Everything started so unexpectedly — a spark in the middle of routine shifts, quiet jokes, shared looks, and moments that made work feel lighter. What began as friendly connection slowly grew into something deeper — unspoken but felt. I thought we understood each other, that there was trust, respect, and maybe even something more.

But then it all fell apart. The same person who once made me laugh ended up betraying me. The shift from warmth to coldness was fast, confusing, and painful. One moment I felt seen; the next, I was treated like I never mattered. It’s strange how someone can make you feel so safe and then turn around and make you question your worth.

This episode is about that — the aftermath of misplaced trust, the heartbreak that comes from something that wasn’t even official, and the lessons that come when you realize not everyone who smiles at you has good intentions. It’s about learning to protect your peace, even in spaces where you least expect the hurt to come from.

This podcast is my space to unpack the messy in-betweens of love, friendship, and faith — the longing to know who’s really meant to stay in my life and who’s only passing through. From crushes that confuse me to prayers for clarity, I share the vulnerable, unfiltered thoughts of someone trying to make sense of hearts, timing, and destiny before the year ends. It’s about holding on, letting go, and trusting that what’s written for me will never miss me

So I had this coworker crush—someone I got along with, had flirty tension with, and for a while, I thought there might be something there. We’d joke, tease, share these charged little moments that made me think, okay, maybe this could turn into a real friendship—or more.

But then came the reality check.

One day, he told me straight up—he likes to keep work and personal life separate. Basically, a polite way of saying: “We’re not friends.” It was jarring. Not because I was expecting a love confession or anything, but because the dynamic we had felt personal. Like, why go out of your way to build this kind of connection just to slam the door shut?

It stung. And when I told my friend—who already wasn’t his biggest fan—she was done. She told me flat out: “I don’t want you interacting with him anymore.” She saw it for what it was: a clear boundary from someone who played both sides until it was inconvenient.

So now I’m stuck with all these mixed signals in my head, while trying to act like we’re just coworkers, nothing more. It’s complicated, it’s awkward, and honestly, I’m still unpacking how I feel about it.

Let’s get one thing straight—I love a little fun gossip. Catch me in the breakroom for the tea, no problem. But in this episode, I’m venting about the kind of work drama that crosses the line—from coworkers who can’t mind their business to people messing with actual patient care. That’s when it stops being cute and starts being stressful. I’m talking about how all this unnecessary chaos is making my job harder and draining the vibe out of what I actually enjoy doing. Tune in if you're over the toxic energy and just trying to do your job in peace.

This weekend wasn’t just any weekend—it was the last one we’d be working together for a while. The air already felt different going in. All that unresolved tension, the history, the back-and-forth… it had built up to something. And I knew it. I felt it.

The plan? Simple: I was going to say something. Do something. Maybe finally make it clear. But of course, nothing is ever that straightforward.

Because when I saw him, he was... distant. Cold, even. Not his usual self. And yeah, I knew he was mad at me about something—though, like always, it was unspoken. Just lingering in the silence, in the space between our conversations, in the way he wouldn’t meet my eyes like he used to.

So there I was, trying to read between the lines, trying to figure out if this was just him protecting himself… or pushing me away. I kept asking myself: Is it too late? Or is this just the moment before everything shifts?

All I’ll say is—the energy changed. And what happened next? Well… let’s just say, some weekends don’t go the way you expect—but they still leave you thinking about everything that almost was.

Okay, so here’s the scene: I’m out with my cousin—she just turned thirty, and she’s going through it a bit. Feeling insecure, no relationship prospects on the horizon, and apparently spiraling. I didn’t even plan this little outing, by the way—my mom lowkey assigned me to take her out.

So we’re out, I’m trying to make the best of it, and I think we’re having real girl talk. Like, I open up about this crush I have—he’s cute, funny, and I’m brainstorming how to get him to ask for my number. It’s light, flirty, fun. Or so I thought.

Then she hits me with her idea: “You should ask your crush if he has a friend... for me.” Like... what? So basically, her plan is I do the talking, she gets a man, and I might get his number through the side door. It felt more like a setup than a strategy.

And here’s the kicker—throughout the night, she kept trying to steer the convo into this whole “we’re getting older” vibe. But here’s the thing: she’s thirty. I’m not. And honestly? I’m not scared of growing older. That’s not a fear I carry. I like who I’m becoming.

It didn’t feel like she was trying to connect—it felt like she was projecting. Like she needed me to feel what she’s feeling so she wouldn’t feel alone in it. I wasn’t offended—I just saw it clearly. I didn’t take her out to be dragged into her insecurities. I did it because my mom asked me to.

But what I walked away with was this: Just because someone’s family doesn’t mean they get to hand you their baggage. You can be kind. You can show up. But you don’t have to carry what’s not yours

In today’s episode, I’m diving into my personal work-life drama and how I shot my shot at my crush. It all started with me giving him a casual opening, just enough of a hint that it was time for him to ask for my number. I thought it was subtle enough, but instead, things got complicated. People at work started to think he was giving me special treatment, when honestly, I’m just someone who gets things done quickly.

Then, things took a more romantic turn when he did the sweetest thing to cheer me up after a rough day. It was totally unexpected and super thoughtful, but of course, it only added fuel to the gossip fire. People started to wonder what was really going on between us—when in reality, it’s just been some sweet, professional interactions... so far.

Now, the plot thickens. I’ve been taken off the weekend schedule and need to be around more during the week. This could be our last shot to see if anything actually happens. This coming weekend is my last chance to finally lock it down before everything changes.

So, with work drama and the possibility of the clock running out, I’m left wondering: Do I take the plunge and make my move, or let things fizzle out? Tune in as I talk about juggling these office dynamics, the nerves of taking a shot with a crush, and the pressure of a ticking clock. It’s all about seizing the moment... even if it might come with some drama along the way.

Hey everyone, welcome back to the pod! Today, I’m spilling the tea on something a little personal — my work crush. 😅

You know that feeling when you just know there's a spark? Well, that’s exactly what’s been going on. There’s this guy at work, and honestly, it started off as just a little crush. But lately... it’s been feeling like something more. The way we interact has shifted — there’s more eye contact, more lingering conversations, and those little moments where it almost feels like we’re the only two people in the room.

He laughs at my jokes, finds excuses to talk to me, and I catch him looking at me when he thinks I’m not paying attention. And I swear, there’s this energy — like we’re both just waiting for someone to make the next move.

Here’s the thing though: I want him to ask for my number already! I keep catching myself wondering, is he shy? Is he unsure? Or is he just playing it safe because it’s a work thing? Either way, the tension is there, and it's definitely mutual… at least, I hope so.

So I’m putting this out there into the universe: maybe he’ll take the hint soon. Or maybe I’ll gather the courage to make the first move. But until then, I’ll keep living for those little glances and hallway chats that make work just a little more exciting. 💬💘

In this episode, we explore why some people project negativity and criticism onto others. Often, this behavior stems from their own internal struggles, insecurities, and unhappiness. Instead of focusing on personal growth, they may attempt to diminish others to feel better about themselves. Understanding this can empower you to not take their words personally and to continue pursuing your happiness and success. Remember, their negativity reflects their own issues, not your worth. Keep shining, keep smiling, and live your life unapologetically.

You know that fluttery, dizzy kind of crush—but this one feels…different. In this episode, I dive into what it’s like to meet someone who flips your whole perspective. I’ve never been the type to daydream about babies or marriage, but with him? It doesn’t feel forced. It feels natural. Comfortable. Like maybe, just maybe, he could be the one. Join me as I unpack the excitement, the vulnerability, and the quiet magic of a connection that feels like home.

What happens when your best friend confesses his feelings, only to back away once you finally let your guard down? In this episode, I share the raw, unfiltered story of friendship turned almost-love—how he pulled me in, pushed me away, and why I stopped answering his calls… until the day I finally did. This is a story about vulnerability, self-protection, and learning to forgive—not for him, but for me.

Okay, so picture this: I walk into work feeling cute, mentally prepped, because I just knew I was going to see my work crush today. Last time I saw him, we were so close to having a real conversation — like, we made eye contact, he looked like he was coming over — and then… boom. He had to run to the bathroom. Literally vanished mid-moment. Tragic.

So naturally, I was hoping for a do-over today. But of course — plot twist — he didn’t even show. Not a glimpse. Nothing. And I was lowkey mad about it, even though I kept telling myself to chill.

But here’s the kicker: instead of him, I saw old crushes. Like, ghosts of flirtations past just randomly popping up. The universe really said, “Let’s test her today.” So I was out here navigating emotions, dodging feelings, while trying to actually get work done — and failing.

If you’ve ever been caught between past crushes and a no-show favorite, welcome to the chaos. Let’s unpack.

In this episode, I talk about a situation with my neighbor that’s been on my mind. I’m trying to figure out if he might have a crush on me, but honestly, I’m not sure. He’s been getting his life together lately—getting a new job and making some positive changes—but I’m left wondering if there’s more to it. I keep overthinking the signs, trying to interpret his behavior, but I can't quite tell if I’m just imagining things or if there’s something there. I dive into how easy it is to get caught up in our thoughts and overanalyze interactions, especially when it comes to figuring out if someone’s showing interest. Tune in to hear my thoughts on the whole situation and how we often read too much into things when we’re unsure.

In this episode, I dive into the exciting (and nerve-wracking) world of work crushes! I talk about my latest interactions with my work crush and try to decode the signs—does he like me, or am I just reading into things? From subtle gestures to confusing moments, I break down every detail in an attempt to figure out where I stand. If you’ve ever found yourself questioning the vibes at work, this episode is for you. Tune in for all the mixed signals, awkward moments, and maybe even a little hope!

In this episode, I let it all out! Join me as I vent about the chaos at work, the drama that just won’t quit, and the stress that’s been building up all day. From annoying coworkers to impossible deadlines, I’m airing it all in this raw and honest conversation. Grab a coffee (or something stronger) and listen as I unload about the frustrations and the madness that come with navigating a tough workday. It’s unfiltered, it’s real, and it’s all the stuff you can probably relate to.

Join me on Crush Chronicles as I dive into the whirlwind of past crushes and unexpected reunions. It's been a while since I’ve seen them, but life has a funny way of bringing old faces back into the picture. From reminiscing about those butterflies to navigating new encounters, I’m trying to decode the mystery of boys—because let’s be honest, I still don’t understand them! Tune in for candid stories, some light-hearted confusion, and a deep dive into the chaos of crushes and the unpredictable world of boys. Grab your headphones, because it's about to get real.

In this episode, I’m sharing a story about having two work crushes—and the unexpected twist that came later. I met these two people at different times and didn’t know it at first, but they were actually already best friends and roommates when I started getting to know them individually. Talk about an awkward surprise!

I dive into the experience of having crushes at work, the complexities of keeping it professional, and how I only learned later on that these two were already so close outside of work. It’s a mix of confusion, humor, and a little bit of embarrassment, but also a reminder of how small the world can be and how workplace dynamics can totally shift without you even realizing it.

If you’ve ever had work crushes or found out some unexpected connections about your coworkers, this episode will definitely resonate with you.

In this episode, I dive into the emotional journey of cutting ties with my guy best friend and the challenges that come with it. At the same time, I share the excitement and uncertainty of having a new crush, balancing the feelings of moving on and exploring new connections. Tune in for an honest conversation about friendship, boundaries, and the thrill of new beginnings!

In this episode, I dive into the journey of recognizing when a friendship no longer serves you. After years of emotional investment, I share what it feels like to realize you’ve been giving more than you’ve received, how to recognize toxic patterns, and why choosing yourself over a friendship isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. It’s a raw conversation about growth, letting go, and the bittersweet process of walking away for your own peace.

"Navigating the Awkward: When Friendship Feels Like a Relationship" is all about me and my best friend trying to figure out what happens when romantic feelings get involved, but we decide to stay just friends. It's been... complicated. There's a lot of awkward tension, weird fights, and conversations that feel more like we're in a relationship than just friends. In this podcast, we talk about how we're navigating that mess—trying to keep things normal while dealing with all the blurry lines and emotions. It’s real, it’s messy, and it’s for anyone who’s ever tried to figure out what happens when feelings get in the way of friendship.