This week Nicky shares the profound, humbling journey of returning to sit with Tree of Light, Noya Rao, one of the most sacred plant medicines in the Amazon.
A journey that brought her face to face with the deepest frequencies I’ve ever met in myself.
You’ll discover the deep lessons of surrender, breaking open, and remembering who we truly are beneath all the noise.
Dive in with Nicky from an Ontological and Maturation perspective.
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You’ll Learn:
My experience and deeply profound insights sitting with the Tree of Light
How the frequencies we carry in our body shape the way we experience the world
How profound healing often emerges through deep surrender, not more doing
What it means to live in alignment with a higher frequency of light
And lots more!
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Ready to Go Deeper?
Access Nicky’s FREE Discovering Freedom Masterclass:
[Secure Your Masterclass Now - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/ ]
In this powerful masterclass, you’ll:
Identify the root of the repeating patterns that have been running your life
Discover who you truly are beyond the fears and stories that have kept you stuck
Learn the foundations of the BodyMind Maturation Method™ and how to use it in your own life
Take your first step toward creating lasting freedom in your relationships, work, and self-expression
This is your invitation to go beyond surface-level change and start transforming at the root.
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Connect with Nicky:
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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This is just the beginning. And from this space, everything is possible.
When You're Growing But Your Partner Isn't?
When you’ve gone through a major internal shift, a deep healing, spiritual breakthrough, or new level of consciousness, coming back to your relationship can feel disorienting.
The intimacy that once felt familiar may suddenly feel misaligned. The old dynamics don’t fit anymore. And it can stir up fear, panic, judgement, or the urge to run.
In this episode, Nicky dives into how to stay anchored in your growth and navigate this tender threshold with awareness, integrity and truth, rather than collapsing back into old patterns or making reactive choices.
Dive in with Nicky from an Ontological and Maturation perspective.
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You’ll Learn:
Why this disconnection is not a sign that something’s wrong
How to hold the fear and survival responses that arise without abandoning yourself
Why your partner doesn’t have to be on the same timeline to grow with you.
Actions to take so that this rupture can become a portal for real evolution in your relationship
And lots more!
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Ready to Go Deeper? Access Nicky’s FREE Discovering Freedom Masterclass: Secure Your Masterclass Now
In this powerful masterclass, you’ll:
Identify the root of the repeating patterns that have been running your life
Discover who you truly are beyond the fears and stories that have kept you stuck
Learn the foundations of the BodyMind Maturation Method™ and how to use it in your own life
Take your first step toward creating lasting freedom in your relationships, work, and self-expression
This is your invitation to go beyond surface-level change and start transforming at the root.
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Connect with Nicky:
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
An Education in Being Human with Dr. David Norris
If you are looking to deepen your relationship to yourself and your reality…Dive in with Nicky Clinch and Dr. David Norris from an Ontological and Maturation perspective
In this episode, Nicky Clinch is joined by Dr. David Norris to dive into the nature of human existence, the role of context in shaping our experiences, and the evolution of education.
David shares his journey from academia to transformational education, emphasising the importance of understanding context over content in personal development.
Dive into current societal shifts, the awakening of human consciousness, the need for individuals to recognise their own power in creating their reality, and the distinction between being in love and true love.
If you’re curious about what it means to be human and want to create a much deeper understanding of yourself in the process - you’re not going to want to miss this!
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You’ll Learn:
Ways to unlock more powerful shifts by moving from content to context
How to navigate a crisis in a healing way
Why relationships are a tool for deepening consciousness and how to create this depth with another
How to shift from judging to learning
And lots more!
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky will teach you the next step to turn your integrated shifts into 3D results and change. The next step in your transformation journey!
Connect with Nicky:
Go Deeper into your Maturation - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
If you have had a huge internal shift and suddenly experience that your life doesn’t ‘fit’ anymore...What do you do?
You have outgrown your 3D reality and you are ready to step into the complete unknown.
Dive in with Nicky from an Ontological and Maturation perspective - full episode link
If you are really doing the deep inner work and shifting the magnet of your identity, then you are inevitably going to hit this point in your transformation journey. The outgrowing of your current life. And it’s good (even though it won’t feel good).
So what do you do? To pave a new 3D reality for yourself that is in alignment with the shift that has happened internally for you?
Nicky walks you through the moment you realise your ‘old life’ doesn’t fit, navigating the strong magnetic pull to go back to your old ways, and why is it that we as human beings find this kind of big change so frightening.
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You’ll Learn:
How to navigate the 3 stages of this process
Why we as human beings resist this level of huge change
Leaning into the unknown as a way to navigate this new, authentic space
How to be with the strong magnetic pull to return to your old ways
And lots more!
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky will teach you the next step to turn your integrated shifts into 3D results and change. The next step in your transformation journey!
Connect with Nicky:
Go Deeper into your Maturation - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
Do you find yourself having huge, internal breakthroughs but continuing to loop around the same patterns and cycles?
Why is it that these internal shifts are not becoming external change?
Dive in with Nicky from an Ontological and Maturation perspective - full episode link
Most people think that the ‘big pop’ at the time of a profound event is enough, but it’s not as easy as you think to start receiving a world that you are changing. In fact there is a universal block that we as human beings come up against when we try to turn our internal shifts into 3D materialised change.
Unless we take our big shift moments and let those lead conscious, vision-led action in a committed way they will never materialise.
But it is possible to create true alignment and integrated change in your life.
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You’ll Learn:
Why your inner shifts have not yet created the external results you long for
How to turn internal change into external 3D results
How to truly align your internal and external worlds
The biggest block we face when trying to turn shifts into 3D materialised change and how to overcome this
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky will teach you the next step to turn your integrated shifts into 3D results and change. The next step in your transformation journey!
Connect with Nicky:
Go Deeper into your Maturation - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
If you have been having breakthroughs and insights but your life doesn’t seem to be fundamentally changing…Integration is the missing piece.
Having enlightening experiences is not rare nowadays. You can go to an ecstatic dance or breathwork ceremony on a Friday night and have a profound experience.
But unless you integrate these high, expansive experiences, things in your world don’t fundamentally change.
Integration is when you take in this profound shift, and it becomes who you are, so that you can really see shifts in your life.
Dive in with Nicky from an Ontological and Maturation perspective - full episode link
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You’ll Learn:
What integration really means (beyond a buzz word)
What is taking place in your consciousness, sense of self, and nervous system
Why integration is the most overlooked piece of the transformational process
Practices and contexts to hold integration in a deep, embodied way
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky will teach you the next step to turn your integrated shifts into 3D results and change. The next step in your transformation journey!
Connect with Nicky:
Go Deeper into your Maturation - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
When the suffering of the world leaves us activated, enraged, or hopeless… how do we transmute that pain into action, healing, and real change?
In this episode, Nicky reveals how to be responsible for your individual heartbreak and outrage at what’s happening in the world, to become a catalyst for collective evolution and courageous leadership.
Special guest Emily Price joins Nicky to ask the difficult questions about how the world is appearing to us, navigating global conflict, and how to take responsibility for how we are showing up to create effective change. Speak specifically on current world events that so many people are incredibly activated by.
If you care about the state of our planet and species, you’re not going to want to miss this!
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Key Takeaways:
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky will teach you how to integrate transformational shifts so that your breakthroughs can move from theory to an embodied reality. Don’t miss it!
Connect with Nicky:
The moments when you feel most lost, broken, or out of control…those are actually the birthplace of your deepest transformation.
In this powerful episode, we’ll dive into the layers of our identity to reveal how ego death and the unraveling of who we think we are, can be one of the most empowering, life-changing experiences we face as humans.
Drawing on principles of quantum mechanics, psychology, and Nicky’s own extensive experience you’ll discover -
What an ego death really is beyond the stereotypical ‘identity crisis’
The process of an ego death and how to navigate this in your own life
How ego deaths are tools for deep transformation and empowerment
Why surrendering to this process if the key to real evolution
Practical, compassionate guidance to navigate the storm
And lots more!
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Key Takeaways:
- You are not broken. Ego death is not a breakdown, but a breakthrough.
- The pain and loss of control are part of a necessary healing and unfreezing process in your nervous system.
- Riding these waves with awareness and surrender leads to deep emotional maturity and genuine transformation.
- Integration is the next step! Stay tuned for Nikki’s upcoming episode on how to embody these shifts and create lasting change in your life.
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Resources & Next Steps:
Next Episode Teaser:
Nicky reveals how to consciously navigate conflict in the world right now, taking responsibility for how we are showing up to create effective change.
Connect with Nicky:
Go Deeper into your Maturation - https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/the-discovering-freedom-masterclass/
Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
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Remember:
Transformation always feels uncomfortable – until it doesn't. Your next breakthrough might just be on the other side of what feels like falling apart.
I’m delighted to offer you an interview with a beautiful multidisciplinary artist, producer, and ceremony guide, East Forest. He has just released "Music for Mushrooms," a feature-length narrative documentary showcasing the transformative power of psychedelics, music, and community. Since 2008, East Forest’s “lush” (Rolling Stone) and “blissful” (NPR) music has blended ambient, neoclassical, electronic, and avant-pop to explore sound as a tool for inner journeys and consciousness expansion.
East Forest’s approach promotes non-religious, accessible spirituality. He's a faculty member at the Esalen Institute and has collaborated with institutions across social justice, mental health, science, music, and creative fields, including Google, Johns Hopkins, UCSF, Stanford, and TED.
In this episode, we discuss the power of music and mushrooms in the process of maturation and evolving as human beings. We also invite you to sign up and watch “Music for Mushrooms” online on December 12th, as well as to listen to the” Official Documentary Soundtrack” on your favorite streaming platform.
What is Covered:
- East Forest’s background as an artist and consciousness explorer
- Building spiritual resilience at the time of collapse and learning to sit with uncomfort
- The story behind the creation of the “Music for Mushrooms” documentary
- The transformational power of music as a bridge to higher consciousness space
- Why the potential of music has been overlooked today when it’s all-present everywhere
- East Forests relationship with psychedelics and what he has learned from it
- Being in the driver’s seat as opposed to surrendering to the flow of life
- When and where you can see “Music for Mushrooms”
Resources:
- Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
- Learn more about the “Music for Mushrooms” documentary https://musicformushrooms.com
- Watch the “Music For Mushrooms” Trailer - https://youtu.be/8zC-FwDBdBQ
- Follow East Forest on IG: http://instagram.com/eastforest
- Follow East Forest on YT: http://www.youtube.com/eastforestmusic
- Listen to East Forest’s music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0okmfBroVgFuvvljnUbqPW?si=GmLomL_ZQTGtCSXYBw4Dzw
- Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
- Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
- Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
- Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
Currently, I’m going through a major transition in life. My old world is in the process of dissolving and completing, while simultaneously birthing the new one. In this phase of in-between, we are still with one foot in the old world that no longer fits, and one foot in the new world and the future. The experience is uncomfortable and awkward, but it is one that all of us have to go through multiple times during our lifetime.
So in this episode, I’m going to unpack a little this state of in-between, why it is necessary in order to create a new future, what learning and awareness we can gain from it, and how we can get closer to honesty and alignment with the truth of our heart.
What is Covered:
-The transition that is currently happening in my life
-Why the in-between phase is the only way to create new reality
-The necessary work of completion of the old before we fully step into the new
-Why is it that we don’t tell ourselves the truth?
-The power of the survival mind and why we perceive freedom as threatening
-Understanding the heart as the home to truth
-The process of maturing from the original heartbreak to returning to the heart
-A journaling exercise to explore your untold truths
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
I’m delighted to welcome Mark Groves, a Human Connection Specialist, founder of Create the Love, host of the Mark Groves Podcast, and co-author of Liberated Love onto the show. Mark's work bridges the academic and the human, inviting people to explore the good, the bad, the downright ugly, and the beautiful sides of connection.
In this episode, Mark shares his journey of maturation that led him and his wife to co-author a wonderful book that I read in one take. We discuss emotional maturation, emotional regulation and co-regulation that overcome codependency patterns, the importance of friction in a relationship, the immense impact of parental influences on our sense of being, as well as why emotional maturation is so important when running a business.
What is Covered:
-The relationship experience that led Mark on the path of emotional exploration and maturation
-Why our emotional journey always leads back to the relationship with parents or caregivers
-Why it’s said that love and trauma are next door neighbours
-How relationship friction enables us to grow in love
-Transformation from codependency to co-regulation in a relationship
-The importance of emotional maturation in parenthood
-The connection between money, love and intimacy
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Mark’s Websites: https://markgroves.com/ + https://createthelove.com/
-Liberated Love by Mark Groves and Kylie McBeath https://markgroves.com/book
-Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl https://www.amazon.com/Mans-Search-Meaning-Viktor-Frankl/dp/0807014273/
-How Emotions are Made by Lisa Feldman Barrett https://www.amazon.com/How-Emotions-Are-Made-Secret/dp/0544133315
-The Mark Groves Podcast: https://markgroves.com/podcast/
-Find Mark on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@markgroves
-Follow Mark on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/createthelove
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
The quality of communication is a fundamentally important piece to having nourishing, safe, conscious and present relationships. Whether that is in love, in friendships, with family members, co-workers or teachers, the quality of our relationships is what brings us the most fulfilment in life.
But why is it that we struggle so much with relationships? And why is communication the number one problem in failing relationships, a piece that breaks down trust, intimacy and connection?
Let's dedicate this episode to the power of communication. We're going to dive deep into conscious listening, conscious speaking, and how we can get better at it to allow ourselves to experience more love, more compassion, connection and peace in our relationships.
What is Covered:
-What we are doing when we are communicating
-The most common problems we experience in our relationships
-Why most people have no idea how to listen to another person
-How our past experiences shape what we hear when we’re listening
-What conscious, present listening is
-What makes us say what we say when we are speaking
-A journaling exercise to help you bring more consciousness to your listening and speaking patterns
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
I cannot tell you how many people say to me:
“I'm ready for divine love. Why do I keep ending up in relationships that are disappointing, with people who betray me, are narcissists, don't see me, where I feel unloved and unwanted? Why do I keep repeating the same old stuff no matter what I do, when I'm so ready for my divine love?”
And my answer to that declaration is, are you REALLY ready? In this episode, we’re going to dive into the source of patterns that keep repeating in our relationships. And we’re going to learn why taking 100% responsibility for our complaints is the only way that will bring us closer to the love we seek.
What is Covered:
-Recognising the familiar repeating complaints in our relationships
-Recognising the common element of all the complaints
-Why we so often identify with our suffering and pain
-What happens when we take 100% responsibility for our repeating patterns
-How to overcome the fear of detaching from our patterns
-Journaling prompts to help you work through your relationship patterns
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
Today, I’m going to share with you all about my journey with my body transformation. Since October last year to today, I have lost almost 40 pounds, and I am only 5’3”, so that’s a lot of weight that I was carrying as a very small Asian woman.
Although I have worked really intentionally to get here, I’ve hesitated to share this story. One of the reasons is because I don't want to feed any part of the human psyche that obsesses with external perfection, believing that if we achieve it, then we'll finally be free of the unworthiness that we feel. I also don't want to say that the solution to that is to just put on loads of weight and tell ourselves that we're still lovable and worthwhile, and that we don't need to shape ourselves.
I actually want to go way deeper into this story and share, from an ontological context, how and why I got overweight in the first place, and what kind of transformation has taken place in order to release that weight and everything that I carried with it.
What is Covered:
-How I got 40 pounds overweight
-The connection between our external and internal shape
-What kind of emotional weight our external weight may be hiding
-Why my weight persisted even though I ate healthy and exercised regularly
-The events that led me onto the journey of my body transformation
-The moment when the weight actually started dropping off my body
-How releasing the weight created more space for love and light to enter my BodyMind
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
The level of chaos on our planet right now is extreme. There are intense levels of chaos happening between countries, between political parties, between religions, between parents and their children. And let's not forget the chaos that is happening inside our own selves.
So chaos is very prevalent, but is somehow eradicating it from our lives the only way we can have peace? Or if we are addicted to chaos, can we feel alive at all without it? In this episode, I want to talk about how we can transcend our current old paradigm of relationship to chaos, so that we don't have to live a life free of chaos, but that we can be with chaos and be free.
What is Covered:
-Why chaos is perceived as a threat to our survival
-Examples of childhood experiences that can affect our relationship to chaos
-Why we are not equipped to have an empowered relationship to chaos
-Why chaos on our planet is increasing
-How the Earth’s electromagnetic field affects what is happening internally in our BodyMind
-How we can transcend the increasing chaos externally and internally
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
Today, we’re going to dive into identity politics. And if you are in the US, you cannot deny that it is happening everywhere in the political landscape. But what I want to do is blow up that whole system altogether and look at what's keeping us trapped in the same familiar form of suffering no matter what side we choose.
Currently on our planet, the different worldviews that we identify with are so rampant in the battles we are fighting against each other. In fact, we are currently in a war - the war on the human mind. What’s winning that war is not the “right” viewpoint, but the fact that we as a species don't realise that we are trapped in a particular set of blindspots. So that’s what I’m going to unpack in today’s episode, and invite you to feel more compassion for yourself and someone else who is of a different self-worldview than you.
What is Covered:
-The essence of identity politics and why they keep us trapped
-Is there the “right” belief and the “right” viewpoint?
-Why nothing seems to be changing no matter which worldview we choose
-The blindspots that keep us trapped in the paradox of identity politics
-Paul Levy’s teachings in “The Quantum Revelation”
-What self-worldview is and why we can’t see our own context
-How we can be manipulated if we are not conscious of identity mechanisms
-Why we feel so threatened when our worldview is challenged
-How we can start gaining more consciousness, more power and cultivate more compassion towards different self-worldviews
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-“The Quantum Revelation”, a book by Paul Levy https://www.amazon.com/Quantum-Revelation-Radical-Synthesis-Spirituality/dp/1590794486
-Episode 017 What Creates Reality? What Creates Paradigm? https://player.captivate.fm/episode/063aa15f-03c8-4a3e-adfb-7b4e5c5a964f/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
When we are experiencing challenges in our lives, whether it’s with health, or relationships, or just what is true for us, one thing to consider is asking ourselves where we can be responsible. When we are stuck in pain and suffering, are we blaming someone else for our experience, or are we ready to learn and grow and mature from it? Because the hard part to understand is that we actually get to choose how our reality appears to us.
In this episode, we’re going to first dive into this attachment to suffering, and explore what we are magnetising and emanating right now. We’re going to look into the things that keep repeating in our lives, bringing consciousness to what we are actually emanating, in order to arrive at what we want to be emanating.
What is Covered:
-Why we tend to be so addicted to pain and suffering
-The split way of being and our oscillating between opposing desires
-How to be honest with ourselves without blame, shame and guilt
-How the world that we are seeing is created moment by moment
-Understanding emanation and what you are emanating right now
-Journaling exercise: what do you want to be emanating?
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Episode 050 Aesthetic Intelligence: What Are We Emanating to the World? With Nicholas Onken https://player.captivate.fm/episode/901998c8-97b2-4be3-8f50-07617ba63e80/
-Episode 012 Blaming vs. Learning: Do THIS to Grow Exponentially https://player.captivate.fm/episode/4487df95-d4fc-458f-ba37-c0ab0cc2777b/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
Whether they are running their own business or working in a company, one of the hardest pieces that I see people struggling with is their relationship to their work.
So, we either love our job, but we burn out doing it. Or we feel pressured in it - we love it, but it also makes us feel trapped. Or we work in jobs where we feel unfulfilled, or we find ourselves repeating the same patterns in jobs, no matter how many times we change jobs or change industries, or change our behaviours when it comes to running our own businesses.
It seems like the way that we're in relationship with business and work has a familiarity to how we are in relationship with ourselves. So I want to use this episode to dive into our relationship with business and work from an ontological context.
What is Covered:
-The connection between the way we are in our work and our original family dynamic
-Why we seem to always end up in the same job and the same team regardless of the company or the industry
-How our mind as a pattern recognition device acts in work environment
-Why we can’t recognise our parents in our bosses and coworkers
-How to begin solving the repeating work patterns
-Journaling question: what is your biggest struggle in work at this moment? How familiar is that to your original family dynamics?
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
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Today I have one of my favourite humans, and by far one of the most creative people I’ve ever met on the podcast. Nicholas Onken is known as the photographer of some of the world's most highly acclaimed entrepreneurs like Jay Shetty, Lewis Howes, Gabby Bernstein and more. Nick is a Creative Alchemist whose professional and commercial repertoire has no template or limits. His portfolio of photographed personalities includes Justin Bieber, Usher, Tom Hanks, Jessica Alba, and Tony Robbins, to name a few. He has been commissioned by top-tier brands such as Nike, Coca-Cola, Adidas and publishers such as Cosmopolitan, Conde Nast Traveller, and Marie Claire. He designs incredible hats that are worn by artists, thought leaders and creatives. Identity Alchemy, a concept coined by Nick, is a powerful mix of personal growth and personal branding.
In this episode, we talk about Nick’s inspiring personal journey, the concept of aesthetic intelligence, our upcoming joint mastermind, and why we need to take ownership of both our internal and external expression to create the impact and influence that we desire in the world.
What is Covered:
-How I met Nick and his incredible background story
-The journey of Nick’s breaking free from the strict religious conditioning he was brought up with
-How he started photographing and made it big as a photographer
-What happened next and why Nick’s identity as a photographer became unsustainable
-What Identity Alchemy is
-What aesthetic intelligence is
-My own experience of working with Nick and transforming my personal brand
-How the external expression of a brand impact the human brain and decision-making
-Nick’s journaling prompts to explore what you want to emanate to the world
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Follow Nick Onken at https://www.instagram.com/nickonken/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
If you've been in the world of self-development or if you're new to it, you would have heard the term boundaries, and why they are important.
But today I want to take the conversation around boundaries a little deeper. I want to create a distinction of what boundaries actually are, what happens when we set them, where we start with setting them, what happens when we don’t set them, and why they are a true act of love and a gateway to compassion.
What is Covered:
-What boundaries are and how they create clarity
-Boundaries and self-awareness
-How to honour and take action on our boundaries
-Why we don’t set boundaries and what happens then
-How resentment and anger can lead us to recognise where we need to set boundaries
-Why setting clear boundaries is an act of love
-How strong boundaries can make us more compassionate
Resources:
-Access our ’21 days of Expansion’ Audio Activation Process gift: https://nickyclinch.lpages.co/podcast-gift-21-days/
-Visit my website: https://nickyclinch.com/
-Find me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nicky_clinch/
-Find me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nickyclinchmaturation
-Let's connect on LinkedIn: https://uk.linkedin.com/company/nicky-clinch-surrender
