From loving your boobs to popping in a ball gag (yes, really), this week’s episode with Sex with Lex dives into confidence, kink, and how some men really love to submit.
New Sex and the One ep is out now! Listen wherever you get your podcasts, and trust us, you’ll want headphones for this one 😅
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What really happens when a sexologist, a microphone, and two women with zero filter sit down to talk about the clitoris? Spoiler: everything. 😏
In this hilarious, educational, and wildly honest episode of Sex & The One, B and KV welcome back fan-favourite guest @sexwithlexmelb for a deep dive into the world of female pleasure, from the anatomy class you wish you got in school to the toys, techniques, and truths that actually work.
You’ll hear:
- The real difference between the vulva and the vagina (yes, we said flaps)
- Why the clitoris is the only organ built purely for pleasure
- Our honest review of the Satisfyer Pro + “splash blankets” (you’re welcome)
- Clitoral vs penetrative orgasms and why most women need both
- Period sex, kink, and how Melbourne’s BDSM community is rewriting the rulebook
The difference between a kink and a fetish (and our very specific confessions 👀)
It’s unfiltered, funny, and unexpectedly educational, the kind of sex talk you’ll want your friends to hear, too.
So grab your lube, hit play, and prepare to laugh, learn, and blush your way through Sex with Lex (Part 1).
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What happens when one wild idea, a tiny house, and a naked man kick off a year of the most unfiltered conversations about sex, love, and everything in between? 😈
In this first birthday episode of Sex & The One, B and KV look back on 12 months of chaos, connection, and confessions, from The Naked Man story that “broke the internet” to The Cougar Rule, blowjobs and menopause, AI boyfriends, and why they’ll never say “should” again.
You’ll hear:
- How a tiny house with no Wi-Fi started a viral podcast
- The Cougar Rule explained (and debated)
- Hot-seat moments, body counts, and non-monogamy myths
-The “plastic vs glass balls” lesson that saved relationships
- Why vulnerability, laughter, and sex talk changed everything
It’s raw, real, and laugh-out-loud funny, the perfect mix of chaos, heart, and honest conversation that made you fall in love with this pod in the first place.
Hit play, celebrate with us, and tell us: what’s been your favourite Sex & The One moment this year? 💋
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This week, KV and B sit down with Karlie and Clayton, the founders of The Barn Brisbane, an exclusive adult play centre that’s redefining intimacy, connection, and exploration in Australia.
From building equipment by hand (including their now-famous milking table), to creating a safe, private space for couples and small groups, Carly and Clayton share the wild journey of turning an empty warehouse into one of Brisbane’s most talked-about venues.
We dive into:
- How The Barn came to life from scratch
- What makes it different from clubs and open-door venues
- The unique equipment (yes, we talk about that table)
- How privacy, safety, and cleanliness are prioritised
- Why couples are reconnecting, and even making “Barn babies”
If you’ve ever been curious about the world of adult play spaces, or how intimacy and innovation collide, this episode is a must-listen.
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In this episode of Sex and the One, KV opens up about a weekend that didn’t go as planned, and the emotional aftermath that followed. This isn't to expose, it’s a reminder you don’t have to go through it alone.
We’re here to talk about what happens after the bad date, the shame spiral, the self-blame, the questioning. And most importantly, the sisterhood that pulls you out of it.
🧡 If you’ve ever thought that maybe you should’ve known better, this one is for you.
🧡 If you’ve ever blamed yourself for someone else’s bad behaviour, this one is for you.
🧡 If you’re carrying something heavy, you don’t have to do it alone.
New episode of Sex and the One is out now. Listen wherever you get your podcasts.
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In this week’s episode of Sex and the One, KV and B keep it raw, real, and way too relatable. Forget what you’ve seen in porn or rom-coms — real intimacy involves towels, tissues, splash mats, cracked knees, menopause sweat, and the awkward post-sex “waddle.”
They dive into:
- Real sex vs. TV & porn myths
- Towels, tissues & the wet patch dilemma
- Why real foreplay is dishes, affection & communication (not oral)
- Deal breakers in bed & why women shouldn’t settle
- The hilarious realities — from carpet burns to dead toys
- Travel tips (yes, even for your toys)
- Intimacy when the kids are home
- Double standards in the bedroom
Plus, they unpack what listeners had to say about whether being “bad in bed” is really a deal breaker. Spoiler: it’s not always the sex, but the communication behind it.
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In this episode, Jay from Playfully Wicked shares insights into the swinging scene, discussing the importance of creating a safe and welcoming environment for connection and intimacy. He explains how to navigate consent, what to expect at sex parties, and offers tips for first-time attendees. The conversation highlights the diversity of experiences within the community and emphasises the significance of communication and respect in these settings.
Takeaways
- Jay emphasises the importance of creating a safe space for women at parties.
- Research is crucial before attending any swinging events.
- Consent is a fundamental aspect of the swinging scene.
- The experience at parties is about connection, not just sex.
- Attendees can choose to socialise without engaging in sexual activities.
- The parties welcome all body types and promote body positivity.
- Costs for attending parties vary based on exclusivity and location.
- First-time attendees should focus on socialising and observing.
- The swinging community is diverse, with people from all walks of life.
- Communication and understanding boundaries are essential in navigating relationships within the scene.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Playfully Wicked
01:16 Understanding the Swing Scene
05:48 Creating a Safe Space for Connection
09:42 Navigating Consent and Safety
14:08 The Party Experience: What to Expect
20:03 Cost and Accessibility of Events
26:30 Tips for First-Time Attendees
In this episode of Sex and the One, B and KV sit down with special guest Sex with Lex, a Melbourne-based sexologist and educator who’s reshaping the conversation around sex.
From breaking down what a sexologist actually does, to why sex education shouldn’t end in school, Lex opens up about:
- The importance of pleasure-focused education for adults
- Common myths, kinks, and misconceptions around sex
- Why arousal ≠ consent, and how to make consent sexy
- The real stats behind orgasms and sexual health
- Her mission to take the taboo out of everyday conversations
It’s raw, funny, and deeply insightful. Whether you’re curious about sexology, want to improve communication in your relationships, or simply love honest talk about all things sex, this episode is for you.
We played Never Have I Ever on this week's episode, and it went exactly how you think it would.
If you're into unfiltered chats about sex, dating, and all the stuff you usually save for your group chats, then this is the podcast for you.
New Sex and the One episode is out now! Listen wherever you get your podcasts. 🧡
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Why are we so hooked on teenage love triangles, and what do they reveal about our own messy breakups? 💔
In this unfiltered and juicy episode of Sex and the One, B and KV dive from The Summer I Turned Pretty obsession into the very real world of heartbreak, toxic exes, and revenge stories that will make your jaw drop.
You’ll hear:
- Why December 11 is the most common breakup day of the year (and what that says about us)
- A woman’s cancer recovery “proposal” story that turned into the ultimate betrayal
- The wild revenge tales: sleeping with the ex’s dad, baking cheating texts into a cake, and more
- How fear, shame, and the unknown keep people stuck in the wrong relationships
- KV’s dramatic breakup saga (featuring a stalker ex, a shrine rendezvous, and a mixtape CD)
- The surprising upside of breakups, including the couple who “reverse-engineered” theirs with love and respect
And… as always, we’ll take it back to real life: why we try to make it work with the wrong people, and what it really takes to leave.
This one’s raw, hilarious, heartbreaking, and proof that love stories (and breakups) are never simple.
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What really happens when an unsolicited dick pic lands in your inbox? And why do we all pretend we’re not sharing them with our girlfriends? 👀
In this unfiltered and laugh-out-loud episode of Sex and the One, B and KV spill everything, from workplace scandals and ruler-measured “packages,” to the secret lives behind The Hunting Wives and what fantasies people keep hidden.
You’ll hear:
- Sue’s legendary dick pic story that ended with a colleague losing his job
- Why women do share unsolicited pics (and why it’s different when they’re invited)
- The wild secret lives of “conservative” couples, and why we’re fascinated by them
- AFL star Mitch Brown’s bisexuality announcement and his ex-wife’s incredible support
- KV’s unexpected marriage proposal in her TikTok DMs
- Plus: why Taylor Swift’s engagement is giving us all joy vibes
And… big news: we’re launching The Naked Circle! Our new community for unfiltered conversations, cheeky confessions, and sex-positive connections.
This one’s funny, messy, real, and the perfect mix of stories you’ll laugh about and truths you’ll nod along to.
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Who really initiates sex more often, men or women? And what actually counts as a “sign” vs making the first move?
In this candid and hilarious episode of Sex and the One, KV and B unpack one of the spiciest questions in relationships: who starts sex and why? From cycle-driven desire to the fear of rejection, they explore how gender dynamics, respect, and communication shape intimacy.
You’ll hear:
- Why many women say they are the initiators
- How men juggle respect, signals, and fear of looking stupid
- The emotional weight of rejection (for both sides)
- The surprising role of safety, consent, and timing
- Plus: the most unexpected things that turn people on (from tradies and accents to side boob, fresh linen, and even… white bread?!)
This one is raw, funny, and very real, the conversation you didn’t know you needed about sex, dating, and the unspoken rules of intimacy.
Hit play and share what you think: Who usually makes the first move?
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Unsolicited dick pics. Why do men keep sending them?
In this unfiltered episode of Sex and the One, KV and B dive headfirst into one of the most baffling (and infuriating) modern dating behaviours: the unsolicited dick pics. From hilarious horror stories to real talk about safety, respect, and power dynamics, they break down the psychology behind it all.
You’ll hear:
✨ Why some men think their dicks are their “car” (aka their pride and joy)
✨ What women really think when they receive one
✨ How sexting and consent are completely different conversations
✨ Stories of boundaries, red flags, and the occasional comedy of errors
✨ A wider chat about power, fetish culture, and how women are reclaiming the narrative
This episode is raw, funny, and brutally honest, because if you’ve ever asked yourself “WTF was he thinking?”, you’re not alone.
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This week on Sex and the One, KV & B are joined by internationally renowned sex & pleasure coach Eleanor Hadley, and this is hands-down one of the most empowering, myth-busting episodes we’ve ever recorded.
From vulva anatomy and orgasm tips to the role of emotional safety in the bedroom, Eleanor shares what really impacts female pleasure — and why slowing down might be the hottest tip you’ll ever hear. We dive into:
💋 Why so many women struggle to orgasm (and why it’s not your fault)
🔥 The “engorgement” secret that makes sex better for everyone
🫦 How to explore pleasure without pressure
🪞 The art of self-seduction & everyday sensuality
👩❤️👨 Why safety, trust & communication change everything in the bedroom
💡 Busting vulva myths and celebrating body diversity
Whether you’re single, partnered, curious, or just ready to deepen your connection to your own body, this episode will change the way you think about sex, relationships, and pleasure.
Connect with Eleanor: https://www.eleanorhadley.com | IG: @eleanorhadley
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Welcome back to Sex and the One with B and KV! Buckle up, because Part 2 of our cheating series goes deeper than ever.
This week, we’re diving into the emotional mind games, the subtle red flags, and the gut instincts that whisper something’s off before the truth comes crashing down.
In this episode, we cover:
- The Drift – how tiny lapses in connection open the door to betrayal
- Red Flags – from sudden outfit changes to hiding phones: what’s a real clue and what’s not
- Gaslighting & Guilt – why cheaters make you feel crazy
- Where Cheating Really Begins – is it the app? the text? the lie?
- True Stories – heartbreak, revenge, and those “I should’ve known” moments
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Cheating scandals are all over the media right now, but what really happens behind closed doors when trust is broken? In this raw and unfiltered episode of Sex and the One, B and KV dive into the Coldplay “Kiss Cam” cheating drama and open up about their own real-life experiences with betrayal, red flags, and rebuilding life after heartbreak.
KV shares the deeply personal story of discovering her ex-husband’s affair, the devastating impact on her family, and how she turned one of the worst moments of her life into a powerful turning point, complete with a “sex list” that transformed her confidence and joy.
We explore:
- The truth about why people cheat
- Spotting early red flags in relationships
- The emotional rollercoaster of betrayal
- How to rebuild your self-worth and power after cheating
If you’ve ever been cheated on (or just want to understand the mindset behind it), this episode will make you feel seen, empowered, and ready to set your own boundaries.
Listen to the full podcast for all things love, sex, dating, and relationships, real talk, zero shame.
This week on Sex and the One, KV and B dive deep into “the drift”. That quiet, subtle disconnection that can creep into long-term relationships when life gets busy. They unpack real conversations about the little things that matter most like quality time, small gestures, and intentional connection and share heartfelt stories of couples who caught the drift before it turned into distance.
From honest chats about love languages and everyday moments to the importance of choosing each other, this episode is raw, relatable, and filled with those “oh my god, me too!” moments. Plus, V shares a hilarious story about accidentally breaking the whisper-zone rule at a spa you won’t want to miss that ending!
This episode is for you if you’ve ever wondered:
- Is it normal to feel a drift in long-term relationships?
- How can small actions rebuild intimacy?
- Why do we sometimes feel like roommates instead of soulmates?
If you loved this episode, hit subscribe and drop us a comment, we want to hear YOUR drift stories!
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In this week’s episode of Sex and the One, KV and B dive headfirst into a juicy, chaotic, and painfully relatable question: Can you be friends with someone you’ve slept with? And what about your ex?
From women feeling threatened by their partner’s female friends, to men “hiding” things because they think we can’t handle the truth (lol), this conversation covers it ALL.
- When is a friendship innocent—and when is it murky?
- Is it ever really just a friend?
- Why do we feel jealous even when we know we’re the one being chosen?
- And who decides what’s off-limits in love, sex, and dating?
There’s singing, there’s chaos, there’s deep truths about self-worth, control, and modern relationships. Honestly? This one might be our most honest episode yet.
🎧 Listen now and tell us—could you stay friends with your ex?
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This week on Sex and the One, KV and B get real about initial attraction, what actually pulls us in, and why dating apps are making it harder to find genuine connection. From green eyes and tattoos to emotional attunement and messy burgers, we dive deep into the psychology of attraction, what the apps are missing, and why real-life encounters still reign supreme.
We unpack:
- What physical traits are truly irresistible (and which give us the ick)
- The surprising things we really notice first (hint: it's not just looks)
- How same-sex relationships often bypass the surface level
- Why charismatic men can be walking red flags
Our own stories, preferences, and yes... a little judgment (you know you love it)
Plus, a hilarious story about the voice that ruined the vibe and a fresh perspective on what women like us are really looking for in a partner.
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Welcome to Sex and the One – where B and KV dive into the chaotic world of love, sex, dating, and the occasional WTF moment.
This week, we’re talking dating apps... and it gets spicy. KV did a little Hinge experiment (think: 400km radius, age range 19 to 85 – yes, really) and ended up in what we’re now calling Rose Jail™.
You’ll hear the results (spoiler: they’re grim), what dating app algorithms are really doing, and why most men still think talking about themselves for two hours = chemistry.
There’s talk of fish photos, naked mountain men, red flags at dinner, and why we’re DONE paying $35 to hang with jobless dudes at "special parties."
If you’ve ever rage-deleted an app, felt personally victimised by an unsolicited rose, or been asked "Can I kiss you?" after carrying the whole convo – this one's for you.🔥
Press play, laugh with us, cry for the state of modern dating, and maybe finally delete Tinder for good.🎧
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