In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we dive into the Hilton vs Michaelhouse Derby — a South African school rivalry that’s become more about prestige than passion.
When parents bring sofas, waiters, and luxury catering to the sidelines, has the spirit of sport been replaced by one-upmanship and social display?
We unpack the letter from Hilton’s headmaster, the morality behind sideline excess, and what these displays teach the next generation about humility, respect, and values.
Topics covered:
The Hilton vs Michaelhouse “Derby Day” controversy
Opulence, inequality, and moral lessons for youth
What modern parenting teaches through behaviour
How prestige culture is shaping school sport
Finding balance between rivalry and responsibility
As always, we ask the real questions — are we teaching greatness, or just appearances?
As Great Britain erupts in marches over immigration and Elon Musk weighs in, a bigger question rises — one that hits home for every South African.
In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we unpack the Save Britain movement, the chaos around uncontrolled immigration, and why even billionaires like Musk are taking sides. But more importantly — what does this mean for South Africans?
Are we wrong for leaving a struggling country to build a better life abroad, or is chasing opportunity the very thing our broken system forces us to do?
We discuss the global view of South Africans as “good immigrants,” the economic and moral tension behind brain drain, and whether loyalty to a nation should ever outweigh survival.
Real talk. No filters. Just two men asking the uncomfortable questions the world avoids.
In this episode, Nipho opens up like never before.
Behind the runs, the uploads, and the gym clips lies a truth few ever see — the quiet war between discipline and doubt. After a humbling TKO loss earlier this year, he’s rebuilt himself brick by brick, guided by faith, accountability, and a hunger that refuses to die.
From the loneliness of waiting to get matched, to the power of prayer and the grind of 17km runs, this is a raw confession of what it means to chase legacy while the world sleeps.
Because sometimes, the hardest fight is the one before the bell rings.
Featuring Mo in dialogue.
Episode 011 — After Hours Dialogue.
Political violence in America isn’t just an American problem — it ripples across the globe. From the JFK assassination to the recent Trump rally shooting attempt, U.S. politics has become a cultural spectacle that South Africans consume daily through memes, debates, and viral clips.
In this episode, we unpack:
Why U.S. political violence shakes global culture.
How America’s culture wars spill into South African debates.
The difference between African American struggles and African realities.
Why treating politics as entertainment is dangerous for democracy everywhere.
It’s a heavy conversation — but one we can’t ignore. Are we spectators of U.S. chaos, or are we learning lessons for our own fragile democracy?
Back in prep school, my friend TJ and I discovered a loophole during our annual “Market Day” — a day where kids sold cakes, sweets, and treats to raise money for the school. Instead of just playing along, we flipped the script, buying low and reselling high. By the end of the day, we weren’t just making pocket change — we made a killing. Of course, things got interesting when a teacher caught us mid-profit count. Did we get away with it? Did the school crack down? Tune in as I share the story of one of my earliest (and boldest) hustles — a lesson in business, loopholes, and the art of getting caught but still walking away with the bag.
In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we dive into the rise of Tyla, Johannesburg’s Grammy-winning sensation, and ask the hard question: is she truly the voice of a generation, or just another industry plant carefully packaged for the global stage?
We break down her first-week album numbers, why her tours stop at halls instead of arenas, and whether the hype matches the reality. Is Tyla really taking South African music forward, or is it smoke and mirrors?
Expect sharp banter, unapologetic satire, and cold facts as we separate stardom from strategy.
In this episode of the After Hours Dialogue, we ask the hard questions: is rugby really the sport of the nation, or just the pride of Afrikaners and South Africa’s white population? With Dricus du Plessis’ recent loss and the backlash tied to his past comments on race, we explore whether South Africa is as united behind its sports as people claim — or if football (soccer) is the true heartbeat of the majority.Mo and I break it down with raw honesty, satire, and banter — from Soweto Derby crowds filling FNB Stadium to what rugby really means outside the suburbs. No filters, no political correctness, just two young men questioning the narratives we’ve been sold.
In this episode of the After Hours Dialogue, we unpack whether a university degree still carries weight in South Africa, and even globally in 2025—or if it’s become an overpriced piece of paper. With rising tuition fees, high graduate unemployment, and an economy where hustlers, content creators, and entrepreneurs are thriving without formal education, we ask: is the traditional route still worth it? Or are young South Africans and even the global youth better off skipping the lecture halls and building their own financial future?
Expect honesty, satire, and a few uncomfortable truths about the system, the culture, and what real success looks like in the world today.
In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we dive headfirst into one of the spiciest debates of our generation: is masculinity really being attacked, or have men simply become softer in today’s world? From the rise of “toxic masculinity” labels, to whether modern culture is devaluing traditionally masculine traits, to the blurred lines of what it even means to “be a man” in 2025 — we’re asking the uncomfortable questions nobody wants to touch. Expect satire, banter, and a few controversial takes that will either have you nodding in agreement or furiously typing in the comments.
Black, suburban, private school kids...where do we belong? In this episode, we unpack identity, privilege, and the awkward space of being too suburban for the hood, too black for the burbs.
From Jake Paul shaking up boxing to Dricus Du Plessis becoming UFC world champ. We break down why MMA owes its existence to boxing, and why, after legacy is secured, chasing the bag is the smartest move an athlete can make.
In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we sit down with an aspiring natural bodybuilder Adriano De Bonis, to unpack the raw truth behind the sport: the physical toll, the mental pressure, and the emotional weight that comes with chasing perfection.
From the temptations of steroids to the quiet breakdowns no one talks about, we explore the gritty side of self-development — where male grit, discipline, and sacrifice collide.
This one’s for anyone trying to level up, stay true, and survive the pressure.
Raw convo. No filters. Just growth.
Welcome to the After Hours Dialogue. I'm you're host Nipho Phungula with my co-host Mo, who's behind all the action.
This episode is more of an introduction than anything else. We want you to get a feel of the types of chaps we are and the humor we enjoy. We'll also discus the issues and complications that led to my first ever boxing bout ending in a 1st round TKO stoppage. I know, it sounds horrible right? But if one's being fair, there's a lot more to the story than that.
Sit back, sit tight, and have a laugh.
Note: We were extremely tired setting up this pod for you lot, so please excuse the lack of energy and verbal stumbles.
