In this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, host Rachel Elimelech breaks her 18-year silence to share the story that changed everything. After discovering that her partner had sexually abused her child, Rachel spent years carrying guilt, shame, and anger - emotions that quietly shaped every part of her life. This episode is raw, honest, and filled with truth. A reminder that healing doesn’t mean forgetting or forgiving, but finding peace within yourself after unthinkable pain. If this story resonates with you, and you’re ready to let go of what’s been weighing you down, join the waitlist for Rachel’s six-week programme Unspoken to Unstoppable: The Breakthrough  by emailing rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk with the word “Breakthrough.” KEY TAKEAWAYS The Impact of Unspoken Emotions: The journey of healing often begins with acknowledging and expressing unspoken emotions, such as guilt and shame. The Importance of Intuition: Trusting one's intuition is crucial, especially when it comes to the well-being of loved ones. Ignoring gut feelings can lead to devastating consequences. Resilience in the Face of Trauma: Overcoming trauma requires immense strength and resilience. The process of healing is ongoing, and while the pain may never fully disappear. The Role of Support Systems: Building a supportive community is vital for recovery. Sharing experiences and seeking help from others can provide comfort and validation. The Journey to Forgiveness: Forgiving oneself is a critical step in the healing process. It involves recognizing that mistakes were made, but understanding that they do not define one's worth or ability to move forward. BEST MOMENTS "For over 15 years, I carried the unspoken emotions of guilt and shame. Emotions that convinced me I'd failed my child in the worst possible way." - Rachel "I just knew that I didn't want just to have a menial job to get by. I wanted a career and a profession."  "When I did speak out about it and it became public knowledge, the people who should have stood by me did, but there were one or two who couldn't accept it."  "I was just so like upset, you know, the whole thing of just that happening to your child."  "I felt like I was fighting against a system, against all the whispers, against perhaps the kind of gaslighting that made me question my own reality."  To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech⁠   To Buy Rachel a Coffee: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/unspokenemotions⁠  LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-elimelech-a07a1a46/⁠  To connect with your guest, Alexandra Sims https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/cancer-cured-me-wellness-wisdom-and-wonder/id1793127251?i=1000710192019  Web: www.balancedbodyandretreats.com Email: ⁠Alex@balancedbodyandretreats.com⁠  HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this emotional episode, Rachel speaks with Cari Rickabough, who survived decades of abuse within her own family and carried the impact of that trauma into adulthood through seizures, chronic illness, and a deep belief that she was “too broken to be helped.” After years of feeling unheard in traditional therapy, Cari discovered neuro-linguistic and somatic healing work that allowed her to gently process what she had been holding inside. Her health began to return, her seizures stopped, and she slowly found herself again. Now, Cari helps others release what they were never meant to carry - reminding them that healing is possible, even after the darkest beginnings. KEY TAKEAWAYS The Impact of Trauma: The guest shares her experience of living with severe abuse for over 30 years, highlighting how trauma can manifest physically and emotionally, leading to chronic illnesses like seizures and fibromyalgia. The Role of Coaching: After years of traditional therapy with little success, the guest found healing through coaching with neurolinguistic programming (NLP), which helped her process and reframe her traumatic experiences. Validation of Experience: A significant turning point came when a neurologist confirmed that her seizures were trauma-related, providing validation for her feelings and experiences, which was liberating and affirming. The Importance of Finding the Right Support: The guest emphasizes that not all therapists or coaches are equipped to handle trauma effectively. Finding the right person who understands and can guide you through the healing process is crucial. Empowerment Through Self-Discovery: Through the coaching process, the guest learned to reconnect with her younger self and support her through trauma. BEST MOMENTS "I was 20 when I started having seizures... they said, you'll be on this for the rest of your life." "I thought I was too broken to ever be healed." "I went from feeling like I grew up in this toxic family... to this is who my father was." "I was about 24 hours away from ending my own life, and nobody knew." "Neuro-linguistic programming helps you go back and meet that experience and that version of you at that age."  To connect with Cari:  Linktree: https://linktr.ee/resiliencemindandbodycoaching To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   To Buy Rachel a Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/unspokenemotions  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-elimelech-a07a1a46/  To join the waitlist for Rachel’s Unspoken to Unstoppable Breakthrough Programme - email ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ quoting reference “Breakthrough". HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this powerful episode, Rachel speaks with Natasha Kostalas, a former Head of English who traded her 10-year teaching career for the world of competitive bodybuilding, coaching, and authorship. Natasha bravely details her journey from a seemingly perfect, high-achieving life that masked chronic exhaustion, panic attacks, and body dysmorphia, to a transformative period of intense self-discovery. KEY TAKEAWAYS The Hidden Cost of Ambition: Natasha's initial drive to succeed and prove herself led to severe burnout, anxiety, and a battle with panic attacks and an eating disorder, despite achieving a high level of professional success at a young age. Fitness as a Catalyst for Change: Starting weight training was not about weight loss or superficial goals, but became a fundamental step towards reclaiming her power, developing self-discipline, and fostering emotional healing, ultimately leading her to abandon her high-pressure teaching career. The Turning Point: Making the Jump: A powerful confrontation and the realisation that she was consistently unhappy in her job led to the decision to leave her 10-year teaching career, proving that sometimes the biggest risks lead to the greatest relief and self-fulfilment. Beyond Aesthetics: The Bodybuilding Reality: Natasha highlights that competitive bodybuilding is an extreme sport that requires immense discipline and a multi-year commitment, but that the process itself was key to overcoming her body dysmorphia and learning to prioritize her health over external validation. Prioritize Self-Care and Reflection: The best advice for those feeling stuck is to reflect deeply on what truly brings happiness, find small ways to incorporate self-care (like journaling), and be brave enough to act on the inner voice that signals a need for significant change. BEST MOMENTS "The first day, I just remembered thinking, 'Oh my God, what have I done?' I had never felt so much out of place in my entire life." "I was not willing to compromise all those years of work that I'd put in. That's why that choice was made." "Strength training became less about how you looked and was more about you reclaiming your power." "If something is in your head long enough, you know it's the truth... just go with your gut feeling." "I realized that all the people I was listening to conversations... that was me, but that's not what I was anymore." To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this episode, Rachel invites Sam Halliwell, a trauma-informed endometriosis coach, to share her deeply personal journey with endometriosis, chronic pain, and the emotional toll of living with a chronic illness. Sam discusses her early health struggles, the challenges of being dismissed by medical professionals, and the impact of her diagnosis on her identity as a woman.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Emotional Impact of Chronic Illness: Living with endometriosis can lead to significant emotional distress, including feelings of being dismissed by medical professionals and the struggle to be believed about one's pain. Connection Between Trauma and Pain: There is a strong link between emotional trauma and chronic pain conditions like endometriosis. Addressing underlying emotional issues can lead to improvements in physical symptoms, highlighting the importance of a holistic approach to treatment. Importance of Self-Advocacy: The journey to diagnosis and treatment can be fraught with challenges, including being dismissed by healthcare providers. Individuals must advocate for themselves and seek second opinions when their concerns are not being taken seriously. Holistic Healing Approaches: Integrating dietary changes, somatic work, and emotional healing practices can significantly impact the management of endometriosis. Identity and Motherhood: The experience of infertility and the decision to undergo a hysterectomy can profoundly affect one's sense of identity as a woman.  BEST MOMENTS "I was in a lot of pain. I was really struggling just day to day, quite simple things." "The average diagnosis for endo is considerably high. At the moment, the average is eight years, 10 months for diagnosis." "I was living in a permanent fight or flight. I was literally fighting my body every single day." "If I go into a surgery like this in this state, I just won't make it." "There is no cure. This disease has such a high recurrence rate that there is no cure." TO CONNECT WITH SAM Web: theendocoach.co.uk IG: sam_theendocoach FB: facebook.com/samanthahalliwellcoaching To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this raw and necessary conversation, Rachel welcomes Nic Collins, a therapist, coach, and host of The Advance men’s retreat. He opens up about his personal journey from high-pressure industrial sales to a life of sobriety and authentic connection. For 20 years, Nic lived with the unspoken weight of substance use, depression, and suicidal thoughts, masking his struggles in an environment that valued toughness over vulnerability. KEY TAKEAWAYS The Cost of Emotional Suppression: Nic's experience highlights how bottling up emotions, particularly in male-dominated, high-pressure environments, can lead to severe mental health struggles, including substance use, depression, and suicidal ideation, reinforcing the idea that vulnerability is not an option. Growth is Non-Linear, but Consistency is Key: Nic's decade-long path to sobriety and self-discovery was a "slow burn," not a single, dramatic breakthrough.  Unspoken Emotions Don't Die, They Just Grow: Suppressed emotions will eventually find a way to express themselves, often through destructive behaviour patterns.  Finding Safety and Your True Community: Being truly authentic can cause some people to leave your life, but that simply makes space for the right people—a tribe that supports, challenges, and resonates with your genuine self—to enter. Shifting the Narrative on Coping Mechanisms: Nic’s story shows that certain behaviours, like using weed and music, were a necessary "gasp of air" that kept him here long enough to find professional help and eventually replace those habits with healthier ones.  BEST MOMENTS "The cost of not sharing who I truly am almost took my life." "Unspoken emotions never die. If we ignore them, they just grow bigger and bigger." "I was so desperate for that connection, but I wasn’t really feeling the connection because I wasn't presenting my genuine, true self." "I think it can be simple, but it's not easy. Vulnerability is difficult." "We overestimate what we can do in a day, but we underestimate what we can do in a year." How To Connect With Nic: https://niccollinsauthentic.com/  https://www.instagram.com/nic_collins_authentic/  To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this insightful episode, Rachel welcomes Sharon Summit, a holistic healer and expert in subconscious transformation. Sharon shares her powerful personal journey, moving from 18 years of running a construction business to discovering profound freedom by addressing her own unspoken emotions and trauma.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Childhood Programming Impacts Adult Life: The first seven years of life are spent in a hypnotic, theta brainwave state, making children like sponges that absorb everything in their environment. The Body Communicates Through Signals: Physical and mental health issues like constant sickness, body aches, depression, and anxiety are often signals from the body indicating that the person is not doing the right thing or is not aligned with who they truly are. The Power of Internal Dialogue: The words and thoughts we habitually speak to ourselves, often subconscious, are a direct reflection of the life we are living and can keep us "stuck" in negative patterns until we become aware of them. Transformation is a Choice: Healing and transformation don't happen until a person is ready to make the choice and be at the "frequency of healing," letting go of people, things, or secondary gains that keep one comfortable but stuck. Practical Tools for Shifting Beliefs: Simple daily practices, such as listening to a positive theta meditation while drifting off to sleep and waking up to set clear intentions, can help reprogram the subconscious mind and foster solution-based thinking, providing life direction like a GPS. BEST MOMENTS "The subconscious programs that we might carry with us without realising."  "What's not cleared on one of those higher levels manifests in the body as disease."  "It's the 1% I call it of compounded awareness that creates that quantum leap."  "The attention is switched solely to you. And then you go, 'What even is my favourite colour?'"  "Everything we seek does come from within. And when you start trusting and believing in yourself, magic happens."  To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this inspiring episode, Rachel welcomes Linda Eastburn, a remarkable guest who shares her transformative journey of courage and intuition. At the age of 50, Linda made the bold decision to leave a 23-year marriage and a successful career in real estate to reinvent herself. Linda discusses the pivotal moments that led her to trust her intuition, the challenges she faced while starting anew, and the development of her unique SPI method, which empowers others to embrace their own intuition and take action.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Embrace Change at Any Age: It's never too late to make significant life changes. The journey of self-reinvention can begin at any age, as demonstrated by the decision to leave a long-term marriage and career to pursue a new path. Trust Your Intuition: Developing a strong connection with your intuition can guide you through uncertainty. Listening to gut feelings and recognizing intuitive insights can lead to transformative decisions and opportunities. Overcome Fear and Self-Doubt: Many people experience fear and self-doubt when facing new challenges. Building confidence through small steps and surrounding yourself with supportive individuals can help you navigate these feelings and take action. The Importance of Self-Discovery: Understanding who you are beyond societal expectations is crucial for personal growth. Value of Community and Connections: Building a network of supportive friends and mentors can provide encouragement and inspiration. Engaging with like-minded individuals can open doors to new opportunities and enrich your life experiences. BEST MOMENTS "I knew that it was either now or never kind of to launch this other part of me, this independence that was to just see what was within myself." "Intuition is really just your body explaining to you or giving you some piece of information, usually comes in as a feeling." "I think if you work with your intuition every day for a year, what you find at the end of that year... is a lot more trust in yourself." "I would definitely tell myself that you have way more potential than you're giving yourself credit for." "If it's important, we listen. And when it isn't important, we don't."  TO CONNECT WITH LINDA https://lindaeastburn.com/linda-eastburn-s-p-i https://www.facebook.com/linda.eastburn https://www.instagram.com/lindaeastburn6/ Lindaeastburn@gmail.com To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠ Email: ⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this powerful episode, Rachel welcomes Regina Hiremath, a survivor of emotional and financial abuse who spent 23 years in a challenging marriage before finding the courage to reclaim her life. Regina shares her journey of healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing unspoken emotions and the impact of living behind a mask. Regina discusses the emotional and psychological abuse she endured, the pivotal moment when she broke down in front of her mother, and how travel became a vital part of her recovery. As an author, coach, and advocate, Regina now uses her experiences to help others identify abuse and find their voice.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Recognizing Emotional Abuse: Emotional and psychological abuse can manifest in various forms, such as criticism, belittling, gaslighting, and financial control. The Power of Vulnerability: Sharing one's struggles and emotions, as demonstrated in a pivotal moment with her mother, can lead to significant breakthroughs. Reclaiming Life Through Travel: Traveling became a transformative experience, symbolizing freedom and the reclamation of joy. Engaging in new experiences can help individuals rediscover themselves and foster a sense of empowerment. Strength in Reflection: Reflecting on past challenges and recognizing personal strength can provide the motivation needed to move forward. Acknowledging moments of resilience throughout one's life can empower individuals to take the necessary steps toward change. Daily Practices for Healing: Establishing daily habits, such as exercise, healthy eating, and engaging in joyful activities, can significantly contribute to emotional well-being.  BEST MOMENTS  "I was lonely, married but lonely. Married but feeling single." "It was like living in two worlds. I knew when to put the mask on and when to take it off." "I felt powerless. I felt like I couldn't survive on my own or that I was incapable of taking that step." "I wanted to express my feelings and felt that there were others who were experiencing the same types of things that I was." "Just keep going. Keep living. Keep forgiving yourself. Keep loving."  TO CONNECT WITH REGINAhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61565882901394&mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://www.instagram.com/onesomebook?igsh=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qrhttps://m.facebook.com/groups/841143147339006/?ref=share&mibextid=wwXIfrhttps://a.co/d/3BvH16w To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠ Email: ⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

Today, Rachel welcomes Becky Cohen, founder of The Conscious Revolution and a multi-passionate entrepreneur, to share her transformative journey from burnout and disconnection to alignment and purpose. Becky, a certified transformation coach and human design expert, reflects on her 15 years in the corporate world, where she chased external success but ultimately felt misaligned. Becky discusses the emotional and physical toll of burnout, the unspoken emotions she carried, and the importance of self-acceptance and understanding.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Journey from Burnout to Purpose: Lara shares a personal journey of transitioning from a corporate career marked by burnout and disconnection to a fulfilling life aligned with purpose. Unspoken Emotions and Identity: The discussion highlights the unspoken emotions many individuals carry, particularly around identity and societal expectations. Understanding Burnout: Burnout is described as a complex experience that goes beyond physical exhaustion. It often stems from emotional and spiritual disconnection. Human Design as a Tool for Self-Discovery: Lara introduces human design as a powerful tool for understanding one's unique strengths, purpose, and decision-making processes. Healing is a Non-Linear Process: The healing journey is portrayed as ongoing and cyclical, with moments of resistance and breakthroughs. Lara emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and understanding one's emotional landscape as crucial components of personal growth and healing. BEST MOMENTS "I realized that something was deeply misaligned... I could no longer wear that mask and play the game anymore." "I felt like I was always craving those deeper connections... but that's one part of escapism, keeping things very superficial." "The universe will either tickle you with a feather or then come and punch you in the face." "If I'm a generator, I'm supposed to have all this energy. Why don't I have it, and why am I burning out?" "The healing journey is never really done... sometimes you go through something deep and then bang, something else comes along."  To Connect With Becky: https://theconsciousrevolution.kit.com https://www.facebook.com/becky.cohen.146 BOOK YOUR HUMAN DESIGN READING HERE WITH 20% OFF https://calendly.com/theconsciousrevolution/human-design-readings-podcastguest?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTAAYnJpZBEwSWNGT1ZJUTRrSFRHVUNrUAEerGlnX31bqpYYeB02lPs4qPV0Xk6uAeBMsomtLzDFav2QLfj_NzetCu7W4ww_aem_vdFrGdGFddEWD0wkNVwh2A&month=2025-09 To connect with your host, follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠ Email: ⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachel.elimelech HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this powerful episode, Rachel welcomes Reese Maskwa, a woman who has overcome unimaginable pain and loss. Reese shares her journey of surviving a devastating car accident while six months pregnant, which resulted in the loss of her first child, years of seizures, disability, and debilitating pain. Through a combination of energy healing, mindset work, and sheer determination, Rhys completely transformed her life, healing her body and reclaiming her mind. Now living in Costa Rica with her children, pursuing her PhD, and guiding others globally as a metaphysician, Reese is a living example of the power of resilience and the incredible capacity of the human body and spirit to heal.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Resilience Through Adversity: The journey of overcoming unimaginable pain and loss, including a devastating car accident and the grief of losing a child, highlights the strength of the human spirit and the ability to rebuild one's life. The Power of Mindset: Emphasizing the importance of mindset, the practice of affirmations such as "my pain is my past, it's not my present, it's not my future" can lead to significant healing and transformation. Energy Healing: The experience of energy healing demonstrated its effectiveness in alleviating chronic pain and seizures, showcasing the potential for alternative healing methods to bring about profound changes in health. Motherhood as Motivation: Becoming a mother again served as a powerful motivator to heal and find purpose, illustrating how personal relationships can inspire strength and determination in difficult times. Continuous Healing Journey: Healing is an ongoing process that involves addressing emotional traumas and maintaining daily practices such as exercise, breath work, and meditation to support overall well-being. BEST MOMENTS "I was young, spry, and ready to take on the world... but then the accident happened and everything changed." "I tried to take my life numerous times. I didn't want to live without my baby." "I started chanting, my pain is my past, it's not my present, it's not my future." "I fully believe everything and anything can heal." "Just start with your mindset. Just know that you're going to get over it."  To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta:⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠⁠  TikTok:⁠ ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠⁠ Email: ⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠ HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

Rachel sits down with Lloyd Ditforth, a caregiver who faced the emotional and physical challenges of supporting his wife through her breast cancer diagnosis. Lloyd shares his journey from a resourceful upbringing in a small Texas town to navigating the overwhelming feelings of helplessness that arose during his wife's illness.  Lloyd discusses the mental toll caregiving takes, particularly from a male perspective, where expressing emotions is often stigmatized.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Emotional Toll of Caregiving: Caregiving can significantly impact individuals, especially when they feel helpless in the face of a loved one's illness. Importance of Communication: Open and honest communication about feelings is crucial during challenging times. Suppressing emotions can lead to misunderstandings and increased tension in relationships. Finding Support: Building a support network, whether through friends, family, or informal groups, can provide essential emotional relief. Engaging with others who understand the situation can help alleviate isolation and stress. Legacy and Preparedness: Facing a loved one's serious illness can prompt individuals to reflect on their own lives and legacies. It can inspire proactive measures to ensure that loved ones are taken care of in the event of unforeseen circumstances. Personal Growth and Resilience: The journey through caregiving can lead to personal transformation, strengthening relationships, and fostering resilience. It can encourage individuals to embrace life more fully, pursue new experiences, and prioritize emotional well-being for themselves and their families. BEST MOMENTS "As a husband, you want to be able to fix it, I just needed to figure out a way, somewhere to point." "I think a lot of it was she understood me more... the way we express our emotions is totally different." "It felt selfish to tell her any of my emotions; I needed to hold it back." "If you're walking around just all pissed off, they're going to create this world in their head that you're pissed off at them." "I don't think I could have changed it for the better... it all worked out and it led us down a different path."  To Connect With Lloyd: https://youtube.com/@roombythehour To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/⁠  TikTok: ⁠www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em⁠ Email: ⁠rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk⁠ HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

Rachel welcomes intuitive coach and group facilitator Lara Bokovay, who shares her profound journey through corporate burnout, personal loss, and the challenges of motherhood. Lara reflects on her past, revealing how she was conditioned to sacrifice her well-being for success, often ignoring her emotional and physical needs. After taking a transformative summer off to reconnect with herself, she discusses the pivotal moments that led her to choose herself repeatedly KEY TAKEAWAYS Choosing Yourself: The journey of self-discovery and healing is one of conscious choice rather than a passive finding of oneself Impact of Corporate Culture: The high-pressure environment of corporate life can lead to significant emotional and physical sacrifices, including neglecting self-care and personal relationships Reflection and Introspection: Taking time away from a demanding career allowed for necessary reflection and introspection, leading to a better understanding of personal desires and needs. This space is crucial for personal growth and healing. Parenting as a Mirror: Children reflect their parents' behaviors and beliefs, highlighting the importance of self-awareness in parenting BEST MOMENTS "I didn't find myself, I chose myself."  "It was just like moving, moving, moving, moving, moving without actually saying what is happening."  "You can have all the money in the world, and if you're exhausted and not physically and mentally okay, then you don't really enjoy it."  "We're scared. Everything that we stay in is because we're crippled with fear."  "You want a kind kid, you have to be kind." To Connect with Lara Facebook: Lara Bokovay - Coach and Intuitive Reader TikTok: @larabokovay Insta: @larabokovay Web: www.larabokovay.com To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

n this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, Rachel sits down with Lee, a mother and business owner whose life was torn apart by a single tragic mistake behind the wheel at the age of 48. What began as an ordinary January evening ended in devastation, when a moment of misjudgment led to the loss of another person’s life. Lee opens up about the harrowing aftermath — the crushing guilt of knowing her actions caused a death, the alienation she felt during the legal process, and the overwhelming shame of standing trial and facing prison. She shares the painful reality of being separated from her children during COVID-19 restrictions, where even the smallest gestures of comfort were denied. Yet, amidst the heartbreak, Lee’s story is also one of courage, resilience, and the difficult path toward self-forgiveness. This episode explores guilt, shame, and the human need for redemption — a raw and unflinching account of how one moment can change everything, and how survival means finding a way to live again. KEY TAKEAWAYS Guilt and Responsibility: The emotional burden of guilt was overwhelming, as Lee grappled with the reality of having caused a death, despite it being an accident Legal Process and Emotional Toll: The journey through the legal system was emotionally taxing, involving a trial where Lee felt alienated and submissive, struggling with the perception of guilt Impact on Family: The situation had a significant impact on the family, particularly the children, who had to navigate the emotional fallout and the reality of having a parent incarcerated Prison Experience and COVID-19: The experience of going to prison was compounded by COVID-19 restrictions, which limited contact with family. The inability to physically connect with loved ones during visits added to the emotional strain of the situation. BEST MOMENTS "I just knew that I had completely and utterly misread the road."  "I wanted to explain to them that it wasn't her fault, that it was my fault."  "I just felt disgusted by it."  "I was just grateful it was me and it wasn't them." To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this powerful episode of Unspoken Emotions, host Rachel Elimelech sits down with Lisa Negus to explore her incredible journey of overcoming childhood bullying, self-doubt, and the trauma of a life-altering accident. Lisa shares the deeply personal story of how she battled limiting beliefs and felt invisible for much of her life. She opens up about the struggles that led her to discover her resilience and her transformative journey toward becoming a coach - helping others find their voice and purpose. Lisa talks candidly about the grief and loss she experienced when she lost both of her parents within a short period. She walks us through her emotional process of rebuilding her life after those devastating events, and how this experience fueled her desire to help others navigate their own pain. Her story is one of resilience, self-acceptance, and the power of embracing change - both in ourselves and in the world around us. KEY TAKEAWAYS Building Self-Esteem: Overcoming childhood bullying and self-doubt is a transformative process that requires self-compassion and resilience. Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Lisa opens up about her personal experience with imposter syndrome and how it shaped her adult life. The Role of Hypnotherapy: After feeling stuck with traditional therapy, Lisa sought healing through hypnotherapy, which helped her find clarity and closure. Healing from Grief: Grief is an ongoing process, but self-compassion and the courage to look forward can help us heal. Empowering Others: Lisa shares how helping others navigate their struggles became the key to finding her own purpose and fulfillment. Embracing Change: Change can be uncomfortable, but it’s often the gateway to personal growth and transformation. BEST MOMENTS "I would tell that younger self that other people's opinions don't matter. Other people's opinions aren't correct." "It was a really difficult time... I just did not know what had happened... I remember sitting in the back of that police car, just shaking." "I see probably my late 20s, 30s, and even early 40s as almost like a wasteland in life where things could have been so much different had I been different." "You know, things like that can shape us and shape our lives moving forward." "Grief is a very difficult thing to overcome... It's like a big old football in your stomach... gradually the size of that ball shrinks." To connect with your host, follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the heartfelt host of "Unspoken Emotions." As a qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines her professional expertise with personal resilience, having navigated significant life challenges, including sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood. Her journey from a teenage single mother to a successful legal professional has shaped her empathetic approach to storytelling. With a talent for connecting with people from all walks of life, Rachel creates a safe space for guests to share their most vulnerable moments. Through honest conversations, she explores how individuals have transformed their struggles into strength. Unspoken Emotions aims to inspire listeners by sharing real stories of resilience and offering practical coping strategies. Rachel believes in the power of shared experiences to foster healing and hope. Join her as she invites you to discover the incredible capacity for growth within us all.

In this deeply moving episode of Unspoken Emotions, host Rachel Elimelech sits down with Jude Hill, a mother whose world shattered when she lost her young son Adam to a brain tumour. Jude shares her raw and honest story of navigating unimaginable grief — from the early days of devastation to the slow, spiritual process of rebuilding her life. She opens up about the emotional toll of losing a child, the quiet guilt that so many bereaved parents carry, and how energy healing became a lifeline when traditional support fell short. This conversation offers comfort, connection, and a reminder that while grief changes us forever, it can also become a gateway to purpose, self-discovery, and healing. Whether you're grieving, supporting someone who is, or simply curious about the emotional depths we often avoid, this episode offers hope, understanding, and powerful truth.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Grief is not something you 'Get Over'. It's something you learn to live alongside: The journey through grief, especially after losing a child, is profound and can leave lasting emotional scars. The experience of loss can lead to feelings of guilt and isolation, which may persist for many years. Energy healing and spiritual exploration can unlock deep emotional release: Energy healing can be a transformative approach to processing grief. It allows individuals to release pent-up emotions and replace them with positive feelings. The bond between parent and child doesn’t end with death; it simply transforms. The Importance of Acknowledgement: Recognising and expressing grief is crucial. Suppressing emotions can lead to physical and emotional dis-ease, highlighting the need for safe spaces to process feelings and experiences. Guilt is a common but heavy burden in grief and it can be softened through compassion.  It’s Possible to Find Joy Again Without Guilt - joy doesn’t replace love; it honours it. BEST MOMENTS "He was just an inspiration, really... he just took everything in his stride... he was always happy and smiling; he never really complained about anything." "I sort of grieved him before I lost him, but I tried to be strong for him and make those months that we had matter as well." "To still feel that emotion as raw today as it was all those years ago, I mean, that's the reality, isn't it?" "You just do really; you want to protect your child... I was just amazed, even at that age, how he lay for the treatments." "I just want them to be happy again... not the masked happiness... but real joy." To Connect with Jude Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/judehillss/ Insta: https://www.instagram.com/byjude1?igsh=M3hnZGJpdmhkNXk1&utm_source=qr Web: https://sadnesstosunshine.com/ Free Download for connecting with your loved one in spirit: https://sadnesstosunshine.com/connecting-to-your-child-meditation/ To connect with your host, follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the heartfelt host of "Unspoken Emotions." As a qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines her professional expertise with personal resilience, having navigated significant life challenges, including sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood. Her journey from a teenage single mother to a successful legal professional has shaped her empathetic approach to storytelling. With a talent for connecting with people from all walks of life, Rachel creates a safe space for guests to share their most vulnerable moments. Through honest conversations, she explores how individuals have transformed their struggles into strength. Unspoken Emotions aims to inspire listeners by sharing real stories of resilience and offering practical coping strategies. Rachel believes in the power of shared experiences to foster healing and hope. Join her as she invites you to discover the incredible capacity for growth within us all.

In this inspiring episode, Rachel engages in a heartfelt conversation with Barbara Lewthwaite, whose journey of resilience and defiance against early trauma and societal norms is both profound and transformative. Barbara shares her experiences of surviving abuse, the emotional intelligence she developed at a young age, and her courageous decision to report her father, which led to significant personal and familial upheaval. Barbara emphasizes the importance of community, self-empowerment, and the power of love in overcoming life's challenges.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Resilience Through Trauma: Early trauma can create feelings of invisibility and being unheard, but individuals can develop inner resilience and a strong sense of self-worth despite their circumstances. The Power of Community: Building supportive communities can empower individuals to express themselves, learn new skills, and transform their lives. Choice and Responsibility: Individuals have the power to choose how they respond to their circumstances. Recognizing that we are not defined by our past experiences allows for personal growth and the ability to create new narratives. Emotional Intelligence and Self-Compassion: Developing emotional intelligence and practicing self-compassion are crucial for healing from past traumas and moving forward in life. Love as a Guiding Principle: Choosing love over the need to be right can dissolve conflicts and foster deeper connections. Emphasizing love in communication can lead to resolution and understanding in relationships. BEST MOMENTS "Until recently, it's created a world where no matter what I do, I feel invisible and underheard. Even now, when I am listened to, I cry." "I had such a passion for being in nature. It was like my mother and father. I don't remember ever being nursed or cuddled or comforted." "You have always believed in the power of community... What led you to this work exactly and how did you see that transformation unfold in the people that you worked with?" "I see that just about everything in the world is a reliving of past lives... and then a context for love." "The choice is stark. My point of view is the only one. Yours is wrong. Or love." To connect with your host, follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the heartfelt host of "Unspoken Emotions." As a qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines her professional expertise with personal resilience, having navigated significant life challenges, including sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood. Her journey from a teenage single mother to a successful legal professional has shaped her empathetic approach to storytelling. With a talent for connecting with people from all walks of life, Rachel creates a safe space for guests to share their most vulnerable moments. Through honest conversations, she explores how individuals have transformed their struggles into strength. Unspoken Emotions aims to inspire listeners by sharing real stories of resilience and offering practical coping strategies. Rachel believes in the power of shared experiences to foster healing and hope. Join her as she invites you to discover the incredible capacity for growth within us all.

In this heartfelt episode, Rachel welcomes Kelly Cunningham, known as Kweenie, who shares her profound journey of grief and healing following the sudden loss of her mother while navigating new motherhood. With a two-month-old baby and two sisters also experiencing motherhood, Kelly reflects on the overwhelming tidal wave of grief that engulfed her and the mental health struggles that ensued. Kelly also discusses the toxic work environment that ultimately led her to leave a job she once loved, and how she transformed her pain into purpose through her art.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Navigating Grief and Motherhood: The experience of losing a mother while becoming a new mother can create a complex emotional landscape, where feelings of grief and the responsibilities of caring for a newborn intertwine. Importance of Support Systems: Having a strong support network, such as sisters or close friends, can provide a safe space to express emotions and share experiences. Recognising Toxic Environments: A toxic work environment can significantly impact mental health, leading to feelings of inadequacy and stress. It’s crucial to recognise when a job becomes detrimental to well-being and to take steps to prioritise mental health. Art as a Healing Tool: Engaging in creative expression through art can serve as a powerful means of healing and self-discovery. It allows individuals to process emotions, reclaim their identity, and find purpose after experiencing trauma. Empowerment Through Self-Discovery: The journey of overcoming personal struggles can lead to a deeper understanding of oneself and a renewed sense of purpose.  BEST MOMENTS "I felt like a bit of a failure in that I heard of other people who had gone through similar things, who then couldn't feed their babies because their milk dried up. Mine didn't. And I was like, oh God, I'm a horrible person." "In times of hardship like that, you know, it's nice knowing that there are other people out there to try and shoulder a bit of it and that you're not going through it alone." "I was never ever clinically diagnosed as having depression or anything like that... but I used to always just say at my health visit, well, you know what my answer's going to be? It's going to be, I feel like shit." "I thought, you know what, you've got that. You've got it in your husband, you've got it in your sisters, you've got it in your friends, but so many people don't." "It's about having someone that you can trust to say actually and speak openly whatever it is that you're feeling without being judged." To Connect with Kelly Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61556187753893 Insta: https://www.instagram.com/kweeniestudio/ Web: https://kweeniestudio.com/ To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this heartfelt episode, Rachel sits down with her best friend of 34 years, Rachel Rose, to discuss her deeply personal journey as a mother of a child with severe autism. Rachel shares the challenges she faced from the early signs of her son Dylan's condition to his eventual diagnosis at the age of two. With raw honesty, Rachel reflects on her experiences of love, guilt, and resilience, offering listeners a glimpse into the realities of parenting a child with special needs.  KEY TAKEAWAYS Maternal Intuition and Advocacy: The importance of trusting maternal instincts is emphasised, as the journey began with a mother's concern for her child's development, leading to relentless advocacy for a diagnosis and appropriate care. Early Diagnosis and Intervention: Receiving an autism diagnosis at the age of two was a rare occurrence at the time, highlighting the significance of early intervention and the challenges faced in accessing necessary resources and support. Impact on Family Dynamics: The challenges of raising a child with severe autism affected not only the mother but also the entire family, including siblings and extended family members, creating a ripple effect of emotional and practical challenges. Navigating the System: The experience of dealing with social services, health authorities, and educational systems is fraught with difficulties, requiring persistent advocacy and often leading to the establishment of alternative educational arrangements. Emotional Toll and Guilt: The emotional burden of caring for a child with complex needs includes feelings of guilt and the struggle to balance the needs of all children in the family, as well as the heart-wrenching decision to place a child in residential care when necessary. BEST MOMENTS "Your story will speak to so many people who carry their own unspoken emotions in silence." "I thought he was deaf. I was quite vocal, let's say, and asking for help and saying, like, something isn't right." "At first it was relief... to finally have some validation that actually I'm not crazy." "Loving Dylan is easy. It's always been the really easy part, you know, absolutely." "The guilt of him being there is as crippling as the day-to-day stress of him being at home." To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this episode, Rachel dives into the profound impact of bottling up trauma and the silent weight of unspoken emotions. Drawing inspiration from the powerful performances of singer Raye at the Glastonbury Music Festival, Rachel shares her personal experiences of hiding behind a mask and the emotional toll it takes on our bodies. Rachel discusses the physical manifestations of suppressed feelings, such as chronic stress and pain, and emphasises the importance of acknowledging and expressing our emotions. KEY TAKEAWAYS The Weight of Bottled Emotions: Bottling up emotions and trauma can lead to significant physical and mental health issues, including chronic stress, anxiety, and various physical ailments. The Importance of Acknowledgment: Acknowledging that it's okay to feel and not be okay is the first step toward healing. Many people struggle with self-compassion, often being kinder to others than to themselves. Finding Support: Sharing your feelings with someone you trust, whether a friend, partner, or therapist, can be a powerful step in the healing process. If you feel alone, journaling can also serve as a valuable outlet for expressing bottled-up emotions. The Journey to Healing: Healing is a gradual process that involves taking small steps. Each time you allow yourself to feel and express emotions, you create space for healing and begin to lighten the emotional burden you carry. Breaking the Silence: Speaking your truth and breaking the silence surrounding your pain is vital for healing. It can be terrifying, but it opens the door to connection and support. BEST MOMENTS "Bottling it up doesn't make it disappear. In fact, it just makes it worse." "When we suppress our emotions, we end up with higher levels of chronic stress, anxiety, and even physical problems." "The longer we stay silent, the more isolated we become." "You don't have to carry it all alone, and you don't have to stay silent." "Healing starts when you take that first step. The courage to feel, the courage to speak and the courage to let go." To connect with your host follow Me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk 3 Step Guide to releasing what's Holding you Back Download:  https://unspokenemotions.co.uk/free-guide HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.

In this episode of Unspoken Emotions, Rachel welcomes Sarah Makinde, a chartered occupational psychologist, who shares her journey of grappling with unprocessed emotions and the profound impact they can have on our lives. Drawing from her own experiences in the corporate world, Sarah discusses the importance of recognising and managing emotions, particularly in high-pressure environments. Sarah offers practical tools for listeners to cultivate emotional awareness and navigate triggers that may arise unexpectedly. Today You'll Learn: Unprocessed Emotions Impact Us: Unprocessed emotions can shape our decisions, relationships, and self-perception. They do not simply fade away but can resurface unexpectedly, often triggered by specific events or memories. Awareness and Mindfulness: Developing awareness of our emotions through mindfulness practices can help us recognise and process feelings before they build up. The Importance of Voice and Boundaries: Many individuals struggle with expressing their emotions and setting boundaries, especially in workplace environments. Healing and Acceptance: Healing involves acknowledging the past without allowing it to define the future. Acceptance of past experiences, both good and bad, can lead to personal growth and the ability to support others facing similar challenges. Seeking Support: It’s essential to seek support from others when dealing with emotional struggles. Connecting with people who understand or have experienced similar situations can provide comfort and help individuals feel less alone in their journey. Quotable Moments: "I spent years and years not feeling like I could express my emotions... I thought that actually I was processing them, but I wasn't." "When we hold on to our trauma, we might feel like we've forgotten different things... but it's coming out in different symptoms that we have." "The main thing that's come into me is to say that you’re not alone... the worst thing to do is go through this alone." "One of the things that I also see a lot of people feeling is guilty for moving on or letting go." "It's about not ignoring the past, but acknowledging the past... and what can I do with that experience to support other people." To Connect with Sarah  Facebook  https://www.facebook.com/share/1FiG8WPUjE/?mibextid=wwXIfr https://bit.ly/4kD2SAf To connect with your host, follow me HERE: Insta: https://www.instagram.com/rachel_unspokenemotions/  TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@rachel.unspoken.em Email: rachel@unspokenemotions.co.uk   HOST BIO Rachel Elimelech is the warm, courageous voice behind Unspoken Emotions - a podcast that gives voice to the feelings we so often keep buried. A qualified Solicitor and Higher Court Advocate, Rachel combines professional insight with deeply personal lived experience - from surviving sexual abuse, loss, and single parenthood to rebuilding her life with quiet strength and unwavering resilience. Her journey from teenage single mum to respected legal professional has shaped her gift for deep connection. With empathy and authenticity, Rachel creates a safe, judgment-free space where guests are invited to speak the unspoken - grief, guilt, shame, anger, fear - and begin to let go of what no longer serves them. Through honest, unfiltered conversations, Unspoken Emotions explores how real people have turned pain into purpose and silence into healing. Rachel believes that healing begins the moment we speak the truth of our experiences - and that none of us should carry our emotions alone.