There are few pains in a relationship sharper than when we speak, and we aren't heard. You pour out your words, your thoughts, your feelings, and there's no nod, no reflection and no sign that what matters to you has even been received.
What should you do ?
Quite a few of our apologies tend to make things worse. Why is this? This podcast, the third in the relationships series, explores the reason why apologies backfire, and how to effectively apologise.
Misunderstanding and miscommunication are a part of every relationship. Here's a perspective on why this happens and 3 steps on how we can move forward when it happens.
Working with overthinking isn't as simple as just asking ourselves to stop thinking. In this episode, I share an understanding of overthinking and 7 methods to reduce its impact on our being.
Quite a bit of the time, the silence after a fight is harder to deal with than the fight itself. Here's a perspective and two ways of breaking that silence.
In this episode, I talk about anxiety, plus a neurodivergent perspective, share tips on dealing with it quickly, and how to work with it in the long term.
What are dark patterns, why do we have them, who creates them and how do we break them?
If love, friendship and relationships feel threatened by disagreement, this one’s for you.
In a world hungry for recognition, identity has become the new language of self-worth. From specific coffee orders to chosen pronouns, today I explore how the need to be seen, is driving personal expression today. This episode shares the human longing beneath the surface of modern identity conversations; not as an argument, but to offer compassion, clarity, and a wellness-based perspective on what it really means to say, “This is who I am.”
Today let’s explore something we all do without thinking: tossing out a quick sure or a thumbs-up emoji 👍 in our conversations. These are our go-to shortcuts when someone asks us to do something or when we’re just keeping the chat moving. At first, they might feel like they’re capturing a genuine thought...
In this episode, I explore a ScienceAlert article, “Meditation and Mindfulness Have a Dark Side We Often Overlook” (https://www.sciencealert.com/meditation-and-mindfulness-have-a-dark-side-we-often-overlook), which warns that meditation and mindfulness can spark anxiety, depression, or detachment. I share my take; how our fragile selves, shaped by dysfunctional childhoods and coping stories, get rattled by meditation’s truth-revealing power. Drawing from my own journey through depression and neurodivergence, I explore why these challenges aren’t a “dark side” but a path to authenticity, with a way forward to face them fearlessly.
Sometimes "a matter of principle" is just a polished excuse for stubbornness or ego. In this episode, I share how the notion of principles is misused, and how to tell the difference between standing up for truth and just refusing to grow. Three and a half minutes.
I think we don't really understand forgiveness. Or how to forget. And because we don't, everything else goes downhill from there - stacking up, layer after layer, into tall forgotten piles of the unforgiven and the unforgotten. Piles that, even though they're hidden from our everyday thoughts, still shape the way we move through life. They weigh us down, change the way we trust, the way we love, the way we hope. Quietly. Invisibly. Until one day, we find ourselves wondering why the world feels so heavy... without ever realising we're the ones still carrying the past.
Stubbornness and persistence—two forces that feel alike but lead to entirely different outcomes. One traps you in resistance, the other propels you forward. But what if they weren’t opposites? What if they were simply different expressions of the same inner strength?
In this episode, we unravel the psychology behind these traits, exploring how childhood conditioning, social influences, and mindset shifts shape whether we become rigid or resilient. More importantly, we discuss how to transform stubbornness into adaptive persistence—to move with strength, not just stand firm.
Because in the end, true power isn’t in resisting change—it’s in knowing when to flow.
There was a time when people lived with their doors open, not just physically but emotionally. A time when knowing your neighbour wasn’t a courtesy but a necessity—when solitude was an occasional retreat, not a way of life. But today, we build walls, both seen and unseen, higher than ever before.
The more sources of happiness we have, the less any one of them can control us. When joy is scattered across passions, relationships, and simple pleasures, no single setback can shake our foundation. Diversify your happiness—build a life so rich that no storm can leave you empty.
Have you noticed how life seems to run in loops? How certain thoughts, certain reactions, certain choices keep showing up again and again? At first, we don’t question it. We assume this is just how things are. Just how we are. But is it? Or are we simply caught in patterns we no longer see?
Imagine this. Imagine that everything we do, everything we touch, everything we experience, leaves something behind. A thread. A fine, delicate strand of silk that clings to us. Not heavy, not noticeable at first. Just a single thread. Until one day, if we're lucky, we realize something strange.
Survival mode is a mental and emotional state where mind and body focus on getting through immediate challenges. This is a natural response to stress, triggered by situations such as financial struggles, relationship conflicts, work pressure, or ongoing health issues. What are the signs?
