Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast. This week is a solo episode where I talk about ways in which we can stay centred.
Here in New Zealand we have been in lockdown for the past 10 weeks and increasingly we are being subjected to a lot of intense measures of control. The purpose of this episode is not to be political or to take sides, rather it is to share how this has impacted me and the process I have been through in order to be responsible for everything this has brought up.
I share about how, when we find ourselves in the centre of a storm, we cannot only find our centre, but stay centred. How we can stay connected and rooted in our truth despite all the noise and chaos raging around us. This is a fundamental practice for your life, but especially now as we navigate a huge paradigm shift.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
· When we stay in our power, we have the ability to make conscious choices rather than choosing from a place of fear and terror.
· Listening is not hearing the noise in your mind or projecting what you think you already know. To listen deeply to life, we cannot already know what is coming next.
· We cannot respond differently in challenging situations if we are not conscious that something from our past is being activated.
· Consciousness requires you to lean into the experience as it moves through you and taking full self-responsibility for it.
· If you can surrender the resistance, the fight and the running away from your human experience even though it is painful, it will begin to dissolve.
· Every single one of us has the power to find the stillness within the storm of our experience.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast.
We return with another episode of our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the wonderful Koya Webb. Koya is an internationally recognised yoga teacher, celebrity holistic health coach, author, speaker and vegan activist. Her core mission is to promote daily self-care, oneness and eco-friendly living. She is a force for love and healing.
In this episode we talk about surrendering into the feminine – coming out of the place of knowing and into a place of listening. This is a powerful discussion for all beings, showing how we can come to a place of feeling, softness and nurturing.
Koya shares how in the process of writing her book to share what she had learned with her readers, she was gifted with the opportunity to really learn the lessons she needed to in order to heal at the deepest level. It was an invitation for her to surrender even further into the feminine and find her true power.
Episode Highlights:
· We are being invited to step out of our knowing and our survival into a space of feeling and vulnerability.
· We are the solution and the key to our own healing.
· We are all in a constant cycle of shedding the old so we can birth the new, we can’t hold onto the way things were as they are in a constant state of change.
· We hold onto the past because it is painful to transition into someone new, but when we acknowledge and can go through that pain and fear we open ourselves to love, growth and expansion.
· Being willing to be vulnerable and open up about our fears and struggles we invite others to do the same. This is where we can connect and create space for collective healing.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the wonderful Emma Mumford. Emma is an award-winning life coach and mentor, bestselling author, speaker and the UK’s leading Law of Attraction expert.
In this episode Emma shares how at her lowest point, when she was suffering from depression, in debt and coming out of a bad relationship, she had a spiritual awakening where she realised she needed to surrender the control she felt was necessary in all aspects of her life. This pivotal moment led her to realise the patterns that had been living her life and keeping her stuck. It was also the point where she discovered the power of manifestation.
We discuss how much as human beings we can push away the very things we want the most if they don’t fit in with the stories we tell ourselves about who we are and what we are capable of in our lives. But when we can begin to relinquish the control we seek to have over our lives we can begin to heal what we have been resisting all along.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
· We all experience repeating patterns throughout our lives and often we identify with them to the extent that we believe this is who we really are.
· The work to overcome these patterns involves seeing where in our past we have made decisions that helped us to survive difficult, painful or confusing experiences. These decisions create the story of what is possible and available to us.
· Sometimes getting the things we want feels like the hardest thing for us to accept because it doesn’t fit into these stories.
· To truly live an aligned and authentic life we need to see beyond these stories and learn to trust.
· The key is in allowing ourselves to feel everything we have been resisting.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the wonderful Emmy Brunner. Emmy is a Personal Empowerment and Transformation Coach, Psychotherapist, Hypnotherapist, CEO of The Recover Clinic, Author and Speaker. Her work focuses on dynamic and ambitious women and inspiring them to reconnect to their true selves.
In this episode Emmy talks about growing up in a family dynamic that meant she found her role as a healer or fixer. In line with this she trained as a psychotherapist, but her experience was that her clinical training didn’t really give her the tools to create real shifts for her clients. It was only when she continued to do the work on herself and saw how much of a role people’s reactions to trauma and the stories they subsequently created were fuelling their struggles that true healing became possible.
Emmy reached the point where she was tired of fighting to survive and realised that she needed to let go and surrender. When we resist what is and try to avoid the pain of our realities, we actually cement them even further. By surrendering we create the opportunity for a new possibility to unfurl.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
· Although as humans we can be very different, beneath the surface we all have the same struggles, the same feelings and the same needs. We’ve all just been trying to survive.
· We all have 3 versions of ourselves: the one we want to project to the world, the one we don’t want anyone to see and the one we truly are beyond all of the stories.
· When we realise how much we share with others it can heal our feelings of loneliness and isolation.
· In the moment we say no more to something in our lives that has not been serving us, we simultaneously are saying yes to something else. These are pivotal moments when we step outside of our survival patterns.
· As we become more conscious we are able to listen beyond the noise of our minds and tune into a deeper knowing. When you can trust and be with yourself you can birth a completely new way of being.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the lovely Poppy Jamie. Poppy is one of Forbes’ 30 under 30, UN Global Goals advocate, British wellness entrepreneur, TV host and author of the book ‘Happy Not Perfect: Upgrade Your Mind, Change Your Thoughts and Free Yourself From Anxiety’. She is the founder of the award winning Happy Not Perfect mindset app and host of the Not Perfect podcast.
Poppy’s mission is to empower people to look after their minds and health.
In this episode Poppy talks about how her inability to surrender and the longing to hold on and control so many aspects of her life caused her to have a physical and mental breakdown. Poppy shares with us how she thought that to surrender meant to give up but realised it is in fact the opposite.
In this conversation Poppy tells her story of becoming addicted to working and the drive behind the need to work. Poppy thought that working was the solution to her problems and that by working hard she would get what she wanted. It was only once she was able to surrender and let go of the ideals in her mind that she entered a state of bliss.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights
· We are programmed from an early age to believe the more we achieve and push ourselves and the more control we have, will result in us ‘doing better’ or ‘getting more’ but ultimately, it just creates more suffering in our lives.
· We can never have enough of what we never really wanted. The things we strive for, like working hard, will never give us what we really want which is why it will never be enough.
· We get born into a world that doesn’t educate us in self-trust and self-acceptance, instead we are taught that we need to keep on bettering ourselves.
· When we are holding on so tightly to the pictures of what it is we think we want, it can block us from seeing other possibilities.
· We have to experience some pain to realise that what we’ve been doing isn’t going to give us what we want.
· What’s meant for you will never pass you by.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by Nathaniel Solace. Nathaniel is a leadership coach and transformation coach and he is just a really wise and smart, powerful being. Nathaniel’s mission is ‘to bring simple, tangible and empowering methods to the masses for engaging with the most fundamental and fulfilling aspects of life so that every human can naturally live their greatest purpose’.
In this episode Nathaniel talks about how he surrendered to the cards he had been dealt and his commitment and dedication to his own maturation. Nathaniel shares his story of being adopted and the death of his mother and how the trauma he went through has made him the coach he is today.
In this conversation Nathaniel shares with me how he came to realise that the only thing he was afraid of was how uncomfortable he was in his body and that all healing is on the other side of being uncomfortable, which requires surrender.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights
· Everything we live through can be an opportunity for us to be able to use it purposefully.
· We are all in a process of growing, we are either stuck or we’re growing. It is human nature that we will find a way to grow.
· In every single present moment we really don’t know what will be unfolding next. The thing that blocks us from the magic of that is the mind and the stories.
· If you don’t have a relationship with death it impacts your relationship with life.
· Childhood experiences shape the creation and birthing of the characters that become who we are.
· To just be with ‘what is’ is the doorway to surrender.
· Real freedom is to be human and to be able to be with our story but not have it live us.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the incredible Richie Bostock. Richie is a breathwork coach, author and speaker. He was introduced to breathwork when his father was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis and after seeing the incredible effects it had he was hooked. It is now his mission to spread the lifechanging possibilities of breathwork to the world.
In this episode Richie shares how a corporate career that gave him all the things he thought would make him happy actually left him feeling empty and lacking in purpose. He realised that he had been living his life based on an unconscious pressure for him to have a certain identity that would make those around him feel comfortable and in control.
When Richie began to ask himself the big questions of who am I and why am I here? He found that the biggest discoveries came when he allowed himself to let go of knowing and questioning. Instead, he allowed himself to be surprised by what came up and to trust.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the incredible Kyle Gray. Kyle is a spiritual teacher, international speaker and bestselling author. Kyle brings a down to earth approach to his purpose as a modern spiritual guide, bringing an authentic and accessible feel to spirituality and living a high vibrational life.
In this episode Kyle shares how he had to surrender what he thought was the way his life should look and, how by doing this and releasing control he was able to fulfil his purpose via a path he had initially rejected.
In this conversation we reveal that by trying to force our lives in one direction we can block so much of our potential and limit the possibilities that are open to us. In order to really allow life to flow we need to let go of all the things we think we know and be willing to listen to something completely new.
Kyle shows that despite feeling uncomfortable with the idea of surrender and feeling how much resistance our identity can create at the thought of letting go, it is possible for all of us.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
· Surrender is an active process which requires dedication and consistency. Surrender requires you to continually show up for yourself and do the work.
· Sometimes our biggest acts of surrender can be saying yes and allow life to unfold rather than clinging on to the pictures of how we think our life should be.
· So much of our power is blocked when we focus on who we think we should be rather than embracing the truth of who we are.
· When we are able to embody all the parts of ourselves life begins to open up in the most incredible way.
· It is part of the human condition to look for answers and clarity, and often we need to open up to something completely new in order to find them.
· The answers we are all seeking cannot be found somewhere out there, we can only find them within ourselves.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender Series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the wonderfully wise Ben Bidwell. Ben is a mindset and purpose coach, a writer and public speaker. His purpose in this world is to open up and strip back the conversation around mental health and release the stigma that still exists here.
Ben is on a journey to dissolve the story around what it means to be a man in this world. He shares how in service of his truth and authenticity he has had to surrender the ideas, pictures, conditioning and stories that he had absorbed around what it means to be a man.
Ben courageously faced judgements and losing friends as he learned to truly let go and trust. He came to realise that this was in fact a way to connect with people on a much deeper level.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
· When we live our lives trying not to be a certain way what we are creating is a huge amount of resistance which blocks us from being our authentic selves.
· Conditioning can become stronger and have more of an influence over how we live than what feels natural and this causes huge confusion.
· It can feel easy to stay stuck in our way of being, despite the suffering it causes, it feels familiar and safe. But we will get to a point where the discomfort of staying the same is worse than the discomfort of changing.
· To truly become free we have to let go of everything – the stories, conditioning and who we have known ourselves to be.
· Our most important relationship is the one we have with ourself.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast and our Surrender series where I dive deeply into my guests’ greatest points of surrender.
This week I am joined by the amazing Prema Gaia who shares with us her mind-blowing and incredibly moving transformational story. Prema is a Woman’s leadership and business coach, meditation teacher, visionary writer and plant & spirit ceremonialist.
In this episode Prema shares her inspiring journey to embracing her soul’s calling. Having encountered a lot of trauma in her childhood, she turned to alcohol and recreational drugs during her teens to numb the pain she was unable to process. She later moved to Hollywood and began living what appeared to be a very glamorous life, but inside she knew it wasn’t truly nourishing her in the way she needed.
Prema’s spiritual awakening in 2006 saw her give up all her possessions and money to begin a walking journey to meet spiritual teachers and communities. It was at this point she was able to see how she was not fulfilling her soul’s purpose. It was time to release all the attachments she had to who she thought she was in her life and align with a higher plan.
Prema beautifully highlights how it is possible to transcend our fear and fully surrender who you thought you needed to be and embrace your true authenticity.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
Order SURRENDER here:
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We have another episode of the Surrender Series, where I get to sit with the wonderful Jessica Huie.
Jessica is the author of "Purpose' and a transformational visibility teacher, encouraging people to breathe life into why they are here and helping them connect with their purpose.
In this episode, Jessica shares with us a very personal story of when her father was passing away... and the huge transformation that came out of his passing that also enabled a real death of the character that she once thought she was.
If you ever feel like you're stuck in the persona that's always striving, pushing, and relentlessly getting things done... the story of the birthing of who Jessica is today will guide you towards the path of deep authenticity and surrender.
Remember - surrender is not a weakness. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to surrender our picture of how we thought our life should be or who we thought we needed to be.
In other words - it takes courage to surrender to something even greater and deeper.
And at some point in your life, you will be invited to go through that transformational process.
So may this special episode help guide you through these challenges and point you in the right direction.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights:
- Surrender is not a weakness. In fact, it takes a lot of courage to surrender our picture of how we thought our life should be or who we thought we needed to be.
- Out of chaos comes order - our biggest transformation can often come from our greatest challenges.
- Giving up the persona that's always striving and pushing forward in order to unfold who you really are may be one of the most difficult tasks you will ever face but the rewards of authenticity and massive personal evolution are worth it.
- And at some point in your life, you will be invited to go through that transformational process. Because it is inevitable - it is a good idea to start peeling off the layers of who you thought you were meant to be and start connecting with your true purpose.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
Order SURRENDER here:
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Join us for a new episode of the Surrender Series with the amazing Zoe Blaskey, founder of the MOTHERKIND podcast.
In this episode Zoe shares with us the huge process of surrender that she had to go through when she became pregnant with her first daughter.
We'll talk about the healing journey she went through when she was pregnant that led to her having the homebirth that she dreamed of, as well as the huge transformational process of actually learning how to be a mother.
And it wasn’t easy...
Perfectionism, obsession with routine, high expectations of self… All these things can lead to struggle, relationship challenges, and loss of spiritual connection. Especially during challenging times such as moving to a new city or giving birth to a child.
The thing is - it's perfectly normal.
When we have babies it is the ultimate opening of love. It is the purest, most intense love that we experience.
And love is the trigger point for all the aspects that have been unhealed wounds in the past.
Suddenly all the demons of the past wake up inside of you and start screaming...
And when you're in it you can't see the wood for the trees.
But the good news is - deep healing is possible.
There's a moment when we are ready to say to ourselves: "I can't... I don't know how to do this"
And that it is the moment when healing begins. It's the beginning of the transformation.
It takes a certain amount of humility because we live in a society that perpetuates the idea that we should always have the answers.
Otherwise, our egos will try to protect the illusions of our fake identities and keep us from ascending in life.
But there are tremendous gifts at the other end if we can just put one foot in front of the other...
Because as soon as we surrender and let go - we open up the doors to living from the place of joy, authenticity, and true inner power.
So if you'd like to hear the inspirational surrender story of Zoe Blaskey, I warmly invite you to listen to our new Surrender Series podcast.
Make sure to share your biggest takeaways and aha moments in the comments.
Episode Highlights
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
Order SURRENDER here:
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Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast and our brand new SURRENDER SERIES, where I interview some of the most influential voices in the industry and dive deeply into the biggest most transformational point of surrender in their personal lives.
In this special episode of my new “SURRENDER SERIES” I interview the amazing Mel Wells. We dive deeply into her untold story of when her ‘forever’ relationship came to a sudden & jolting end and show you how even the most traumatic events in our lives can become our greatest blessings. This is the first time ever Mel has shared the full story publicly and it is deeply inspiring to hear.
And if you've ever been through heartbreak, betrayal or loss... this special episode will help you navigate through it, heal the wounds, and find inner peace.
It's a reminder that every breakdown is an invitation to have a breakthrough - even though you can't see it yet.
Because even though we sometimes end up in the depths of despair, there can always be trust and knowing that it is leading us to somewhere magical - somewhere even better.
This episode of the SURRENDER SERIES will also show you how to cultivate that trust and hope and guide you through the process of letting go of your past - the transformational process of surrender.
I warmly invite you to join us for a powerful session of raw authenticity. You'll hear Mel's incredible journey and discover how to tell the difference between warning signs and opportunities to do inner work.
Episode Highlights:
Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me by leaving a review.
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER.
SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
It’s more than just a book. It’s a guide through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
Order SURRENDER here.
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Welcome back to the Soul Surgery podcast and our brand new Surrender Series, where I interview some of the most influential voices in the industry and dive deeply into the biggest most transformational point of surrender in their personal lives.
I find out what aspects of their own self they had to face and release, how they navigated through the change and phases of the unknown and the profound surprising gifts that came at the end.
In this special episode, the amazing Jaiya John comes in to interview me. I'll be sharing with you my journey and learnings - right from my birth to writing this book. Revealing my greatest points of surrender I have gone through - on every level: emotional, mental, physical and spiritual.
You will hear what it really means to go through an ego death and experience a real rebirthing process. It is a true living testimony to what has actually worked in my life to transform it into a joyful adventure of authenticity and fulfilment.
Order my book SURRENDER
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to order my book SURRENDER. SURRENDER will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
A book where I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
Connect with Nicky:
Welcome to the latest solo episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I focus on the topic of parenting ourselves.
If we want to change habits, change patterns and break cycles we will have to face the uncomfortable parts of ourselves that we have been hiding, resisting and running away from.
People who are able to navigate through these challenging phases of the transformational process are able to do it because they could hold themselves through the painful, the scary, and the unknown. They may not do it perfectly, it’s not without resistance but they are able to hold space for themselves which allowed a shift to occur.
Episode Highlights:
· You simply cannot allow the opening of a new possibility without simultaneously experiencing the ending of the old story or the old way of being.
· The ability to hold ourselves, show up for ourselves sacredly and unconditionally is founded on our relationship with our mother.
· Being our own mother is the key to healing and allowing change to occur.
· Self-parenting creates internal safety and allows us to grow out of the victim and into a mature, empowered adult.
· If we don't feel safe and trusting in our own internal home, our life becomes about surviving in safety rather than being about creating space for continuous expansion.
If you are you ready to be your own loving mother, the possibilities become limitless as you stop living in fear.
Those of you who want to dive deeper into this healing work with me can find The Homecoming Process on my website – an eight week transformational process that you can purchase to guide you on your healing journey.
Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I sit with the inspiring Rebecca Campbell, world renowned writer, mystic, poet, mother, channel and creative.
Rebecca believes that we ARE nature and all her creations are in devotion to the beauty of nature and weaving the soul back into everyday life.
Rebecca and I have an inspiring conversation about life; how our souls have chosen to be here at this time of global upheaval and change, and the intensely beautiful, painful and almost other-worldly experience of childbirth that can be a direct comparison to life itself.
Episode Highlights
- The transcendental experience of birthing a child that can be both painful and mind-blowing at the same time, exactly like what we have been experiencing around the world in the last couple of years
- How childbirth invites the possibility of healing and transformation on a deep level
- Opening ourselves to the pure love of being a mother, also brings along the realisation that we need to simultaneously open ourselves to loss and an unimaginable depth of pain that has not been felt yet
- The moment we awaken to a new phase of our consciousness, something in us dies to make place for the new
- The birthing energy exists in life itself and one of the most courageous things we can do is to breathe through the agony and stay open to life and love
- Our souls have chosen to be here now and we all have our own purpose to be here during these difficult times that are so triggering and childhood traumas are coming up to be healed.
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A book where I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery podcast. In this solo episode I speak about forgiveness – about how the healing, transformational maturation process of forgiving requires full surrender into what we are suppressing, hiding or resisting around the thing or person we need to forgive.
We need to be willing to truly face and be with all that is present and dive into the complete unknown with the intention to forgive to come to a place of wholeness, freedom and peace.
Episode highlights:
- Forgiveness is not a place to get to – it’s the intention of bringing completion to something that is incomplete.
- What we’ve left behind may not be complete in our heart, mind and soul and if we don’t heal and release the pain within us, we start feeling stuck and our survival strategies get more intense.
- Forgiveness is so important because it allows us to fully and freely express ourselves in flow with our life force.
- Underneath all the resentment, anger and unmet expectations is heartbreak, which is the root cause of blame and powerlessness.
- I offer you a 4-step process to practice forgiveness to help you heal and create a feeling of wholeness and peace in your life.
- When we truly forgive and end the cycle, we don’t have to pass this pain and resentment to the future generation; we don’t have to take it out on our partners or on our bodies.
Forgiveness takes time and one thing to keep in mind is you may not be ready to love yet, but you can offer yourself compassion and understanding.
Thank you for listening. If you have any aha moments from this episode, please do share them with me. I love to hear about your healing experiences.
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Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to another episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. Thank you for tuning in to listen to this episode where I sit with my husband Kevin to speak about communication in relationships.
We talk about all the areas which block our ability to communicate, to hear, to listen to each other and how to be able to have a certain kind of communication that creates life, love and feeds the relationship so it can thrive.
We tend to get into relationships with an expectation around communication based on our own personal childhood experiences. However, we discuss the possibility of communication with such peace, freedom and nourishment that there’s no need to hide any part of ourselves, including where we are coming from.
Episode Highlights:
· We speak about the different layers of communication in relationship
· How our childhood experiences create certain unconscious expectations in our communication as adults that affect the relationship
· How important it is to bring conscious awareness to our communication so that our partner feels safe enough to fully express themselves and disentangle the mechanical expectations of communication from what is actually being said in the present moment
· The polarity between masculine and feminine and the dance to navigate those dynamics in a relationship
· We all have our shadow sides but when we bring consciousness to our own and our partner’s programming, we can become so much more compassionate and considerate of the other person, instead of being judgmental
· How the commitment to be in a loving enquiry with the other being creates a spirit of partnership coming from conscious awareness
If we are able to suspend the idea that our partner is to blame for our unhappiness and realise that we are often looking at an intimate mirror that shows us where we need to heal, a relationship can actually offer a massive opportunity for growth.
I hope this episode has helped you. Please share with me any aha moments that you had as I love hearing from you. Thank you for listening.
Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER
If you too feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, I invite you to pre-order my book SURRENDER. SURRENDER is a book that will walk you through a life changing process of maturation. Of breaking free of the vicious cycle of repeated stuck patterns, stories and belief systems, trauma and ancestral wounds.
A book where I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to the latest episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast. Today I’m speaking with Richard Good. Richard has studied the human condition through the acting, healing and martial arts. His relationship with, and love of nature unfolded alongside a deep resonance with the ancient ways carried by men and women from the East and the West who honoured the Earth and all of Life. He has worked at the educational charity called the Eden Project for the last 20 years, the largest rainforest in captivity, in Cornwall UK.
Richard has recently created a new project called the Imaginal Collective, a network that connects people who are doing work that is having an impact on shifting consciousness, healing the earth and creating a more beautiful world.
In this insightful episode we speak about the innate wisdom of nature and how most humans are so profoundly disconnected from nature, when in fact we are nature. Unfortunately the complete disconnect that most societies and cultures have from nature is directly reflected in the problem we have in the world today.
We go into how the design function of the mind is survival so it will hook onto information that is related to any source of threat, instead of realising that we are energetic flows and when we work and dance with plants and nature, we can embody the same aliveness and regeneration that happens in nature so naturally and majestically.
Episode highlights:
It is essential that we hold a state of love, joy, peace and unity. By merging this state of being with aligned action, our collective vision will have its own consciousness for us to create from.
Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I would love to hear if this episode has resonated with you. I would truly appreciate if you would leave a review so that we can share these messages of wholeness and healing with the world.
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Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
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Welcome to the next solo episode of the Soul Surgery Podcast where I speak about a topic that affects every human being. I speak to you about fear – one of the most dominant aspects of human nature that has the ability to completely block and disempower us.
If we allow fear to make our decisions, we will be destabilised and disconnected from our truth. Fear can block any kind of change in our lives.
One of the biggest misconceptions that I’ve noticed is that many believe that if we do enough work on ourselves, enough meditations, breathwork, classes etc – then we won’t feel fear anymore. Well, that’s not true. The mindset that there is a magic cure to make fear disappear, that something outside of us can eradicate our fear, is so disempowering as there is a state of survival that accompanies this feeling of trying to find a fix for our fear.
Episode Highlights:
Thank you so much for listening to this episode. I’d love to hear from you if you have any aha moments or shifts. I would also be so grateful if you could leave a review so that we can share this message with the world.
Pre-Sales of my book SURRENDER
Have you heard my exciting news? I would like to invite you to check out my book SURRENDER which is currently available for pre-order. If you feel ready to re-create your relationships or your life by breaking free of old patterns on a holistic level, across mind, body and soul, SURRENDER is THE book for you. Through these pages, I guide you through a deep healing journey of SURRENDERING of who you are NOT so that you can unfurl into who you were BORN TO BE.
You can pre-order my book here: https://nickyclinch.com/book/
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