Not everyone's up for being interviewed for a podcast episode but Dean was keen! Hear his story on how he emptied his stress bucket and and just knew the solution focused approach was right for him.

Put yourself in his shoes.....this could be you!

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In today's episode, I give you 3 questions you must ask ask yourself if you're still suffering from anxiety and stress.

It's not about reading the next book or listening to the latest podcast....it's time to take action. And that action can be small but it will be far more beneficial that waiting for some 'golden nugget' of information to drop into your lap.

Have a listen and consider these 3 questions carefully.

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Buckle up for this episode because I'm not holding back any more! I'm curious to know what you think too so have a listen and message me at gin@ginlalli.com

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I don't mean to sound like a grumpy old woman but recent events have led me to consider that we should all be working a bit more on self-respect.

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It's not an exact science but hear from the hive mind of therapists of what we think about the speed of therapy results.

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A client told me that the good thing about their week was that they got angry! Find out why that's good in this episode.

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If you’re finding that "nothing helps," it’s not a sign that you’re failing or that the techniques don’t work. It’s a signal that it’s time to take a different approach and empty that stress bucket.

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...then this episode is for you. It's a primitive brain response but you can manage it by doing your best and leaving it at that.

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What does happiness really mean and why do we keep chasing it? Find out more about my solution-focused work with individuals and organisations, my book, and online course on my website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.ginlalli.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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A wee reset on the 3 P's with additional tips and hints - are you doing your 3 P's yet?

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...plus 4 more traits of the primitive brain. In this episode, I examine the early warning signs of the primitive brain.

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It's not all rainbows and unicorns - resilience is a skill to be developed and nurtured. Don't assume you need to see a therapist straight away - feel all the normal human emotions of life.

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This episode is dedicated to those of you struggling with chronic or terminal illness, either personally or with a loved one.

When there is no solution how can you remain solution focused? How can you be positive when there is nothing but a negative outcome, however much you try to wish for it all to go away?

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Fancy dipping yourself in ice-cold water? Or going for a swim in a freezing loch? Use this episode to decide if it's for you or not.

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Why do we crave likes, shares, and comments? Why do we need others to boost our ego? Can we find validation from within ourselves?

In this episode I talk about the causes of validation, in particular with social media, and how to get self-worth and self-esteem from within. Because when you do that you'll be unstoppable!

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Following on from the last episode I want to tell you exactly what you can expect from my 10 week programme - and I'm a bit Lucy Goosey about the 10 weeks ;)

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If we can be more open about what happens in therapy sessions will that reduce the stigma? In this episode, I explain why I am passionate about being open about the solution-focused formula.

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Do not make assumptions about therapy - and stop listening to some random person who once had a bad experience with therapy. In this episode, I bust the myths around therapy that could be stopping you from getting the help you need and changing your life.

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In this episode, I explain why you should be getting better quality sleep - the cycles of sleep should be understood by everyone.

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We hear people say that you should "work on yourself" but how do you do that? In this episode I'll explain how - and you don't need to start journaling!

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