In this heartfelt and transparent episode of Thee Real Joy Podcast, host Eboni sits down with Chloe, a 22-year-old navigating faith, purpose, and personal growth in her twenties. Chloe shares her journey of transformation—from leaving her job to focus on school and ministry, to confronting body image insecurities, social media pressures, and redefining what success means in this season of life.
Together, they dive into the silent struggles of young women, including the toxic “independent woman” narrative, generational misunderstandings, and the impact of curated online lives. With honesty and vulnerability, Chloe talks about friendship shifts after getting saved, learning to accept help, and how social media affected her self-esteem—and how she took her power back.
Whether you're a woman in your 20s trying to figure life out, or someone looking to understand this generation better, this episode will inspire, uplift, and ground you in real joy.
This is Chloe’s honest message to girls entering their 20s: embrace your own path, avoid comparison, and find joy in the journey.
In this episode, I open up about one of the most painful but powerful chapters of my life—my divorce. For years, I wrestled with guilt, shame, and the pressure to make something work that was slowly breaking me. But I’ve come to realize that divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of a new chapter filled with healing, clarity, and growth.
I’m sharing my story not for sympathy, but to remind anyone listening that it’s okay to choose your peace over your pain, even if it means walking away from the picture-perfect idea of “forever.”
💬 In this episode, I talk about:
✨ How my upbringing shaped my view of relationships
✨ The emotional toll of gaslighting and manipulation
✨ Letting go of the pressure to “make it work”
✨ What I’ve learned about self-worth, boundaries, and healing
✨ Why I’m choosing to pour into me before seeking love again
💡 Journal Prompt I used:
What’s something you’ve overcome that once felt impossible?
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Friendships evolve as we grow—so how do you know when it’s time to fight for a friendship or when to walk away? In this powerful episode, Brittany and I open up about the challenges of adult friendships, emotional boundaries, and outgrowing relationships.
💡 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ How friendships shift in your 30s and beyond
✅ Recognizing when a friendship is no longer serving you
✅ The importance of setting emotional boundaries
✅ How to spot one-sided friendships
✅ Navigating the guilt of outgrowing old friends
✨ This episode is for you if:
✔️ You’ve ever questioned a friendship and wondered if it’s still aligned
✔️ You struggle with setting boundaries & saying no
✔️ You’re navigating the transition from party friends to purpose-driven friendships
✔️ You want to surround yourself with friends who truly show up for you
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What happens when your body forces you to slow down? In this episode, Brittany opens up about her life-changing stroke, how it impacted her health, relationships, career, and mindset, and how she rebuilt her life through self-care.
💡 What You'll Learn in This Episode:
✅ The importance of listening to your body before it forces you to stop
✅ How Brittany's stroke led to a complete lifestyle change
✅ The truth about self-care beyond bubble baths & spa days
✅ How to recognize toxic relationships and set boundaries
✅ Why making yourself a priority is the key to showing up for others
✨ This is a must-watch for anyone feeling overwhelmed, overworked, or in need of a self-care reality check!
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In today’s episode, we have a raw and real conversation about self-care, overworking, and the health scares that wake us up. Brittany shares her eye-opening story about balancing motherhood, multiple jobs, and an exhausting lifestyle—until her body said, “Enough.”
🚨 After experiencing a stroke at a young age, Brittany was forced to rethink how she lived. She takes us through the warning signs she ignored, what happened the day of her medical emergency, and how she rebuilt her life with self-care and balance at the center.
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💡 This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like you’re running on fumes. Tune in to hear Brittany’s story and get inspired to prioritize YOU!
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In this heartfelt episode of Thee Real Joy Podcast, we dive deep into the complexities of motherhood, exploring the joys, struggles, and healing journeys that come with raising the next generation. Join us as we navigate:
🔥 Powerful Conversations About:
👑 Whether you’re a new mom, seasoned parent, or simply on a journey of self-discovery, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughs, and raw, real moments.
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In this deeply personal and raw episode, I continue my journey of grief, betrayal, and healing. I open up about the complex family dynamics I faced after my mother’s passing and how I was forced to choose myself over a toxic environment. This episode is about finding strength in isolation, breaking free from unhealthy relationships, and discovering a new support system.
I also reflect on the power of legacy—how my mother’s impact on others shaped me and continues to inspire my journey. Through journaling, healing, and self-reflection, I’ve learned that grief is an evolving process, and sometimes, we have to walk away to find peace.
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In this deeply personal and emotional episode, I open up about my journey through grief, betrayal, and healing after the loss of my mother. I reflect on the pain of losing a parent, the struggles of navigating family dynamics, and the unexpected ways grief transformed me. Inspired by Megan Thee Stallion’s documentary, I share my story of loss, resilience, and self-discovery—a story many can relate to but few openly discuss.
From feeling alienated and misunderstood to finding my path toward healing, this episode is a raw and real conversation about the complexity of grief and the emotional turmoil that comes with it. If you’ve ever experienced loss or felt alone in your healing process, this episode is for you
📌 Stay tuned for Part 2, where I dive deeper into family dynamics and support systems during grief.
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🚀 Ready to take your business to the next level? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of collaboration over competition and how working together can unlock new opportunities for success! 🙌
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✅ The REAL story behind Boussi’s name & journey 🏆
✅ How embracing COLLABORATION can elevate your brand 🔥
✅ Why competition might be holding you back 🚫
✅ Tips for small businesses, entrepreneurs, and creatives to THRIVE!
✨ Whether you’re a business owner, content creator, or entrepreneur, this conversation will shift your mindset from competition to community! Let’s grow TOGETHER!
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Sharing Everything with Jamie: A Conversation about Life and Friendship
In this episode, Thee Real Joy opens up about her deep and unfiltered friendship with Jamie. She discusses how her and Jamie meet and build their bond highlighting the trust and openness in their relationship. Viewers get a glimpse into how personal and honest their conversations can be, showcasing the strength of their unity.
In this episode, we delve into the reality of family relationships and the acknowledgment that, despite disagreements, we are bound together for life. Reflecting on past arguments, we realize the importance of accepting and valuing our familial connections.
In this episode, Thee Real Joy and Ivan recount their journey post undergrad, including pivotal summer research to graduate school opportunity and a pregnancy weeks before graduation. They discuss the unexpected hurdles of parenthood, co-parenting, and integrating into a predominantly white academic space. The video addresses the emotional and psychological strain, family dynamics, and societal challenges faced, ultimately concluding with reflections on how these experiences influence their current approach to parenting and personal growth.
In this episode, our guest, Ivan Jackson, Kalani’s dad, reflect on their decade-long journey as co-parents. They take listeners through their history, from meeting in college to the challenges and triumphs of raising their daughter. They discuss their unique relationship, navigating college as black students, and the impact of future planning. Tune in for an insightful stroll down memory lane, celebrating 10 years of parenting and personal growth.
In this emotional and inspiring episode, TheeRealJoy shares their transformative journey from a period of homelessness to becoming a successful entrepreneur. The narrative begins with the warmth and acceptance they felt moving in with a supportive friend, Jamie, and describes how they transitioned into various jobs, ultimately finding solace and passion in makeup and hairstyling. Jamie's unwavering support played a pivotal role in their growth, as did their determination to learn new skills despite initial struggles. This led to a flourishing career in beauty and hairstyling, culminating in the establishment of their own studio. This episode underscores the importance of consistency, love, and the support of a community in overcoming life's challenges. This episode serves as a testament to resilience and the power of community support.
In this episode,TheeRealJoy shares a personal battle with grief, feeling unsupported and anxious within their family dynamics. They talk about the discomfort of staying at a relative's place, feeling like an outsider rather than at home. The narrative includes a poignant moment of attempting to bring their daughter into what they hoped would be a stable environment, only to be told that the living arrangement wasn't feasible.
The Real Joy Podcast: A Journey of Self-Discovery and Resilience
In the first episode of 'The Real Joy Podcast,' host Eboni Joy, also known as The Real Joy, introduces herself and shares her journey of self-discovery and resilience. She discusses the origin of her content name, her upbringing in various states, and how the loss of her mother in 2018 profoundly impacted her life. Eboni touches on topics such as grief, empowerment, and her experiences in the corporate world and entrepreneurship. She also recounts a pivotal, life-changing night filled with emotional turmoil, domestic violence, and the challenging realization that she had to rely on herself. This episode sets the stage for future discussions on relationships, failed marriages, and much more, as Eboni strives to inspire others to find their own joy.
From struggles to lessons, from setbacks to triumphs-this podcast is my story, my journey, and a celebration with everyone who's been by my side through it all. I can't wait to share it with you. Stay tuned-this is just the beginning.