In this installment of of Kink Journeys, I sit down with BDSM educator and certified life coach, Jonnyace. Together, we explore the power of consent, the importance of community, and why representation for sadists matters. Jonnyace shares their path from martial arts and polyamory to kink community educator and shaped their identity as a sadist, daddy, and dominant. Honest stories. Fresh perspectives. Real kink journeys.
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In this episode of The Good Love Podcast, I interview the founder of Denver's House of Pleasure, Mistress Pain. Mistress Pain shares her Kink Journey from trying to 'pray the gay way' to creating spaces of erotic exploration and self expression. We also discuss her community vision focused on female pleasure and how many of us connect with sex-positive spaces as a form of ministry and fellowship.
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In my last episode we did a deep-dive for International Female Orgasm Day, including busting through some of the many misconceptions around female sexuality. So this week, I'm bringing on my friend and colleague, Sex Coach Same, to unpack some of the inaccurate and harmful messaging around male sexuality. Whether it's misinformation from society, media or pressure we put on ourselves, we can break the cycles and Sam was happy to share to tools to do this vital self-work.
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August 8th is International Female Orgasm Day! So I’m diving into history, bad science, and reclaimed pleasure. Where did this holiday came from? What is the orgasm gap (and why does it still exist)? How can we push back against a society that tries to control our sexuality? I'm unpacking all these questions and more. If you’ve ever been curious about the clit, the G-spot, or why pleasure still feels taboo—this one’s for you!
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In this episode (recorded live at DomCon LA) I interview Lady Sheba, a powerful Black kink educator and leather community photographer. Sheba shares her journey from curious submissive to confidence-wielding Dominant, exploring how kink helped her reclaim her femininity after trauma. Together we discuss the challenges Black women face in kink spaces, the importance of representation, mentorship, and community accountability, and Sheba’s inspiring photography project for the Carter-Johnson Leather Library & Collection, documenting influential figures in the Leather and BDSM worlds. We also gush about our visit to the iconic Tom of Finland House and the importance of preserving kink history.
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In this powerful episode, I talk with Berlin-based kink artist and educator, Sven Brandy aka "Carnivore". Sven shares his journey from nude photography to immersive kink art, emphasizing consent, authenticity, and cultural differences in kink between Europe and the US. They discuss "play shooting," the art of integrating photography with interactive kink, and dive deep into Edgeplay, safety, preparation, and ritual. Sven also shares his teaching philosophy, upcoming projects, and insights into building supportive kink communities. Whether you're curious about kink artistry or advanced edge play, this episode offers grounded, inspiring wisdom from decades of lived experience.
This is part one of a two hour interview, listen to the full version on Patreon!
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Kat is joined by two guests, Smokey the Babe and Vana X . They dive deep into the evolution of embracing one’s true self within the kink community, share their personal journeys, and discuss the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent. From nostalgic stories of discovering kink to navigating the complexities of relationship dynamics, this conversation is full of playful insights and candid reflections. So, get comfortable, open your mind, and enjoy this thought-provoking session with Kat, Smokey and Vana!
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In this episode of the Good Love Project Podcast, Katrina and Charlie dive into the importance of solo exploration and how it can deepen self-awareness, boost confidence, and enhance both personal and partnered pleasure. They debunk common myths—like the idea that solo pleasure is just a "substitute" or a sign of dissatisfaction—and talk about shifting the mindset to embrace self-connection without guilt. You'll hear tips for unlearning shame-based habits, creating a pleasure-positive space, and exploring at your own pace. Plus, discover Katrina’s 30 Days of Solo Tantra playlist on YouTube for guided practices to support your journey.
Welcome to another insightful episode of The Good Love Podcast, where we delve into the realms of personal growth, relationships, and confidence. In today's episode, "Pleasure Mapping," your hosts, Katrina Boots Rainsong and the ever-insightful Charlie Sharp, explore the concept of understanding desires and boundaries through the creation of a "Pleasure Map." This episode serves as a personal guide to discovering what brings you joy and comfort, both physically and emotionally, while establishing clear boundaries to ensure safe and enriching experiences. As always, we bring to the table powerful discussions and practical exercises designed to inspire confidence and joy in both solo adventures and partnerships. We'll also touch on recent developments in digital privacy and free speech challenges, offering a unique perspective on how these factors intertwine with sexual education. So, get comfortable, and let's embark on this journey of self-discovery and empowerment together.
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In this episode, Kat and Charlie tackle the complex and often silenced topic of sexual shame. Listen in as they deconstruct societal myths around non-normative sexual preferences, explore the damaging impact of cultural and religious expectations, and emphasize the importance of embracing your authentic self.
With personal insights, candid discussions, and a touch of humor, they'll challenge the notion that there's a "right" way to have sex and shine a light on how misinformation fuels feelings of unworthiness. From addressing body image issues to sharing actionable tips for overcoming shame, today's conversation is all about fostering self-acceptance and open dialogue.
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Curious about kink? This bonus episode offers an exclusive excerpt from Katrina's popular "Intro to Kink" class, where you'll get a glimpse into the essentials of consent, communication, and creativity in BDSM. It’s a tantalizing taste of the full recorded class, available to Patreon subscribers in the "Let's Go Steady" tier. If you're ready to explore your desires in a shame-free, supportive space, this sneak peek is just the beginning of what you'll unlock when you join our community of Good Lovers on Patreon.
Happy New Year, It's Season Three! We're trying something new this year; themed seasons to boost your learning and inspiration!
Sexual confidence is about more than just feeling good in the bedroom—it’s a foundation for authentic self-expression and deeper connections in all areas of life. In this episode, we explore what sexual confidence looks like, why it’s essential, and how it can transform your relationships and self-esteem. Join Kat and Charlie for an empowering discussion filled with personal stories, expert insights, and practical tips to help you embrace your desires with ease and joy. Whether you're just starting your journey or looking to deepen your confidence, this episode is for you!
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In today's episode (which is a past recording), Katrina and Charlie are feeling a little under the weather after getting their COVID boosters in preparation for the highly anticipated Sex Geek Summer Camp. But don't worry, they're not letting a little vaccine fatigue stop them from bringing you some juicy content!
Get ready for a laid-back episode as our hosts lounge around with their microphones, offering their thoughts and advice on a variety of Reddit posts. From discussing the complexities of sexual communication and the importance of vocalization during intimacy to challenging societal stereotypes about masculine and feminine expression in the bedroom, Katrina and Charlie are here to provide their unique perspectives.
So, grab your favorite blanket, curl up on the couch, and join Katrina and Charlie for a cozy, informative, and slightly silly episode of The Good Love Podcast!
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In today's episode, we're excited to welcome a very special guest, Amy the Poly Realtor, who's not only a kinkster and current president of Arizona Power Exchange but also a proud, self-identified Cuckquean!
Amy opens up about her unique relationship dynamics and discusses the nuanced differences between cuckqueaning and other forms of non-monogamy based kinks such as Cuckold and Hot-Wifing, shedding light on topics of humiliation, degradation, and the joy in her particular lifestyle. We also touch on the importance of boundaries, honesty, and the emotional considerations essential in non-monogamous relationships.
Furthermore, Amy shares insights into navigating feminism and agency while embracing non-standard relationship roles and kinks, adding layers to how identities and desires intersect in complex and fascinating ways. From handling jealousy in polyamorous arrangements to finding resources for unconventional relationship structures, this episode is packed with honest reflections and practical advice.
Settle in as we explore these intimate topics with candor and warmth, and don't forget to stay tuned till the end for some lighthearted banter about "cuckcake" designs and the unexpected wisdom found in trying new things—like tapioca pudding! Whether you're familiar with the kink scene or just curious about different relationship dynamics, today's episode promises to enlighten and entertain.
This week, I bring my girlfriend on to talk about the (infamous?) PornHub year-in-review report! We pore over the intricacies of global and US search terms, laughing our way through state-specific curiosities—from car sex in sunny Arizona to body swap fantasies in the hustle of New York—while exploring the shifts in our online desires. Charlie tries not to tell on herself with her interests and I go on a mini-rant about my love/hate feels for "gangbang" content. We're lifting the veil on what terms lead the charts in adult content and dissecting what this might tell us about societal shifts and cravings.
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It's Season Two of The Good Love Podcast, where we dive deep into the world of intimacy, relationships, and everything in between!
For this 15th episode, I have a special treat for you. Joining me in the studio is the ever-insightful Vana X, here to explore the multifaceted world of kink and BDSM. We share our laughter over a foiled attempt to shoot a movie review YouTube episode, leading us to an impromptu sneak peak critiquing the controversial "50 Shades of Grey."
We'll also unravel the complex and often misunderstood world of primal play, discussing how it breaks down gender roles and embraces the true essence of adult play.
Nirvana is not just here to share her cinematic tastes but also her transition from a sensual "baby girl" to a confident Dom, specializing in practices like ball busting and CBT. Meanwhile, I'll give you a glimpse into my journey of kink education, from acquiring books on bondage to navigating fetish magazines before the digital age dominated our learning.
Expect anecdotes from our past—including working at a strip club and some surprise kink requests in the VIP room —and our exciting encounters with the renowned Midori. We'll also touch on the evolution of finding like-minded individuals, from clandestine newspaper ads name dropping mainstream movie titles as secret kinky codes, and how media has influenced the perception and conversation of kink over the years.
Get ready for an honest conversation about everything from the necessity of consent and the danger of absolutes to the importance of self-discovery in the ever-evolving landscape of alternative lifestyles.So, plug in your headphones, get comfortable, and join us for a journey through the gray areas of sexuality that promise to be as enlightening as it is titillating.
This is The Good Love Podcast, where no topic is off-limits and all curiosities are welcome. Let's get started!
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In today's episode titled "Pleasure in Restraint: Exploring the Depths and Rewards of Chastity Fetish", we delve into the intriguing world of chastity kink. We explore the concept of chastity, its origins, and the reasons why some people find pleasure in the erotic denial of sexual activity. We uncover the intimate connections and power dynamics that can come into play within the realm of chastity kink. Whether it's about trust, submission, or enhancing pleasure, there is much to discover. We'll also address the misconceptions surrounding chastity, debunking the notion that it is strictly for cisgender men. We discuss the various devices available and the importance of safety in engaging with chastity play.
So, get ready to unlock the secrets behind chastity kink in this eye-opening episode of The Good Love Podcast.
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My spicy model friend, Kinky Kupcake, joined me to watch Luis Buñuel's French erotic-drama classic Belle de Jour (1967), starring Catherine Deneuve as Severine, a kink-curious young woman who takes on a double life to explore her fantasies of submission and degradation.
Get a taste of my new series "Bad B*tch BDSM Reviews" where I bring on guests to react and review kinky cinema classics. Conversational topics include: Lust vs Love, Shame, and the power of erotic fantasy!
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Last week, I got to chat with one of my favorite kink educators, Professional Disciplinarian and self-described "Dominurtrix", Miss Chris! We talk about the variety of Domestic Dynamics one can explore and disspell some of the many misconceptions around her favorite actvity... Spanking!
Whether you're a full-on Spanko, or just a bit curious, you're going to love this fun and down to earth conversations with the incomparable and imaginative Miss Chris!
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