gets mislabeled as abuse6:06 John’s stance: men lead, women follow (if trust is earned)9:00 Vetting a man before you ever “submit”12:24 Marriage myths that fuel power struggles18:00 Historical abuse vs modern over-correction23:58 Wardrobe rules: preference or red flag?30:00 Agreements vs micromanagement — spotting the shift33:12 Boundaries: why limits don’t kill love35:58 Micromanaging partners and slow-burn resentment47:53 Respect gaps and escalating conflict50:47 “Women need masculine leadership” — Nicole’s shock take54:45 Anger & ego: staying composed while leading1:01:44 Ego checks, apologies, and repairing trust1:04:30 Action plan: weekly check-ins & transparent standards1:08:00 Final takeaways + next-episode teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

AI “partners” promise endless affection and zero rejection—but do they heal loneliness or hollow us out? John and Nicole dissect the explosive rise of virtual girlfriends, sex robots, and synthetic intimacy, asking whether tech will rescue a generation of touch-starved men or torch real relationships forever.💥 From epidemic statistics on sexless young men to dystopian predictions about pacified populations, nothing is off-limits in this Better Than Perfect showdown.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Why AI companionship suddenly exploded in mainstream culture2:30 – “Sexless young men” statistics and the desperation market fueling it5:00 – First-gen sex robots: creepy toys or future spouses?9:15 – Psychological hits: dopamine loops, attachment, and phantom rejection13:40 – Can code cure loneliness, or just mask it?17:10 – Society on autopilot: fewer relationships, fewer kids—what next?23:35 – Marriage & intimacy: will synthetic partners replace hard work?29:20 – Real-world dating vs virtual comfort: John’s brutal cost-benefit math38:25 – Kids and AI: should minors ever access synthetic “friends”?41:35 – Pacifying the masses: is a robot rebellion or incel uprising more likely?45:50 – Better solutions: fitness, real communities, and facing rejection50:10 – Rapid-fire takeaways & next-week teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Men say “women want too much.” Women say “men won’t step up.” Who’s right? In this Better Than Perfect face-off, John and Nicole pull no punches as they dissect modern dating complaints, the fall of the “gentleman,” and whether standards or self-improvement really decide who wins love.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Intro: Men furious at women—why the outrage never solves anything4:30 – “Become a gentleman, get options” — John’s blunt fix for male misery9:00 – Women’s boundaries vs desperation: Nicole breaks down the fine line14:30 – Nice guy, good man, bad boy: attraction science or social myth?20:00 – Emotional safety vs physical provision—what each gender secretly rates higher25:00 – Dating-app dread: men hate the grind, women hate the ghosting30:00 – “Where are the 30-something men?” shortage or selection bias?35:00 – Masculine self-respect vs entitlement: how standards turn toxic40:00 – Tactical upgrade plan: fashion, fitness, finances, frame45:00 – Wrap-up: two homework challenges that could change your dating life tonight👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Spider-bite analogies, nut-kick stories, and the hard line between healthy conflict and pure toxicity. John and Nicole dissect when a relationship is worth the grind—and when zero-tolerance is the only sane choice.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Net-negative vs net-positive fights: the instant litmus test4:20 – Emotional & physical abuse examples: where the line snaps10:15 – “Getting worse every day” spider-bite analogy explained15:30 – One-off mistakes vs patterns: spotting irreversible trends20:40 – The fix-it checklist: accountability, change, and proof25:55 – Violence anecdote: crossed lines, kicked groins, zero tolerance26:25 – Narcissist label & gas-lighting: real diagnosis or buzzword?32:59 – Cheating + severe betrayal: can trust ever rebuild?38:10 – Calm repair vs shouting matches: which actually solves problems?44:15 – Rebuilding respect: trust timelines, third-party support, hard deadlines48:00 – Exit plan vs redemption path: choosing without regret50:36 – Rapid-fire takeaways & next-week teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—every topic splits the vote.

Endurance junkies, fiery debates, and a marriage that thrives on both. John and Nicole sit down with David Gilbert and his wife Alyssa—fresh off a Spartan trifecta⁠—to tackle the raw questions most couples dodge: • Is raising your voice ever solid leadership? • Should children watch their parents fight to learn conflict skills? • Do strict masculine–feminine lanes build polarity or trap you in 1950? • And can you really love unconditionally once hard boundaries appear?Expect zero fluff and plenty of 50/50 splits that’ll light up the comments.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Introductions & “We’re all going to fight”—why hiding conflict backfires1:20 – Spartan trifecta, marathons, injuries: bonding or ego trap?5:45 – Yelling vs calm authority: John’s “If I shout, I’ve failed” rule challenged10:30 – Masculine drive vs feminine surrender: Alyssa’s take on polarity in sport15:00 – Training together: support system or silent competition?20:10 – Feminine energy, intuition, and knowing when to pull back26:00 – Masculine burnout: David on pushing limits till relationships snap32:30 – Kids & conflict: modeling healthy fighting or causing harm?37:50 – Divorce stats, court biases, and the price of “happy wife, happy life”43:00 – Choosing roles on purpose: phases of love & renegotiating expectations48:20 – Unconditional love vs boundaries—where each couple draws the line52:40 – The “Alchemical Journey”: David’s inner work and how it reshaped marriage57:00 – Action toolkit: conflict scripts, weekly meetings, and training hacks61:45 – Rapid-fire takeaways & tease for next week👇 Links & Resources• David & Alyssa’s site: https://www.goldenlife.com/• The Alchemical Journey: The Ultimate Quest for Inner Gold (book): https://www.amazon.com/Alchemical-Journey-Ultimate-Quest-Inner/dp/B0DNTXDCFR• Podcast home: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly, no-filter debates on love, polarity, and personal growth—where every topic splits the vote.

Can you lead a family if you occasionally blow up? Would your partner stick around if you tore a tendon and couldn’t walk? And is “for better or worse” really unconditional… or just marketing?In this jam-packed Better Than Perfect episode John and Nicole tackle the minefield of leadership under stress, gender-split loyalty stats, and whether divorce courts are fundamentally unfair. Expect blunt takes, real injury stories, and a debate guaranteed to split the room 50/50.⏱️ Timestamps (approx.)0:00 – Why John says “If I yell, I’ve failed” — the leadership-temper dilemma2:00 – Spartan Race carnage: pushing through pain or proving nothing?6:00 – Living with the injury: daily tasks, ego hits, and hidden resentment10:25 – “In sickness and in health” stats: do men bolt more than women?14:00 – Conditional vs unconditional love: where each partner draws the line18:30 – Non-negotiables in marriage: attraction, effort, and respect24:00 – Leading while wounded: should vulnerability ever show?30:50 – Money, power, and attraction loops no one admits37:58 – Divorce court fairness: stacked deck or mindset myth?41:30 – Action plan: frameworks for crisis leadership & relationship growth47:36 – Rapid-fire takeaways + next week’s teaser👇 Links & Resources• Podcast site: https://betterthanperfectpod.com• Instagram: https://instagram.com/betterthanperfectpodcast• Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0Os5mBb4WMKy7rw5GMHDN7• Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/better-than-perfect-a-relationship-podcast/id1719469324🔔 Subscribe for weekly deep dives on love, polarity, and personal growth—where no opinion is off-limits.

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Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this episode, we dive into the hilarious and eye-opening question: Why do men seem dumb and women seem crazy? Discover the real reasons behind these stereotypes—singular focus vs. multitasking madness—and how understanding them can transform your relationship. From prenups to the "Crazy Hot Matrix," we’ve got insights, personal stories, and practical advice for couples, singles, and anyone looking to decode the opposite sex.

⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: Meet the hosts and get a taste of what’s to come.02:25 - Prenups & Marriage: Are they a smart move or a relationship red flag?08:00 - The Dumb and Crazy Scale: Our daughter’s theory that sparks a big revelation.15:00 - Masculine vs. Feminine Thinking: Singular focus vs. diffuse focus explained.30:00 - Real-Life Stories: How these dynamics play out in our relationship.45:00 - Conclusion: Key takeaways and a call to action.💡 Highlights"Men are dumb because they’re singularly focused, and women are crazy because they think about ten things at once!""If you’re not ready to burn the boats, don’t get married."Unpacking the "Crazy Hot Matrix": Why hotter women might seem crazier (and what it means).Whether you’re married, dating, or just curious, this episode offers a fresh perspective on why men and women tick differently—and how to use that knowledge for a stronger, happier connection.📧 Got a question? Email us at betterthanperfectpodcast@gmail.com—our inbox is lonely!

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Welcome to the Better Than Perfect podcast! In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the transformative power of forgiveness. Discover why true forgiveness means letting go of past hurts—not just for others, but for your own peace and growth. We unpack the struggles of holding onto resentment, share personal stories of overcoming pain in our relationship, and reveal the three essential components of a genuine apology. Whether you’re wrestling with bitterness or seeking stronger connections, this episode offers practical wisdom and emotional insights to help you move forward.⏰ Timestamps00:00 - Introduction: A quirky chat about protecting our 5-lb dog from birds of prey.03:00 - What Is Forgiveness?: Exploring the real meaning of forgiving and letting go.10:00 - Why We Cling to Hurt: Why people struggle to release resentment.15:00 - Our Story: How forgiveness saved our relationship at a breaking point.35:00 - The Art of Apology: Learn the three keys to apologizing the right way.55:00 - Final Thoughts: Why forgiveness breaks cycles and sets you free.💡 Highlights"True forgiveness is acting as if it never happened—it’s letting go of the debt.""Holding onto hurt validates your pain, but it doesn’t heal you.""If you don’t forgive, you’ll become the thing you despise."This episode is perfect for anyone looking to heal from past wounds, grow personally, or mend relationships. From funny dog tales to deep life lessons, we blend humor and honesty to show how forgiveness and accountability can change everything.📧 Questions or stories? Email us at betterthanperfectpodcast@gmail.com—we’d love to connect!👍 Inspired? Hit subscribe, leave a review, and share this with someone who needs it!#Forgiveness #Relationships #PersonalGrowth #LettingGo #BetterThanPerfect

In this compelling episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts dive deep into the Netflix series Adolescence, exploring its portrayal of the dangerous influence of red pill and manosphere ideologies on young boys. Sparked by a Matthew Hussey video and complemented by insights from a Diary of a CEO podcast episode, the discussion unravels the societal shifts contributing to hopelessness and violence among young men. From the feminization of society to the loss of masculine role models, this episode tackles the urgent need for healthy masculine spaces and empathy to combat toxic narratives. Spoiler alert for Adolescence—listen to understand the cultural zeitgeist and how we can foster resilience and hope in the next generation.Timestamps:00:00 - 02:00: Introduction to the Better Than Perfect podcast and the episode’s focus on Adolescence.02:00 - 08:00: Overview of Adolescence—a Netflix show about a 13-year-old boy’s crime and its ties to red pill content (spoilers included).08:00 - 15:00: Discussion on the manosphere’s influence on young boys, drawing parallels to obsessive online behaviors and the dangers of hopelessness.15:00 - 25:00: Exploration of the red pill movement’s origins, its initial intent, and how it has been twisted into a toxic, misogynistic narrative.25:00 - 35:00: Analysis of societal feminization and its impact on men, including the loss of masculine outlets like sports and Boy Scouts.35:00 - 45:00: The role of parenting and the need for positive male role models, especially in single-mother households.45:00 - 55:00: Reflections on historical solutions to male frustration (e.g., wars) and the modern need for empathy and hope.55:00 - 65:00: Critique of double standards in society (e.g., female-only job postings) and the importance of male-only spaces.65:00 - 75:00: Call to action for creating healthy masculine environments and fostering growth mindsets in men and boys.75:00 - End: Wrap-up, encouraging listeners to watch Adolescence, check out the Diary of a CEO episode, and share feedback via email or comments.Watch Adolescence on Netflix and let us know your thoughts in the comments! Email us at betterthanperfectpodcast@gmail.com with questions or feedback, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and leave a review.

Are men and women doomed to misunderstand each other forever? In this eye-opening episode of the Better Than Perfect podcast, hosts John and Nicole dive deep into The Queen's Code by  @AlisonArmstrongVideos —a game-changing book that uncovers why men and women think so differently and how to turn conflict into connection. From the surprising truth about men’s singular focus vs. women’s diffused awareness to practical tips like asking for help the right way, this episode is packed with insights to transform your relationship. Discover how to stop emasculating your partner, bring out his inner hero, and build a love that’s better than perfect. Plus, hear real-life examples, heartfelt stories, and a fresh perspective on appreciating the opposite sex. Don’t miss this must-listen discussion—hit play now and unlock the secrets to a happier, healthier relationship! Subscribe for more weekly wisdom. #RelationshipAdvice #TheQueensCode #MenVsWomen #BetterThanPerfect

In this episode, we talk about one of the top books all men should read. The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida.

Would you happen if an attractive woman messaged your husband or boyfriend and tried to get him to engage her? Would he do it? The truth is MOST men would fail this kind of loyalty test. But why? Is this acceptable? What can be done about it?

In today's confused world, it's very difficult to be a young man trying to find his way. Especially if you are looking for a modern traditional relationship like we advocate. In this episode, we break down exactly what a man should do to end up happily ever after.

One of the most important, if not the most important parts, of a relationship is the power to heal. When you have a modern traditional relationship dynamic, the result is a deep healing of the masculine and feminine core.Jon and Sabrina Broderick join us again to talk about how their relationship healed and is continuing to heal them.

We finally have guests on the show. In the episode, we welcome our good friends Jon and Sabrina Broderick to the show to talk about modern traditional relationships. If you aren't familiar with the terminology, don't worry, we coined the term, but in this episode,e we discuss what is a modern traditional relationship and why you should have one.

Continuing the discussion from last week, we expand to older women and talk about the real realities of being an older woman and trying to find a good man.