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STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Alessandro Frosali
23 episodes
2 days ago
What if trying so hard to be a "good man" is actually turning you into the worst version of yourself? Alessandro sits down with wellness coach Mikah Jones to unpack a pattern wrecking modern men: the fear of being perceived as a "bad man." Not bad like your father was. Bad in any way that might disappoint the women in your life. This fear keeps you trapped. You say yes when you mean no. You walk on eggshells. You lose your backbone one compromise at a time. Mikah reveals why most men measure ...
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What if trying so hard to be a "good man" is actually turning you into the worst version of yourself? Alessandro sits down with wellness coach Mikah Jones to unpack a pattern wrecking modern men: the fear of being perceived as a "bad man." Not bad like your father was. Bad in any way that might disappoint the women in your life. This fear keeps you trapped. You say yes when you mean no. You walk on eggshells. You lose your backbone one compromise at a time. Mikah reveals why most men measure ...
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STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
The "Bad Man" You're Afraid to Be Is the Man She Actually Wants with Mikah Jones, Relationship Coach | EP 23
What if trying so hard to be a "good man" is actually turning you into the worst version of yourself? Alessandro sits down with wellness coach Mikah Jones to unpack a pattern wrecking modern men: the fear of being perceived as a "bad man." Not bad like your father was. Bad in any way that might disappoint the women in your life. This fear keeps you trapped. You say yes when you mean no. You walk on eggshells. You lose your backbone one compromise at a time. Mikah reveals why most men measure ...
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4 days ago
57 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
The Missing Skill: Relationship Intelligence w/ Railey Molinario
In this episode, she breaks down the concept of relationship intelligence: the emotional skills most of us were never taught. We talk childhood patterns, emotional manipulation vs leadership, and why love alone won’t hold a relationship together. This is a clear, practical conversation for anyone ready to lead in love instead of survive it. Connect with Railey: https://bio.site/raileymolinario https://www.instagram.com/raileymolinario ⬛️ Free emails to fix your marriage: 👉 https:/...
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2 months ago
41 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
What It Takes to Win Olympic Gold and Lead a Family w/ Dr. Scott Brennan
Dr. Scott Brennan is an Olympic gold medallist and former emergency doctor who became a stay-at-home dad. In this conversation, we talk about: The male mentor who changed his life The vow he made at his coach’s coffin How he anchored himself under extreme pressure What emotional regulation looks like when everything’s on the line How he dealt with public failure and deep personal disappointment And the decision every man faces the one that could cost you your family This episode is honest, gr...
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2 months ago
1 hour 23 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Real men FEEL w/ Andy Grant
Andy Grant, host of the popular men's health podcast "Real Men Feel" joins me on STFUAL to talk about his story, feelings and energy. Check out Andy's website here: https://theandygrant.com/ 👉 Explore Men's Coaching with a ⁠⁠Free 15 Minute Call⁠⁠ 👉 Kill Your Defensiveness with my ⁠⁠Comprehensive Workshop⁠⁠ 👉 Heal from Burnout with my ⁠⁠5 Module Audio Course⁠⁠ 👉 Apply for the Retreat of a Lifetime with the ⁠⁠Better Husband Retreat⁠⁠ WhatsApp: ‪+3...
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3 months ago
48 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
20 Innocent Habits That Are Quietly Destroying Your Masculinity
This episode is the why behind the viral post that hit 3.5 million views in 48 hours. I break down all 20 habits—line by line—with the deeper truths behind each one. These aren't just catchy phrases. They're blind spots that quietly weaken men every day. From avoiding conflict to waiting for permission, I explain how these patterns form, what they cost you in your relationship, and how to shift them—without becoming a cartoon version of “alpha.” If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” when you weren’t...
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3 months ago
35 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
How Psychedelics Can Heal Men's Mental Health w/ Xavier Rousset
What if the real crisis in men’s mental health isn’t illness—but disconnection? In this episode, I sit down with Xavier Rousset, a filmmaker and advocate whose life was changed by psychedelics. We talk about the stigma surrounding drugs, the rise of depression and anxiety, and why the current mental health system only reacts once men hit rock bottom. This is a powerful conversation about healing, connection, and the potential of psilocybin to help men reflect, reset, and return to what matter...
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4 months ago
40 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Emotional Maturity & Handling Interpersonal Relationships w/ Roy Wang
What happens when being smart isn’t enough? In this episode, I sit down with Roy Wang, a man who could always figure things out intellectually but struggled when it came to emotional connection and conflict. We talk about what it really means to be emotionally mature, especially in relationships, and how high-functioning men often avoid vulnerability by staying stuck in logic. This is a raw conversation about control, defensiveness, emotional shutdown, and how to finally break free from the m...
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4 months ago
57 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
The Biggest Lie in Society: “There Is No Such Thing as Men and Women”
In this solo episode, I go headfirst into one of the most damaging lies we've been fed: that masculinity and femininity no longer exist. That we're all the same. That difference is dangerous. But it’s not sameness that creates attraction. It’s polarity. It’s not neutrality that gives us strength. It’s clarity. I talk about what happens when we erase the masculine and feminine—and what gets lost when men stop being men and women can’t relax into being women. If you've ever felt like you're doi...
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4 months ago
8 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Blocked Energy = Blocked Life w Jose Mendoza
You can’t mindset your way out of a blocked body. This episode goes deep with energy practitioner Jose Mendoza, whose work helps men shift what’s stuck—not just in their heads, but in their nervous systems, their emotions, and their physical lives. We break down the invisible weight most men carry, why "being stuck" is more than burnout, and how repressed beliefs and emotions manifest as stagnation in every part of life. We cover: The real meaning of "blocked energy" (and why it’s not woo-woo...
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5 months ago
38 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
How to Understand Yourself (and Others) in 6 Colours w/ Corbin Billings
What if your biggest blind spot isn’t your trauma—it’s your temperament? In this episode, we sit down with Corbin Billings, the speaker and messenger behind the Personality Color Matrix, a mind-blowing framework that unpacks your emotional coding using six colour energies: three warmth-based, three strength-based. Corbin didn't invent this model—his mom did after decades in family crisis counseling. But he's taken it next level, helping thousands see through their emotional blind spots a...
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5 months ago
1 hour 1 minute

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
You Don’t Need a Therapist—You Need a Walk and a Mate w/ Scott Johnson
In this episode, I sit down with Scott Johnson—the founder of The Proper Blokes Club—to talk about why movement opens men up, how walk-and-talks beat therapy for some guys, and what it takes to build real brotherhood. We get into his story of starting a grassroots men's mental health movement, born from his own struggles as a dad facing the family court system and battling addiction. What started with Scott filming solo walks has become 500+ men walking across London every week. We unpack why...
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5 months ago
38 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Mushrooms, Mirror Neurons, and the Myth of Control w/ Philip Schmadlak
In this episode, I sit down with Phillip Schmadluk—coach, psychology grad, and one of the deepest thinkers I know—to talk about the ego traps that keep men stuck, and the power of surrender that sets us free. We dive into what it really means to “understand yourself and the world around you”—not as a self-help cliché, but as a radical act of presence, curiosity, and honest-as-fuck introspection. From mushroom trips to mirror neurons, from head noise to heart truth—this one’s a journey. We e...
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5 months ago
49 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
The Body Breaks When You Don’t Feel w/ Jarrah Volpe
Most men think they have a mindset problem. What they really have is an emotional backlog. 🧠 In this episode, I sit down with Jarrah Volpe—a trauma-informed somatic therapist and men's work facilitator—for a raw conversation on why the body breaks down when we refuse to feel. Jarrah shares his personal story of unravelling decades of masculine conditioning—how the pain he ignored showed up in his body, and what finally cracked him open. His journey isn’t just relatable—it’s a mirror. We unpac...
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5 months ago
43 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
You’re Not Hungry—You’re Hurt” w/ Jillian Scott
In this episode, I sit down with Jillian Scott—host of the Hungry for Love podcast—to talk about emotional eating, shame spirals, and why so many men soothe their pain with food, porn, alcohol, or endless scrolling. We unpack what it really means to break the cycle—not by chasing discipline, but by learning to listen to what your emotions are actually asking for. Jillian shares powerful insights about hunger, self-soothing, unmet childhood needs, and the emotional weight men carry in silence....
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6 months ago
46 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
No One’s Coming to Save You w/ Sean Carey
In this episode, I sit down with Sean Carey—author of A Single Dad’s Comeback—to talk about what happens when you hit rock bottom and realise no one is coming to pull you out. Sean shares his story of surviving an emotionally destructive marriage, rebuilding his identity after losing everything, and the hard-won 6-step path he developed to reclaim his clarity, resilience, and self-respect. This conversation is raw, grounded, and brutally honest. We go into fatherhood, addiction, taking radic...
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6 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Saying No Won’t Kill the Sex—It Might Save the Relationship w/ Morteza Chalak
Most men aren’t numb—they’re emotionally untrained. In this episode, I sit down with Morteza Chalak—a men’s coach who works with guys caught in resentment, nice guy patterns, and self-abandonment inside their relationships. We talk about why most men trade truth for sex, collapse their boundaries to “keep the peace,” and end up feeling disrespected, unmotivated, or secretly angry. Morteza shares powerful frameworks for leading without control, setting boundaries without drama, and rebuilding ...
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6 months ago
45 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Men Can’t Say What They Feel—Here’s Why That Matters w/ Matthew Lowe
Most men aren’t numb—they’re emotionally untrained. In this episode, I sit down with therapist and author Matthew Lowe to unpack the condition most men have never heard of—but live with daily: alexithymia—the inability to name what you’re feeling. We talk about why men explode, go quiet, avoid intimacy, or numb themselves with food, porn, anger, or withdrawal—and how emotional language isn’t weakness, it’s the first step toward real power. Matthew shares metaphors, stories, and tools to help ...
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6 months ago
50 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
How to Start a Men’s Group (and Why You Should) w/ Wouter van de Velde
What actually happens when a group of men commit to meeting every week? In this episode, I sit down with Wouter van de Velde—my co-host of the Mallorca Men’s Club—to unpack the biggest surprises, lessons, and breakthroughs we’ve seen from running our weekly men’s group. Whether you’re thinking about starting your own men’s circle, or just want to understand the power of this kind of space, we walk through 10 clear, actionable steps for creating a group that actually works. If you’ve ever felt...
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6 months ago
49 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
Why Building a Business Breaks Most Men (And How to Stay Whole) w/ Tristan Rushworth
What if your biggest business mistake isn’t the strategy, the offer, or the audience… but your state? Tristan Rushworth isn’t just another startup mentor. He’s a man who’s seen how most entrepreneurs burn out—not because they lack tools, but because they never learned how to regulate their nervous system, manage comparison, or stay connected to what they actually want. In this episode, we go deep into the emotional and energetic cost of building something big. You’ll learn how to build a bu...
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7 months ago
58 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
The Pain Men Never Talk About (But Carry Every Day) w/ Rory Paquette
What happens when a man loses everything? Not just the house, the car, the business—but the respect of his wife, the trust of his kids, and the belief that he can fix it. In this quiet, powerful episode, I sit down with Rory Paquette, the host of Power of Man, to talk about the collapse of a life he built with his own two hands—and the brutal climb back from rock bottom. From working three jobs and giving blood for groceries to rebuilding trust, Rory shares the lessons most men don’t talk abo...
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7 months ago
46 minutes

STFUAL - From Boy to Man to Better Husband
What if trying so hard to be a "good man" is actually turning you into the worst version of yourself? Alessandro sits down with wellness coach Mikah Jones to unpack a pattern wrecking modern men: the fear of being perceived as a "bad man." Not bad like your father was. Bad in any way that might disappoint the women in your life. This fear keeps you trapped. You say yes when you mean no. You walk on eggshells. You lose your backbone one compromise at a time. Mikah reveals why most men measure ...