Do you struggle with making tough decisions? Here's how to stop agonizing over those difficult decisions and start moving forward! If you're anything like me, you've probably experienced the challenge of making a decision that feels daunting and difficult. What's worse, you've probably felt the relief of making the decision quickly replaced by second-guessing and doubt! If any of this sounds familiar, this conversation of Sincerely Speaking was created just for you! Oh, and stick around to the end. I want to share a decision I've been working through that might be of interest to you!

"Being consistent is key!" Have you heard that before? I know when I first started in business, that seemed to be all I ever heard! You must post consistently... You must show up consistently... You must make offers consistently... In my life, that also meant I must burn out consistently. If you've been burning yourself out, sacrificing your sanity, putting other things off, or beating yourself up for the sake of consistency, then this conversation is meant SPECIFICALLY for YOU! It's time to shake loose from the CONSISTENCY TRAP! There are things that are MORE important and have a much greater impact than being consistent for the sake of being consistent. In this conversation we discuss the 3 things that trump consistency and that can finally help you break free from feeling trapped in the process of creating the business and life you want! Are you ready to escape the consistency trap? Then, join me in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking!

We've all heard them... Powerful Speakers with voices that captivate and enthrall. What does it take to have a powerful speaking voice that not only delivers a message, but engraves it in the heart of the listener? Is it possible to train ourselves to use our voices in such a potent, impressive way? What if I told you that the answer is not only a resounding "yes," but that it only takes focusing on 5 things to make it happen? Well, that is exactly what I will break down for you in this episode of Sincerely Speaking!

Impromptu Speaking... Few things are more unnerving or fear inducing than the thought of having to speak without the opportunity to properly prepare and practice. It's bad enough that public speaking is generally recognized as the most common fear on the planet, add to that the stress and anxiety that comes with being caught off guard or blind-sided, and you have a recipe for an extremely stressful and fear-producing situation. But, what if I told you that there IS a simple way for you to appear poised and prepared even when you're placed in a position to have to speak off the cuff? Well, there is. The tips I will share in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking can help you face impromptu speaking with confidence!

Hiding is not an option! You have a calling over you life, and increasing your visibility is essential to living that calling. Your voice matters. You have insights, wisdom, solutions, and inspiration that can support others and bring hope to those you're meant to serve. But, how will they know if they've never heard your message? How will you create the impact and make the difference you know you can make if you remain the bet kept secret in your industry? The answer is that you can't, and they won't. It's time to stop letting fear and doubt keep you from sharing your message with the world! It's time to step into the spotlight and let your voice be heard! In today's episode of Sincerely Speaking, I share the 3 shifts that allowed me to FINALLY step out of the shadows and increase my visibility and my impact!

An effective leader is an effective communicator. AND an effective communicator speaks for impact. But, how do we make sure that our communication as leaders goes beyond barking orders and mere motivation? In this conversation of Sincerely Speaking, I share the 3 key elements that will transform your leadership communication so you can have the impact you're meant to have and move your vision forward. This is one conversation you won't want to miss. So, grab your coffee or favorite drink and get ready to elevate your leadership communication for impact and transformation!

Is there such a thing as a "Leader Mentality?" Is there a specific and recognizable way in which leaders process information and approach life, business, and relationships? While everyone is different, and while I don't believe that there is ever a one-size-fits-all answer to these types of questions, I do believe that there are patterns to be noticed and emulated. As Tony Robbins says: "Success leaves clues." In my own journey from precocious child, to awkward teen, to introverted adult, I have closely examined and emulated many wonderful mentors, teachers, coaches, and role models on the path to greater leadership and impact. In this conversation of Sincerely Speaking I'd like to share with you the 3 main shifts in my approach to leadership that have transformed my leader mentality and allowed me to elevate my leadership and increase my impact.

Why do so many of us fear making decisions? Decision-making is essential in leadership, and life. So, why can it feel so daunting and stressful? More importantly, what can we do to get past all the resistance and all the non-sense in our heads so that we can start moving in the right direction? In this conversation of Sincerely Speaking we discuss why making decisions can be so fear inducing, why trying to eliminate this fear is counterproductive, and the three things we get to focus on instead.

What is assertiveness? Seriously! Have you really stopped to think about what assertiveness is, what it looks like, or how to get it? I can tell you weight now that assertiveness is an essential skill in both leadership and effective, impactful communication. I can also tell you that very few people understand what assertiveness is or how it works! So, in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking we address the concept of assertiveness: what it is, how to get it, and do you really need it!

"You're so inspirational!" "I love hearing you speak!" "Your story is so amazing!" Have you received this kind of feedback after delivering a presentation, but then you don't see the result you were aiming for? People love you and they LOVE to hear you speak! But, they don't buy or ask how to work with you. Have you had this experience? Few things are more frustrating! I mean, if you love me so much, why don't you hire me? Truth? A signature talk or signature story is not enough! In this episode of Sincerely Speaking I want to share the 3 Leadership Communication Skills needed to increase the results you get from your presentations and interactions. Are you ready to improve your leadership communication skills so that you can experience greater results and lessened frustration? Then, join me on this conversation of Sincerely Speaking!

"The people perish for lack of vision." Are you ready to lead at a higher level? Then, you need to know that leadership, vision, and purpose go hand in hand and are essential to your growth! As you know, I'm a huge proponent of self-leadership. I believe you need to lead yourself first before you can hope to lead others. And, it's important to also understand that leading ourselves gains true significance only when we use those skills, growth, and new-found understanding to support and lead others. In this 200th episode of Sincerely Speaking, we look at the interconnection and importance of Leadership, Vision, and Purpose as the drivers of impact and influence. How do they work together? What role do they play in the continued our continued growth? How can we most effectively articulate and share them? These are the questions that drive this special conversation of Sincerely Speaking!

"You must have 100% clarity!" Have you heard this before? A lot of experts, mentors, and coaches teach that BEFORE you can gain momentum or move forward with your vision or dream you need to be 100% clear on a million different things. What if I told you that this might be exactly what's slowing you down or keeping you stuck? Yes, there are SOME things you should have a clear decision around. But, trying to be completely, unwaveringly clear on all the aspects of your venture, business, or dream is a recipe for paralysis, overwhelm, and confusion. In this conversation, I want to dispel some of the ideas surrounding clarity and focus that might be holding you back, as well as share with you an exercise that can help you gain the clarity and focus you DO need!

What is the worst feedback you can get after a conversation or presentation? Most of the people I work with would say that it's hearing "NO" from their prospect or team. "No" feels like rejection or failure to most of us. But, what id I told you that "No" is NOT the worst response you can get from a prospect, audience, or team. In fact, "No" can be a very positive answer that can lead to greater understanding and growth. The WORST response that you can get is actually "I'm confused." "I'm confused" means that something was not clearly communicated. It means that the other person’s still struggling with the issue that brought them to you, and that they will probably seek help from someone else who might not be as good as you. So, how do we avoid this? What can we do to ensure that our message is received and accepted? How can we leverage and maximize the power of our message? Join me in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking to find out!

"There's gotta be more to life!" If you've ever found yourself pondering your life's purpose or wondering what is the meaning of it all, then this conversation of Sincerely Speaking is for you! With great candor, authenticity, and Christ-centered Love, Pastor Shawn Vandop responds to questions related to purpose, calling, leadership, mentorship, and so much more. Join us as we cover the simple, yet profound, paths to stepping into our calling, leadership, and service. Shawn is the Lead Pastor of Main Street Church in Chilliwack, British Columbia (www.mainstreetchurch.ca). He is married to Sonya and has four grown children and one granddaughter. Shawn enjoys riding his motorcycle and is always up for a round of golf. His greatest passion is to love Jesus and help others do the same. You can find him on Instagram at @vandop or @mainstreetchurch or watch messages on YouTube at Main Street Church Chilliwack.

How much time, energy, and effort do we waste? Going after the "latest and greatest" or believing that "if we only..." keeps so many of us going around in circles and wasting precious resources. It's NOT about the strategy or tool we're using. In fact, have you noticed that most strategies and tools have success stories behind them? So, they DO work for some people! It's also not about adding more stuff (credentials, titles, trainings, gadgets, trinkets, etc.) The reason we don't make the kind of progress that we want to make is because we FOCUS ON THE WRONG THING! It's time to STOP focusing on the things that don't make a real difference, and START FOCUSING ON THE ESSENTIALS! Let's simplify our lives together as we discuss the essentials for leadership success here on Sincerely Speaking!

Are you avoiding the wrong things? There are certain things that we are programmed to avoid, like failure and making mistakes, which if we stopped trying to avoid them would become extremely valuable tools for growth and expansion. Similarly, there are things we avoid in our communication that end up stifling our progress and our ability to grow in our leadership and in our ability to effectively communicate with those closest to us. As an introvert and a people pleaser, I spent most of my life trying to avoid the 3 Cs that I will share with you in this conversation. However, once I learned to embrace them, I realized they were the key to reaching new levels of leadership, connection, and success. So, whether you lead a team, a business, a cause, a ministry, a family, or yourself, the ability to see these 3 Cs as tools to advancement can open up a whole new world of possibility! Join me in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking, and let me know your thoughts! Which one of these 3 Cs is most challenging for you?

Do you find yourself wondering whether people are truly listening to you and taking you seriously? Is it difficult for you to stand in front of a room and take charge of that space? Do you wish you could show up more confidently when speaking out and while presenting? In this conversation of Sincerely Speaking I'm sharing with you the 3 keys to taking command of any room! These are the same 3 things I had to work on so that I could authentically, confidently, and effectively step into any room or stage and command the space. Understanding and mastering these things is what allowed me to go from introverted and reserved to being seen and heard. Are you ready to elevate your visibility, shift your poise, and OWN ANY ROOM? Then, join me on this conversation of Sincerely Speaking.

Money is such a sensitive subject. It is the source of a lot of stress, worry, and contention. Especially for women. And the issue goes much deeper than simply figuring out how to MAKE money. For most women, the greatest challenge is KEEPING the money they make. In this conversation of Sincerely Speaking, Financial Advisor Jade Valentini shares the mindset and approach necessary to face the issues surrounding money from the right perspective and with the best strategies. Jade Valentini, a seasoned financial professional with nearly a decade of experience. She is dedicated to promoting financial empowerment through tailored solutions in retirement, investment, risk management, asset protection, and insurance. With excellent communication skills and a holistic approach, she ensures her clients are well-informed decision-makers, supported by pillars of trust, transparency, and integrity. Beyond numbers, Jade's passion lies in empowering individuals to take control of their financial journey. Alongside her career, Jade holds a Finance degree from Florida Atlantic University, settled in South Florida over 15 years ago, and joined NPC Financial six years ago, embracing a management role to help the firm grow while building her practice. Additionally, she is highly involved in animal causes and leads Women In Unity, a networking group for women professionals, promoting self-care and a growth mindset in a judgment-free zone.

Working on your mindset is not the answer! Yeah, you read that right! Working on your mindset is not the answer! No, I'm not saying that mindset is not important, but the idea of working on your MINDSET can be so overwhelming and confusing that it can actually paralyze you instead of moving you forward. So, HOW do we get past the mental maze of limiting beliefs, self-sabotage, doubt, lack of worth, and disempowering emotions? That is precisely what we will cover in this conversation of Sincerely Speaking!

Study hard. Get good grades. Work hard! Does that sound familiar? If you're anything like me, you grew up hearing this kind of advice from very well-meaning, loving people in your life. The thing is, how many people have you met (maybe even yourself) who followed all that advice to the T, and still live unfulfilled lives never feeling successful or satisfied? The truth is that hard work, commitment to growth, and dedication ARE important. However there is ONE skill that ultimately determines our ability to succeed! There are also TWO essential skills that will accelerate and streamline your success! Want to know what those are? Then, stick around for this conversation of Sincerely Speaking!