After a month away, I’m back with a fresh smoke! In this episode of Three Smokes with Brian Dilly, I talk about the pressure we all feel to keep grinding non-stop, the guilt of resting, and why taking a break doesn’t mean you’ve failed it means you’re reloading.
If you’ve ever felt like stepping back made you “fall off,” this one’s for you. Trust me, breaks are part of the process, and I’m here to prove it.
They told us to get good grades, go to varsity, and everything would make sense after that.
Turns out… they lied. 😭In this episode of Three Smokes with Brian Dilly, I’m lighting up the truth about:
The real-life skills school never taught us
Hustle culture and why we’re all secretly tired
Life after graduation (spoiler: it’s not giving what it was supposed to give)
The pressure to be an influencer or content creator in 2025
What it’s like trying to be young, broke, creative, and hopeful in South Africa
🎧 Tap in. Let’s smoke about it.
Are SA girls really done with nice guys? Or is it just bad luck and bad timing?
In this episode of 3 Smokes with Brian Dilly, I’m diving into that age-old debate:
Do girls actually want a good guy, or do they just say that until they meet a man who breaks their heart in HD?
From being "too available" to why "bad boys" keep winning, we’re talking about modern dating, campus situationships, and why maybe… just maybe… nice guys are their own worst enemies.
Real talk, funny takes, and definitely some relationship debates waiting to happen.
here i unpack one of the biggest youth debates: Does money matter, or are vibes enough to win someone’s heart? Why is it that the guy with nothing but a WhatsApp bundle somehow has 3 girls calling him "babe"?
We’re talking relationships, lifestyle pressure, campus love, soft life sponsorships, and everything in between.
Are girls dating for love, lifestyle, or just WiFi?
This one’s funny, real, and probably gonna get me blocked. Let’s smoke about it
On this episode of Three Smokes with Brian Dilley, we’re diving into the chaos, confusion, and comedy of the talking stage.
Why are we texting every day, calling every night, sending “good morning, babes”… but still not dating? Is this love, vibes, or just emotional time-wasting?
I break down the stages, the ghosting, the red flags, and why you might be deep in the talking stage without even knowing it.
If you’ve ever asked, “So what are we?” and got hit with “Let’s not ruin the vibe,” — this one’s for you.
Hit play. Laugh, cry, relate.
🎧 Real talk, funny takes, and 3 smokes worth of confusion
In this debut episode, I sit down with the effortlessly real Thando Jane and Natasha (aka Mrchuck) to talk all things life, love, and the chaos in between. From the messy economic state of the world to campus crushes and the first episode of “The Boys,” we’re unpacking it all. We get into womanism, dating guys with kids (would you?), age gaps, and the little mysteries of girlhood that no one really talks about — but should.
It's laughs, side-eyes, unfiltered opinions, and just the right amount of gossip. Basically: girls being girls in the best way possible. 👀✨
Tune in for truth, trickery, and a whole lot of tea.
n this unfiltered and hilarious episode of Girls on Campus, the crew dives deep into the real (and sometimes chaotic) conversations happening between guys about university girls, dating, and modern love. We kick things off debating which campuses have the hottest girls (yep, we said it), then shift gears into the story of Slick — the guy who totally missed the signs from a girl genuinely feeling him.
From the confusion of mixed signals to deep dives into what relationships actually mean today, we keep it raw, honest, and a little wild. We talk types, dating app culture, why women dominate the like-game, and ask the big question: Is Instagram just a flex platform or lowkey a dating app now?
This episode blends humor, real talk, and big questions like:
– What kind of girls are we into?
– Why do men miss obvious signs?
– Are dating apps killing real connection?
– What’s the meaning of life... or at least dating in 2025? No filter, no script — just vibes.
We basically gonna talk about everything, Three Smokes With Brian Dilly is a platform where everything will be discussed to keep our listeners intertained, its all about fun and getting to know each other and how the world works and also with the people living in it.