The Art of Approach Podcast

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Tim Bray and Will Mulvaney

26 episodes

1 day ago

Having the courage to approach a woman you've never met before can be one of the most challenging and frightening things a man can do. Why is that? In this podcast we explore the world of dating and approach and set out to specifically uncover the common things that hold us back from pursuing the women of our dreams. Join us in learning how to become better men, better lovers and how to meet and date the most high quality, high caliber women whenever you want.

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The Art of Approach Podcast

#27 - Dr. Mike Strand on psychology, relationship insecurities, IFS

Today's guest is Dr. Mike Strand, an established psychologist with a private practice here in Austin. We're excited about this one.

Find out more about Mike:

connectedcounselingwellness.com

In this episode, we discuss a trending Instagram reel, answer a question from Reddit, and explore the topic of trust in relationships.

We then go deep with Mike, who shares insights on dating, relationships, and internal family systems. The conversation covers topics such as gender differences in attraction, the importance of trust in relationships, and the four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse.

Mike also discusses his private practice and upcoming workshops on relationship building.

We discuss Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and its application in personal growth and relationships. We explore the concept of parts within ourselves, including protectors, managers, firefighters, and exiles. We emphasize the importance of developing a relationship with these parts and cultivating self-energy.

We also discuss the legacy burdens we carry from our parents and the potential for healing and transformation through IFS. Mike shares an exercise for exploring and understanding our parts, and we discuss the benefits of working with a trained practitioner.

1 year ago

1 hour 43 minutes 57 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#26 - Cory Smith on dating in the gay community, consent, clear communication

Welcome back to the show! Today our guest is Cory Smith, a business coach and socializing teacher here in Austin.

Find out more about Cory and his work: coryjsmith.com

In this episode of the podcast, we discuss various topics related to conversation, listening, consent, and rejection.

We explore the importance of proximity and touch in gauging interest, as well as the need to approach interactions without expectations.

We also address the question of how to ask for consent without breaking the mood, emphasizing the importance of playfulness, humor, and open communication.

The conversation delves into the art of listening, with tips on eye contact, body language, and asking why questions. We also go into the difference between empathy and compassion, and the importance of setting boundaries in relationships.

We discuss various aspects of dating and relationships, with a focus on the experiences of gay men. We explore topics such as authenticity, consent, rejection, and the challenges of dating apps.

Corey shares his insights on the stages of psychological development for gay men and the prevalence of validation-seeking behavior on dating apps. We also discuss the importance of safety and boundaries in dating, as well as the need for non-bar environments for the LGBTQ+ community.

Overall, the conversation highlights the importance of communication, self-reflection, and personal growth in navigating the dating world.

00:00 Introduction and Overview

02:20 The Importance of Proximity and Touch

05:45 Approaching Interactions without Expectations

07:11 Asking for Consent without Breaking the Mood

37:25 Empathy vs. Compassion

47:28 Setting Boundaries in Relationships

51:05 Authenticity and Communication in Relationships

52:34 Consent and Reframing Rejection

55:46 Challenges and Pitfalls of Dating Apps

58:10 Safety and Boundaries in the LGBTQ+ Dating Scene

01:13:02 Dating as a Gay Man: Challenges and Experiences

01:19:22 Creating Non-Bar Environments for LGBTQ+ Community

01:24:37 Approaching Men and Setting Boundaries

01:28:48 Cautious Consent and Protecting Others

01:35:28 Finding Social Activities and Non-Bar Environments

01:37:13 Coaching Session Offer for Podcast Listeners

1 year ago

1 hour 37 minutes 49 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#25 - Glaucia Stanganelli on fashion and self expression, how money plays a role in dating

Welcome! This week we have an incredible guest, Glaucia Stanganelli. Find more about her:

www.glauciastanganelli.com/

@glaucia_stanganelli or @artbyglaucia on Instagram

In this episode of the Art of Approach podcast, we discuss the role of fashion in dating and relationships with Glaucia. We emphasize the importance of expressing oneself through clothing and style, as it can give a person an edge in the dating market. We also explore the concept of creativity in fashion and how it can be a signal of a person's willingness to invest in a relationship.

The conversation touches on topics such as authenticity, comfort, and the impact of clothing on one's mood and confidence. In this conversation, we and Glaucia discuss the importance of personal style and how it can impact one's confidence and self-perception. We explore the idea of wearing clothes that fit well and flatter one's body shape, as well as the significance of experimenting with different styles and colors. We also touch on the role of shoes in a man's outfit and the importance of being open and receptive in dating and relationships. Overall, the conversation emphasizes the connection between personal style, self-expression, and personal growth.

1 year ago

1 hour 19 minutes 10 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#24 - Why women can't find attractive men, building a network of friends

We're back! After a few weeks off we're back with some great guests in the coming weeks.

Today we discuss the challenges women face in finding attractive men and why some women aren't being approached. We explore the concept of proximity attraction and how it affects dating dynamics. We also share personal experiences and insights on approaching women and the importance of authenticity. The episode concludes with a discussion on the experimental mindset of approaching and the different approaches that work for different individuals.

We then discuss our different approaches to dating and meeting new people. One of us shares his preference for feeling certain that a woman will be open and receptive before approaching her, while the other thrives off the pressure of approaching and enjoys the challenge. We also discuss the importance of getting out of the house and being in social places, as well as the value of approaching and connecting with interesting people, even when in a relationship. We highlight the need for men to continue meeting new people and maintaining a strong social network, rather than solely focusing on their partner.

Find more about us:

Tim IG: @the_approach_coach, theartofapproach.com

Will IG: @willpower_lifestyle, williammulvaney.com, The Willpower Podcast

1 year ago

1 hour 4 minutes 46 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#23 - Vielka Kano on intimacy misconceptions and improving long-term relationships

Welcome back! This week we are joined by Vielka Kano who is an AASECT certified sex therapist here in Austin. You can find out more about her and her work at vielkakano.com.

In this podcast episode, Vielka shares her insights into the field of sex therapy and the critical importance of sexual education. She discusses the widespread misconceptions and challenges people face regarding their sexual desires and needs, emphasizing the need for self-love, safety, and open communication in maintaining healthy sexual relationships.

Vielka explores the concept of polarity and how it can intensify the sexual experience between partners, shedding light on the complexities of sexuality and the necessity for open dialogue and understanding. The discussion also covers finding balance in relationships concerning sexual satisfaction, respecting individual desires, and the benefits of Tantra in deepening emotional connections and enhancing intimacy.

Additionally, the conversation addresses various aspects of sexuality, including the impact of positive associations on desire, the importance of mental health in sexual satisfaction, and methods for cultivating desire and managing common issues like low libido and premature ejaculation. Vielka provides techniques and insights into addressing these concerns.

Further topics include erectile dysfunction, the role of emotions in sex, the effects of pornography on relationships, and maintaining desire in long-term relationships. The importance of communication, consent, exploration, and variety in sexual experiences are highlighted, with Vielka offering advice on keeping relationships vibrant based on her extensive experience as a sex therapist.

1 year ago

53 minutes 3 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#22 - Erik Landry on the power of the voice, building physiological confidence, the approach mindset

Find out about Erik Landry:

Instagram: @vocodojo

Work with him: vocodojo.com

In this podcast episode, we delve into the dynamics of relationships and the intricacies of communication between men and women. We emphasize the importance of understanding and being understood, highlighting the need for clear and open communication to avoid covert manipulation and ensure balanced interactions. We discuss the power of authenticity and the interplay of active and passive roles in building meaningful connections.

We also explore the concept of pseudo-rejection and its potential to cause misunderstandings, stressing the importance of openly expressing feelings. The role of voice in influencing perceptions is examined, with a focus on the importance of relaxation and proper vocal tract space to enhance voice quality.

Further, we address the challenges of approaching women in sensitive environments like gyms and the dynamics of dating multiple people, discussing the ego-driven aspects and the importance of honest intentions. Our discussion extends to the technical and emotional aspects of voice, with insights from Erik, a voice specialist with a background in singing and vocal health, and Tim, an expert in communication science.

We also introduce the Vocal Dojo Voice Center, bridging speech therapy and vocal performance, and discuss the connection between emotions and vocal expression, emphasizing the influence of the limbic system and the importance of conscious breathing.

The conversation concludes with a discussion on the significance of understanding personal archetypes—magician, lover, warrior, and king—to better navigate personal and professional interactions. This exploration into the authenticity and self-awareness underscores the ongoing journey of self-discovery and personal growth, reflecting on how these elements influence our approaches in communication and relationships.

00:00 Introduction to the Dynamics of Relationships

06:15 The Power of Authenticity

10:32 Creating Space for Connection

14:59 Balancing Active and Passive Forces

23:26 Improving Communication through Voice and Relaxation

25:03 The Role of Self-Awareness in Effective Communication

27:21 Building Healthy Relationships through Active Listening and Empathy

36:53 Exploring the Sensation of Space in the Voice

39:20 Navigating the Challenges of Approaching Women at the Gym

41:09 The Dynamics of Dating Multiple People

44:06 The Ego-Driven Desire to be Claimed

49:21 Passion for Vocal Health and Becoming a Voice Specialist

54:45 Bridging the Gap: The Vocal Dojo Voice Center

55:13 Understanding the Archetype of Your Voice

57:25 The Influence of Emotions on Vocal Expression

59:59 The Importance of Conscious Breathing in Exercise

01:09:05 The Interchangeable Roles of Teacher and Student in Vocal Training

01:15:00 Adapting Your Voice and Demeanor

01:19:34 Listening to Your Body's Signals

01:22:15 Adjusting Energy to Meet the Other Person

01:23:13 Genuine Connection vs. Manipulation

01:25:20 Developing Awareness and Adaptability

01:27:30 Understanding Archetypes in Communication

01:32:17 Understanding Archetypes

01:35:02 Exploring Personal Archetypes

01:37:31 The Importance of Self-Awareness

01:39:42 Adapting Your Approach for Authenticity

01:41:03 Authenticity in Interpersonal Interactions

01:45:02 Finding and Accessing Your Authentic Voice

01:46:29 Approaching with Innocent Curiosity

01:48:07 Letting Go of Pressure and Expectations

1 year ago

1 hour 47 minutes 22 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#21 - Matt Ng on being a nice guy, approaching as a vehicle for personal growth, being direct vs indirect

Today we are joined by Matt Ng. Matt is an approach coach here in Austin, TX. You can find out more about Matt at @mattapproachcoach on Instagram.

In this podcast episode, we explore various facets of dating and personal growth, focusing on the concept of the 'nice guy syndrome' and its impact. We discuss how being overly accommodating and passive, often seen as 'nice guy' behavior, stems from insecurities and a lack of self-worth.

The conversation also covers the need to embrace more assertive masculine qualities and the importance of facing fears like rejection to foster individual growth.

We delve into the societal and cultural influences that shape the 'nice guy' persona, discussing the need for redefining masculinity and the importance of education in this area. Our discussion extends to the significance of stepping out of comfort zones, not only in personal development but also in innovating and trying new things.

Approaching women, a key topic, is examined through the effectiveness of both direct and indirect openers, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and forming emotional connections beyond surface-level topics. We highlight the role of pursuing passions to enrich conversations and build meaningful connections.

Additionally, we discuss the journey of self-discovery in dating, focusing on addressing limiting beliefs and the value of trauma healing to enhance confidence and happiness. The role of mentors in navigating these emotional challenges is also touched upon.

Finally, we stress that everyone's journey is unique, and comparing oneself to others is counterproductive. The overarching theme is the importance of authenticity, emotional intelligence, and the continuous effort to understand and connect with others in dating and relationships.

1 year ago

1 hour 17 minutes 56 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#20 - Meeting 'organically', what's wrong with mainstream dating advice, oversharing early on

Hey all. The audio on this episode is a little rough but there's lots of good stuff regardless. Listen through to the end!

In this episode we cover various topics related to dating and meeting new people, discussing the challenges of gaining attention and the importance of authenticity. We debate the fine line between oversharing and being too reserved. Our conversation also touches on maintaining an abundance mindset and accepting one's current state in the dating journey. We share advice on approaching women and emphasize the importance of vulnerability in building connections.

We conclude by recounting a recent experience at a meat market where the nervousness of approaching two women together was palpable. We also delve into the concept of cold approaching, the complexities of gauging interest in such situations, and the pitfalls of inorganic interactions. We stress the importance of finding someone who appreciates the approach process.

The episode wraps up with our commitment to a daily practice of approaching one new person in a non-romantic way to enhance our social skills, reflecting our continuous efforts to improve and adapt in the realm of social interactions and dating.

1 year ago

57 minutes 54 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#19 - Jealousy, easy wardrobe adjustments, defining self-worth

In this episode of the Art of Approach podcast, we explore the transformative power of fashion in men's wardrobes, emphasizing the impact of a white button-up shirt and stylish shoes. We delve into the importance of self-care and expressing individuality through clothing. Our discussion also covers meeting women in real life versus using dating apps, advocating for a balanced approach. We stress the importance of safety, genuine intentions, and respect in interactions, while addressing issues like false accusations and the need for clear communication in relationships. The conversation touches on taking responsibility for one's emotions, avoiding blame, and managing jealousy to foster healthier relationships. We also highlight the significance of understanding and connecting with one's emotions in dating. Sharing personal insights, we recount advice given to our friend Abhi about taking things slow and the benefits of clear, confident communication. An observation of an awkward interaction further underscores our points about authenticity and presence in social settings. Overall, this episode emphasizes being present, authentic, and confident, whether approaching relationships or navigating the complexities of dating and personal growth. 00:00 The Power of Clothing: White Button-Up Shirts and Stylish Shoes 08:27 Meeting Women: Real Life vs. Dating Apps 12:11 Balancing Approaching and Dating Apps 14:10 The Importance of Safety and Respect in Interactions with Women 22:35 Being Authentic and Not Proving Yourself 23:42 Handling False Accusations and Assumptions 24:35 Communicating Disinterest in a Relationship 25:10 Confronting and Managing Jealousy 46:21 Overcoming Jealousy 48:29 Defining Self-Worth 50:57 The Power of Tools 54:37 Approaching Women 01:01:09 Speaking from the Diaphragm 01:08:15 Learning from Uncomfortable Approaches

1 year ago

1 hour 9 minutes 47 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#18 - Dalton Daniel on personal development through approaching and dating

This episode we are joined by Dalton Daniel, a podcaster and good friend of ours. You can find 'Don't think. Breathe' on major podcasting platforms and on Instagram @donthink.breath.

In our conversation, we discuss approaching women in public, emphasizing understanding their interest and mindset. We cover the importance of genuine interest versus neediness, sharing insights from personal experiences to highlight respect and intention. We also stress appreciating every woman's beauty genuinely and approaching with authenticity.

We explore dealing with rejection, emphasizing genuineness, understanding rejection's impact, and resilience strategies. We highlight the role of positive mindset, support from friends or coaches, and the importance of detachment and mindfulness in facing rejection.

Furthermore, we talk about authentic self-expression, approaching interactions with kindness, and using voice messages for clearer communication. We stress facing the fear of rejection positively and the importance of embracing uniqueness.

We also touch on the challenges and insights from using dating apps, including dealing with ghosting and the cultural impacts of online dating. We underline the necessity of intentionality in dating and the value of relationships in enriching life, reminding listeners that there's no perfect time to start dating.

00:00 Introduction

02:03 The Problem with Neediness

06:58 The Fine Line Between Attraction and Neediness

10:56 Approaching Women in Public

20:35 Finding Beauty in Every Woman

21:49 The Whole Foods Story

22:35 Overcoming Rejection and Staying Positive

24:41 Preparing Mentally for Approaching

29:53 Visualizing Different Outcomes

33:08 The Value of Visualizing Every Outcome

34:18 Practicing Mindfulness in Emotionally Charged Moments

34:28 Being the Narrator of Your Life

35:17 Detaching Emotions from Thoughts

36:25 Taking Control of Your Own Stories

37:05 Breathing Out Emotions

38:23 The Importance of Support

39:21 Approaching Alone vs. in a Group

40:21 Reactions to Approaching

41:28 Not Caring What Others Think

42:37 You Are What You Love

44:14 Approaching Without Setting Yourself Up for Rejection

47:13 Claiming Your Identity as a Approacher

49:22 Overcoming Anxiety in Approaching

52:06 The Importance of Genuine Kindness in Approaching

54:00 Expressing Interest and Giving Compliments

55:14 Overcoming Insecurities and Fear of Rejection

56:11 Taking Ownership of Feelings

57:07 Imagining Success and Failure

57:51 The Power of Voice Messages58:08Experiences with Dating Apps

59:13 Using Dating Apps with Intention

01:00:22 The Downside of Dating Apps

01:02:10 The Benefits of Voice Messages

01:04:32 Mixed Experiences with Dating Apps

01:05:31 The Evolution of Dating Apps

01:07:18 Avoiding Overstimulation and Entertainment

01:08:19 The Impact of Porn and Instagram

01:11:28 The Impact of Limiting Consumption

01:12:28 Struggles of Being an Entrepreneur

01:13:13 Thinking Differently About Dating

01:14:25 The Feeling of Nothing to Lose

01:15:31 The Importance of Women in Our Lives

01:17:58 Recognizing Insecurities and Making Excuses

01:18:34 Owning Your Circumstances

01:19:09 Withholding Insecurities and Expressing Self-Awareness

01:20:09 The Impact of Insecurity on Dating

01:21:06 Building a Relationship with Yourself

01:22:34 Recognizing and Addressing Validation Seeking Behavior

01:23:35 Being Your Own Advertising

01:23:53 Finding Purpose and Value in Yourself

01:24:52 Closing Remarks

Where to find Dalton:

Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/59wfzg0oeASIhceU0FenXR

Instagram - @donthink.breathe

1 year ago

1 hour 31 minutes 45 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#17 - Creating mystery, having female friends, surrendering to intense emotion

In this episode, we discuss various aspects of dating and the nuances of approaching women, underlining the crucial role of maintaining mystery and self-validation to keep the attraction alive. We talk about overcoming approach anxiety by advocating for incremental steps towards building self-confidence and the profound importance of engaging with and understanding our emotions, particularly in social settings. Emphasizing the significant benefits of having female friends, we explore how their insights can refine our dating strategies and help us understand the dating scene from a different perspective.

Additionally, we touch upon the necessity of presenting ourselves authentically in dating profiles and seeking constructive feedback. The conversation also navigates the delicate balance between pursuing romantic interests and personal goals, underscoring the importance of self-awareness and owning one's journey through the complexities of relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Coach Corey Wayne04:01The Importance of Mystery

04:52 Understanding Mystery

06:48 Finding Certainty in Yourself07:01Recognizing Temporary Emotions

07:38 Overexplaining and Neediness08:38Creating Mystery in Dating

09:43 Certainty and Insecurity10:05Dealing with Rejection

11:23 Finding Certainty Elsewhere

12:36 Recognizing Temporary Emotions

13:05 Understanding Anger and Emotions

13:43 The Pitfalls of Overexplaining

14:48 The Dangers of Overexplaining

15:47 Keeping Some Mystery

16:37 The Thrill of Leading

17:57 Acceptable Places to Approach Women

18:58 Approaching in Grocery Stores

19:37 Approaching with Short-lived Conversations

23:03 Being Respectful and Not Creepy

24:46 Best Places to Meet Women

26:10 Approaching Women in Coffee Shops

27:34 Approaching Women in Parking Lots

28:37 Strategies to overcome approach anxiety

38:40 Will's new relationship

49:14 Importance of female friends

51:38 The Influence of Others on Dating Profiles

54:46 A Date with an Incredibly Beautiful Woman

56:28 Psychic Sexual Communication

57:43 Mixed Signals and Uncertainty

01:00:44 Struggling with Business and Dating

01:03:51 Balancing Business and Personal Life

01:08:47 Owning Your Circumstances

01:12:47 Dealing with Adversity and Maintaining Groundedness

1 year ago

1 hour 12 minutes 55 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#16 - Following emotion vs logic in dating, authentic expression, self-growth through your approaching journey

In this episode, we discuss how qualities like emotional expression, authenticity, and leadership, often seen in musicians, can make one more attractive in dating. We emphasize the importance of connecting emotionally, being genuine, and showing vulnerability to forge authentic bonds. We highlight confidence, self-love, and the mindset of viewing dating as a path to personal growth and abundance. The conversation covers psychic sexual communication, the significance of body language, setting intentions, and the necessity of a supportive network. Ultimately, we conclude that embracing authenticity, pursuing self-improvement, and maintaining a positive mindset are key to building confidence and attracting meaningful relationships.

00:00 Introduction

01:19 Overview of the Podcast

04:07 Qualities of Musicians that Attract Women

06:52 Leadership and Confidence

09:06 Preselection and Being the Center of Attention

12:46 Bad Dating Advice: 'Be Yourself'

13:55 Expressing Flaws and Insecurities

15:55 Courage and Acting Despite Fear

24:51 Intensity in Dating

26:05 Creating a Cultivated Space

28:04 Taking Rejections as a Positive

30:01 Preparing for a Date

37:00 Advancements in Tim's Dating Life

39:31 Visualization and Psychic Sexual Communication

45:00 Believing in the Desired Outcome

48:10 Admiring Beauty and Gratitude

51:15 The Power of Silence

52:00 Eye Contact and Silence

53:23 Planning the First Date

54:59 Approaching Women

57:39 Challenges of Approaching Alone

59:09 Overcoming Resistance to Approach

01:03:13 Navigating Early Stages of Dating

01:07:07 Building a Strong Relationship

01:10:17 Defining the Ideal Relationship

01:11:12 Being Slow and Intentional

1 year ago

1 hour 8 minutes 55 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#15 - Bill Furlong on communicating attraction silently, the power of eye contact and setting up the opportunity for women to chase you.

Bill Furlong's Artwork & Photos:

www.billfurlong.com

Insta: @furlongartwork @furlongphotos

In our conversation, we delved into diverse dating topics, from rejection to personal growth. Key themes emerged, highlighting the value of genuine intentions, vulnerability, and empathy. We explored psychic sexual communication and the significance of eye contact in forging connections. Tips were shared on coping with rejection, advocating self-love, recognizing misalignment, and shifting focus away from oneself. The discussion extended to how dating experiences influence other aspects of life, notably career paths. Will shared insights into how his interactions with women have shaped his professional journey, emphasizing self-confidence and awareness gained through rejection. He stressed the importance of cultivating friendships with women and embracing feminine energy. We concluded with reflections on taking initiative and fostering clear communication in relationships. Will shared his recent dating experiences, underscoring the challenges of interpreting text messages and maintaining a balanced mindset. Despite hurdles, he remains optimistic and open to new opportunities.

CHAPTERS

00:00 Introduction of Bill Furlong

01:16 Bill's Natural Ease with Women

03:03 Psychic Sexual Communication

08:09 The Power of Eye Contact

17:32 Expressing Desire After a Relationship

19:00 Tips for Dealing with Rejection

25:03 Approaching Women and Its Impact on Life

31:29 Appreciating the Feminine Essence

37:21 Making Female Friends

45:34 Being Clear and Leading in Relationships

47:49 The Second Date

48:26 The Vagueness of Communication

49:57 Setting an Actual Date

50:50 The Importance of Clarity

51:19 Understanding Women's Behavior

52:40 The Challenges of Text Communication

52:49 The Age of the Woman

52:53 Mixed Signals

53:15 Choosing the Right Date Activity

54:00 The Danger of Fixating on One Woman

57:25 Approaching a Woman at a Show

01:02:24 The Importance of Being Willing to Walk Away

01:03:13 Confidence and Self-Belief

01:04:38 The Abundance Mindset

01:07:20 Final Thoughts

1 year ago

1 hour 6 minutes 16 seconds

The Art of Approach Podcast

#14 - Approaching groups, group interactions, planning fun and exciting dates

In this episode, we explore diverse approaches to dating, covering topics such as reviewing an Instagram reel, responding to a Reddit question, and providing insights on approaching a girl surrounded by friends. Emphasizing the crucial role of authenticity and confidence in social interactions, we share tips on navigating various situations. Our key message underscores the importance of having the courage to initiate connections and staying true to oneself when pursuing someone of interest. Discussing aspects like approaching with confidence, avoiding burnout, being selective, and the benefits of compliments, we also explore group approaches and stress the necessity of having a clear dating vision. Throughout, we highlight the theme of authenticity in different scenarios, addressing feelings of inauthenticity and emphasizing vulnerability in group conversations. We touch on the discomfort of disengaging from uninteresting interactions and stress the importance of sharing enjoyable activities with a partner. The conversation concludes with a reminder to stay true to oneself and seek date coaching if needed.

CHAPTERS