We’re back! 🎉 I’m so excited to kick off Season Two of the podcast, and I couldn’t think of a better way to begin than with a powerful conversation about letting go of the past. In this episode, we’ll explore how holding on can weigh us down, and how releasing what no longer serves us opens the door to peace, growth, and new opportunities.
Season Two is going to be full of insight, inspiration, and real conversations—I can’t wait for you to hear what’s ahead!
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📚 And if you haven’t already, now’s the perfect time to go back and listen to the episodes from Season One—they’ll give you even more encouragement and context as we step into this new season together.
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In this episode, we’re getting real about the art of vetting men. It’s time to stop confusing chemistry with compatibility and start asking the right questions before getting emotionally invested. I’m breaking down red flags, green flags, and the power of observing versus assuming. Whether you’re dating for fun or looking for something serious, this episode will help you move with more clarity and confidence. No more wasted time—The Girl I Got You is about leveling up, and it starts with who you allow access to your heart.
In this short but soul-nourishing episode, we’re holding space for you—yes, you. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself or struggling to remember your worth, press play. This episode is filled with gentle affirmations to remind you of your beauty, strength, and undeniable value. We’ll close with a heartfelt prayer—spoken just for you—to center your spirit and realign you with the love and respect you deserve, first from yourself and then from the world.
Take a deep breath. You’re not alone.
Let this be your moment of grace.
Affirmations. Healing. Truth.
Girl, I got you.
In this deeply personal episode of Elle Off Script, I’m peeling back the layers and letting you in on what March really looked like for me—no filters, no fluff. From the heartbreak of losing my dog, to navigating an unsavory sexual experience that left me questioning more than just consent, to dealing with the sting of being forgotten by family members who should know better… this one’s not easy, but it’s real.
If you’ve ever felt invisible, broken, or like life just won’t let up, this episode is for you. We’re not just surviving—we’re processing, healing, and holding space for every version of ourselves along the way.
Trigger Warning: This episode includes mentions of grief, sexual trauma, and emotional family dynamics.
In this Women’s History Month episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we’re diving deep into the controversy surrounding what it means to be a woman in today’s world. With so many conflicting narratives, social media illusions, and cultural shifts, the definition of womanhood has never been more debated.
We’ll break down the misconceptions, calling out the toxic archetypes that distort the true essence of femininity—those who glorify materialism, manipulation, and self-serving agendas under the guise of “empowerment.” Then, we’ll shift gears and talk about what real womanhood looks like—the strength, grace, integrity, and depth that define a good woman in today’s society.
Let’s get real, raw, and honest about what it means to be a woman in 2025. Tune in and let’s talk!
Also Watch:
God Is Coming Against These Types of Women
https://youtu.be/VxwYkxsy0lE?si=6o-cTg2w85C8WJXe
When God Used Women to Build The Ark
https://youtu.be/JoJrreRY0IQ?si=EQ8XG9Ajdas87E0l
Proverbs 3: 15-19
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She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her.
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Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor.
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Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace.
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She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her; those who hold her fast are called blessed.
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The Lord by wisdom founded the earth; by understanding he established the heavens;
📕 New Book:
“ He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not”, a few lessons for the hopeless romantic and survivors of narcissistic and childhood abuse ✨
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In this powerful 3-part series, we’re diving deep into the raw, unfiltered truth about letting go of New Age spirituality, witchcraft, and the tangled allure of sorority life. Join me as I unpack my personal experiences, the spiritual battles I faced, and the awakening that led me to denounce practices that once held me captive.
But more importantly, this series is about redemption and renewal. It’s about giving God a real chance to heal, transform, and guide your life toward peace and purpose. Whether you’re feeling lost, curious, or just ready for something real—Girl, I Got You.
Key Points:
Exposing the seductive appeal of New Age practices, witchcraft, and the influence of sorority life. What I thought was empowering turned out to be spiritually draining.
The emotional and spiritual struggle of leaving it all behind. The pain, the doubt, and the courage it took to walk away from what I thought was my identity.
How true healing began when I opened my heart to God. Finding purpose, peace, and power in His presence.
Tune in as I share my testimony and offer encouragement to anyone feeling trapped by the lies of this world. It’s time to reclaim your peace and walk boldly in your God-given purpose.
In this powerful 3-part series, we’re diving deep into the raw, unfiltered truth about letting go of New Age spirituality, witchcraft, and the tangled allure of sorority life. Join me as I unpack my personal experiences, the spiritual battles I faced, and the awakening that led me to denounce practices that once held me captive.
But more importantly, this series is about redemption and renewal. It’s about giving God a real chance to heal, transform, and guide your life toward peace and purpose. Whether you’re feeling lost, curious, or just ready for something real—Girl, I Got You.
Key Points:
Exposing the seductive appeal of New Age practices, witchcraft, and the influence of sorority life. What I thought was empowering turned out to be spiritually draining.
The emotional and spiritual struggle of leaving it all behind. The pain, the doubt, and the courage it took to walk away from what I thought was my identity.
How true healing began when I opened my heart to God. Finding purpose, peace, and power in His presence.
Tune in as I share my testimony and offer encouragement to anyone feeling trapped by the lies of this world. It’s time to reclaim your peace and walk boldly in your God-given purpose.
In this powerful 3-part series, we’re diving deep into the raw, unfiltered truth about letting go of New Age spirituality, witchcraft, and the tangled allure of sorority life. Join me as I unpack my personal experiences, the spiritual battles I faced, and the awakening that led me to denounce practices that once held me captive.
But more importantly, this series is about redemption and renewal. It’s about giving God a real chance to heal, transform, and guide your life toward peace and purpose. Whether you’re feeling lost, curious, or just ready for something real—Girl, I Got You.
Key Points:
Exposing the seductive appeal of New Age practices, witchcraft, and the influence of sorority life. What I thought was empowering turned out to be spiritually draining.
The emotional and spiritual struggle of leaving it all behind. The pain, the doubt, and the courage it took to walk away from what I thought was my identity.
How true healing began when I opened my heart to God. Finding purpose, peace, and power in His presence.
Tune in as I share my testimony and offer encouragement to anyone feeling trapped by the lies of this world. It’s time to reclaim your peace and walk boldly in your God-given purpose.
On this raw and unfiltered episode of Elle Off Script, I’m spilling some real tea. This isn’t just a heartbreak story—it’s a scandalous chapter of my life where I found myself catching feelings for someone I had no business falling for: a pimp. Yeah, you read that right. It was messy, complicated, and more than a little bit toxic. But in the chaos, I found clarity. I’ll walk you through the emotional whirlwind, the hard truths, and the struggle to chose me over the madness. Sometimes, love is about walking away to save yourself. Let’s get real.
Songs:
Beyoncé- If I Were a Boy
Lei Soul- Intergalactic Janet
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In this episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we’re diving into one of the most transformative acts of self-love: becoming your own best friend. It’s easy to show up for others, but what about showing up for yourself? We’ll explore practical steps to nurture a healthy, loving relationship with yourself, from silencing your inner critic to celebrating your wins—big or small. Tune in as we chat about embracing solitude, setting boundaries, and learning to enjoy your own company. Ready to start treating yourself like the VIP you are? Girl, I got you!
Narcissistic Abuse Power Point:
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Song: Beyoncé- Me, Myself & I
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March is here, and with it comes fresh energy, new beginnings, and the perfect moment to dream big. In this episode of Elle Off Script, we’re embracing the season of renewal—shedding the weight of doubt, leaning into transformation, and daring to believe that the best is yet to come.
We’ll unpack the beauty-for-ashes concept—how life’s hardest moments can give rise to something greater. From childhood reflections to rediscovering lost connections, this is a heart-to-heart about growth, healing, and stepping into the fullness of who you’re meant to be.
No scripts, no filters—just real talk, raw insights, and a reminder that even after the storm, there’s always beauty waiting to bloom. Let’s get into it!
Have you ever felt like the odd one out? Like no matter how hard you try, you just don’t quite fit in? Maybe you’ve faced rejection—whether it was from a sorority you hoped to join, friendships that made you feel like an afterthought, partners who discarded you or spaces that never seemed to embrace you. In this episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we’re diving deep into the journey of learning to be alone—and actually loving it.
I’ll share my own experiences with rejection, the sting of not belonging, and the hard, yet necessary, lesson of becoming my own best friend. We’ll talk about why being different is a gift, how solitude can be empowering instead of isolating, and the steps to truly enjoying your own company. If you’ve ever struggled with feeling overlooked or out of place, this episode is for you.
So grab your favorite drink, get cozy, and let’s talk about how to thrive alone—because girl, I got you.
How To Be Alone By Andrea Dorfman:
https://youtu.be/k7X7sZzSXYs?si=m828wGBJkEp5yX47
Narcissistic Abuse Seminar:
https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-truth-about-narcissistic-abuse-tickets-1259731864919
The “Girl I Got You” Women’s Group:
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In this episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we’re diving deep into the growing disconnect between Black men and Black women. From miscommunication to societal pressures, we unpack the wounds, expectations, and healing necessary to bridge the gap.
Joining me is Dr. Julio, a TikTok influencer with over 80K followers and millions of views, known for his raw and thought-provoking takes on sociopolitical issues, relationships, history, modern dating and beyond. Together, we explore the root causes of this divide—cultural shifts, social media influence, and unspoken generational trauma—while also discussing how we can rebuild trust and unity within our community.
It’s time for a real, unfiltered conversation. Are we really at war with each other, or is there a way forward? Tune in for insight, truth, and maybe even some solutions.
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Valentine’s Day just hit different this year! In this Elle Off Script episode, I’m spilling all the details about our Girls’ Night Event—the sisterhood, the fun, and the gems we dropped about self-love and healing.
I’m also sharing a personal testimony about growth, resilience, and how trusting in God has shaped my journey. And let’s be real—watching an ex move on can stir up some feelings, but we’re flipping the script. Instead of looking back, we’re leaning into our worth, our dreams, and our divine purpose.
This one’s for the woman who’s learning to let go, level up, and love herself harder than ever. Tap in and let’s talk about the beauty of becoming the woman God called you to be!
Welcome back to The Girl I Got You Podcast! In Part 2 of our deep dive into narcissistic abuse, we’re peeling back the layers on healing, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your power. If you’ve ever felt trapped in a toxic cycle, this episode is your roadmap to freedom.
We’ll discuss:
✨ Recognizing manipulation tactics and gaslighting
✨ The emotional aftermath of narcissistic abuse
✨ Practical steps to rebuild self-worth and confidence
✨ How to cut ties and protect your peace
Plus, I’ll be sharing insights from The Spiritual Whistleblower, Lisa Romano, Dr. Ramani, Kati Morton, Jerry Wise and others whose work on narcissism and healing has been a game-changer. Check out their content here:
The SWB: https://youtu.be/fD7Doz0vLo4?si=tWHtZB0LL3rcgGR3
Lisa Romano: https://youtu.be/XRICIFc1Nb4?si=zb7-IDqapWG_cFed
Kati Morton: https://youtu.be/XRICIFc1Nb4?si=zb7-IDqapWG_cFed
Dr. Ramani: https://youtu.be/FVQQrejh8F4?si=Xgz0GzV_VhPfutpj
Jerry Wise: https://youtu.be/RMcC2qQlG-o?si=rSaACfe-PrxMS4KW
Other Resources:
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8YfgFYE/
Ready to step into your power? Press play, and let’s talk about it!
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Welcome to the first official episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast’s Love Series—where we dive deep into the realities of love, relationships, and self-worth. In this two-part episode, we’re pulling back the curtain on narcissism and narcissistic abuse—what it is, how to recognize it, and the emotional toll it takes.
In Part One, we break down the what narcissism is, traits of narcissistic personalities, the red flags of manipulation, and the psychological impact of being in a relationship with a narcissist. Whether it’s a partner, friend, or family member, narcissistic abuse can be subtle yet deeply damaging. But here’s the good news—you are not alone, and healing is possible.
Join me as we have a raw, insightful conversation about gaslighting, emotional abuse, and the cycle of control, and most importantly, how to take back your power. If you’ve ever questioned your reality in a relationship, this episode is for you. Let’s get real, let’s get healing—girl, I got you.
Tune in and don’t forget to subscribe for Part Two, where we’ll discuss breaking free, setting boundaries, and reclaiming your peace! ✨
Valentine’s Day Event: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/valentines-day-girls-night-tickets-1220446029929?aff=oddtdtcreator
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Welcome back to The Girl I Got You Podcast! Today is extra special because we’re launching a brand-new segment—Elle Off Script! This is where we ditch the outline, drop the filter, and just talk—real-time insights, raw emotions, and unfiltered thoughts. You’ll still get the scripted, deep-dive episodes you love, but with Elle Off Script? We’re keeping it real, spontaneous , and in the moment. On today’s episode, I dive into victim complexes, not being nice to men, and so much more. Do yourself a favor and listen because I know you want to girl.
In this episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, your host Elyssa Kadija dives deep into the transformative power of letting people go. With January already flying by, it’s the perfect time to reevaluate your relationships and ensure they align with your growth. Leveling up in life often means releasing those who no longer serve your journey. Join us as we explore why it’s okay to walk away from people who don’t contribute to your purpose, how to embrace change, and strategies to surround yourself with the right energy for your personal evolution. Grab your notebook, get cozy, and remember; Girl I Got You ✨
In this heartfelt episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we dive deep into the meaning of love—what it truly is and how to identify what it’s not. From selfless acts of care to the importance of boundaries, we’ll break down the qualities that define healthy love versus harmful imitations like control or dependency. Together, we’ll reflect on how love shows up in different relationships, whether romantic, platonic, or self-love. To close the episode, stay tuned for a series of affirmations designed to nurture your heart and remind you that you are always worthy of love. This one’s for anyone looking to grow in love, with clarity and compassion.✨
In this episode of The Girl I Got You Podcast, we dive deep into the exhausting cycle of people-pleasing: what it is, how it shows up in our lives, and the toll it takes on our mental and emotional well-being. If you’ve ever felt like you’re constantly putting others’ needs above your own or saying “yes” when you really want to say “no,” this episode is for you.
We’ll explore the liberating benefits of finding your “inner bitch”—that unapologetic, empowered version of yourself who sets boundaries, prioritizes self-love, and knows how to say, “I got you” to yourself first. Tune in as we redefine what it means to stand in your power, why it’s not selfish to choose you, and how this shift can transform your life.
It’s time to stop living for others and start living authentically. Let’s go, girl—you got this! ✨
