In this episode of After Hours Dialogue, we dive into the Hilton vs Michaelhouse Derby — a South African school rivalry that’s become more about prestige than passion.
When parents bring sofas, waiters, and luxury catering to the sidelines, has the spirit of sport been replaced by one-upmanship and social display?
We unpack the letter from Hilton’s headmaster, the morality behind sideline excess, and what these displays teach the next generation about humility, respect, and values.
Topics covered:
The Hilton vs Michaelhouse “Derby Day” controversy
Opulence, inequality, and moral lessons for youth
What modern parenting teaches through behaviour
How prestige culture is shaping school sport
Finding balance between rivalry and responsibility
As always, we ask the real questions — are we teaching greatness, or just appearances?
