I’ve Coached 1,200 Men — Here’s What Kills Relationships 💔Join my men’s coaching group 👉🏼 https://embodied-entrepreneur-f2932d.webflow.io/program Access my FREE 30-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results:Men Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/female30days Women Click here 👉🏼 jordan-candlish.kit.com/male30days After coaching over 1,200 high-performing men, I’ve discovered that what destroys relationships isn’t cheating or money — it’s emotional disconnection.In this video, I break down the three subtle yet powerful factors that kill relationships — and how to shift them starting today. You’ll learn how emotional leadership, vulnerability, and purpose can completely change how your partner feels around you.Here’s what you’ll learn:✨ Why overworking and emotional suppression destroy connection✨ The power of emotional expression and self-awareness✨ How to stop shutting down and start leading with presence✨ The importance of staying connected to your purpose and aliveness✨ Practical tools for regulating emotions and communicating truthfullyThis is for the men ready to stop losing love — and start leading with authenticity, depth, and confidence.🔔 Subscribe for more content on men’s growth, emotional mastery, and relationships.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT ME:Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: What Actually Kills Relationships02:15 – Overworking & Emotional Disconnection04:40 – Learning to Feel and Express Emotions07:10 – Building Emotional Awareness & Daily Check-Ins09:45 – The Importance of Safe Male Spaces12:00 – Shutting Down: The Silent Relationship Killer15:10 – How Avoidance Erodes Trust and Intimacy18:25 – Emotional Leadership and Regulation Practices21:30 – Staying Present During ConflictAlternative Titles:THIS is What Makes Someone Value YouWhy We Struggle to Leave RelationshipsDating Coach: #1 Sign You’ve Found the Right Person (Or If You’re SETTLING)How to know if your relationship is worth saving. #estherperel #relationship #therapyHow Friends And Family Can DESTROY Your RelationshipIf you think you’ll be single forever, watch THIS! ft. Matthew Hussey#MensGrowth #Relationships #MasculineLeadership #EmotionalIntelligence #MensWork #LoveAndGrowth #RelationshipAdvice #HighPerformingMen #SelfImprovement #EmotionalMastery #MindsetMatters #MasculineEnergy
Pursuing Purpose: The Secret to Thriving Relationships
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What if your purpose was the key to creating a deeper, more intimate, and thriving relationship? In this episode, I share how pursuing your higher purpose not only brings more meaning to your life but also transforms your relationships. From my coaching experiences to personal lessons, you'll learn how clarity, presence, and alignment with purpose directly shape the quality of love and connection you create with your partner.
In this episode, we'll cover:
• Why purpose is essential to intimacy and trust• The link between fulfillment and relationship success• Overcoming resistance and distractions• How to master presence and peace in the moment• Actionable steps to pursue your higher calling
The truth: Your love thrives when you thrive.
When you're disconnected from your purpose, that emptiness shows up in your relationship. You might seek validation from your partner, lose presence in intimate moments, or feel a nagging sense that something's missing. But when you're aligned with your calling and actively pursuing what matters most to you, you bring a completely different energy to your relationship.
Purpose gives you the clarity to show up fully. It creates the presence that deepens intimacy. It builds the trust that comes from being a man who knows where he's going and why.
This isn't about choosing between your purpose and your relationship. It's about understanding that they fuel each other. The more aligned you are with your calling, the more you have to give. The deeper your relationship becomes, the more it supports your growth.
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About Jordan Candlish:Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper.
Alternative Titles:Women Love VALUE, Not Love – Why Most Men Get It WrongI Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza MotivationThe Biggest Mistakes Women Make With Men (That Pushes Them Away) | E235 Lila Rose ShowWORLD'S #1 COUPLES THERAPIST: "If Your Partner Says THIS, the Relationship Is in TROUBLE!"LOVE EXPERT ON: When A Man TRULY LOVES You, He Will DO THIS! | Stephan Speaks & Jay ShettyDating Coach: #1 Sign You’ve Found the Right Person (Or If You’re SETTLING)#Purpose #Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CouplesGoals #MindsetMatters #SelfImprovement #ThrivingRelationships #Intimacy #LifePurpose
Transforming Relationships: Principles for Deeper Love & Lasting Growth
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Are you ready to transform your relationship and experience deeper love, connection, and growth?
In this podcast, I share powerful principles inspired by Dr. Joe Dispenza’s teachings that helped me attract my dream partner and maintain a fulfilling relationship for over 10 years. These insights will show you how to:
✔️ Keep the spark alive
✔️ Build trust and intimacy
✔️ Stay in the “honeymoon phase”
✔️ Grow together through challenges
Whether you’re starting a new relationship or looking to strengthen an existing one, these timeless principles will help you create a love that lasts.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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The Exact Joe Dispenza Strategies I Used to Manifest My Dream Life
Dr. Joe Dispenza: WATCH THIS To Rewire Your Brain & ATTRACT Anything You Want
These 3 Words Will Manifest Your Dreams into Reality! - Dr. Joe Dispenza
The 3 Principles I Used From Joe Dispenza To Manifest A Dream Role
How to Raise Your Vibration INSTANTLY and Manifest Your Dream Life - Dr. Joe Dispenza Motivation
I Always Get What I Visualize In Only 3 Days Using This Belief System - Joe Dispenza Motivation
#Relationships #LoveAndGrowth #PersonalDevelopment #CouplesGoals #SelfImprovement #RelationshipAdvice #MindsetMatters #JoeDispenzaInspired #Connection #LastingLove
Why She Doesn't Trust You (And How to Fix It)
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Trust is broken in your relationship. Your partner questions everything you say and do. The emotional connection is disappearing, and no matter what you try, it never feels like enough. Sound familiar?
I've coached thousands of men through this exact situation. The harsh truth? You can't rebuild trust by changing what you do. You can only rebuild it by changing who you're being.
In this episode, I break down:
• Why broken trust always comes back to your relationship with yourself• The common mistake men make trying to "fix" trust through actions• How self-abandonment patterns destroy relationship trust• Why controlling your impulses is the foundation of trustworthiness• The father wound connection to broken promises and integrity issues• How your inner child affects your ability to show up consistently
Here's the reality: If you don't trust yourself, you can't expect others to trust you. Every broken promise to yourself - whether it's about health, habits, or behaviors - creates "leaky energy" that your partner feels as unsafe.
This isn't about perfection or never engaging in certain activities. It's about alignment. When your behaviors pull you away from being the person you need to be in your relationship, that's when dysfunction starts.
Practical steps to rebuild trust:
• Examine where you're not keeping your word with yourself• Identify what has control of your attention when you're weak• Connect to a larger purpose - your why for change• Address the inner child that's been abandoned through years of pushing through• Get accountability through coaching or men's groups
Often, men only change when their relationship is about to end. Don't wait for that point. Reflect on how much it would hurt to lose this person right now.
The level of safety someone feels in your presence comes down to how much you trust yourself. Fix that foundation, and everything else follows.
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About Jordan Candlish:Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper.
Alternative Titles:How to build (and rebuild) trust | Frances FreiRebuild Trust and Connection in Any Relationship | Tony Robbins InterventionHow To Rebuild Lost Trust In A RelationshipJordan Peterson: Fixing relationshipsHow to Regain Trust After You've Messed Up#RelationshipTrust #BrokenTrust #RelationshipAdvice #TrustIssues #RelationshipRepair #MensRelationshipAdvice #RelationshipCoaching #SelfTrust #Integrity #RelationshipHealing #MasculineLeadership #RelationshipProblems #TrustBuilding #RelationshipRecovery #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalSafety #RelationshipFoundations #MensWork #RelationshipGrowth #InnerWork #FatherWound #SelfIntegrity #RelationshipSkills #MensDevelopment #ConsciousRelationships
The One Thing Rich Entrepreneurs Do That Poor People Don't
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What's up, legends? Coming to you live from Hollywood Boulevard after just walking out of Lewis Howes' Summit of Greatness. I've spent a week in LA at mastermind retreats and high-level events, and this podcast is about the most important skill you can develop: putting yourself in the right rooms.
This has been the pivotal factor in attracting the right opportunities and people into my life. Not courses, not books, not online content - proximity to the right people in the right environments.
Here's what I learned this week:
✔️ Life is moving you in a certain direction - learn to become sensitive to it
✔️ When opportunity knocks (like Jim Carter offering Lewis Howes tickets), just say yes✔️ Start with the WHO, then you'll understand the WHERE
✔️ You learn more through osmosis than any online course
✔️ If you can see it, it's becoming real
✔️ The right environment creates energetic shifts that unlock new thinking
The proximity principle: You collapse years of online learning into a three-day event when you're around the right people. This is why I run retreats now - transformation happens through proximity, not information.Your mind will say you don't have time, money, or can leave your responsibilities. Find a way anyway. In 2019, working at a meditation studio in Toronto, I couldn't afford Robin Sharma's $6000 Personal Mastery Academy. But by being in the right place, someone offered me free tickets. Synchronicities happen when you keep taking the next step.
The practical approach:
It's not about how to get there, it's about who can help you get there. The right connections, mentors, and environments accelerate your growth exponentially.
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ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Alternative Titles:
1. A clever way to motivate yourself
2. How to Network When You Have No Money or Connections
3. Mastermind Events: Are They Worth the Hype?
4. The Real Way to Meet Successful People (Not Online)
5. Why Proximity Beats Courses Every Time
6. The $6000 Event I Got Into for Free (And How You Can Too)
#RightRooms #Networking #PersonalDevelopment #Proximity #Opportunities #LewisHowes #SummitOfGreatness #Mastermind #BusinessNetworking #EntrepreneurLife #LA #Hollywood #PersonalGrowth #Success #Manifestation #Synchronicity #BusinessEvents #RobinSharma #AboveAndBeyond #Inspiration
The Relationship Skills Men Forget When Apart From Their Partner
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What's up legends? Just landed back in Lisbon after 5 weeks apart from Amanda, and I've had some eye-opening realizations about the relationship skills men often neglect - including myself. This podcast breaks down what I rediscovered about leading in relationships when you've been out of practice.
Walking through beautiful Lisbon to meet Amanda, I'm reflecting on how even after years of coaching men on relationships, I found myself slipping back into old reactive patterns within days of being reunited. The muscle of relationship leadership had gone weak from disuse.
Here's what I learned:
✔️ The #1 skill men must master: responsiveness over reactiveness
✔️ Why your subconscious defaults to familiar defensive patterns
✔️ How to catch yourself before damaging her nervous system
✔️ The weekly feedback process that transforms relationships
✔️ Why micro-moments of love matter more than grand gestures
✔️ When and how to give your partner constructive feedback
Being apart from your partner - whether through travel, work, or just getting complacent - weakens the relationship muscle. You forget the extra level of awareness and attentiveness needed around communication, emotional needs, and daily connection. Then old patterns may start to resurface:
✔️Defensiveness when she brings up concerns
✔️Not speaking emotions and projecting anger instead
✔️Reacting from energetic overwhelm rather than conscious choice
✔️Forgetting to notice what she needs in specific moments
The solution is building responsiveness. While responsiveness is crucial, you also need to address things that don't feel right. Don't withhold frustration - it stacks up and explodes later.
Learn to say:
"How you communicated that felt disconnecting in my body. I need more grace/cooperation/softness. Would you be willing to try this approach instead?"
You can only give love to the level you're willing to receive it. If you're not nourishing yourself, you can't creatively love your partner.
This is ongoing work requiring constant refinement, contemplation, and mindfulness. Get complacent, and your subconscious defaults to familiar defensive patterns.
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ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Alternative Titles:
#RelationshipSkills #LongDistanceRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #MensRelationshipAdvice #RelationshipLeadership #MasculineLeadership #RelationshipCoaching #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCommunication #EmotionalIntelligence #MensWork #RelationshipGrowth #CouplesCoaching #RelationshipTips #IntimateRelationships #RelationshipFoundations #MensDevelopment #ConsciousRelationships #RelationshipGoals #LoveLanguage
How The Universe Tests You Before Your Reality ChangesApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Alright, Legends? Ever notice how right when you decide to level up, everything seems to go wrong? Your car gets stolen, clients want refunds, unexpected bills hit - it's like the universe is testing your commitment to growth. That's exactly what I'll be addressing in this podcast. Here's what you'll learn in this podcast:✔️ Why life tests you when you're trying to level up (and how to see it coming)✔️ How to respond from your future self instead of your victim self✔️ The frequency shift that turns "problems" into growth opportunities✔️ Why taking full responsibility gives you all your power back✔️ How to mentally rehearse your new self before challenges hit✔️ The universal principles behind why bad things happen to good peopleInstead of asking "Why is this happening TO me?" start asking "What part of me created this?" When you take responsibility, you get your power back. You're no longer a victim of circumstances - you're the creator of your reality.When life tests you, it's actually checking if you're serious about stepping into your new frequency. Here's how to pass these tests instead of falling back into victim stories.Think about who you'd be if you already had your dream life. How would that version of you handle a $5K unexpected expense? They'd just handle it without drama because they operate from abundance, not scarcity.Life is built on duality - you can't have up without down, good without bad. When you understand this, you can start to love the challenges because they're opportunities to practice being your highest self. When you catch yourself judging something as "bad," that's your cue - you get to choose victim story or creator energy.The practice that works:✔️List your old self vs new self responses. ✔️How does each version handle stress, money problems, relationship issues? ✔️Then mentally rehearse being the new you before challenges hit.This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything's fine. It's about recognizing that your external reality mirrors your internal frequency. Change the frequency, change the reality.Connect with me:📸 Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.#LifeTests #SpiritualGrowth #Mindset #PersonalDevelopment #Manifestation #Consciousness #SelfDevelopment #MindsetShift #SpiritualAwakening #UniversalLaws#VictimMindset #FrequencyShift #NewSelf #SpiritualJourney #Awakening #ConsciousLiving #Spirituality
Reality Morphing: How I Escaped Corporate & Created My Dream Life
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How is it going, Legends? Today, I'll be sharing a reflection on reality morphing. Reality morphing is intentionally shifting your internal projection to change what reflects back in your external world. Using my personal experience at 22, I was trapped as a tax accountant at Deloitte in Perth, stuck in work I hated based on what society told me success should look like.
Here's what you'll learn in this Podcast:
✔️ The exact reality morphing process that took me from corporate to world traveler
✔️ How to access your future frequency before circumstances change
✔️ The train meditation technique that shifted my entire trajectory
✔️ Why taking responsibility gives you power to rewrite old conditioning
✔️ How I quit my six-figure career path with zero fear
✔️ The three-year game approach for massive life transformations.
My transformation started with daily morning practices on my commute, consciously tapping into how it would feel to live my dream reality. I made every train ride a no-phone meditation zone, practiced walking meditations without knowing that's what they were called. Because I'd already transcended my environment internally, quitting my chartered accounting degree felt natural, not terrifying.
The key insight: your imagination is the only limit to what you can access vibrationally. For something to exist physically, it must first exist vibrationally. You must become the frequency of your future before your external world reflects it back.
The process works because you stop looking for evidence outside yourself. When you ARE the thing you want, you no longer need it to show up to feel complete.
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Jordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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1. Reality Morphing: How I Escaped Corporate & Created My Dream Life
2. From Tax Accountant to World Traveler: The Reality Shift
3. How I Quit My 6-Figure Job and Morphed My Reality
4. The Frequency Shift That Completely Changed My Life
5. I Escaped the Matrix Using This Reality Morphing Process
#RealityMorphing #EscapeCorporate #ManifestationTechniques #FrequencyShift #JoeDispenza #DigitalNomad #EntrepreneurMindset #CorporateEscape #SpiritualEntrepreneur #ConsciousCreation #SpiritualAwakening #HigherSelf #IntentionalLiving #WalkingMeditation #TrainMeditation #FrequencyWork #RealityShifting #QuantumField #VibrationalReality #FutureSelfVisualization
From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free RelationshipApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/ema...Your first love hits different. For men especially, it breaks you down completely when attachment wounds get triggered. One day you're good, the next you're in the dumps because the relationship is struggling. You hate how much control they have over your emotional state.I coach men through relationship breakdowns regularly, and I see the same pattern - guys who let their happiness depend entirely on one person. This podcast shares how I went from being completely attached and needy with my first love to building a 10-year relationship with Amanda that's drama-free because we both have internal security.What you'll learn in this podcast:✔️Why first love destroys young men and how to recover✔️The exact process of cutting someone off completely ✔️How to build internal security that doesn't depend on others✔️Why relationships are here to make you aware, not happy✔️How Amanda and I handle months apart with zero jealousy✔️The foundation that creates drama-free relationshipsIf you're going through heartbreak right now, this is your dark night of the soul. Don't distract from the pain - use it to become someone who attracts love effortlessly. You have to earn the right to receive extraordinary love by becoming worthy of it.The uncomfortable truth is you may never end up with the person you're currently attached to. Can you be okay with that? Until you can, your relationships will be built on shaky foundations with constant drama.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: / jordancandlish01 🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: / jordancandlish01 🎵 TikTok: / jordancandlish01 ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.Recommended Titles1. Why Your First Love Nearly Destroyed You (And How Mine Led to 10 Years of Bliss)2. From Obsessed and Needy to 10-Year Drama-Free Relationship3. How I Went Cold Turkey on My First Love and Found My Soulmate4. The Dark Night of the Soul That Saved My Love Life5. Why Men Get Destroyed by First Love (Recovery Guide)#FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #FirstLove #HeartbreakRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentIssues #DatingAdvice #EmotionalDetachment #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #PersonalGrowth #MensCoaching #relationshipadvice
Navigating Seasonal Energy Shifts: Why You Feel Different in FallApply to work with me 👉🏼 https://bit.ly/3HoAy5TAccess my FREE 5-Day Email Course. Each day, you'll get one specific, actionable shift that creates immediate results. Don't miss this - sign up now: https://state-shifters.webflow.io/email-course?Life operates on polarity - you can't have light without dark, highs without lows. Right now in the Northern Hemisphere, we've shifted from summer into fall, and this natural transition affects our energy more than most people realize. If you've been feeling less motivated or inspired lately, this isn't a problem to fix - it's a season to honor.Here's what you'll learn in this Podcast:✔️ Why your energy naturally shifts with the seasons (and moon cycles)✔️ How to work with your body's natural rhythms instead of against them✔️ The difference between resistance and gracious acceptance of change✔️ How to navigate the inevitable ups and downs without judgment✔️ Why your body gets sick when you don't honor energetic shifts✔️ The connection between seasonal changes and urges/impulsesI recently experienced this firsthand - had the best night of my life dancing downtown Toronto, then lost my girlfriend's dad's Mercedes keys and faced a $1000 replacement cost. Classic pendulum swing from extreme high to extreme low. But here's the thing: when you understand life's natural polarity, you can move through these shifts with grace instead of resistance.The more attuned you become to your energy, the more you'll notice these natural cycles. New moons bring new energy. Seasonal transitions invite different practices. Your body operates on 24-hour, monthly, and yearly cycles that affect everything from creativity to physical needs.What this fall season might be calling you toward:✔️ Less intense physical training, more gentle movement✔️More meditation and introspection✔️Increased time in nature and connection with plants/trees✔️ Honoring the body's need for rest and restorationWhen you resist these natural shifts, your body will eventually force the change through illness or other mechanisms. The key is learning to ask: "What is this season requiring of me?" instead of fighting what is.If you're in a low period right now, remember - God/Universe doesn't have personal judgments about your experience. You're not being punished. This darkness may be exactly what's needed for your growth and evolution. Your soul came here to experience the full range, not just the highlights.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle. Alternative Titles:1. Navigating Seasonal Energy Shifts: Why You Feel Different in Fall2. Why Your Energy Changes With the Seasons (And How to Honor It)3. The Real Reason You Feel Less Motivated in Fall4. How to Work With Your Body's Natural Rhythms5. Why Fighting Seasonal Changes Makes You Sick#SeasonalEnergy #EnergyShifts #NaturalRhythms #SeasonalDepression #FallTransition #MoonCycles #BodyWisdom #ChineseMedicine #SpiritualSeason #EnergeticAlignment #NatureConnection #SeasonalWellness #BodyClock #EnergyManagement #SeasonalSelfCare
Female Perspective: What Thousands of Men Have Taught Me About Masculinity
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Hey, Legends? Today I'm sitting down with Sasha Cobra - someone who's been doing this work for 18 years, long before Instagram existed. She's worked with thousands of men and has insights about masculinity that'll challenge everything you think you know.
This conversation gets deep into territory most people won't touch. Sasha combines spirituality with sexuality in ways that actually heal trauma and unlock authentic power. After working exclusively with men for 8 years, then opening to women, she's witnessed patterns most coaches never see.
Here's what we explore in this podcast:
✔️ Why men are actually more loving and caring than most women (controversial but true)
✔️ The real reason men struggle with sexual shame and how it blocks everything else
✔️ How disconnection from your penis disconnects you from your power center
✔️ Why anger is actually a gift that most men suppress into rage
✔️ The difference between making love and "gymnastics with an ending"
✔️ How to use sexual energy as a healing modality for trauma
Most men's work ignores sexuality entirely. But your sexual energy is your life force energy. When you reject connection to your penis, you reject your positive pole - where confidence, decision-making, authority, and leadership reside.
Practical applications:-
For men in relationships: Your energy during lovemaking becomes medicine for both of you. Physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual healing happens when you understand how to make love energetically rather than just having friction-based sex.
For women listening: How to inspire your man to grow without triggering his mother wounds. The art of being a "seductress" (not Instagram version) - someone who seduces people out of ego into love.
The conversation touches on everything from porn addiction recovery to why most men have never actually made love, even in long-term relationships. Heavy topics handled with wisdom from someone who's dedicated her life to this work.
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Alternative Titles:
#MensWork #SexualHealing #MasculineEnergy #SexualityAndSpirituality #TraumaHealing #MensHealth #SacredSexuality #EnergyWork #MensCoaching #SexualWellness #MasculineDevelopment #IntimacyCoaching #SexualTrauma #MensMentalHealth #BodyWork #TantricHealing #SexualEmpowerment #MensTherapy #SexEducation #HolisticHealing #SexualAwakening #MindBodyConnection #RelationshipCoaching #SexualConfidence #MasculineHealing
ABOUT ME
Jordan is a men's coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. Former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee who helps high-performing men build lives that feel good, not just look good on paper.
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What's up, legends? Happy to be sharing this powerful podcast with you today. I'm sitting down with Adam Klai, a friend and someone who's become a huge inspiration in my journey. This guy has facilitated 83 workshops for over 2000 men, combining Orthodox Jewish wisdom with breakthrough emotional work. The depth of what we explore here honestly changed my perspective on masculinity and spiritual practice.
Adam isn't just talking theory - he's living it. Father to 10 children, maintaining ancient traditions while helping modern men break through their deepest patterns. We recorded this in his studio, and you can feel the energy of someone who's walked this path for real.
This podcast speaks raw about what men actually need to transform:
✔️ Why ancient religious structures aren't outdated - they're essential for modern breakthroughs
✔️ The difference between feeling spiritual and actually practicing discipline
✔️ How childhood masks form and why integrating them (not destroying them) is the key
✔️ Why you'll never reach your potential without other men witnessing your growth
✔️ The uncomfortable truth about why life gets harder after you do the work
✔️ How to navigate the tests that come when you level up
What hit me most: "Men don't change by knowing more - they change by feeling more." After years of consuming content, courses, and coaching, this conversation reminded me why nothing beats being in a room with other men doing the real work.
The integration piece is what most people miss. After a breakthrough, life often tests you harder. Your old patterns get triggered more intensely. This isn't failure - it's the universe checking if you're serious about this new version of yourself. Having the right support and perspective determines whether you grow or regress.
Adam shared stories that'll make you rethink everything - from the 6-year-old who got slapped for mispronouncing God's name to his own daughter teaching him about his triggers. The vulnerability in this conversation is what makes it powerful.
If you've been consuming men's work content but avoiding the real experience, this might be the wake-up call you need. There's only so much you can learn from YouTube videos. At some point, you need to be witnessed by other men who are committed to growth.
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About Me:Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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🎙️ Why Overworking Won’t Fix Your Life (And How to Finally Feel Worthy)
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What’s up, Legends?
If you’ve been grinding, hustling, and overworking but still feel like it’s never enough, this episode is for you. Because here’s the truth: that feeling of “not being enough” isn’t coming from your business, your partner, or your bank account. It started way earlier, deep in your childhood, and for most men, it’s tied to the father wound.
Today, I’m going to help you break the cycle so you can finally create success that feels good, without burning yourself into the ground.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✔️ The hidden roots of the “not enough” syndrome (and why it always traces back to childhood)✔️ How your dad’s work habits shaped your beliefs about worthiness and success✔️ Why working harder from fear keeps you stuck in the old frequency✔️ The daily alignment audit that will show you where you’re abandoning yourself✔️ How to confront the shame and grief you’ve been avoiding through busyness✔️ The simple shift from “doing more” to being more that unlocks peace, abundance, and courageMy Background:✔️ Scaled coaching business to 6+ figures✔️ 10-year relationship with my girlfriend Amanda✔️ Former Deloitte accountant who broke free from corporate✔️ Traveled the world building my dream lifeThis comes from real experience working with millionaire clients and observing what actually works vs. what keeps people stuck.Connect with me:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordancandlish01/🐦 Twitter: https://x.com/JordanCandlish📱 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jordancandlish01🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jordancandlish01Podcast Title Ideas:The "Not Enough" Syndrome Killing Your Success (How to Break Free)The Key To Letting Go Of Negative FeelingEliminate Self Doubt: Tap Your Root PotesntialFrom Overwork Addiction to Effortless SuccessHow To Manifest Anything#WinnersMindset #SuccessFrequency #EntrepreneurMindset #PersonalDevelopment #MindsetShift #SuccessMindset #WinnerVibration #HighPerformance #BusinessMindset #SelfDevelopment ABOUT MEJordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
The Winner's Frequency: Why Only 1% Actually Succeed (Mindset Shift Required)
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🎯 After coaching over 2,000 people, I've discovered the exact frequency that separates winners from losers. In this podcast, I break down the mindset shifts that millionaires and successful athletes use to achieve effortless success. This isn't about motivation - it's about rewiring your internal operating system.
What You'll Learn:
✔️ The specific belief system that successful people share
✔️ Why discomfort is actually your growth signal
✔️ How to develop unshakeable internal confidence
✔️ The frequency shift that attracts success automatically
✔️ Why attachment to results kills performance
My Background:
✔️ Scaled coaching business to 6+ figures
✔️ 10-year relationship with my girlfriend Amanda
✔️ Former Deloitte accountant who broke free from corporate
✔️ Traveled the world building my dream life
This comes from real experience working with millionaire clients and observing what actually works vs. what keeps people stuck.
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Podcast Title Ideas:
#WinnersMindset #SuccessFrequency #EntrepreneurMindset #PersonalDevelopment #MindsetShift #SuccessMindset #WinnerVibration #HighPerformance #BusinessMindset #SelfDevelopment
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good, not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Semen Retention Reality Check: What They Don't Tell You About Energy Circulation
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🔥 After 10+ years of semen retention practice and running men's groups, I'm sharing the TRUTH about what most men get wrong.
In this podcast, I break down the biggest mistakes men make with semen retention that can actually harm your body and create dysfunction. From neurotic behavior to wet dreams and energy stagnation - I cover it all.
What You'll Learn:
✔️ Why most men fail at semen retention (and how to avoid it)
✔️ The 3 critical foundations you MUST have before starting
✔️ How to properly circulate sexual energy (game-changer)
✔️ When and how to release without shame or depletion
✔️ The right vs wrong intentions for this practice
✔️ Real signs your body has reached its capacity
My Story: I started this journey at 21 during a 7-month long-distance relationship. What began as a commitment to my partner became a decade-long exploration of masculine energy, purpose, and embodiment.
If you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list. https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/f60f613c72
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#SemenRetention #NoFap #MasculineEnergy #MensWork #SelfImprovement #Embodiment #SexualEnergy #MensHealth #Consciousness #SpiritualPractice #MensGroups #PersonalDevelopment #Mindfulness #EnergyWork #MensWellness
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
The DARK Truth About Spiritual Communities & Modern Masculinity (Eye-Opening)
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In this powerful conversation, two men dive deep into the uncomfortable truths about modern spirituality, masculinity, and personal development. From Bali to Perth, they share raw insights about spiritual bypassing, fake gurus, and the dangerous traps that keep people stuck in delusion.
🔥 What You'll Discover:
This isn't your typical "love and light" conversation. It's a brutally honest look at what real transformation requires and why most people never get there.
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#MasculinityEvolution #SpiritualGrowth #AuthenticMasculinity #PersonalDevelopment #ShadowWork #SpiritualBypassing #MentalHealth #Consciousness #SelfDevelopment #Authenticity #MaleInitiation #SacredMasculine
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
How AI Can Make You a Better Partner (My Real Experience)
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Discover how AI is revolutionizing relationships and helping couples connect deeper than ever before. In this video, I share my personal experience using AI tools to become a better partner, resolve conflicts faster, and create more meaningful connections.
After coaching over 1,000 people in relationships, I've discovered something surprising: AI isn't disconnecting us - it's bringing us closer together. From personalized date night ideas to real-time relationship coaching, I'll show you exactly how I've been using AI to transform my relationship.
What You'll Learn:
✔️ How AI can know you and your partner better than you know yourselves
✔️ Real examples of AI helping me support my girlfriend during stressful times
✔️ The best AI apps for 24/7 relationship coaching and emotional processing
✔️ How to use AI for faster conflict resolution and better communication
✔️ Why having an AI coach in your pocket changes everything
If you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list. https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/f60f613c72
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#AIRelationships #RelationshipCoaching #ModernLove #AICoach #RelationshipAdvice #AITherapy #RelationshipTips #PersonalDevelopment #RelationshipGrowth #moderndating
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Why Your Woman's Emotions Trigger You (And How to Handle Them Like a Leader)
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Do you feel overwhelmed when your woman gets emotional? Does her mood seem to come out of nowhere and throw off your entire day? You're not alone, brother.In this video, I break down the real reason why women's emotions trigger men so intensely - and more importantly, I show you exactly how to handle these moments like the masculine leader she needs you to be.
🔥 What You'll Learn:
✔️ Why trying to "fix" her emotions actually makes things worse
✔️ The ocean analogy that will completely shift how you see her moods
✔️ How to hear the pain (not the blame) in what she's saying
✔️ The #1 mistake that kills attraction and polarity in relationships
✔️ Practical steps to create internal space so you don't react
✔️ Why her emotions are actually a test of your masculine leadership
If you want extra support, I send out weekly emails diving deeper into this. Hit the link in below to join the list. https://jordan-candlish.kit.com/f60f613c72
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#MasculineLeadership #RelationshipAdvice #MensDating #MasculineEnergy #FeminineEnergy #RelationshipGoals #DatingAdvice #PersonalDevelopment #MensCoaching #RelationshipCoaching #EmotionalIntelligence #MasculineFrame #AlphaMale #RelationshipTips #mensgrowth
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Relationship Doubts? Before You Leave - Watch This (Men's Guide)
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Are you questioning your relationship and wondering if you're with the right person? As a man who's been in a 10-year relationship, I've experienced these doubts multiple times. In this video, I share the exact process that helped me work through relationship uncertainty and make the right decisions.
What You'll Learn:
The 3 stages of male development (Knight, Prince, King) and how they affect relationships
Why your partner mirrors your energy and presence
The difference between boredom and incompatibility
How to have honest conversations about your doubts
When to work through issues vs when to walk away
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#relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #datingadvice #love #relationships #mentalhealth #selfgrowth #personaldevelopment #mindset #motivation #masculinity #emotionalintelligence #communication #relationshiptips #datingtips
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
Stop Suppressing Your Anger: 5 Techniques Every Man Needs to Know
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Are you struggling with anger management as a man? Whether you suppress your anger or let it explode, this video teaches you 5 powerful techniques to harness and channel your masculine energy in healthy ways.
In this podcast, men's coach Jordan Candlish reveals:
✅ Why men suppress anger and how it destroys relationships
✅ 5 proven techniques for healthy anger release
✅ The primal scream method that works instantly
✅ How to process anger without harming your partner
✅ Why spiritual bypassing keeps you stuck
These techniques have helped thousands of men integrate their shadow work and become calmer, more grounded leaders in their relationships.
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#AngerManagement #MensCoaching #MasculineEnergy #ShadowWork #EmotionalRegulation #MensPersonalDevelopment #HealthyMasculinity
ABOUT ME
Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.