In this episode of PF Unfiltered, the hosts delve into the complexities of emotions, mental health, and seasonal depression. They discuss personal experiences with depression, the impact of faith and community, and practical ways to manage mental health during difficult times. The conversation also highlights the difference between happiness and joy, the importance of purpose, and practical activities that can provide mental rest. This episode aims to offer viewers insights and tools to address their mental well-being while fostering a deeper understanding of faith's role in navigating life's challenges.
00:00 Introduction and First Impressions00:24 Meet the Hosts02:19 Discussing Feelings03:24 Emotions and Rationality05:32 Seasonal Depression and Faith13:43 Understanding Joy and Happiness16:10 Personal Experiences with Depression19:33 Seasonal Depression and Coping Strategies24:55 Recognizing Overwhelm and Depression25:24 The Nigerian Approach to Mental Health25:46 Balancing Faith and Mental Health27:06 Community Support and Depression29:38 The Pursuit of Happiness vs. Contentment43:37 Finding Rest and Hobbies for Mental Health46:35 Practical Advice for Managing Depression47:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
In this episode of PF Unfiltered, hosts Esther and Tunde engage in a candid discussion about the differences in Christian faith practices between Nigeria and the United States. They explore the perceptions each country's Christian community has of the other, the cultural and societal influences on faith, and the varying emphases on religious activities. The conversation touches on the challenges of maintaining genuine faith amidst differing societal demands, materialism, and the transactional nature of religious fervor. The episode concludes with a reflection on the essence of faith in Christ, regardless of geographic location.
00:00 Introduction and Initial Discussion
00:39 Welcoming the Audience
02:42 Faith in a Foreign Land
04:14 Cultural Differences in Faith
05:33 Impact of Environment on Faith
09:30 Materialism and Faith
13:43 Prayer and Genuine Faith
25:19 The Essence of Prayer
27:03 Cultural Differences in Religious Practices
27:41 Faith and Spiritual Disciplines
28:19 Personal Experiences and Lessons in Faith
29:27 The State of the Church in Nigeria and America
31:21 The True Foundation of Faith
32:37 Challenges and Misconceptions in Faith
36:45 The Way Forward: Christ-Centered Faith
43:33 Final Thoughts and Reflections
51:36 Closing Remarks and Call to Action
In this episode PF gets candid about almost breaking under the weight of perfection, how performing perfection nearly cost him his peace and how honesty, grace, and purpose pulled him back, first-born vs last-born pressure, and why the Holy Spirit not the timeline should set your pace.
What does it mean to have boundaries as a Christian? In this episode, PF Unfiltered explores how fear, insecurity, and people-pleasing often keep us from saying no. The crew tackles boundaries in relationships, money, church life, and work with biblical wisdom and real-life stories. Learn why confidence in God (not just self-help tips) is the foundation for healthy limits.
In this unfiltered conversation, Pastor Femi, Esther, and Tunde flip the script on red flags — and dive deep into what green flags really look like in relationships, friendships, and faith.
From emotional availability to patience, honesty, and kindness, the crew breaks down how to spot healthy traits without confusing them for performance or perfection. 🟩
They get real about modern dating terms, spiritual maturity, and even debate hot topics like:
What does it mean to be “emotionally available”?
Is financial status really a green flag?
Can you be honest and still unkind?
How do you discern good character without judging by appearances or money?
As always, PF brings humor, scripture, and truth — with plenty of laughs (and side-eye moments) along the way.
📖 “Some virtues are not inherently virtuous — honesty without love is just cruelty.”
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What’s your biggest green flag in a person — and what’s a dealbreaker you’ve learned to spot early?
Ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re called to become?
In this episode, Pastor Wale Adenuga shares why he stepped down after 8 years of pastoring, the lessons behind his most famous song, and why contentment not performance is the heart of faith. Expect laughter, raw honesty, and hard truths about church culture, leadership, and transition.
From wig lace and too much makeup to love bombing and selfish friendships, the PF Unfiltered crew dives into the petty and the serious signs you shouldn’t ignore. Expect laughs, cultural banter, and biblical wisdom on spotting red flags in dating, friendships, and beyond.
How do we disagree without blowing up the relationship? In this lively PF Unfiltered episode, PF, Esther, and T dig into real-life conflict: tone vs. words, listening to understand (not to clap back), “agree to disagree,” switching churches over style, being friends with exes, and the spicy liquor-store question for Christians.
Also: the eternal debate… pineapple on pizza 🍍🍕.
Season 3 of PF Unfiltered kicks off with a big question: Should pastors, worship leaders, and church creatives be paid—or is ministry meant to be free? Pastor Femi and the crew dive into the unfiltered truth about church money, pastoral pay, musicians charging fees, and even the controversy over private jets. We unpack Bible verses like “don’t muzzle the ox,” talk church finances and stewardship, and share real stories from ministry life. Plus: life updates, why PF says wisdom comes with age, and a sneak peek of what’s ahead this season. Honest, funny, and faith-filled—this is church talk without the filter.
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What would PF do if God gave him just one week? Hear his honest, heartfelt answer—alongside hilarious banter, some sandwich betrayal, and lessons on staying connected to the Body of Christ.
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They barely knew each other. “The Lord said...” turned into “We’re pregnant” on day one.
In this hilarious yet sobering episode, the crew and Guest, Pastor AK dive into the chaos that unfolds when couples skip friendship, rush into marriage, and let pressure or prophecy drive their decisions.
Real talk. Real laughs. Always unfiltered.
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In this heartfelt and unfiltered episode, PF sits down with Emmy Award-winning filmmaker Viola Matteson to unpack the tension between control, creativity, and surrender to God. From childhood in Nigeria to global success in storytelling, they explore how dependence on God not ambition fuels true excellence.
As headlines grow darker and policies grow more unpredictable, this episode calls Christians back to the peace of God that surpasses understanding. Through scripture, personal stories, and candid conversations, we explore how to develop unshakable faith in a world that’s constantly shifting. If you’ve ever felt like your hope is fading, this one is for you.
From ancestral altars to pop culture trends, we unpack the truth about witchcraft—what it really means biblically, how it shows up today, and why it’s more than broomsticks and black cats. Is it harmless, or spiritual warfare in disguise and how believers can discern the difference?
In this powerful episode of PF Unfiltered, we sit with the tension of unanswered prayers and the emotional weight they leave behind.
Through personal stories, honest reflections, and scriptural truth, we reveal how God’s love and faithfulness are not always revealed in answered prayers but often in the process of waiting, growing, and surrendering.
We also discuss the difference between asking and demanding, and how God’s “no” might actually be His best “yes” in disguise.
This episode isn’t about quick fixes or feel-good faith. It’s about learning to walk with God when the road is unclear, the silence is loud, and your heart is still holding onto hope.
If you’ve ever felt like your prayers bounced off the ceiling—this one is for you.
In Part 2 of our PF Unfiltered conversation, we pick up where we left off—taking the boundary talk even deeper. This time, we’re unpacking how past experiences, church teachings, and societal pressures shape the way we date and love today. What happens when boundaries are too rigid—or too loose? How do we navigate grace, temptation, and accountability in a world that glorifies self over sacrifice? This episode is raw, honest, and necessary for anyone trying to walk the line between faithfulness and freedom in their relationships.
Dating in today's world can feel like a tug-of-war between faith and culture. In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we're breaking down what real boundaries look like in relationships inside the church and out in society. Are we honoring God or just following trends? Are our standards protecting us or holding us back? It's time for an honest conversation that challenges both comfort zones and convictions.
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In this heartfelt and no-fluff episode of PF Unfiltered, the crew dives headfirst into the big question: Do we truly love God?
We wrestle with the tension between morality vs. righteousness, obedience vs. grace, and the true definition of love as laid out in Scripture. From cultural norms to Christ’s finished work, Whether you’ve been walking with God for years or you’re just trying to figure it out, this episode is a reminder that only in Christ can we truly be right with God.
It’s deep, challenging, and absolutely necessary for the journey of faith.
What do you do when you're on a bus with no destination?
PF Unfiltered dives into deep spiritual and practical questions from our listeners — from financial wisdom to relationship red flags, and from growing in faith to leadership in ministry.
When digital boundaries get blurred, do you delete the DMs or reevaluate the whole relationship? In this episode of PF Unfiltered, we dive into the sticky gray areas of online communication, emotional cheating, and the real implications of keeping secrets.
The crew unpacks a lot of questions, raw, insightful, and peppered with humor.