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What's up, legends? Happy to be sharing this powerful podcast with you today. I'm sitting down with Adam Klai, a friend and someone who's become a huge inspiration in my journey. This guy has facilitated 83 workshops for over 2000 men, combining Orthodox Jewish wisdom with breakthrough emotional work. The depth of what we explore here honestly changed my perspective on masculinity and spiritual practice.
Adam isn't just talking theory - he's living it. Father to 10 children, maintaining ancient traditions while helping modern men break through their deepest patterns. We recorded this in his studio, and you can feel the energy of someone who's walked this path for real.
This podcast speaks raw about what men actually need to transform:
✔️ Why ancient religious structures aren't outdated - they're essential for modern breakthroughs
✔️ The difference between feeling spiritual and actually practicing discipline
✔️ How childhood masks form and why integrating them (not destroying them) is the key
✔️ Why you'll never reach your potential without other men witnessing your growth
✔️ The uncomfortable truth about why life gets harder after you do the work
✔️ How to navigate the tests that come when you level up
What hit me most: "Men don't change by knowing more - they change by feeling more." After years of consuming content, courses, and coaching, this conversation reminded me why nothing beats being in a room with other men doing the real work.
The integration piece is what most people miss. After a breakthrough, life often tests you harder. Your old patterns get triggered more intensely. This isn't failure - it's the universe checking if you're serious about this new version of yourself. Having the right support and perspective determines whether you grow or regress.
Adam shared stories that'll make you rethink everything - from the 6-year-old who got slapped for mispronouncing God's name to his own daughter teaching him about his triggers. The vulnerability in this conversation is what makes it powerful.
If you've been consuming men's work content but avoiding the real experience, this might be the wake-up call you need. There's only so much you can learn from YouTube videos. At some point, you need to be witnessed by other men who are committed to growth.
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About Me:Jordan Candlish is a men’s coach, speaker, and creator behind the Embodied Entrepreneur. A former semi-pro soccer player turned corporate escapee, Jordan helps high-performing men reconnect with purpose, master their emotions, and build a life that actually feels good—not just looks good on paper. His content blends mindset, embodiment, and spiritual depth to help men lead with heart, not just hustle.
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