This episode isn’t for the faint-hearted — it’s for the honest-hearted.
What if the common pattern in all your failed relationships… is you?
Not in a way that brings shame, but in a way that brings healing and growth.
In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we unpack the courage it takes to look inward, how to identify harmful behaviors, and most importantly — how to break the cycle and become emotionally healthy for real love.
🎧 Timestamps:
⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction
A heart-to-heart moment. Why this topic matters more than we admit.
⏱️ 02:40 – Facing Yourself Without Shame
📖 Romans 8:1 — “There is therefore now no condemnation…”
⏱️ 06:20 – Signs You Might Be the Common Denominator
⏱️ 11:50 – The Power of Accountability
📖 Proverbs 27:6 — “Wounds from a friend can be trusted…”
⏱️ 16:40 – Healing the Root, Not Just the Fruit
⏱️ 22:15 – Practical Steps to Grow & Heal
📖 Psalm 139:23–24 — “Search me, God, and know my heart…”
⏱️ 27:00 – Final Encouragement
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What if the question you’ve been asking — “Are they the one?” — is actually limiting your clarity?
In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we flip the script and dive into better, wiser questions that lead to real peace in godly relationships.
⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction
Why this conversation matters. Letting go of pressure, confusion, and false expectations.
⏱️ 02:30 – Why “Are They the One?” Isn’t Always Helpful
• Where the question comes from
• Why it creates pressure and anxiety
• How it leads people to ignore red flags
⏱️ 07:00 – What to Ask Instead: “Does This Relationship Reflect God’s Character?”
• Spiritual fruit vs. feelings
• The difference between peace and emotional attachment
📖 Matthew 7:16
⏱️ 12:30 – God Doesn’t Always Drop “The One”—He Teaches Us to Choose
• Free will and divine wisdom
• Ruth & Boaz: no loud prophecy, just clear alignment
📖 Proverbs 19:21
⏱️ 17:00 – Questions That Bring Clarity (Instead of Confusion)
• Are we equally yoked?
• Do they push me toward Christ or away?
• Am I more myself or more anxious around them?
⏱️ 23:30 – What If You Thought They Were “The One”… But Now You’re Not Sure?
• Discerning between emotion and instruction
• How to surrender that person to God and find peace again
⏱️ 28:00 – Final Encouragement
• God’s peace is better than your fantasy
• It’s okay to ask better questions — clarity lives there
📖 Isaiah 55:8-9
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What do you do when you truly believe God told you someone is your spouse… but now they’re engaged to someone else?
In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we dive deep into this often unspoken struggle and explore how to discern between divine direction and emotional attachment. We talk about what to do with that belief, how to heal if you’re wrong, and how to move forward in peace and truth.
🎧 Timestamps:
⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction
A real conversation for a real situation. Why this topic matters and how many believers silently wrestle with it.
⏱️ 02:50 – Can God Actually Tell You Who to Marry?
Yes, God speaks—but not always how we expect. How to discern between desire and divine instruction.
⏱️ 07:35 – Red Flag: They’re Already Engaged
Why God won’t contradict Himself. What to do when someone is already taken.
⏱️ 12:10 – Are You Projecting Your Own Desires?
The truth about obsession, fantasy, and emotional prophecy. And how your heart can deceive you.
⏱️ 18:05 – The Danger of Holding On to Prophetic Obsession
Bitterness, delay, jealousy, and spiritual confusion — the fruit of misaligned hope.
⏱️ 23:20 – What to Do Instead: How to Let Go & Heal
Practical steps to move forward with wisdom, surrender, and grace.
⏱️ 28:15 – Final Words of Encouragement
God has not forgotten you. You don’t have to fight for someone who was never yours. Let go and trust His better plan.
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You’ve done everything right — prayed, waited, stayed faithful — but you’re still single. In this episode, we get real about the struggles of waiting on God for love.
Why is it taking so long?
What should you be doing while you wait?
Is God silent or is He preparing you?
Let’s talk about the delays, the doubts, and the deep lessons in the waiting season.
This is for every single person who feels like God is taking too long. You’re not alone, and you’re not forgotten.
In this episode, we dive deep into a tough but important question: What if the one you love isn’t the one God chose for you?
You’ll learn why feelings alone aren’t enough to confirm a relationship, how to recognize when God’s peace is missing, and why God sees what we often can’t—the true heart of the person we love. We’ll talk about how disobeying God in relationships can delay your purpose and why surrendering your love to God can bring healing and clarity.
If you’re confused about a relationship or feeling torn between love and God’s will, this episode will help you find peace and direction.
This is a heart-to-heart episode filled with wisdom, truth, and clarity for anyone struggling between love and God’s will.
Dealing with Arguments in Relationships
In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most common challenges couples face—arguments. Disagreements are normal, but how you handle them can either strengthen or weaken your relationship.
We’ll talk about healthy ways to approach conflict, how to communicate without hurting each other, and the importance of seeking resolution instead of “winning.”
Tune in to learn practical tips for turning arguments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.
Let’s build stronger, more loving relationships, one conversation at a time!
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In this episode, I talked about confusion in relationships. Listen, subscribe and share with your loved ones!
Introduction to Confusion in Relationships (00:00:00)
Viki introduces the topic of confusion in relationships and welcomes listeners.
Spiritual Guidance in Relationships (00:00:53)
Vikkie emphasizes the podcast's focus on God-centered relationships.
Understanding Confusion (00:01:03)
Vikkie defines confusion in relationships and its manifestations.
Causes of Relationship Confusion (00:01:24)
Discussion on different expectations, lack of communication, and misinterpretation as confusion sources.
Impact of External Stress (00:04:00)
She explains how stress from life can affect relationships.
Influence of Past Experiences (00:05:28)
She discusses how past experiences shape reactions and perceptions in current relationships.
Story 1: The Unanswered Text (00:05:28)
A scenario illustrating miscommunication over a text message and the importance of discussing feelings.
Story 2: The Forgotten Anniversary (00:07:49)
A story about a forgotten anniversary and the significance of calm communication.
Key Lessons from the Stories (00:08:53)
Vikkie emphasizes the importance of addressing issues directly and taking accountability.
Tips for Dealing with Confusion (00:10:07)
Practical advice on communication, active listening, and addressing issues early.
Encouragement for Patience (00:11:20)
Vikkie stresses the need for patience in building healthy relationships.
Seeking External Help (00:12:32)
Advice on seeking professional help if relationship confusion persists.
Hey Fam, this is the last episode on why trust matters. In this episode we discussed how to build and maintain trust in a Godly relationship. We also looked at how to heal from a broken trust in a Godly relationship.
