Who really initiates sex more often, men or women? And what actually counts as a “sign” vs making the first move?

In this candid and hilarious episode of Sex and the One, KV and B unpack one of the spiciest questions in relationships: who starts sex and why? From cycle-driven desire to the fear of rejection, they explore how gender dynamics, respect, and communication shape intimacy.

You’ll hear:

- Why many women say they are the initiators

- How men juggle respect, signals, and fear of looking stupid

- The emotional weight of rejection (for both sides)

- The surprising role of safety, consent, and timing

- Plus: the most unexpected things that turn people on (from tradies and accents to side boob, fresh linen, and even… white bread?!)

This one is raw, funny, and very real, the conversation you didn’t know you needed about sex, dating, and the unspoken rules of intimacy.

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