Episode Summary This episode wraps up the 6-phase journey outlined in Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, bringing us into one of the most important—but often most difficult—steps: trusting God with the future. If you've been through loss, betrayal, or massive life changes, trusting again—yourself, others, and especially God—can feel like walking on shaky ground. But in this episode, we talk about how trust isn’t just something we stumble into when we run out of strength—it’s a posture we choose daily. You’ll hear what it means to surrender, to walk forward without a full map, and to hold on to God’s promises even when everything else still feels uncertain. What You’ll Hear Why trust is more about surrender than effort How to move forward when you don’t have all the answers The difference between trusting God and trusting people How delays and setbacks shape your faith How to let go of control without giving up hope Why You Should Listen If you’re stuck between healing and moving ahead… this episode is for you. It will speak directly to your heart if you’ve ever felt like trusting God is a risk—especially after disappointment. You’ll hear practical encouragement, biblical truth, and real talk about what it takes to lean into God's faithfulness. Why This Episode Matters This final phase—It’s Time to Trust—is not about fixing yourself. It’s about learning how to rest in the One who never changes. When everything around you has shifted, God remains steady. Trusting Him is the bridge between where you’ve been… and the beautiful future He’s still writing for you. Bible Verses Nahum 1:7 — “The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him.” Psalm 112:7 — “They will have no fear of bad news; their hearts are steadfast, trusting in the Lord.” Proverbs 3:5–6 — “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding…” If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERE Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB

If you’ve been walking through pain, confusion, and the hard work of healing, you’ve likely reached a new crossroad—one that whispers, “It’s time to move forward.” But what does that even mean when you’re still tired, unsure, and carrying scars from the past? In this episode, Tom breaks down what forward movement really looks like after devastation. Not a leap. Not a sprint. Just one small, intentional step at a time. This episode is part of the Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God series and falls within Phase 5: Move of the six-part framework (Pray, Worship, Heal, Hope, Move, Trust). Tom explores how to create new routines, guard your healing, rebuild with purpose, and trust God to show you the next step—even when the path feels shaky. If you're wondering how to step into life again, this is your episode. What You’ll Hear Why moving forward doesn’t have to be dramatic—just deliberate How to set realistic goals that match your current emotional and spiritual season What it means to live with uncertainty and still walk in faith How to guard your healing with boundaries and the right community Encouragement for letting go of guilt and trusting God for your next right step Why You Should Listen You’ll walk away from this episode with practical tools and spiritual encouragement to keep going—especially when it feels like you’re still wobbling. Whether you’re starting over after divorce, grief, betrayal, or burnout, this conversation gives you real steps to take and reminds you: you’re not rebuilding alone. Why This Episode Matters Too many people stay stuck after healing begins because they’re afraid to move. This episode helps you take that next brave step, reminding you that forward motion doesn’t require perfection—it just requires willingness. You’ll hear Scripture, book quotes, and wisdom from Tom’s personal journey that will meet you right where you are and push you gently into what’s next. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book: www.thestartingoverbook.com Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB

Episode Summary: When life has knocked the wind out of you—through divorce, loss, addiction, or just long seasons of pain—hope can feel like a distant memory. But there comes a moment, even after the heartbreak and confusion, when something begins to shift. The fog lifts just enough to see a glimmer of light—and that’s when hope returns. In this episode, Tom and Paul Berard talk about what it means to truly hope again—not the wishful thinking kind, but the grounded, biblical, soul-deep kind of hope that fuels your future. If you’ve been wondering whether joy is still possible, this is for you. What You’ll Hear: The difference between biblical hope and wishful thinking How Tom’s story of rock-bottom became a doorway to renewed faith Why it’s okay for fear and hope to exist at the same time How to pray when you don’t know what to hope for Why speaking hope out loud reinforces your trust in God Why You Should Listen: If you’ve ever been stuck in a place where the future felt blank or discouraging, this conversation offers encouragement and practical guidance. Tom and Paul share real stories of what it means to move from despair to believing again—one step at a time. You’ll learn how hope is more than a feeling—it’s a faith-fueled decision. Why This Episode Matters: In a world where it's easy to give up and expect the worst, learning how to hold on to hope is one of the most courageous things you can do. This episode reminds you that your story isn’t finished, God hasn’t forgotten you, and the next chapter might just be better than you imagined. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERE Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB

Episode Summary In part two of this healing conversation, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard share what it really means to walk out the healing process with God’s presence. Healing isn’t an event—it’s a daily journey of forgiveness, prayer, community, and trust. Together they explore how salvation through Christ changes everything, why peace and wholeness come only from God, and how practical steps combined with faith move us toward true restoration. What You’ll Hear Why healing is a journey, not a one-time event The difference between temporary willpower and lasting peace in Christ How forgiveness releases bitterness and accelerates healing The role of prayer, Scripture, and community in daily restoration Stories and Scriptures (Philippians 4:4–9) that reveal God’s path to peace Why You Should Listen If you’ve tried self-help strategies and still feel stuck, this episode shows how healing with God isn’t about quick fixes but about daily steps of faith, forgiveness, and renewal. Why This Episode Matters We all face wounds that time alone cannot heal. With Jesus as Savior and guide, we can rise above the past, live with peace in the present, and trust God with the future. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Healing Without God – Why It Doesn’t Work Episode Summary In this first part of a two-part series on healing, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard tackle the question of why so many people try to recover from life’s deepest wounds without God—and why it never truly works. From workaholism and relationships to substances and distractions, they explore how temporary fixes can numb the pain but never restore the heart. With Scripture, personal stories, and practical insights, this conversation reveals how surrendering our brokenness to God is the only path to lasting healing. What You’ll Hear Why self-medicating through work, relationships, or substances only manages symptoms The five areas of life most impacted by emotional injury How God can use doctors, counselors, and medicine—but why they’re not enough on their own The difference between surviving without God and living with Him Key Scriptures (Jeremiah 30:17; Psalm 30:2) that point to God’s plan for restoration Why You Should Listen If you’ve tried to heal on your own and ended up frustrated or empty, this episode will show you why true healing starts with God’s presence, not our efforts. Why This Episode Matters We all carry scars—emotional, physical, spiritual, or relational. But healing without God is only temporary. This episode reminds us that real restoration begins when we let the Great Healer into our lives. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Can Worship Really Help? Summary In this follow-up to Part 1, Tom and Paul Berard dive deeper into the concept of worship—not as a Sunday morning event, but as a daily way of life. As the world feels more unstable, and the culture around us keeps shifting, worship becomes less of a performance and more of a lifeline. This episode explores what it looks like to worship God in everyday moments, how to maintain spiritual rhythm during times of uncertainty, and why true worship is about surrendering your identity, your stress, and your expectations. Whether you're stuck in a rut or rebuilding after a life upheaval, this conversation will show you how worship can ground you and guide you. What You’ll Hear Why worship is about who you are, not where you are How politics, chaos, and culture wars distract us from God's presence The difference between a Sunday-only faith and a daily walk with God How to build a sustainable worship routine during a “Life 2.0” season The biblical power of worship as warfare Examples of worship bringing real-life breakthroughs (Jericho, Paul in prison) Why surrender is a key part of true worship Encouragement to create a worship “anthem” that speaks to your season How worship anchors your identity as a child of God Daily habits that restore peace and prepare you for your next chapter Why You Should Listen If your life feels unsteady and your spiritual walk has hit a dry patch, this episode offers a clear path back to God’s presence. You don’t need perfect circumstances to worship—you just need a heart willing to connect. Tom and Paul show how daily worship can help you push back against chaos and re-center your soul in truth, peace, and strength. Why This Episode Matters This is more than a talk about church music. It’s about how to live with faith in real time, especially when you're rebuilding from a major life shift. Worship is presented here as a mindset, a rhythm, and a lifestyle that invites healing, clarity, and divine presence—right when you need it most. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Can Worship Really Help? Episode Summary When life flips upside down—through divorce, grief, or any major life change—worship is often the last thing on your mind. But in today’s conversation, Tom and guest Paul Berard explore why worship might just need to be your first response. Recorded from Tom’s new home base in Portugal, this episode is filled with personal stories, hard truths, and biblical reminders about how to lift our eyes upward—even when life feels like it's falling apart. They discuss what worship looks like in the trenches, how to find God in the silence, and why masculinity should never be a barrier to expressing real, emotional faith. What You’ll Hear Why worship is a vital part of Phase 2 in the Starting Over | Life 2.0 journey How to reframe worship as an act of healing, not just a ritual Personal stories of worship in times of loss and uncertainty The power of posture and music in emotional and spiritual breakthrough Why God honors raw, honest, unfiltered worship over polished perfection Why You Should Listen If you’re in a season where life feels unpredictable, and the idea of worship seems far off—or even impossible—this episode will meet you right where you are. Tom and Paul don’t offer clichés; they share real stories and honest insight about how worship has carried them through the hardest seasons of life. You’ll walk away reminded that worship isn’t about having the right words or the perfect setting. It’s about showing up—with all your pain, questions, and hope—and letting God meet you there. Why This Episode Matters This episode sets the foundation for understanding worship as a spiritual lifeline during a rebuild. It’s part of Phase 2 in Tom’s six-phase framework for starting over—a key step that often gets overlooked when people focus only on fixing external circumstances. Worship invites God into the healing process, helping listeners not just survive but truly rebuild from the inside out. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Can Prayer Really Help? Episode Summary: In this heartfelt follow-up episode, Tom and Paul dive deeper into the real meaning of prayer during life’s transitional seasons. Going beyond the basics of how or when to pray, they explore what it means to develop a sincere, intimate relationship with God through prayer. Whether you're navigating change, feeling spiritually dry, or seeking to grow closer to God, this episode offers grounded, relatable encouragement to help you move beyond a surface-level prayer life. From using the Psalms as a model to interceding for others and realigning your desires with God’s promises, this conversation will inspire you to embrace prayer as both a relationship and a rhythm. What You’ll Hear: How to develop a daily rhythm of prayer that goes beyond crisis mode Why praying for others shifts your heart and invites healing How to use God’s promises and scripture as the foundation of your prayers The difference between boundaries and walls in your spiritual life How brokenness and humility lead to deeper intimacy with God Why You Should Listen: If you've ever wondered why your prayers feel stuck, shallow, or repetitive, this episode will help you reset your perspective and rediscover the power of relational prayer. It’s not about fancy words or long hours—it’s about real connection with God, honesty, and growth. Why This Episode Matters: This episode reframes prayer as a lifestyle of alignment with God’s heart, especially during transitions. It’s a practical and biblical guide for how to grow spiritually through tough seasons by deepening your daily walk with God. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Can Prayer Really Help? Summary: In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 with God, we dig into the very first step of healing after a major life change: prayer. If you've ever felt like you're stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of where to go next, prayer isn’t just a last resort—it’s the beginning of rebuilding from the inside out. I’m joined again by Paul Berard, and we talk candidly about what prayer really is (and isn’t), how to move past spiritual roadblocks, and how prayer isn’t about saying the right words—it’s about opening your heart to God. This episode sets the stage for the six-phase framework from my book Starting Over, and today, we explore how prayer becomes the foundation for real, lasting transformation. What You’ll Hear: Why prayer is the first internal step in starting over The difference between a formulaic prayer and an honest conversation with God What to do when the answer to your prayer is “wait” (and why that’s the hardest one) How posture and consistency in prayer help deepen your faith walk The connection between prayer, emotional healing, and practical next steps in life Why You Should Listen: If you’re in the thick of uncertainty—whether from a loss, failure, or big transition—this episode will remind you that you don’t have to walk through it alone. We unpack what prayer looks like when life has knocked you down, and how you can use it as a starting point to rebuild your life with purpose. Even if you feel spiritually distant or unsure how to begin, this conversation will help you take that first step in a very real and honest way. Why This Episode Matters: We all need a reset button sometimes, and prayer is often where clarity and comfort begin. This episode strips away the complications, traditions, and pressure we sometimes put on prayer and invites listeners into a space of real connection with God. Whether you’re new to faith or returning after a hard season, this is a foundational conversation that will guide you into phase one of starting over—with God at the center. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Moving On After Divorce Summary In this episode of Life 2.0 with God, we’re talking honestly about what it means to move forward after a divorce. This life transition can shake your identity, your family life, and your faith. But it’s not the end of your story. We’ll explore what it looks like to rebuild with God’s help—rediscovering who you are, choosing hope again, and learning to co-parent in a healthy, faith-filled way. 5 Key Takeaways from This Episode You Are More Than Your Marriage -Your identity is not tied to your past relationship. Rediscover your God-given passions and purpose. There’s Still Hope for Love - You can love again—but it starts with healing, obedience, and trusting God’s timing and standards. Co-Parenting Requires Grace and Wisdom - Your children need your stability more than your perfection. Be present, not perfect. Mindset Matters- Your age doesn’t disqualify you. If you’re still here, God still has a plan. Ask Him for strength and wisdom. Obedience Leads to Blessing - Following God’s truth—especially in relationships—lays a strong foundation for your future. Why You Should Listen If you’re walking through a divorce or rebuilding life after one, this episode gives you practical wisdom, spiritual encouragement, and a reminder that God’s not done with your story. Why This Episode Matters Divorce often brings shame, isolation, and confusion. But with the right mindset and biblical truth, you can navigate this new chapter with confidence, clarity, and hope rooted in Christ. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Healing After a Major Betrayal: How to Forgive, Protect Your Heart, and Rebuild with Grace Summary: Betrayal cuts deep—especially when it comes from someone you trusted. In this heartfelt episode, Tom shares from personal experience what it means to walk the long road of healing after a major betrayal. Whether you’ve been hurt by a friend, a spouse, a family member, or a business partner, the weight of that pain can feel overwhelming. But you don’t have to carry it forever. This conversation unpacks the practical and spiritual steps toward emotional freedom, the importance of guarding your heart during recovery, and how to rebuild your life without bitterness taking root. If you’re struggling with how to forgive or how to move forward, this episode is for you. 5 Bullet Points Highlighting Key Points: Why forgiveness is more about your freedom than the other person’s behavior. The difference between healthy boundaries and isolation after betrayal. How to protect your peace while you're still in the healing process. Why bitterness can’t be your foundation—and what to build on instead. Biblical truths and personal practices to start over with clarity and hope. Why You Should Listen: If you’ve ever had the wind knocked out of you by betrayal, this episode offers a path forward. It’s not about pretending everything’s okay—it’s about taking real, honest steps toward healing, with God’s help. You’ll walk away encouraged, equipped, and reminded that even if your trust was broken, your story isn’t over. Why This Episode Matters: Betrayal can feel like the end—but it doesn’t have to be. This episode reminds listeners that God sees, God heals, and God still has a purpose for your life. It's a message of resilience, faith, and practical wisdom for anyone trying to pick up the pieces and begin again. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com. Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith at: https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer.

Summary In today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom and guest Paul Berard unpack the very real struggle of managing anxiety during major life transitions. Whether it’s a sudden loss, an unexpected move, becoming an empty nester, or walking through grief—these moments shake our routines and rattle our sense of control. But as Paul and Tom share from their own experiences, there are ways to slow down the chaos, reframe your mindset, and invite God into the stress instead of trying to carry it alone. This is a real-life conversation about faith, fear, and finding steady ground when everything around you is shifting. What You’ll Learn The difference between planned and unplanned transitions—and why the unplanned ones hit harder Why naming your anxiety is a key first step to managing it The importance of slowing down, breathing, and making “next-step” decisions—not solving everything all at once How exercise, small routines, and physical movement can reset your emotional health Why speaking truth to fear changes everything, especially with Scripture and support Why You Should Listen If you're feeling overwhelmed, uncertain, or just emotionally exhausted by the changes in your life, you're not alone—and you don’t have to navigate it on your own. This episode isn’t about giving you quick fixes. It’s about giving you real encouragement, grounded advice, and reminding you that God walks with you in the middle of the mess. Even when you don’t know what’s next, He does. Why This Episode Matters Transitions aren’t just logistical—they’re emotional and spiritual too. Left unmanaged, anxiety can paralyze us and steal the hope God wants to restore. But when we pause, breathe, and invite Him into the moment, everything starts to shift. This conversation matters because so many people silently struggle through life changes thinking they have to “hold it all together.” But the truth is: healing starts when you admit you don’t have to. God’s not surprised by your situation—and He’s not disappointed in where you are. He’s with you, and He’s already working on what’s ahead. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom sits down with Paul Berard to talk about something that quietly affects so many of us—what to do when life has knocked the wind out of your dreams. After going through major disappointments, failures, or betrayals, dreaming again can feel risky. Even foolish. But what if that dream still matters? What if God’s not done with it—or with you? This heartfelt conversation explores how to reclaim hope, rebuild your mindset, and protect those dreams from the voices (inside and outside your head) trying to shut them down. It’s honest, personal, and packed with encouragement for anyone trying to move forward after a major setback. What You’ll Learn Why dreaming again after failure takes real courage How to tell the difference between a dream and a God-given vision The power of mindset and how it shapes your future How to guard your heart and protect your dreams from negative influences What to do when other people’s opinions threaten to derail your progress Why You Should Listen If you’ve ever thought, “It’s too late for me,” or “I don’t even know how to start over,” this episode is for you. Tom and Paul don’t shy away from the hard stuff—they’ve both walked through it. But what you’ll hear is not just their story—it’s a reminder of your story still being written. If you're in a place where you want to believe again, to dream again, to try again, this conversation might be just what your heart needs. Why This Episode Matters Life has a way of dimming the dreams we once held tightly. But God is the one who brings beauty from ashes. When we dare to dream again, even with shaky hands, we’re stepping into the story God still wants to tell through us. This episode matters because too many people are stuck in regret, self-doubt, or fear—and they need to be reminded that it’s not too late. That there is still more ahead. That dreaming again might just be the most faithful thing you can do right now. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary In today’s episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, we’re getting real about something many people struggle with but don’t always talk about—loneliness after a breakup or divorce. Tom opens up about his own experience with the silence that follows a relationship ending, how it hit harder than expected, and what helped him move through it. This episode isn’t just about the pain—it’s about healing, rebuilding your identity, and finding God in the quiet moments. Whether you're in that space right now or supporting someone who is, this conversation offers hope, encouragement, and practical ways to keep going. What You’ll Learn Why loneliness can feel so heavy after a relationship ends How to stop replaying the past and start moving forward Ways to build new connections and community The difference between being alone and being in solitude How to let God meet you in the quiet when life feels empty Why You Should Listen If you’re feeling like your world just fell apart—or even if it happened a while ago and you're still struggling—this episode is for you. You’ll hear honest talk about what it’s like to start over, why it’s okay to grieve what could’ve been, and how faith can help you rebuild from the inside out. It’s a reminder that you’re not the only one feeling this way, and that healing is possible—one step at a time. Why This Episode Matters After a breakup or divorce, it’s easy to feel like you’re the only one going through it. But you’re not. This episode helps break that isolation by offering stories, scripture, and encouragement from someone who’s been there. If you’re in a season of starting over, this is a gentle nudge to keep going, trust God, and believe that something better is still ahead—even if you can’t see it yet. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Embracing Uncertainty: Trusting God When the Future Is Foggy Summary In this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God, we dive into the uncomfortable but inevitable topic of uncertainty. Whether you're navigating a life transition, facing a difficult decision, or just wondering what your next step should be, this conversation will speak to the heart of the struggle. Tom and guest Paul Barard explore how uncertainty isn't just a pause—it can be a place of preparation. From biblical insights to personal stories, this episode encourages you to trade fear for faith, lean into discernment, and trust that God is guiding you even when you can't see the full path ahead. What You’ll Learn ~~Why uncertainty often reveals our core beliefs and identity struggles ~~How taking a small step forward can lead to clarity ~~What it looks like to practice active discernment and obedience ~~How to balance wisdom and faith during indecision ~~The power of surrendering control and trusting God one step at a time Why You Should Listen If you’re facing a season where clarity seems out of reach and the pressure to make the “right” decision feels overwhelming, this episode offers practical encouragement and biblical perspective. You’ll be reminded that you’re not alone—and that God isn’t distant during the unknown. He’s right beside you, holding your hand as you step forward. Why This Episode Matters In a world filled with options, decisions, and distractions, it’s easy to become paralyzed by indecision. This episode reminds us that uncertainty doesn’t have to be feared—it can be embraced as a sacred space where God does some of His best work. By sharing stories, scriptures, and faith-filled insight, this conversation invites listeners to trust God not just with the destination, but with every uncertain step along the way. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary: In this episode of Starting Over: Life 2.0 with God, we take an honest look at what it means to practice patience in seasons of transition. Whether you're stepping out of a major life crisis, navigating uncertainty, or waiting for God to open the next door, the in-between can feel confusing and discouraging. Joined by my friend Paul Berard, we talk about the emotional and spiritual toll that waiting can take, why delays aren't denials, and how God often does His most refining work in these quiet, unseen moments. This episode is about shifting your mindset from frustration to faith and finding strength in the slow. What You’ll Learn: How to recognize that waiting on God is not the same as doing nothing Why God’s timing often doesn’t match our sense of urgency The connection between emotional frustration and spiritual immaturity How past seasons of waiting can prepare you for present growth Biblical insights and stories that show how patience leads to purpose Why You Should Listen: If you’re in a season where nothing seems to be happening fast enough—or at all—this episode will bring clarity and peace. Paul and I share personal stories and scripture-based insights that will help you see that your waiting has meaning. Whether you're waiting for healing, a breakthrough, or direction, this conversation will encourage you to keep trusting and keep moving forward. Why This Episode Matters: Patience is one of the most overlooked and undervalued acts of faith. Yet, it is often in our slowest, most uncertain seasons that God does His deepest work in us. When we learn to surrender our timelines and trust His, we begin to see the true beauty in the process. This episode reminds listeners that the wait is not a waste—and that God is always preparing something greater, even when we can't see it yet. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary: In this episode of Starting Over Life 2.0 with God, Tom sits down with Kari Schwear, founder of GrayTonic, to unpack the often-overlooked space between social drinking and alcoholism—what she calls “gray area drinking.” Kari shares her personal journey of breaking free from that gray zone, how her faith reignited in the process, and why it’s crucial to get honest with ourselves if we want true transformation. Together, they explore how to start over without alcohol, how to build a support system rooted in truth, and how God meets us in the middle of our mess with clarity, purpose, and healing. What You’ll Learn: What gray area drinking is and how it affects far more people than we realize How honesty and self-awareness are key to lasting transformation Why addressing the deeper “gray areas” of life—marriage, faith, health, purpose—is critical How community, boundaries, and prayer help support a sober and faith-filled life Practical tools like Kari's SABER method and the “Engines and Anchors” exercise Why You Should Listen: If you’ve struggled with drinking—or know someone who has—but don’t quite relate to the label “alcoholic,” this episode is for you. Kerry shares how God used her gray area drinking as a catalyst for purpose and calling. You’ll learn how to reframe the role of alcohol in your life, how to rebuild your identity, and how faith, honesty, and community can become your lifelines when starting over. It’s a powerful conversation full of grace, truth, and hope for real change. Why This Episode Matters: Many people wrestle silently in the space between social drinking and dependence, unsure of where they stand or how to move forward. This episode brings light to that hidden struggle and equips listeners with faith-based insights and tools to break free. More than just giving something up, Kerry’s story is about discovering what you’re truly meant for—and letting God reshape your life from the inside out. Kari Schwear Contact Info: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/karischwear/ Website: https://www.graytonic.com/ If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary Rejection is something we all experience, and it’s never easy. Whether it’s a job loss, a failed relationship, or a missed opportunity, rejection can leave us feeling stuck and questioning our worth. But what if rejection isn’t an end—what if it’s God’s way of redirecting us toward something better? In this episode, we’ll explore how to handle rejection with faith, how to see it as divine redirection, and how to trust that God’s plan is always better than our own. Through biblical examples, personal stories, and powerful insights, we’ll uncover why every closed door can be a step toward a greater purpose. What You’ll Learn ✅ Why rejection isn’t personal—it’s preparation for something better. ✅ How God’s “no” often leads to a better “yes” in His perfect timing. ✅ Biblical stories of people who faced rejection and later saw God’s greater purpose. ✅ How to shift your mindset from disappointment to divine appointment. ✅ Practical ways to trust God’s plan when rejection stings. Why You Should Listen You’ve experienced rejection and struggle with feeling like you’re not enough. You’re questioning God’s plan after a door has closed in your life. You want to understand how to turn rejection into a stepping stone for something greater. You need encouragement to trust God’s timing and direction, even when it doesn’t make sense. You’re looking for biblical wisdom on how God uses rejection to position us for His purpose. Why This Episode Matters Rejection doesn’t define you—God’s plan does. The job that passed you by? God has something better. The person who left? God is making room for someone greater. The opportunity that fell through? It wasn’t meant for you—and that’s a good thing. One day, you’ll look back and thank God for every “no” that led to a better “yes.” Key Bible Verses & Quotes: John 10:10 (NIV): "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." – The enemy wants rejection to destroy us, but God wants to use it to redirect us. Acts 16:6-10 (NIV): "Paul and his companions traveled throughout the region of Phrygia and Galatia, having been kept by the Holy Spirit from preaching the word in the province of Asia." – Sometimes God’s “no” is a setup for a greater assignment. Genesis 50:20 (NIV): "You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives." – Joseph’s rejection led to his purpose. Quote from No Limits by John Maxwell: "The greatest limitations you will ever face will be the ones you place on yourself." – Don’t let rejection become a self-imposed limitation. Quote from 'It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way' by Lysa TerKeurst: "God isn’t ever going to forsake you, but He will go to great lengths to remake you." – God uses rejection to transform us, not abandon us. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary: In this episode of Life 2.0 with God, Tom is joined by his good friend Paul Berard to talk about one of the hardest parts of starting over: learning how to trust again. After betrayal, broken relationships, or disappointing situations, trusting others—and even trusting yourself—can feel impossible. But with God's help, healing is possible. Whether you've been hurt by a friend, family member, spouse, or employer, this conversation offers biblical guidance and practical steps to help you rebuild trust the right way—slowly, intentionally, and with wisdom. What You’ll Learn: ✔️ How to rebuild self-trust after betrayal and regain confidence in your decisions. ✔️ How to open your heart to trusting people again without making the same mistakes. ✔️ Why taking it slow in new relationships helps build lasting, healthy trust. ✔️ Biblical examples of restoration from Peter and David’s stories. ✔️ The importance of trusting God first as the foundation for trusting others. Why You Should Listen: If you’ve ever been hurt by someone you trusted or felt like you couldn’t rely on your own judgment, this episode will give you encouragement to move forward. Tom and Paul share real-life insights about recovering from betrayal, setting boundaries, and taking small steps to rebuild trust with God, yourself, and others. It’s not about forgetting the past—it’s about learning from it and allowing God to guide you into something new. Why This Episode Matters: We all face moments when trust is broken, and rebuilding it takes time and grace. But you don’t have to stay stuck in hurt. This episode reminds you that God is the ultimate restorer. As you learn to trust Him again, He’ll heal your heart and lead you toward healthier, stronger relationships. Whether you’re starting over after a setback or simply struggling to open up again, this episode offers the encouragement you need to keep going. Remember: You’ve got this—and God’s got you. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.

Summary: Why God Removes Things From Your Life Have you ever wondered why certain things, relationships, or opportunities seem to slip away—especially when you thought they were meant to be? It can feel frustrating, confusing, and even painful. But what if God’s removals are actually His redirections? In this episode, we’ll explore how God’s plan is greater than ours, and how what feels like a setback may actually be a setup for something better. We’ll look at biblical examples, like Paul’s transformation, Joseph’s trials, and Lazarus’s resurrection, to see how God removes things not to harm us, but to prepare us for something greater. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why God removes things from our lives—and how it’s for our ultimate good. ✔️ How to recognize when a loss is actually redirection, not rejection. ✔️ Biblical examples of how God used loss to bring transformation. ✔️ How to let go of what God is removing so you can step into His greater plan. ✔️ Encouragement to trust God’s timing—even when it feels delayed. Why You Should Listen: ⭐ You’ve lost something significant—a job, relationship, or dream—and you’re wondering why. ⭐ You feel stuck in uncertainty and need encouragement to trust God’s bigger plan. ⭐ You struggle to let go of things that God may be removing from your life. ⭐ You need reassurance that God is leading you to something better, even in difficult seasons. If you’ve ever felt lost after something was taken away, this episode will remind you that God’s ways are higher than ours. He is always working behind the scenes for your good—even when you can’t see it yet. If today’s episode encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com.