Episode 039: We’re back in the studio, baby! Season 3 of Queerly Overthinking kicks off with an update on how Adam’s year has unfolded, what’s changed, and how he’s rebuilding his creative rhythm.

In this episode, he opens up about his cancer journey, the care that carried him, and why “progress over perfection” has become his new compass.

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Content Notice: This episode includes discussion of cancer and medical treatment.

Episode 038:

In the Season 2 finale of Queerly Overthinking, Adam reflects on a year filled with deep dives into relationships, connections, and self-healing. Turning 30 this year marked a pivotal moment of growth and nostalgia, anchoring this season in themes of love, community, and the enriching power of meaningful relationships.

Adam shares insights into navigating the challenging political climate while setting personal boundaries. With a promise to return for Season 3, this season finale underscores the importance of creative expression, shared perspectives, and the enduring need for community and connection.

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Episode 037:

In this third part of the series, Adam transitions into his Agnostic Days as he steps into his mid-twenties and adulthood. He reflects on how his beliefs have shifted, his experiences in Dallas, and the personal growth that came with this chapter.

From career changes to personal revelations, this episode of Queerly Overthinking uncovers how Adam navigated major life transitions and embraced his true self. It’s an insightful look at his ongoing journey of self-discovery.

Content warning: This episode discusses themes of religious trauma.

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Episode 036:

In the second part of Queerly Overthinking, Adam dives into his teenage and early adult years, a time marked by questions and realizations. He reflects on the complexities of navigating his faith while also starting to acknowledge his queer identity.

This episode continues the journey of Adam’s Believing Christian days, exploring the tension between faith and identity during a pivotal stage in his life. His experiences reveal the challenges and growth that shaped his path forward.

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Episode 035:

In this episode of Queerly Overthinking, Adam takes a journey through his childhood years, reflecting on what he calls his Believing Christian days. He explores how growing up in the church laid the foundation for his early understanding of faith and shaped his worldview.

This is the first of a three-part series, where Adam examines the milestones and moments that influenced his beliefs and identity during his formative years. From family traditions to faith practices, this episode sets the stage for his evolution.

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Episode 034:

In part two of this healthcare discussion, Adam and Cass dive deeper into the financial realities that come with managing chronic conditions and healthcare costs. They explore how medical costs can shape life decisions and share insights into navigating unexpected bills, such as Adam’s journey to afford HIV prevention services and Cass’s experience with prenatal care.

The conversation also touches on the emotional weight of constantly negotiating with insurance companies, the frustrations of switching medications due to coverage changes, and the toll that healthcare navigation takes on mental well-being. This candid conversation offers listeners a raw and honest look at the pressures of balancing health, finances, and personal well-being.

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Episode 033:

In this part one episode, Adam is joined by his dear friend and producer, Cass. Together, they explore their personal experiences with the American healthcare system. They discuss the challenges of navigating insurance, accessing care, and understanding the true costs of medical services.

Adam and Cass share insights into the high costs of essential medications and the complexities of insurance plans. Through an open and thoughtful conversation, they highlight the systemic issues within the healthcare system and reflect on their own journeys toward finding the right care and support.

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Episode 032:

Adam delves into the importance of inclusivity and accessible design, exploring how small changes can make a big impact on the way we create and interact with both digital and physical spaces. Reflecting on experiences shared from the disability community and personal experiences, Adam shares insights on how we can all become more considerate and empathetic in our daily lives.

Drawing from his work in experience design, Adam discusses the overlooked challenges faced by individuals with disabilities and the role we each play in fostering more inclusive environments. This conversation offers listeners practical steps to start building empathetic and curated spaces where everyone feels valued and included.

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Episode 031:

In this episode, Adam expands on the evolving nature of friendships, how proximity, frequency of communication, and other variables can impact one’s emotional investment. Using insights from a TikTok friendship coach, he highlights concepts used to better understand our connections.

Adam expands on using a "subscription model" when evaluating relationships, emphasizing that it's natural for these bonds to change over time. Through his personal experiences with the loss of close connections, he encourages listeners to prioritize self-investment and embrace the changes that come with growing and evolving relationships.

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Episode 030:

In this part two episode, Adam and Mary broaden their conversation by asking the question, “How do you foster relationships with people holding different political views?” They emphasize the importance of using multiple news sources, being cautious of biases, and encouraging thoughtful opinion development.

Adam and Mary discuss the significance of capitalizing on shared beliefs and values to build meaningful conversations and understanding. They highlight the benefits of finding areas of agreement and how this approach can lead to deeper connections, spreading love and positivity within the community.

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Episode 029:

We have a VERY special guest in the studio today! In this episode, Adam and his sister-in-law Mary begin their conversation on understanding different political and religious perspectives. This overarching theme delves into how both Adam and Mary remain open and understanding towards diverse opinions and ideals while staying true to their own beliefs.

In this part one episode, Adam and Mary explore three key steps: going in with the intention of making a friend, actively listening, and letting go of preconceived notions. By focusing on these steps and emphasizing the importance of empathy, they encourage listeners to build meaningful connections and bridges between differing viewpoints.

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Episode 028:

Fresh from his recent visit to Chicago’s Pride festival weekend, Adam shares heartfelt reflections on the significance of celebrating Pride and the powerful impact of being part of a vibrant, inclusive community.

In this episode, Adam explores the importance of public displays of affection within the LGBTQ+ community, the sense of liberation found in queer-friendly spaces, and the joy of participating in communal events like live watch parties. Tune in for a thoughtful and inspiring discussion on personal growth, community, and the ongoing journey toward acceptance and equality.

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Episode 027:

In this special Pride Month episode, Adam reflects on a blog post he wrote seven years ago about grappling with “same-sex attraction” while deeply rooted in his Mormon faith. Building on previous conversations about faith and self-discovery, Adam reads excerpts from the original post and shares his candid reactions, highlighting how his beliefs and self-perception have evolved.

Adam discusses the complex balance of navigating personal growth while being sensitive to friends and family still within the faith. Tune in as he offers encouragement to those in similar situations and inspires listeners to embrace self-acceptance on their ongoing journey of understanding their identity.

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Episode 026:

Join Adam and Cassie in part two as they dive deeper into the idea of a Self-Sustaining Support System. Building on their previous conversation, they emphasize the importance of self-awareness, understanding personal limits, and incorporating routines for self-care and personal growth.

Adam and Cassie share their personal experiences, focusing on the balance between self-reliance and community support. Tune in as they tackle life's challenges with authenticity and empathy, offering helpful tips for developing a healthy relationship with yourself and fostering connections with others.

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Cassie is the VP of Analytics and Automations at Quid, a leading AI and NLP Saas company. With over 12 years experience leading global CX, Customer Support and Education teams, Cassie has influenced major brands like Disney, Publicis, Coca-Cola, BCG, and Visa with data-driven strategies over her career. She is known for building cross-functional teams with efficient operations and chairing executive SVP teams functioning as a culture lead and chief of staff.

Cassie received her Masters in Analytics and Research from UTDallas, pioneering the Marketing Analytics program that has continually excelled. While she guest lectures, and manages multiple consulting hobbies, she will tell you she is living her best, richest life being fueled through dancing and yoga, cherishing friendships, and embracing continuous learning.

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Episode 025:

In this episode of Queerly Overthinking, join Adam and his bestie Cassie as they explore the concept of a Self Sustaining Support System. They also discuss the importance of building and prioritizing our own values, all while trying to avoid the pitfalls of an overly individualistic narrative.

Adam and Cassie share a road map to a journey towards self-reliance, resilience, and personal growth, all while embracing the importance of community and connection in shaping our narratives. Settle in and learn more as they share how they’ve been navigating life's challenges with authenticity and empathy.

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Cassie is the VP of Analytics and Automations at Quid, a leading AI and NLP Saas company. With over 12 years experience leading global CX, Customer Support and Education teams, Cassie has influenced major brands like Disney, Publicis, Coca-Cola, BCG, and Visa with data-driven strategies over her career. She is known for building cross-functional teams with efficient operations and chairing executive SVP teams functioning as a culture lead and chief of staff.

Cassie received her Masters in Analytics and Research from UTDallas, pioneering the Marketing Analytics program that has continually excelled. While she guest lectures, and manages multiple consulting hobbies, she will tell you she is living her best, richest life being fueled through dancing and yoga, cherishing friendships, and embracing continuous learning.

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Episode 024:

In this episode, Adam delves into the emotional rollercoaster of saying goodbye to his childhood home due to his parents' decision to relocate. His initial shock and subsequent emotional journey upon hearing about the move reveal a complex mix of nostalgia, grief, and acceptance, highlighting the difficulty of processing such significant changes.

Reflecting on the constant stability his childhood home provided, Adam shares memories of his home and the ingrained familiarity of the surrounding neighborhood. Contemplating the deeper emotional ties and memories associated with his childhood home and town, he explores the concept of "home" beyond the physical space and structure.

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Episode 023:

In part two of their conversation, Adam and Julie unpack the challenges and triumphs of navigating relationships with differing beliefs. They also explore the journey of finding a new community after leaving the one they’ve always known.

Plus, Julie shares her personal tips for cultivating self-love and being present in the moment. As the conversation unfolds, they discuss how embracing the present fuels their passion for social justice and a brighter future. But can they avoid burnout on the road to saving the world? Tune in to find out!

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Episode 022:

Adam and Julie tackle a big question in this episode: how do beliefs about an afterlife impact how we live? Their discussion explores the tension between focusing on the next life and cherishing this one.

Obsessing about the future can make us miss out on the joys and challenges that define our present experience. However, recognizing the finite nature of our time in this world can motivate us to seize the day and make the most of every moment.

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Episode 021:

Is compromise always a necessary evil, or can it be a source of growth and understanding? Today, Adam begins to unpack the nuances of finding common ground and how it can strengthen our relationships.

Have you ever considered the power of embracing personal alone time? Learn to embrace your "solo" and discover the joy in solitude! Adam wraps things up by sharing some candid insights on his own ever-evolving approach to navigating the world of dating.

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Episode 020:

Welcome to Queerly Overthinking, Season Two! Get ready to embark on a brand new journey this season as we delve deeper into the complexities of queer identity, challenging norms, and fostering meaningful relationships.

In this inaugural episode of Season Two, tune in as Adam explores the intricate nuances of navigating sexual identity across various spaces, dismantling ingrained homophobia, and contemplating the impact of living in a world shaped by the aftermath of the AIDS epidemic.

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