Intimate musings on creativity, the self-enjoying nature of time, and the richness of reality beyond a plot-line. Then, a poetry reading of Mary Oliver's "Wild Geese."
"And when we allow ourselves to be consumed by time, by light, by darkness, by the persistent force of our own aching lives, we stop suffering because we stop thinking that we are somehow separate from the pain and separate from the joy and separate from the love that we are seeking.
When you become the goodness...there is nothing more to do, and so everything is simply done—done in you and through you. Trying to be good is denying your true nature; and the more you deny it, the more difficult it is to embrace the goodness you already are."
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How do we live in a world that's becoming ever more painful, dangerous, and absurd?
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Key points in this "speaking":
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You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
The key points in this "speaking":
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
The key points in this "speaking":
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
The key points in this "speaking":
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The key points in this "speaking":
Desire keeps us stretched into the future, looking for an otherwise or a not-yet. Because it feeds on the future, desire is inherently insatiable.
We are terrified of the present moment because to belong fully to the moment is to die.
Time as the living present vs. the abstracted, artificial timeline of our story-lives. We live in an abstracted temporality in order to flee from the fear and shame of simply being alive.
All desires are innocent. They are just feelings that refuse to be felt fully, so we externalize them outward.
While desire stretches the self perpetually into the future, "pleasure is the present, savored with the totality of the flesh."
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here.
The key points in this "speaking":
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"Live a life without closure, and your compassion will broaden you, stretch you, widen the walls of your flesh until you're able to receive the unthinkable joy and the unthinkable pain."
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The key points in this "speaking":
Great joy and great pain alike are dangerous to the ego.
There's a gap between the "I am" and the "I think I am." Forgetting this gap is the origin of suffering.
We tell easy stories to contain grief, pain, or evil. But any movement that universalizes a group of people is refusing to accept reality, and all universalization is dehumanization.
If you truly want peace, inward and outward, resist the impulse to see categories rather than individual human beings (and events, and sensations). Pay attention to the particular.
If we don't allow the oppressor to change, then we don't truly want peace. We must be open to forgiveness if we desire reconciliation.
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
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The key points in this "speaking":
Everyone has a defining insecurity. Our lives circle around these insecurities through exclusion.
To be a human being is to be in direct and dangerous contact with time. Are we more afraid of finitude or eternity?
Perhaps there is something beneath time and eternity that makes this duality possible. But this something can only be sensed, not conceptualized.
We build identities based on exclusion so we don't have to dissolve into everything. Just as every person excludes traits from their identity—from fear and insecurity— so do professions.
In academia, that excluded fear/ characteristic is stupidity. Lately, I've been wanting to embody this shadow. Not stupidity as the opposite of intelligence, but rather as a spaciousness of mind, a wide unknowing.
Even though this blankness may seem to be a kind of stupidity, it's in fact the key to using intelligence (as a tool) effectively, holding paradoxes, and being willing to change your mind.
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
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The key points in this "speaking"
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The key points in this "speaking":
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This episode is a recording of one section of an essay I originally wrote for subscribers. Read the full essay here.
The key points in this "speaking":
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Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
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The key points in this "speaking":
Why I still sometimes call myself a poet even though I don’t write proper poetry: because poetry is the most immanent disclosure of reality. Direct experience has a particular rhythm, a symbolic structure. Meaning is unquestioned before interpretation.
In spite of our differences from other animals, what is it that allows us to understand the world? We must share a common ontological "atmosphere" with all visible beings in order to understand or perceive them at all. There must be a background of sameness upon which difference can appear. What is completely outside a shared intelligible world would be completely outside of perception, language, or analysis.
If the world were entirely green, we wouldn’t have a word for “green,” because we wouldn’t be able to see it as something that stands out from all objects. We could only say: the world is intelligible to us, perhaps because each being shares a common essence.
Perhaps "animism" is not the right word, but no word can capture fully the common nature that is shared by everything. Knowledge is inherently dualistic, but reality is deeper: something sensed rather than said.
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here. I will also periodically update my thoughts on this episode's content at that same link.
The key points in this "speaking":
If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here. I will also periodically update my thoughts on this episode's content at that same link.
The key points in this "speaking":
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Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here. I will also periodically update my thoughts on this episode's content at that same link.
Key points of this "speaking":
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Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to comment here. I will also periodically update my thoughts on this episode's content at that same link.
Key points of this "speaking":
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Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.
Welcome to the Speakings podcast! My name is Sondra: I'm a writer, philosopher, and lover of (among other things) trees, artisan chocolate, old bookstores, and other human and non-human beings. Both my philosophical and creative projects explore ways of being-in-the-world that are more rational and more connected to the broader body of the earth. In this podcast, I hope to capture the dynamism of philosophical and spiritual thought by speaking in an unscripted manner, belonging to the moment as fully as possible. If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at sondra@sondrawriter.com. You can also check out my website at www.sondrawriter.com, where you'll find my essays and links to my memoir.
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