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Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
Divorce Shield
119 episodes
6 days ago
This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
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This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
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Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
RE-RELEASE: The Art of Finding & Hiring the RIGHT Divorce Attorney for you

Going through a divorce is hard enough without having the realization that you may enter the court system for the first time! Hiring an attorney may be part of your divorce process. However, you likely have many questions about that process.


In this episode, we discuss:

🎙️ When should you hire a divorce attorney?

🎙️ Where should you look for a divorce attorney?

🎙️ Who should you hire as a divorce attorney?

🎙️ How are you doing to hire them from a cost perspective?

🎙️ Why is it so important to get the right attorney at the right time?

🎙️ Why you cannot afford to get this hire wrong!

🎙️ AND SO MUCH MORE!


For more information and to join our Men's Divorce Support Group, go to ⁠www.mensdivorcenetwork.com

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5 months ago
17 minutes 10 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
RE-RELEASE: Men and Custody - Are We Doomed to Failure?

Divorce is scary without children. Add children into the mix, and it is downright terrifying for many men. Should you be concerned? Do men really get screwed in divorce? 


In this episode, we discuss:🎙️ The different kinds of custody🎙️ How parenting time schedules are put together🎙️ The best way to get divorced for the children🎙️ Fighting now versus fighting later🎙️ Not turning your custody fight into a math problem🎙️Taking personal responsibility for your own decisions...AND MUCH MORE...


Need help navigating divorce and getting a better result? Visit MensDivorceNetwork.com

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5 months ago
21 minutes 34 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
115. Finding Clarity After Divorce with Personal Development Coach Katie Jordan

Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship—it’s the beginning of rebuilding a life that finally feels like yours.


In this episode, personal development coach Katie Jordan joins us for an honest and heartfelt conversation about grief, growth, and finding clarity after divorce. Katie opens up about the wave of personal loss she endured and how she found her way through all of it while becoming a more present, purposeful parent and a guide for others going through similar pain.


She shares what it really looks like to rebuild your life when you're emotionally wiped out, how to parent with intention even when it’s hard, and why giving yourself grace is key to moving forward. If you're struggling to trust yourself again, to stop caring what others think, or to simply figure out the next step, this episode is for you.


In this conversation, we discuss:

✅ How Katie turned deep grief and divorce into a new purpose

✅ What helped her build a peaceful co-parenting relationship with her ex

✅ How to talk to your child about divorce (and what not to do)

✅ Setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and keeping kids out of adult issues

✅ Learning to trust yourself again when everything feels uncertain

✅ Why building a support system is essential and how to find your “tribe”

✅ Tools Katie uses to help clients stop people-pleasing and start rebuilding confidence

✅ Creating structure with small daily habits that lead to big transformation

✅ Reprogramming your mindset with routines, affirmations, and intentional self-talk

✅ What real self-reflection looks like and why it's the foundation for your next chapter

✅ Why coaching works

✅ And so much more!


If you're ready to move from heartbreak to healing, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you take the first step forward.


Follow Katie on Instagram: @butterflytribeblueprint https://www.instagram.com/butterflytribeblueprint/


Find Katie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KatieKuhnJordan


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5 months ago
42 minutes 40 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
114. Rebuilding After Rock Bottom with Entrepreneur Regie Tiu

From growing up in poverty in the Philippines to building a thriving wellness business in the U.S., Regie Tiu is the definition of resilience. In this episode, he shares how he went from rock bottom, with just $50 in his pocket, to becoming a successful entrepreneur and divorced dad who’s living life on his own terms.


Regie opens up about his humble beginnings, how childhood adversity shaped his mindset, and how he rebuilt his life and business after going through one of the toughest personal challenges: divorce.


This is an inspiring and deeply honest conversation about the lessons no one teaches you—about marriage, fatherhood, self-awareness, and the power of personal development. If you’re a man navigating life after divorce and wondering what’s next, this episode is for you.


In this episode, we talk about:


✅ Regie’s powerful story of overcoming poverty, bullying, and adversity
✅ How growing up in the streets of Manila prepared him for entrepreneurship
✅ Why personal development is critical for growth—both in life and in relationships
✅ The importance of company culture and hiring people who align with your values
✅ What he wishes he knew before getting married
✅ Cultural pressures, family dynamics, and how they impacted his relationship
✅ How money (and avoiding hard conversations about it) affected his divorce
✅ The dangers of ignoring red flags before marriage
✅ Why it’s smart to consider living together before tying the knot
✅ His take on prenuptial agreements and why finances must be discussed openly
✅ The damage that comes from avoiding responsibility as a father after divorce
✅ His honest advice for men who are dating, divorcing, or healing
✅ Why emotional fitness is just as important as physical fitness

✅ And much more!


Don’t miss this conversation—it’s real, raw, and packed with wisdom for any man looking to rebuild stronger after divorce.⭐ Special Offer from Regie Tiu – Exclusive for Our Listeners ⭐


Regie is offering an exclusive opportunity to support you on your journey forward. If you’re in the healthcare field and own a practice, he’s offering a free scholarship to his membership program, where he helps practice owners grow their businesses without burnout. Not in healthcare? No problem—Regie is also offering a free one-on-one call to listeners outside the industry who need guidance, inspiration, or someone to talk to.


To apply, message Regie directly on Instagram, Facebook, or LinkedIn and share why you believe you should receive the scholarship.

Follow Regie on Instagram: @regie.tiu https://www.instagram.com/regie.tiu/


Find Regie on Facebook: @regie.tiu8 https://www.facebook.com/regie.tiu8


Find Regie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/regietiu/


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5 months ago
55 minutes 58 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
RE-RELEASE: How your Mind and Body Impact Divorce

Did you know that divorce can be influenced by your diet and exercise? A big part of protecting your sanity is making sure that your mind and body are right. In this episode, we discuss things you can do to keep your mind in top shape as you approach divorce.For more help, visit www.MensDivorceNetwork.com

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6 months ago
14 minutes 29 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
113. Navigating the Housing Market with Real Estate Expert Brittany Racine

This week, we’re diving into the unpredictable real estate market with Brittany Racine — a powerhouse realtor, TV host, and single mom who’s no stranger to starting over. After going through a tough divorce and a failed business, Brittany turned her setbacks into fuel for her comeback.


In this candid and insightful episode, Brittany breaks down what’s really happening in real estate right now and what you need to know if you’re selling or buying a home during or after divorce.


We talk about:


🎙️ Why this spring has been one of the strangest real estate seasons in years


🎙️ What’s really driving the market’s uncertainty — and how to stay smart in the chaos


🎙️ Whether now is the right time to sell or buy (and what to watch out for)


🎙️ Why divorcing couples should never advertise they’re getting divorced when selling a home


🎙️ How to choose a realtor with the right experience


🎙️ The truth about commissions from a realtor’s point of view


🎙️ Tips for avoiding disputes with your ex over the home sale


🎙️ How staging affects your final sale price


🎙️ The collaboration between realtors and real estate attorneys


🎙️ The key terms divorcing couples should agree on before listing their home


🎙️ How Brittany turned her own divorce into a stepping stone for success — and what she wants others going through divorce to know


Whether you’re thinking about selling your marital home or just want to make smarter real estate decisions during a transition, this episode is packed with tips, red flags, and inspiration.


Learn more about Brittany at linktr.ee/brittanyracine


Follow Brittany on Instagram: @brittanyracine_ https://www.instagram.com/brittanyracine_/


Follow Brittany on TikTok: @brittanyracine643 https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanyracine643


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6 months ago
50 minutes 58 seconds

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112. What It Means to Be a Man After Divorce with Leadership Coach Lee Povey

What does it really mean to be a man after divorce?


In this deeply insightful episode, high-performance leadership coach and long-time men’s group facilitator Lee Povey joins us to explore how men can reclaim and redefine their identity post-divorce. Drawing from nearly 30 years of leading men’s support groups, as well as his own life experiences—including growing up with a narcissistic father and going through personal transformation—Lee brings honest, empowering insight to the conversation around modern masculinity.


If you're a man who feels confused, lost, or emotionally drained after divorce—even though you did “all the right things” like providing, working hard, and checking the boxes society told you to—this episode is for you.


We talk about how to rebuild from the inside out, what it truly means to live as an authentic man in today’s world, and how finding the right kind of support can change the game for you as a father, partner, and human being.


In this episode, we discuss:


✅ Why being a man today looks so different than it did for previous generations✅ The cultural pressure on men to "provide" rather than connect—and how that disconnect shows up in relationships✅ How to reframe your sense of identity and purpose after a painful divorce✅ Why emotional expression and self-reflection are strengths, not weaknesses✅ What authentic masculinity actually looks like—and why it’s different for every man✅ Why support groups and community are essential for a man to heal after divorce✅ Tips for finding the right group or therapist to start your healing process✅ The harmful influence of social media on men’s mental health and self-image✅ What first steps you can take to begin working on yourself✅ Recommended resources to start your emotional growth journey

This conversation will challenge you to think differently about who you are and who you want to become. Don't miss it!

To learn more about Lee and his coaching programs, go to https://www.leepovey.com/


Follow Lee on Instagram: @leepovey https://www.instagram.com/leepovey/?hl=enStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

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6 months ago
46 minutes 23 seconds

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111. What Every Divorcing Dad Should Know with Family Lawyer Ariel Peres, Esq.

What happens when a professional nanny becomes a divorce lawyer who advocates for dads? You get someone who really gets parenting after divorce—and today’s guest does exactly that.


In this episode of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, we are joined by Ariel Peres, Esq., a California-based family law attorney who represents men in divorce and custody disputes. Before she became a lawyer, Ariel spent over a decade as a professional nanny, including for families going through divorce. She’s seen firsthand what helps kids thrive—and what doesn’t—when parents split.


We dive into practical and empowering advice for fathers who want to show up for their kids, get a fair outcome, and navigate co-parenting like a pro, especially when false allegations or outdated assumptions get in the way.


We dive into:

✅ What Ariel learned about kids and parenting through divorce after being a professional nanny for 14 years

✅ The #1 issue men face when they become single fathers

✅ How to respond to common parenting criticisms against dads in custody disputes

✅ Why mastering day-to-day parenting tasks is crucial for more parenting time

✅ What you need to ask and think about before agreeing to a time-sharing schedule

✅ Steps men can take before divorce begins to increase the chances of a fair custody outcome

✅ Why asking for help is a strength, not a weakness—and how a divorce coach can make a difference

✅ Smart timing for introducing your new romantic partner to your kids (hint: don’t rush it)


Whether you’re already in the thick of it or just starting to think about divorce, this conversation offers actionable tips, smart strategies, and a refreshing perspective that puts kids—and your relationship with them—first.


Learn more about Ariel and her areas of expertise here: https://www.peresfamilylaw.com/


To book a consultation, email Ariel first at ariel@peresfamilylaw.com


Follow Ariel on Instagram: @arielfayewilliams https://www.instagram.com/arielfayewilliams/


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6 months ago
42 minutes 46 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
110. Getting Fit Again After Divorce with Fitness Expert Aaron Maltz

Divorce can take a heavy toll—not just on your emotions, but also on your physical health. If you’ve found yourself out of shape, drinking too much, or struggling to take care of yourself, you’re not alone. Many people let their fitness slide during and after divorce, but the good news is that it’s never too late to turn things around.


In this episode, we sit down with Aaron Maltz, Founder and Head Fitness and Conditioning Coach at FitLabb, and divorced father of two, who knows exactly what it’s like to start over. After his own divorce, he found himself in a rough spot physically and mentally, but through consistency and the right approach, he got back in shape and rebuilt his confidence. Now, he’s here to help you do the same.


What you'll learn in this episode:

✅ How to start getting fit again after years of neglect

✅ Aaron’s personal story of losing and regaining his fitness post-divorce

✅ How to avoid common fitness myths and find trustworthy resources

✅ The best types of workouts for getting back in shape

✅ How to overcome gym anxiety

✅ Simple ways to track your progress

✅ Home workout options if you don’t have access to a gym

✅ The role of cardio vs. weight training

✅ How to start eating better without feeling overwhelmed

✅ The truth about new weight-loss drugs

✅ How to prevent injuries and ease into a new fitness routine safely


Rebuilding your health after divorce isn’t just about looking better—it’s about feeling better, regaining your confidence, and creating a lifestyle that supports your long-term well-being. The journey back to fitness doesn’t have to be complicated or extreme. Small, smart changes over time can completely transform how you feel—physically, mentally, and emotionally.


If you’re ready to start feeling stronger, healthier, and more in control of your body, don’t miss this episode!


Learn more about Adam and his company here: https://www.fitlabb.com/


Check out Adam's helpful programs to help you achieve your fitness goal: https://www.fitlabb.com/programs/


Follow FitLabb on Instagram: @the_FitLabb https://www.instagram.com/the_fitlabb/?hl=en


Follow Aaron on Instagram: @aaron_cars_fitness https://www.instagram.com/aaron_cars_fitness/Find FitLabb on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FitLabb#


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7 months ago
58 minutes 56 seconds

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109. Keeping Your Kids Emotionally Safe in Divorce with Co-Parenting Expert Dorcy Pruter

Co-parenting is never easy, but when tensions run high, conflict can take over and create lasting emotional damage—especially for your children. In this episode, we’re joined by Dorcy Pruter, Founder and CEO of the Conscious Co-Parenting Institute, to explore the complexities of co-parenting in high-conflict situations, the dangers of parental alienation, and how you can become the best parent possible for your child's well-being.


Dorcy is a leading expert in reunification coaching and co-parenting education, helping parents and children stay connected during and after difficult divorces. Her mission? To end parental alienation by providing parents with the tools they need to navigate custody disputes, heal from past trauma, and foster a positive, healthy relationship with their children.


In this episode, we discuss:

✅ How Dorcy's personal experience with parental alienation shaped her career

✅ Parental alienation and how it develops in high-conflict divorces

✅ The “chosen” vs. “allied” parent dynamic

✅ How past emotional wounds can drive toxic co-parenting behaviors

✅ Protecting your children: Why it’s critical to avoid involving kids in adult issues

✅ Recognizing warning signs of alienation

✅ What to do if you’re being alienated

✅ Practical advice for creating a peaceful, stable environment for your children

✅ How to introduce a step-parent without causing unnecessary conflict or resentment

If you're struggling with a difficult co-parenting relationship, worried about parental alienation, or simply want to ensure your child grows up feeling loved and secure, this episode is a must-listen.


Learn more about Dorcy at https://consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/


Check out all of Dorcy's helpful programs here: https://consciouscoparentinginstitute.com/programs/

Access her "Reconnecting After Divorce" FREE Guide here: https://enroll.dorcyinc.com/reconnecting-after-divorce-guide


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7 months ago
56 minutes 44 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
RE-RELEASE: Should I Get Divorced?

Deciding whether to get divorced is one of the most difficult decisions that you will make in your life. It will have an impact on you, your spouse, and your children. So, should you get divorced? What are the signs to look out for? What do you need to know? 

In this episode of the Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed Podcast, we look at 12 signs that your marriage may be at its end. These include:

✔ Always having to win arguments

✔ Never fighting

✔ Having the need to provoke your spouse

✔ Your spouse and annoyance

✔ Hiding your "real self" from your spouse

✔ Exaggerating on social media

✔ Is your spouse your "go to" person?

✔ Putting things and people before your spouse

✔ No more "we"✔ The "exit strategy"

✔ Always thinking about divorce

If you have signs that your marriage is in trouble, do not despair. It is not the end of your life. Just take a deep breath and know that we are here for you.

Ready to take responsibility for your life? Visit www.MensDivorceNetwork.com and check out the several ways that we can help you navigate divorce and get a better result.

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7 months ago
15 minutes 12 seconds

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108. Making Smart Decisions About the Marital Home in Divorce with Real Estate and Divorce Expert Jeff Landers

When going through a divorce, the marital home is often the largest asset—and the biggest source of stress. Should you sell it? Keep it? Buy out your spouse? The decisions you make now can impact your financial future for years to come.

In this episode, we're joined by Jeff Landers, a seasoned real estate, mortgage, and divorce expert with over 40 years of experience. Jeff has helped over 700 people nationwide navigate the financial complexities of divorce and has written extensively on the subject for Forbes, Huffington Post, and other major publications. Plus, he’s been through his own amicable divorce—finalized in just three months for less than $500—so he knows firsthand what works and what doesn’t.

Here’s what we cover in this episode:

🎙️ How Jeff achieved a fast, affordable, and amicable divorce

🎙️Why adopting an "I want to be fair" mindset can make the process easier for everyone

🎙️ The importance of thinking financially, not emotionally, when making divorce decisions

🎙️The different options for handling the marital home and which might be best for you

🎙️ What to know if you're selling your home immediately versus listing it after the divorce

🎙️ Essential protections to include in your divorce agreement when dealing with real estate

🎙️ What to consider if you want to keep the house and how to finance a buyout

🎙️ The role of a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP) and how they can help

🎙️ Why emotional attachment to the home can cloud your financial judgment

If you're facing decisions about your home in divorce, you don’t want to miss this episode. Jeff shares expert insights that will help you make the best financial choices for your future.

To learn more about Jeff and get expert guidance on keeping your home after divorce, check out his book, Divorce House Sense®: How To Keep Your Martial Home So You Can Move On, Not Out®. ⭐ Use code NOTSCREWED for a special discount! ⭐ Link here: https://divorcehousesense.com/

Find Jeff on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DivorceHouseSense

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7 months ago
44 minutes

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
107. Why Every Divorcing Man Needs a Divorce Coach with Divorce Coach Eric Chilton

Divorce is one of the most challenging transitions a man can go through—emotionally, financially, and legally. Yet, while resources for women navigating divorce are abundant, men often find themselves overlooked and under-supported. That’s where a divorce coach can make all the difference.


In this episode, I sit down with Eric Chilton, a retired Federal Special Agent turned Divorce Coach, to discuss why having a coach by your side during divorce isn’t just helpful—it’s essential. With decades of experience in investigations, mediation, and legal matters, Eric brings a wealth of insight into how men can protect their interests, manage the process wisely, and come out on the other side stronger than ever.


We dive into:
✅ Why men are an underserved community when it comes to divorce support – and how coaching fills the gap
✅ Eric’s own divorce story and what led him to help other men navigate the process
✅ How a divorce coach can help you find the right attorney and avoid costly mistakes
✅ The mindset shift you need to have a better divorce and start the process on the right foot
✅ Why you shouldn’t fear losing everything – your kids, your home, your finances – and how to take control instead
✅ Letting go of bitterness over alimony or child support and learning to focus on what truly matters
✅ How to ensure divorce doesn’t traumatize your kids – it’s not divorce itself that harms them, but how you handle it

Divorce doesn’t have to be a war, and it certainly doesn’t have to define you. If you or someone you know is going through a divorce, this episode is packed with practical strategies to help you move forward in the best possible way.

Learn more about Eric at PalmettoDivorceCoaching.com. and ChiltonSecurityPartners.com

Follow Eric on Instagram: @PalmettoDivorceCoaching https://www.instagram.com/palmettodivorcecoaching/

Find Eric on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Palmetto-Divorce-Coaching/61554782011727/


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8 months ago
42 minutes 45 seconds

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106. The Smart Way to Hire a Divorce Attorney

Choosing the right divorce attorney isn’t just about finding someone with a law degree—it’s about finding the right advocate for your unique situation. The person you hire will have a major impact on the outcome of your divorce, your finances, and even your stress levels throughout the process. So, how do you make sure you’re choosing wisely?

In this episode, we break down exactly what you need to consider before hiring a divorce attorney. From key questions to ask to red flags to watch out for, this is the guide you need before signing any retainer agreement.

Some of the essential points we cover:✅ Is litigation really necessary?
✅ Trust is everything
✅ Know who’s handling your case
✅ Honesty goes both ways
✅ Understanding the billing
✅ Hiring someone who understands your goals

Your divorce attorney is a major decision—one that can impact the next chapter of your life. Tune in to this episode to make sure you’re asking the right questions and setting yourself up for the best possible outcome. 🎧

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8 months ago
14 minutes 29 seconds

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105. Love Yourself First: Health, Healing & Strength Through Divorce with Fitness Coach Irslan Ali

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about romance—it’s about self-love, too.

If you're going through a divorce, this day might feel a little different than it used to. But what if, instead of focusing on what’s missing, you used this time to focus on you? Divorce takes a toll not just emotionally, but physically as well. Stress, anxiety, and uncertainty can wreak havoc on your body. But the good news? You can take control of your health—one step at a time.

In this episode, we're joined by Irslan Ali, fitness coach and creator of the FHIT Training Method, to talk about how to fuel your body, manage stress, and build habits that support your well-being—even in the toughest times. We dive into:

✅ Why learning to de-stress is the first step to getting healthy
✅ How to know if your body is stuck in “fight or flight” mode
✅ Techniques to calm your mind before building better habits
✅ Why accountability is king when it comes to staying on track
✅ The foods that can make—or break—your health when stress is high

This Valentine's Day, show yourself some love. Your well-being matters, and taking care of your body is one of the best ways to rebuild your life after divorce.

You can find out more about Irslan here: https://www.facebook.com/irslan.ali.7

Follow Irslan on Instagram: @irslanalifitness https://www.instagram.com/irslanalifitness/?hl=en

Tune in now and start putting yourself first. 🎧💪

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8 months ago
44 minutes 47 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
104. Divorcing and Co-Parenting with a Narcissist with Narcisstic Abuse and Divorce Coach Tracy A. Malone

Divorcing a narcissist isn’t like a typical breakup—it’s a psychological and legal minefield. The manipulation, the gaslighting, the endless need for control—it can leave you emotionally and financially drained if you’re not prepared. But you don’t have to fight this battle alone.


In this episode, we sit down with Tracy A. Malone, a dynamic author, speaker, and internationally recognized narcissistic abuse and divorce coach, to break down the reality of divorcing and co-parenting with a narcissist. Tracy shares her personal story, expert insights, and the strategies you need to protect yourself and your children during a high-conflict divorce.


We’ll cover:

✔️ What is narcissism? How to recognize the traits and tactics of a narcissist

✔️ Are you in a relationship with a covert narcissist? Signs you need to watch for

✔️ Can narcissism rub off on your kids? Understanding how growing up with a narcissistic parent can affect children

✔️ How to divorce a narcissist without losing everything – legally, financially, and emotionally

✔️ Why education is your best weapon – how fighting the wrong battles can cost you thousands

✔️ The power of documentation – why evidence is EVERYTHING in a divorce with a narcissist

✔️ Protecting your children – setting up therapy, crafting an airtight parenting plan, and minimizing harm

✔️ Finding the right attorney – key questions to ask to make sure they understand high-conflict divorces

✔️ The professionals you need on your team – therapists, financial advisors, and other experts who can support you


Divorcing a narcissist is not the time to “figure it out as you go.” You need a plan, and you need the right tools to navigate this process wisely. This episode is packed with essential advice to help you stay one step ahead, protect yourself, and move forward with clarity.


Learn more about Tracy and read her invaluable resources here: https://narcissistabusesupport.com/


Check out Tracy's book,"Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can't Make This Shit Up!": https://www.amazon.com/Divorcing-Your-Narcissist-Cant-Make/dp/173650780X


🎧 Tune in now to get the insights you need to take back control!

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9 months ago
44 minutes 50 seconds

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103. Stop Wasting Your Money on Divorce – There’s a Better Way!

Divorce doesn’t have to drain your bank account—or your sanity. If you think the only way to get divorced is by hiring expensive attorneys and battling it out in court, you’re not alone. We’ve been conditioned to believe that’s the norm. But what if there was a smarter, faster, and way more affordable option?

In this episode, we’re cutting through the noise and exposing the better way to divorce: mediation. Too many people overlook this solution, and it’s costing them thousands of dollars (not to mention unnecessary stress). If you and your spouse are both working, not fighting over the kids, and just want to move on, there is absolutely no reason to spend big money on litigation. Mediation lets you sit down, reach an agreement, and walk away with your finances intact.

In this episode, we discuss:
✔️ The biggest misconceptions about divorce that could be draining your wallet
✔️ What mediation is—and why most people don’t realize it’s an option
✔️ Why you don’t need an attorney to enter mediation
✔️ How mediation works, who it’s best for, and when it may not be the right fit
✔️ The emotional and financial toll of litigation (and how mediation spares you from both)
✔️ What to look for in a mediator to ensure you get the best guidance

If you’re thinking about divorce (or in the middle of one), don’t make it harder and more expensive than it needs to be. This episode will open your eyes to a solution that could save you money, time, and emotional energy.

🎧 Tune in now and take control of your divorce the smart way!

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9 months ago
19 minutes 51 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
102. Small Changes, Big Results: A Guide to Joyful Living with Dr. Kristen Strom

Divorce can feel like a storm that leaves you spinning, struggling to regain your footing. But what if this challenge could also be an opportunity to rebuild—not just your life, but yourself? In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Kristen Strom, an inspirational speaker and transformational coach, who shares her powerful story of reclaiming her health, happiness, and purpose after being trapped in the grind of daily life.


Dr. Strom’s journey from burnout to balance reminds us all of one essential truth: We are alive to thrive. She’s here to guide you through actionable steps to prioritize your mental, physical, and spiritual health—even when life feels overwhelming.


Here’s what you’ll discover in this uplifting conversation:

✅ How improving yourself makes you a better parent, role model, and source of strength for your children

✅ Why it’s crucial to focus on your kids' well-being during divorce—without losing yourself in the process

✅ The truth about changing behaviors and building good habits: how long it takes, what works, and the small steps that lead to big results

✅ Why your physical health matters just as much as your mental wellness when it comes to turning your life around

✅ Simple strategies to beat exhaustion, manage stress, and start your day with purpose

✅ The power of a “brain dump” to clear mental clutter and stay focused

✅ Why sustainable goals are the secret to success—and how to integrate positive changes without overwhelming yourself

✅ The importance of being present in your relationships and how clear communication strengthens connections

✅ What to do when it feels like joy has been drained from your life—and how to rediscover it, one moment at a time


This episode is packed with motivational insights, practical tips, and powerful reminders that you can still find joy, even in the middle of life’s challenges. Tune in, take notes, and start building the life—and the version of yourself—you deserve.


To contact and learn more about Dr. Strom, visit her website: https://www.drkristenstrom.com


Follow Dr. Strom on Instagram: @dr_kristenstrom https://www.instagram.com/dr_kristenstrom/


Check out all of the helpful books mentioned by Dr. Strom:

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_V93YW0E03WK214F07KQN?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20


The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062414852/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_8YK32A2GSB2JAWGCNY7V?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20


Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0008386420/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_ECQHSSMVDKXJ71B7QYDZ?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20


The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982137274/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_JKP5XQJK4ZG69DAJQRXB?linkCode=ml1&tag=1022495293270-20

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9 months ago
56 minutes 8 seconds

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101. Understanding Changes in Circumstances and Navigating Support Modifications

What happens when life throws you a curveball, and it’s time to reassess your support obligations? Whether it’s child support or alimony, understanding how to navigate a change in circumstances is essential in these situations. In this episode, we’re cutting through the confusion and giving you a straightforward guide to modifying support obligations.


Once a court sets child support or alimony, modifications aren’t automatic. They require proof of a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances. But what does that mean, and how do you show it? Let's unpack these concepts and discuss what you need to know to ensure a fair and reasonable adjustment to your obligations.


Key Topics Covered:

✅ Defining what qualifies as a substantial, permanent, and involuntary change in circumstances

✅ How alimony agreements can include pre-negotiated terms for changes, such as anti-Lepis clauses, and how they work

✅ Why negotiating with your ex before heading to court can save time and money

✅ What is a Case Information Statement?

✅ Essential documentation you must disclose if you want to modify support

✅ What happens after a qualifying change in circumstances is proven?

✅ The common mistakes that can undermine your case and how to avoid getting blindsided

✅ Other non-income-related scenarios that may qualify as a change in circumstances If you're considering requesting a modification or just want to be prepared for what the future might hold, this episode is packed with information to ensure your case is as strong as possible. Remember, preparation, communication, and the right guidance are key to protecting your interests and creating a path forward that works for you.


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9 months ago
13 minutes 55 seconds

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100. Caught in a Tax Mess? Expert Advice to Get Back on Track with Stephen A. Weisberg, Esq.

Welcome to a milestone moment—our 100th episode! 🎉 Over the course of this podcast, we’ve brought you advice, stories, and strategies to help you navigate divorce and come out stronger. Today, we’re celebrating by diving into a topic that might hit closer to home than you’d think: what happens when you fall behind on your taxes. Whether it’s a forgotten filing or years of unpaid taxes catching up with you, this episode is packed with insights to help you take back control.


Our guest is Stephen A. Weisberg, founder and lead attorney of The W Tax Group, a nationwide tax defense firm. With over a decade of experience helping individuals and businesses resolve tax debt, audits, and IRS disputes, Stephen knows the ins and outs of what it takes to get out of a tax mess—and how to avoid making it worse. His client-focused approach ensures solutions that are tailored to your unique situation, making him the go-to expert in tax defense.


In this conversation, we break down everything you need to know about handling tax issues, including:

✅ What to expect during an IRS audit

✅ The cost of ignoring tax issues—all penalties explained

✅ Payment plans and options for negotiating debt with the IRS

✅ The reality behind tax debt commercials

✅ What happens when the IRS comes after you for a tax return filed during your marriage?

✅ What is innocent spouse relief, when can you file for it, and how hard is it to claim?

✅What you need to know about tax audits and fraud

✅ Debunking myths about tax debt

✅ Can unpaid taxes affect your credit score?

✅ And much more!


The biggest takeaway? Don’t ignore the problem. When the IRS comes knocking, the worst thing you can do is bury your head in the sand. Stephen’s advice is clear: seek professional help as soon as possible to understand your options and work toward a resolution.


To learn more about Stephen, go to weisberg.tax


Find Stephen on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephenaweisberg/

Email Stephen at stephen.weisberg@wtaxattorney.com


You can also reach Stephen at (248) 971-0885.


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9 months ago
37 minutes 54 seconds

Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed
This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com