The true test of leadership lies not in seeking out a handful of innately courageous individuals, but in identifying those with a genuine willingness to learn and an open heart. Our mission, then, becomes one of transformation: taking the willing and equipping them with the skills, mindset, and confidence to become courageous. This process begins with a crucial lesson: that fear is not a wall to avoid, but a compass pointing to the challenge. You must learn to face your fear not by fighting it, but by embracing its presence as a signal, allowing you to move through it and, in doing so, discover the bravery you always possessed.

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Join us in this profound episode as we embark on a deeply meaningful exploration of two interconnected and foundational Christian values: the transformative power of Forgiveness and the healing journey of Reconciliation. We'll delve into the biblical mandates and spiritual practices that encourage us to release the burden of past hurts, extending grace to anyone who has wronged us. Beyond individual acts of letting go, we'll also examine the vital call to bridge divides and actively seek out common ground, learning to celebrate the shared humanity and diverse blessings we have in common, fostering unity in a world often fractured by disagreement."

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Preparing for marriage is more than just planning a wedding; it's about building a solid foundation for a lifetime of love, partnership, and growth.

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This episode explores the journey of becoming a mentor after benefiting from one. We're diving into what it takes to shift from being the one who's guided to the one who guides. 

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My three favourite things about being trustworthy are:

1st How I feel about myself 

2nd Other people are always looking for someone they can count on and trust.

3rd I can tell people the truth and forget about it

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My goal is simple. It’s just to tell stories and to encourage young men to make good decisions for their lives. The idea of having a vision for your life is a benefit primarily for you. It’s something that helps us stay on track with where we are headed. A vision that comprises our goals and the steps towards accomplishing them. 

Your life. Your vision.

Stop dreaming and start casting the vision for the life you want. 

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I am going to tell you about the three countries that I think everyone should visit at least once in their lifetime. And then I’m gonna tell you my five favorite areas in the United States of America. So, if you haven’t been to these eight places, consider them and let me know in the comments - maybe the top two or three places that you would like to travel to someday.

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The final F’s of success: FAITH. I’m a Christian man, but I am not here to preach to you or try to convert you in this podcast episode. I just want to share with you about my faith and the reason behind my faith. 

How, when you make an investment in someone else who can never pay you back, the credit goes to the Lord. Then you are putting treasure in heaven. No one and nobody can steal or take it away from you. 

Try to listen to the previous episodes to complete the 5 F’s of Success in Life. 

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Your challenge is to think of things that are fun but also productive. Things that help improve your day to day life. Activities  that show productivity, and  doesn't have to be boring. By weaving enjoyment into tasks that benefit you, you can make significant improvements to your daily life in a way that feels natural and energizing.

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This episode is about simplifying your financial goals. And sometimes proper mindset and discipline matters but having someone who mentors you and holds you accountable goes a long way toward achieving your goals.

We’ve got a couple of things for you to consider that will improve the finances in your life but you have to make some decisions.

When you make a decision, we want you to write them down as goals and then find someone that can hold you accountable and more importantly find a financial mentor. Someone who is not just making more money than you but someone who is achieving a lifestyle that you aspire to imitate. If you know someone and you have someone in your life that you look up to. And you think man I think I could do what they do or I think I could do something else but get what they have gotten then that is someone that you can go to and ask them to check in. You know maybe meet for a cup of coffee once a week and talk about the nuts and bolts of managing money.

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3 Basic Steps to improve your fitness. 

A. Get some exercise

B. Eat healthy

C. Get plenty of rest

Changing your habits is the most fundamental factor to achieve your fitness goals. Finding the purpose of the  whys of becoming FIT.

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Better men have a plan for both their family of origin and the family they choose. What will we do for our parents and how will we choose a wife? What is the plan for children and if we have the resources to help our siblings how can we help without enabling them to become lazy?

The biggest obstacle for abundance in life is pride. Each man who decides to lead a life that counts must replace pride with Humility.Bragging leads to destruction. 5 Definitions of Pride.#betterman #humility #accountability #mentor #wisdom

In this powerful episode of Uncle Howie’s Podcast, we dive deep into one of the most critical building blocks of becoming a better man: self-worth. Howard opens up about his own journey—from a tough childhood filled with wounds and doubt, through military success and personal struggles, to learning what real self-worth actually looks like. He shares candid stories, hard-earned wisdom, and a 5-step action plan that any man—young or old—can use to start raising his value from the inside out. Whether you’re feeling stuck, battling old wounds, or just ready to level up, this episode is a wake-up call to stop coasting and start becoming the man your family, friends, and community need.What You’ll Learn: • Why self-worth and self-esteem aren’t the same thing • How your childhood wounds might still be shaping your self-image • The truth about success: Why money and status don’t fix worthlessness • 5 practical steps to build your self-worth starting today • The critical role of mentors, community, and serving others • Why your physical health directly impacts your mindset and confidenceThis episode is dedicated to all the men who know they’re capable of more—and are ready to take that first (or next) step. Share it with a man you care about.

In this raw and deeply personal episode of Uncle Howie’s Podcast, Howard speaks directly to the hearts of young men learning how to suffer well, rise again, and stay faithful to their calling—no matter what life throws at them.

Drawing from childhood memories of being bullied, the heroic intervention of a boy named Timmy, his time as a bodyguard in the military, and the crushing grief of losing his best friend, Howard shares a message every man needs to hear: you will suffer—but it doesn’t have to define you.

Whether you’re rebuilding your life, navigating loss, facing persecution, or just trying to grow up in a world that doesn't teach young men how to endure, this episode is your invitation to rise again. Howard offers practical, faith-driven advice on:

• Why setbacks don’t disqualify you—they forge you

• How to set goals and declare them to mentors who will hold you accountable

• What it means to live a sacrificial, purposeful life as a man

• How to prepare for suffering—and overcome it

• Why “morning by morning, His mercies are new” is the fuel for daily resilience

You don’t need to be perfect to be a protector. You don’t have to win every fight to be a warrior. And you don’t have to carry your pain alone.

📌 If you’ve ever felt lost, discouraged, or like you’ve dropped the ball—this episode is for you.

In this vulnerable and hard-hitting episode, Uncle Howie tackles the invisible epidemic holding so many men back, low self-worth. From his own broken past to his hard-earned breakthroughs, he shares what it’s like to carry shame, face your failures, and still take the first step toward becoming a man who lives sacrificially for others. This isn’t a pep talk. It’s a challenge. A call to write down your new identity. To forgive yourself. To own your story and move forward. Whether you’re fresh out of a jail cell or just stuck in a cycle of self-sabotage, this episode is your reminder: you’re not as bad as you think. And today, you can start becoming the kind of man others can count on.

In this powerful and down-to-earth episode, Uncle Howie returns with a heartfelt message for men who want to grow into stronger, wiser, and more sacrificial leaders. Drawing from personal experience, scripture, and street-smart wisdom, he explores a truth many men ignore for too long: most controversy is a trap—and it’s not worth your time.

Whether it’s gossip, pointless arguments, political debates, or old family fights, Uncle Howie breaks down why men must learn to step away from useless drama and focus instead on becoming the kind of man others can count on. From writing down your personal code to finding a mentor, this episode offers five actionable steps to help you live with purpose, humility, and strength.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why avoiding conflict isn’t weakness—it’s wisdom

• How to set a clear personal code and declare it out loud

• The difference between healthy confrontation and drama addiction

• Why emotional restraint is part of becoming a stable man

• The role of faith and humility in finding your true path

• What it means to stop living for yourself and start living for others

• How to find a real mentor who’ll call you up—not just call you out

If you’re tired of letting ego and emotion run the show—and you’re ready to grow into a man who leads with calm confidence—this one’s for you.

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In this raw and deeply personal first episode of Uncle Howie, Howie opens up about his lifelong struggle with anger, violence, and what it really means to become a better man.From his first real fight at age 12 to a brutal brawl in his Army days, and finally to the shame of throwing a punch as a grown man with a wife and kids—this episode traces the journey from impulsive rage to hard-earned wisdom. Howie shares stories from a rough upbringing, over 200 fights, and a two-year voluntary anger management course that revealed the deeper wounds behind the outbursts.This isn’t just about fighting—it’s about what drives a man to lash out, and more importantly, what it takes to choose self-control, humility, and peace instead. If you’ve ever struggled with the impulse to protect, to react, or to lash out when provoked, this episode will speak to you.Key Takeaways:Why so many men use violence to solve problems—and how to break that cycleThe real root of unresolved anger and how to uncover itWhat it means to be a protector without becoming a destroyerHow accountability, community, and God’s grace can change your lifeA powerful call to make a vow: “I will be a non-violent man—unless I’m protecting my family”Whether you’re a young man navigating anger or a grown man trying to forgive and move forward, this episode offers hope, truth, and a roadmap to something better.Hit play, and give Uncle Howie half an hour—he just might change the way you handle anger forever.

Welcome to Uncle Howie, a straight-talking, wisdom-filled podcast for men who are tired of playing small and ready to grow up into the kind of man their family, their community, and their Creator can count on.Every Monday and Friday, you’ll get 20 to 30 minutes of real-life wisdom you can apply right now. No fluff. No filters. Just the truth, earned through fire and shared with heart.I’m Uncle Howie. I didn’t grow up with a silver spoon, I grew up in a broken home, in a boys’ ranch, rebuilding fences, feeding pigs on Christmas morning, and learning life the hard way. I’ve served in the Army, raised 40 kids (35 of them not mine), and lived long enough to tell you that most men don’t need more information; they need direction, accountability, and heart.This podcast is for the men who didn’t have a strong father figure… who’ve made some bad choices… who feel the pressure but want to do right… and who believe deep down that they’re made for more.Every episode, we talk about what it really takes to be a better man: faith, discipline, sacrifice, service, and stepping up when it counts. If you're not interested in growing, don't bother listening. But if you're ready to stop coasting and start leading, then this is your place.Let’s talk about goals. Let’s talk about wisdom. Let’s talk about the kind of legacy worth leaving.Because wisdom isn’t knowing something; it’s doing something with it.Subscribe now to Uncle Howie, where broken men become wise men, and wisdom turns into strength.

Most men today were raised without a strong father figure—left to figure out manhood on their own. Uncle Howie is here to help. This podcast is a guide for men who didn’t grow up with a strong father figure, offering real talk, wisdom, and mentorship to help you become the man you were meant to be.

Whether you feel like your life is out of control or you are under water, struggling to find direction, or just need the guidance you never had, Uncle Howie is your resource. No fluff—just hard-earned wisdom, straight talk, and the tools to transform your life and find your purpose. It’s time to break the cycle. It’s time to rise. Welcome to Uncle Howie.