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A Better Way
Francis Arihilam
11 episodes
6 days ago
Every episode, we dive into insights from psychology, neuroscience, and cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), exploring practical strategies to improve mental well-being, productivity, relationships, and personal growth. From managing stress and overcoming limiting beliefs to cultivating resilience and developing healthier habits, our conversations with experts and real-life stories offer tools to create meaningful change.
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Every episode, we dive into insights from psychology, neuroscience, and cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), exploring practical strategies to improve mental well-being, productivity, relationships, and personal growth. From managing stress and overcoming limiting beliefs to cultivating resilience and developing healthier habits, our conversations with experts and real-life stories offer tools to create meaningful change.
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A Better Way
Quite the Voices in Your Head - A Step by Step Approach

The voices in our head, where do they comes from and why can’t they just keep quite ?


One of the leading cause of insomnia is the inability to quite the mind so the body can rest.


In this episode we explore:


- Where the voices come from

- How to take back control and quite them.


Enjoy

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1 week ago
7 minutes 45 seconds

A Better Way
After all these years “How can I forgive my mom ?”: A letter from…

In this episode a community member wrote me a letter.


*Details and identity is deliberately withheld for confidentially purposes.


If you are hurting or know someone who is or has been encourage them to listen.

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3 weeks ago
25 minutes 20 seconds

A Better Way
When Asking for Forgiveness Becomes Manipulation

In this chit-chat episode with my wife, we discuss the expectations placed on the offended and another way to look at forgiveness as a whole.


If the offender entitled to forgiveness, does the offender really want only forgiveness or is there something else ?


Where is reconciliation in the dynamics and is the offended obligated to reconnect with the relationship.


Let’s know what you think in the comments.

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3 weeks ago
29 minutes 23 seconds

A Better Way
The Coping Mechanism called Fear

Have you ever wondered why someone lies so effortlessly even though the truth is obvious.


Are they born this way ?


In this episode I explore how people become ‘pathological’ lairs. And how to help them if you are interested.


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3 weeks ago
17 minutes 53 seconds

A Better Way
How we lose Good People Through Incomplete Decisions

Think about someone you really like and another person you really dislike.


Why do you like that person ?


Why do you dislike that person?


How do we trick our brain into this like and dislike decision only to find out months or years down the line that we were wrong about that person.


In this episode we focus on how we make decisions based on ‘facts’ but incomplete facts and how to do better.


See you in the episode

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3 weeks ago
31 minutes 14 seconds

A Better Way
Relapse is Part of The Process in Recovery from Addictions

Realistically it takes more than 21days to break free from addictions.


In this episode I delved into a fail proof realistic step by step neuroscience backed approach to changing negative behavior.


If you think there is someone who should listen to this episode please spread the word.


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1 month ago
25 minutes 58 seconds

A Better Way
Why Bad Things Happen to Good People.

Really…


Why do bad things happen to good people.


This is probably one of the most asked question about life especially when tragic circumstances happen and we seek answers.


In this episode, we explore together and attempt to answer the questions and arrive at place of considerable peace.


If you have ever been through tragedy, let me know what you think and if you know someone currently experiencing one and you don’t know what to tell them, you can send this episode to them.


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1 month ago
28 minutes 59 seconds

A Better Way
The Hidden Source of Stress & What to do About it.

In this episode, I dived into the root cause of stress, how it builds up and how we can deal with it.


Mental Distortions are at the root of why we experience chronic stress as it fundamentally affects how we show up in the world.


Nothing means anything except the ones we give to them.

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1 month ago
12 minutes 26 seconds

A Better Way
Trusting & Avoiding Betrayals

Have you ever trusted a business partner, a friend or spouse and it went sour?


You will understand the pain which often leads to the decision to never trust again. What if there was a way to trust, a better way that protects you from betrayal.


In the episode, we delved into why we trust, the fail proof (with 97% success rate) approach to building trust. We explore how to be trust worthy ourselves.


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1 month ago
22 minutes 45 seconds

A Better Way
The Hidden Rules that Shape Our Lives

In this episode, I explore the hidden rules that shape our lives. The rigid rules we "adopt" that stop us from making progress in love, career, and relationships.


How often do you feel the need to be a “good person“ ?


Our innate desire to be accepted, be competent, and stay in control is at the center of how we form these wrong models that keep us from living freely.


Let's explore how you can change these assumptions and experience peace & clarity.


Do not allow other people's experience to become your prophecy



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1 month ago
18 minutes 7 seconds

A Better Way
Why Relationships Fail & What to Do

We've seen lovers go through a painful separation, a long relationship end, and best friends turn their backs.

Why? Trauma bonding is a thing and can take years to finally surface. Hurting people will always hurt others.

In this episode, we delve into a deeper-than-usual reason why relationships break down and offer practical advice for building stronger connections.

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11 months ago
11 minutes 10 seconds

A Better Way
Every episode, we dive into insights from psychology, neuroscience, and cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), exploring practical strategies to improve mental well-being, productivity, relationships, and personal growth. From managing stress and overcoming limiting beliefs to cultivating resilience and developing healthier habits, our conversations with experts and real-life stories offer tools to create meaningful change.