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Tough Love
Collaborative Studios
44 episodes
3 months ago

Welcome to Tough Love, the relationship podcast with Stephanie Regan, clinical psychotherapist and relationship expert and Mairead Loughman, Matchmaker and founder of Love HQ.


This podcast is the result of many conversations between us about dating and love where we found that we were both noticing the suffering, loneliness and powerlessness that can lie beneath the search for love.

Although we arrive to the subject from two very different places we saw that some truths and difficulties simply never get aired and that there could be a real benefit in opening a bigger and more frank conversation on these and the realities of dating and building relationships in today's world.

Our focus is to say what needs saying, hence the title ,'Tough Love', but with the purpose of empowering the listener,by hearing common sense and new perspectives.



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Welcome to Tough Love, the relationship podcast with Stephanie Regan, clinical psychotherapist and relationship expert and Mairead Loughman, Matchmaker and founder of Love HQ.


This podcast is the result of many conversations between us about dating and love where we found that we were both noticing the suffering, loneliness and powerlessness that can lie beneath the search for love.

Although we arrive to the subject from two very different places we saw that some truths and difficulties simply never get aired and that there could be a real benefit in opening a bigger and more frank conversation on these and the realities of dating and building relationships in today's world.

Our focus is to say what needs saying, hence the title ,'Tough Love', but with the purpose of empowering the listener,by hearing common sense and new perspectives.



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Episodes (20/44)
Tough Love
S3 E9 - Lonliness

On this week’s podcast Stephanie and Mairead are discussing loneliness.


  • The many times that loneliness is more likely to happen.
  • The food map of your connections. 
  • The micro connections of your day.
  • Why are we, in Ireland more lonely than our European neighbours.
  • How we can include others and do we forget to do that? 
  • Alone and lonely are not the same thing. 
  • Do you date from a place of loneliness.
  • The power and enormous value of volunteering 
  • The wonderful way women support women.
  • Be kind to others - maybe there is something that you don’t know. 
  • Actively include others - playing your part. 
  • The loneliness that is part of being in a bad relationship!


If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie




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2 months ago
32 minutes 57 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E8 - Anxiety

On this week's Tough Love podcast Stephanie and Mairead are discussing anxiety.


- What is anxiety?

- Why you have to take responsibility for your mental health for the sake of your relationship.

- Why sleep is a barometer of your mental health.

- Some techniques that Stephanie and Mairead recommends if you have anxiety 

  • Emotional Freedom Tech
  • EMDR
  • Tapping
  • Box Breathing


- What can you do if someone you love has anxiety?

- What does it feel like to have anxiety?

- Effects of alcohol on mental health.

- Panic attacks?

- Do not ignore the symptoms of anxiety, identify the source, visit your GP and consider a therapist.

- Remember, you will find your sparkle again! 


If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie




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2 months ago
31 minutes 3 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E7 - Bullying

On this week's episode of Tough Love podcast we discuss bullying.

-What we saw over the weekend in Zelensky's meeting with Trump.

-Stephanie and Mairead discuss their experiences of being bullied.

-How bullying affects you long term

-Stephanie's experience of working as a clinical psychotherapist and dealing with bullying in the workplace.

-Bullying, stress undealt with leads to burnout.

-Recording the pattern, notes and facts of your bullying.

- Stephanie's experience of employee assistance programmes.

-Why do people bully?

If you would like to book a private consultation with Stephanie and Mairead, visit www.toughlove.ie



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2 months ago
42 minutes 33 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E6 - Catfishing - The emotional and psychological scam of our time.

On this week's episode of Tough Love podcast Stephanie and Mairead discuss catfishing.


  • What is it Catfishing 
  • What are the Red Flags?
  • What are the motivations? 
  • What are the impacts on the one catfished? 
  • Discussion of the Johnny B story. 
  • And Analysis of the motivations of Nicky - the Johnny B catfish
  • The legalities
  • What to watch out for ?
  • How to keep yourself safe?


If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead to discuss any area of your life visit www.toughlove.ie




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2 months ago
44 minutes 53 seconds

Tough Love
S3 - E5 The Comparison Trap: How It Affects Love, Life, and Mental Health

This week on Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead are speaking about comparing yourself to friends, family and in relationships. How to use comparing in a healthy way to grow instead of in a harmful and unhelpful way.

If you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie 

Thank you and we hope you enjoy this episode. 



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3 months ago
36 minutes 16 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E4 - Pressures at Christmas Single or in Relationships

This week Stephanie and Mairead are leaning into Xmas, discussing , what it’s really like to be Single at Christmas and how to navigate that. Mairead opens up about her own experience of being single at Christmas. 

Also 

  • Understanding the highs and lows of the past and how they shape xmas for us
  • How we unconsciously try to rewrite the wrongs of xmas past.
  • Understanding the joy and disappointment of gift giving.
  • If your relationship is in trouble how to cope. 
  • Working toward harmony not perfection.


If you would like to book a session with Stephanie or Mairead see www.toughlove.ie



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5 months ago
36 minutes 55 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E3 - How to be confident

This week on Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead are speaking about confidence, how to be more confident and simple yet powerful tips to help you increase your confidence.

If you would like to book a private session with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie 

Thank you and we hope you enjoy this episode. 



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5 months ago
39 minutes 11 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E2 - Dating later in life and second big loves

In this weeks episode of Tough Love, Stephanie and Mairead discuss dating later in life and how relationships are different when they are your second or third big love.

How seeking someone to be a potential father or mother of your children is very different later in life when seeking love just for yourself.

We discuss the benefits and challenges of dating later in life.

How the best relationships are built on friendships.


If you would like to book a private consultation with Stepahnie and Mairead visit www.lovehq.ie




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6 months ago
33 minutes 23 seconds

Tough Love
S3 E1 - Is people pleasing ruining your love life?

In this episode of Tough Love, Stephanie and Mairead talk about how people pleasing might be ruining your relationship.


What does people pleasing look like like from a psychological perspective?

How martyrdom is a first cousin of people pleasing.

What to do if you feel that you are a people pleaser.

Stephanie's 5 step guide to gaining back your power from being a people pleaser.


If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead to discuss your dating, life or relationship issues visit www.toughlove.ie



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6 months ago
42 minutes 24 seconds

Tough Love
How stress and life noise impacts our dating and relationships

How to manage your stress

What is stress? 

What does stress feel like?

When stress happens?

How stress and noise holds you back from finding love.

How to support your partner through stress.

Why we need to mind our energy and how to identify "drains and radiators".


If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead on Zoom or if you would like us to help you with your dilemmas, please get in touch www.toughlove.ie




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1 year ago
55 minutes 7 seconds

Tough Love
Ask Stephanie and Mairead - Listeners Questions and topics in the media.

This week on Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss

- The media coverage about Kate Midldleton, her cancer diagnosis, your right to privacy and boundaries, external pressures to share and toxicity in our relationships.

-Why are people in Ireland some of the oldest in Ireland becoming first time parents? How do societal issues impact our relationships?

-Why is it said that men should not move into a woman's home?

-Conversations you should have before moving in together.

-When is the right time to break up with someone?

-The impact that separation and divorce has on men?

-Should you stay friends with an ex?


If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie



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1 year ago
1 hour 28 seconds

Tough Love
International Women's Day 08th March 2024 - How do women support women?

Mairead and Stephanie discuss:


  • What does International Women's Day mean to us? 
  • Mairead and Stephanie share their own personal and workplace experiences with women - positive and negative. 
  • How can women work against women and be an obstacle to each other? 
  • What kind of woman are you for other women - how do they feel in your company and when they leave your company?
  • How do women support each other!
  • Are there times that we expect too much of each other or too little?
  • The toxicity of gossip and how to disengage from it.
  • The part women play in holding women back. 
  • How women compete with each other, in obvious and subtle ways!
  • When does normal healthy competition become toxic?
  • A day to consider reflecting on the kind of woman, friend you are for other women!
  • The special times women need women- as a young mother, after a breakup, grief times, after divorce, unemployed for a long time, after illness, seeking a partner for a long time.
  • Role models and why they matter.
  • How you can supplement the gaps in the early role models of your life.  
  • The role of fathers and men as supporters of daughters, wives, women and colleagues. 
  • The gift of our young generation of men who are unbiased to women




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1 year ago
47 minutes 59 seconds

Tough Love
Valentine's Day, is it a commercial holiday or a celebration of love?
This week on the Tough Love podcast, we discuss Valentine's Day, giving and receiving gifts and the common problems that Valentine's Day can highlight in your relationship.

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1 year ago
28 minutes 49 seconds

Tough Love
Starting 2024 mentally, emotionally and consciously strong


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1 year ago
41 minutes 57 seconds

Tough Love
Perfectionism, Loneliness and Mindset this Christmas

In this episode of Tough Love podcast, Stephanie and Mairead discuss perfectionism, loneliness and mindset this christmas.

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1 year ago
32 minutes 28 seconds

Tough Love
International Singles Day 2023
To celebrate singles day 2023, Stephanie and Mairead are discussing how to choose yourself, develop your romantic and personal side of your personality, cut out anything that does not serve the life that you want, consciously decide on the life that you want and so much more!

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1 year ago
41 minutes 25 seconds

Tough Love
S2 E4 - The Healthy Break Up-The Aftermath

In this the fourth episode in the series series on the healthy break Mairead and Stephanie discuss


  • The pain suffering and grief of break up.
  • All of the people that are involved in your break up in particular -children, new partners , family, your ex’s family. 
  • How to separate the emotion of the break up and to make good decisions.
  • How to keep the future in view, despite the emotion of the break up.
  • How to manage invitations.
  • When to introduce new partners and when is it too soon?
  • How about you?
  • Recalibrating your desires for the future.
  • Bring some business practicality to a very emotional situation! 




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1 year ago
56 minutes 51 seconds

Tough Love
S2 E3 - It's over! How to end your relationship or marriage healthily

This week on Tough Love podcast 

Part 3 of 4 in our series covering couples in crisis from when to get relationship help, conversations and communications through to healing a healthy relationship or when to separate or divorce.

The checklist of important conversations you should be prepared for to have a healthy separation and divorce.


If you would like to book a private consultation with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie



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1 year ago
1 hour 3 minutes 59 seconds

Tough Love
S2 E2 - Couples in Crisis - When to get help

This week on Tough Love podcast 

Part 2 of 4 in our series covering couples in crisis from when to get relationship help, conversations and communications through to healing a healthy relationship or when to separate or divorce.

If you would like to book a private consultation with Mairead and Stephanie visit www.toughlove.ie




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1 year ago
32 minutes 26 seconds

Tough Love
S2 E1 - Trying to fix your relationship

Welcome back to season 2 of Tough Love podcast! Thank you for everyone that has listened to series 1 and for all your lovely feedback.


Part one of our four part series covering couples in crisis, when to get relationship help, conversations and communication, through to healing a healthy relationship or deciding on separation and divorce.


If you would like to book a private session with Stephanie and Mairead visit www.toughlove.ie or iof you would like to get in contact with us email toughloveirl@gmail.com



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1 year ago
38 minutes 9 seconds

Tough Love

Welcome to Tough Love, the relationship podcast with Stephanie Regan, clinical psychotherapist and relationship expert and Mairead Loughman, Matchmaker and founder of Love HQ.


This podcast is the result of many conversations between us about dating and love where we found that we were both noticing the suffering, loneliness and powerlessness that can lie beneath the search for love.

Although we arrive to the subject from two very different places we saw that some truths and difficulties simply never get aired and that there could be a real benefit in opening a bigger and more frank conversation on these and the realities of dating and building relationships in today's world.

Our focus is to say what needs saying, hence the title ,'Tough Love', but with the purpose of empowering the listener,by hearing common sense and new perspectives.



Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.