“When you let go of the need to control, you find that your life flows much more smoothly 🌊✨. Control doesn’t bring you peace, but confidence does.”

In this episode of the Anchored Identity Podcast, Juan Carlos Torres shares his journey from a shy young man in the military to a confident leader grounded in faith. He discusses his experiences in the Marine Corps. After the loss of his wife, Juan realized he was protecting God instead of being honest about pain and anger toward Him. After confessing his feelings to his Father, he understood that was his ticket to true healing. Juan Carlos found strength and purpose through community and service, emphasizing the importance of continuous learning and the transformative power of faith in overcoming life’s challenges.

In this episode of the Anchored Identity Podcast, Jay Entertainment is our honored guest! Jay reflects on the challenges he faced growing up in South Central. He discusses his journey of self-discovery without a father, his involvement in gangs, and his near-death experience. Jay shares his experiences in the entertainment industry, including clowning and DJing, and how the challenges he faced in life strengthened his unwavering faith in God, which he uses to positively influence the next generation.

In this episode of the Anchored Identity podcast, Breanna and her guest Eibby delve into the profound journey of self-discovery and identity. They explore Eibby’s childhood experiences, family dynamics, struggles with self-worth, and the impact of faith on her life. Eibby shares her transformative journey through marriage, motherhood, and ultimately finding her identity in God. The conversation highlights the importance of healing, embracing one’s true self, and the ongoing process of personal growth and transformation.

In the latest episode of the Anchored Identity Podcast, Breanna discusses her journey of self-discovery and the importance of understanding one’s identity. She introduces her book, “Who Am I?”, which explores the question ”Who Does God Say I Am?” She reflects on her past challenges with identity and how they shaped her behaviors and perceptions. Breanna emphasizes the significance of believing in God and encourages listeners to share their stories of overcoming adversity. She acknowledges her growth since her previous podcast, “Vibes of a Queen,” and highlights her evolving relationship with God. The episode focuses on the quest for self-identity and the struggles many face when trying to answer the fundamental question, ”Who am I?” Breanna concludes by sharing her commitment to being open about her experiences, both good and bad, as part of her healing journey.

Agreements Vows Soul Ties Bitter Root Judgments You’ve heard these terms and may know their meanings. But have you taken a moment to consider how they affect your mental health? Cat Francis, the author of ”What You Love is Killing You,” shares insights from her book! She explains how, more often than not, the things we love stem from the list above. What we label as mental illness is often triggered and influenced by these factors. She also discusses our desire to do good and achieve great things in life, but how these items may be retraining our mindset. Listen now!! For counseling or information about her book, ”What You Love is Killing You.” Cat Francis 949-478-0816 catc@yourpbh.com

Ced is back! In this episode, he clears up the misconceptions from “I Loved Myself Too Much.” He shares how his good intentions, while admirable, led him to surrender to temptations and lose sight of his true identity in God. Ced offers tangible insights and heartfelt advice on how God revealed his true self, guiding him toward transformation and a renewed purpose.

n this episode, I’m joined by someone who has been like family to me—Cedric Blake. His character and authenticity have played a powerful role in shaping my own identity journey, and I’m beyond excited to share his story with you. Cedric opens up about his battle with pride and how his search for loopholes in God’s Word shook the foundation of his identity. But this isn’t where the story ends—it’s where it begins. Through humility and surrender, Cedric discovered the freedom that comes from letting go of old beliefs. He shares how this transformation not only healed his soul but also made him a better person, a devoted husband, and a present father. 💡 Whether you’re questioning your identity or seeking a deeper connection with God, this episode will inspire you to embrace surrender as the gateway to true growth. Press play, and let’s journey together. 🌱✨

The men I dated reflected my own issues, and factors like ”oxytocin,” trauma bonding, and my self-beliefs kept me trapped in those relationships. However, after embracing the person God created me to be, I no longer see myself as a prisoner.  Join me as I explain how my identity contributed to years of suffering in toxic relationships and how this shift has changed everything, making it impossible for me to return to that old mindset.

”For years, I carried a silent barrier between me and God. My ’daddy issues’ distorted my view of love, trust, and provision, leading me to believe independence was essential for survival.” But what if healing rewrites that narrative? Join me as I share my transformative journey of understanding how my relationship with my earthly father distanced me from my Heavenly Father. I’ll reveal how forgiveness became key to freedom, reshaping my faith and perspective on life. This is more than a healing story; it’s about discovering a Father’s limitless love. Tune in for hope on your journey.

Today, we’re thrilled to have an exceptional guest, Coach K! She opens up about her journey as a mentor, sharing the highs and lows she encounters along the way. Coach K emphasizes the importance of keeping our humanity intact for those genuine connections and reflects on how she remains mindful of the loving patience God extends to her. Her wisdom encourages us to stay true to ourselves, set healthy boundaries, and recognize that we’re not here to ”fix people.” Let’s take a moment to appreciate the invaluable leadership and mentorship that begins at home. Coach K reminds us that family ministry should always come first. Often, we see leaders caring deeply for their employees, students, and church groups, while their own families may be struggling. Remember, it’s hard to be a fantastic business owner and neglectful in your role as a partner or to be an exceptional nurse yet distant from your loved ones. Embrace your identity in God, cherish it, and invite Him to work through you and your family!

My prayer has been for God to show me my blind spots, imperfections, and areas for improvement. Whew! Ask, and you will receive. A few lessons I’m learning are that my focus shifted, the importance of the Sabbath, and how my busyness is my reaction to trauma.

Isaiah 55:8 Inner work is never complete. Here are some things God has brought to my attention. I don't have the answers yet. I'm still processing.  

Many of us perceive faith as believing without any proof. We are taught to believe in God, but we really don’t know why. In this episode, we discuss that there is evidence right under our noses and how we do not need a lot of faith. Let’s declutter our faith!

LOVE is the core of everything, and even though I love and care for people, why am I hurting them? I thought it was love, but my actions derived from: Guilt Obligation Praise Reputation Fear Today, we are decluttering our love.

It’s easy to say, ’Every day is a good day,’ but what does a good day actually look like? I’m going to give real examples of how I define a good day. Some of them might surprise you, but if you let me explain, you’ll realize that every day truly is a good day.

Now that we know we are children of God, every day is a good day!! It may seem too good to be true, but with these items and practices in place and through God’s grace, we can see the good in every day. We understand that we have a choice. We understand and accept that we are responsible for our feelings. We understand and accept that no one owes us. We understand and accept the community is essential. We understand and stand on the promises of God. At the end of the day, Father makes no mistakes. He is only here to love you, not hurt you. Once we believe that, every day is really a good day.

It’s time to Declutter!! You now know and have accepted your identity as a King’s Kid. To cement that identity, we must rid ourselves of old mindsets and habits to make way for the new blessings Father has in store for us.  Welcome to Season 2!

I am excited to say that this is the last episode of the season! We have had a journey together, and we are at the beginning of a beautiful new season in our lives. Join me as we discuss who God says we are.

My friend and sister, Jennifer, is joining us today as we discuss what it is to be a Black person. We’re speaking about our experiences and what we want for future generations. We have a few more days of Black History Month, but we know Black History is American History. And this conversation can go on for hours! (And we did talk for hours, lol) We are hopeful and stand tall in our identity as King’s Kids.