Live from our road trip! In this episode, we explore God’s blueprint for courtship and how Christian singles can pursue relationships that honour Him. Drawing from Proverbs 18:22, we discuss why finding a spouse is a blessing and how to establish healthy physical, spiritual, and emotional boundaries. Learn practical ways to date with purpose—through group settings, mentorship, and church accountability—and reflect on the key question: Who is mentoring me in this season?
Keywords: biblical courtship advice podcast, Christian singles relationship tips
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
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🎙️Modern dating meets timeless faith—discover what it really takes to find a godly marriage in a swipe-right culture.
Episode Summary:
In this episode, we explore how faith and technology collide in modern relationships. With nearly 40% of couples now meeting online, dating apps have become one of the most common ways people find love—and even marriage. But what happens when faith enters the equation?
We unpack new research showing that while dating apps can lead to marriage, couples who meet online often face higher early divorce rates than those who meet through community or church networks. For Christians, this raises deeper questions: Can digital connections build spiritual foundations? And what happens when believers marry outside their faith?
Through data from studies by Pew Research, the Marriage Foundation, and Christian surveys, we look at how shared belief impacts marriage satisfaction, why faith-first apps like Christian Mingle are thriving, and what Scripture says about being “equally yoked.”
This conversation challenges listeners to rethink how they approach dating in the digital age—not just seeking romance, but pursuing covenant. Whether you’re single, dating, or mentoring others, this episode will help you navigate love online with wisdom, discernment, and faith at the center.
Key Themes:
How dating apps are reshaping Christian relationships
The difference between meeting online and meeting through faith communities
Statistics on interfaith marriage and relationship satisfaction
Biblical perspectives on being equally yoked
Practical guidance for Christian singles in a digital world
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
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In this episode of the Christian Dating with Purpose Blog and Podcast, we unpack why casual dating conflicts with the biblical model of courtship and how singles can date with intention toward marriage.
We begin in Genesis 2:18, where God declares, “It is not good that man should be alone.” From the start, relationships were designed for covenantal companionship, not convenience. Yet modern dating culture often promotes trial, error, and emotional exploration—leaving many believers spiritually weary.
We contrast worldly dating vs. biblical courtship:
The world dates to impress; believers court to prepare for covenant.
The world chases chemistry; the believer seeks character.
The world values experience; God values holiness.
Through biblical courtship, singles invite God’s direction and pursue relationships with purpose and accountability. This episode encourages listeners to ask deeper questions early—about faith, values, and family vision—before emotional attachment clouds judgment.
We also explore the heart posture of intentional dating: guarding purity, honoring God with emotional boundaries, and viewing romance as worship rather than entertainment. Casual dating may feel harmless, but it contradicts the covenantal love God models through Christ and the Church.
Ultimately, every Christian single must pause and ask:
👉 “Am I dating to impress, or am I dating to prepare for covenant?”
True love isn’t casual—it’s Christlike, faithful, and rooted in purpose.
🎧 Listen now on Christian Dating with Purpose Blog and Podcast to learn how to align your dating life with God’s design for marriage.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
Tags: Christian Marriage, Christian Dating, Equally Yoked, Biblical Relationships, Covenant Marriage, KJV Marriage Advice, Kingdom Spouse Preparation, Christian Men, Proverbs 31 Woman, Spiritual Leadership in Marriage
In this episode of One Cross Yoke (OCY), we explore how to move from worldly dating trends to a Christ-centred courtship grounded in purpose, purity, and covenant love.
🔥 Listen now to discover how to date with God’s design in mind.
🎧 Available on all major podcast platforms.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
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🎙️ Are you a Christian single longing for Christ-centred friendships and clarity on your journey toward marriage? 💍
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This is not just another event — it’s a divine opportunity to meet like-minded believers, grow in holiness, and deepen your relationship with Jesus at the centre.
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🎙️ Podcast Segment: Top Tips for Christian Singles to Meet Each Other
Welcome back, friends! Today we’re diving into something many of you have asked about: how Christian singles can meet each other in authentic, faith-centered ways. Whether you’re praying for a future spouse or simply looking to grow your circle of Christ-centered friendships, I’ve put together 15 practical tips to help you get started.
Get involved in your local church—serve, join small groups, and attend social events.
Check out Christian conferences, retreats, and worship nights.
Try Christian dating apps like Christian Mingle, Upward, or Salt.
Build friendships through small groups and Bible studies.
Volunteer in service projects and mission work.
Ask trusted friends and family for introductions.
Join Christian sports leagues or social clubs.
Attend concerts, worship nights, or Christian festivals.
Sign up for Christian courses or discipleship classes.
Connect with online Christian communities and virtual Bible studies.
Say “yes” to church socials, even if they stretch your comfort zone.
Use social media to share your faith and attract like-minded believers.
Travel with Christian groups, mission trips, or faith-based tours.
Start with friendship—many lasting relationships begin there.
And most importantly, pray for God’s guidance and trust His timing.
Remember, it’s not about rushing or forcing a connection—it’s about showing up, being intentional, and letting God weave relationships in His perfect way.
So, whether you’re signing up for a small group, heading to a worship night, or even downloading a Christian dating app, keep your eyes on Jesus and your heart open to where He might lead.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
🎙️ Episode Summary: Do I Understand God’s Covenant Design for Marriage?
In this episode, we dive deep into the biblical truth that marriage is not a contract but a covenant—a sacred reflection of Christ’s love for the Church. Drawing from Ephesians 5:25 (KJV) and Matthew 19:6 (KJV), we explore why God designed marriage to last, how it mirrors the Gospel, and why covenant faithfulness is so essential in today’s world.
We also unpack the real-world consequences of broken covenants, sharing the story of a high-profile leader whose public affair didn’t just cost him his marriage but also risked shaping his children’s future relationships. The lesson? The pain of broken covenants ripples for generations.
Throughout the episode, I challenge you with three reflection questions:
Do I see marriage as a covenant or a convenience?
Am I prepared to fight for my marriage spiritually?
Is the Cross of Christ central to how I plan to love, forgive, and lead?
The call is clear: if you’re not ready to lead, love, and sacrifice like Christ—or follow, honor, and serve like the Church—you’re not ready for marriage.
Let these questions refine you. Let the Holy Spirit guide your steps. And most importantly, let Christ remain at the center of your love life.
Marriage is more than romance—it’s a covenant that demands spiritual maturity, preparation, and God’s blueprint.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
Tags: Christian Marriage, Christian Dating, Equally Yoked, Biblical Relationships, Covenant Marriage, KJV Marriage Advice, Kingdom Spouse Preparation, Christian Men, Proverbs 31 Woman, Spiritual Leadership in Marriage
🎙 Podcast – "Is He Praying, Paying, and Leading?"
💍 Part 4 of our 5-part series “5 Powerful Self-Reflection Questions Every Christian Must Ask Before Pursuing Marriage” dives deep into one crucial truth: He must be acting as the man he will grow to be in Christ, now - completely focused on his purpose to build a Christ centred Kingdom and leave legacy.
In this episode, we unpack one of the most important questions every Christian single—especially women—should ask before considering marriage: Is he praying, paying, and leading?
Drawing from Ephesians 5:23 and Psalm 112:5, we explore God’s design for husbands to be the spiritual head of the home—not in domination, but in sacrificial love, humility, and consistent leadership.
A godly man prays over his future wife and decisions, pays with both financial stewardship and sacrificial commitment, and leads with wisdom and stability.
Modern culture promotes “50/50” partnerships in everything, but God’s Word calls for Christlike headship—where a husband lays down his life, builds a home on the Rock, and takes spiritual responsibility seriously.
Ladies: If he isn’t leading now, a wedding won’t magically make it happen.
Reflection Questions:
Does he pray with and for me?
Is he building something stable or drifting aimlessly?
Is he ready to protect and provide for a family long-term?
Marriage is more than romance—it’s a covenant that demands spiritual maturity, preparation, and God’s blueprint.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
🎯 Christian marriage podcast, Christian dating advice, godly relationships, Christian singles, courtship God’s way, biblical marriage preparation, marriage readiness for Christians, Christian dating red flags.
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🎙 EPISODE 2: Am I Upfront About Being Marriage-Minded? | Christian Courtship & Godly Relationships
💍 Part 2 of our 5-part series “5 Powerful Self-Reflection Questions Every Christian Must Ask Before Pursuing Marriage” dives deep into one crucial truth: If you can’t clearly say “I want to marry,” you’re not ready.
📖 With wisdom from Matthew 5:37 (“Let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay…”) and Habakkuk 2:2 (“Write the vision, and make it plain…”), we uncover why clarity is a sign of maturity—and why avoiding the marriage conversation can lead to emotional, physical, and spiritual harm.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why being upfront filters out time-wasters 🚫
How to set God-honouring boundaries 🙏
Reflection questions to check your readiness 💡
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
🎯 Christian marriage podcast, Christian dating advice, godly relationships, Christian singles, courtship God’s way, biblical marriage preparation, marriage readiness for Christians, Christian dating red flags.
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"Do I Know My Worth as God’s Precious Treasure?"
In this powerful episode, we dive into the biblical truth about worth, identity, and intentionality in the Christian journey toward marriage.
Drawing from Proverbs 18:22 and Proverbs 31:10, we challenge Christian singles—especially those navigating dating and relationships—to reflect deeply on how they see themselves and how they’re being seen.
💎 Ladies—you are not a free trial. You're a rare treasure, far above rubies. If God says your worth is high, then don’t lower it for attention, temporary affection, or someone who hasn’t made a covenant commitment.
🛠 Gentlemen—marriage isn’t a reward for charm; it's the fruit of diligence and godly pursuit. You’re called to protect, pursue, and lead—not to consume or casually “sample.”
We also ask the tough questions:
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Whether you're a Christian single, or you care about someone who is, this episode offers a bold, Scripture-rich reminder that your worth isn't defined by culture—it’s defined by Christ.
Share this with someone who needs to hear it. It might just change how they prepare for marriage forever.
Are christian singles really ready for marriage? Check out this new video podcast sharing some top tips and insights that every #christian #single should be thinking about.
Modern dating is confusing — even for Christians. 💬 In this first episode, we lay the foundation for what biblical courtship should look like. 📖 It's not about swiping, guessing, or falling into marriage — it's about readiness.
👨👩👧👦 Men must become loving, protecting, clear-minded husbands who reflect Christ. 💪 Women are called to follow God’s divine path with strength and grace. 🌸 Together, godly couples build families that bless the Church and strengthen society. 🏛️
But it takes intentional work. 🔥 It means reconditioning our minds — unlearning the world’s ways and embracing God’s design. 🧠❤️
If you’re serious about marriage, we are here to coach you for greatness, prepare you, and maybe even match you —No AI 🤖. No games 🎲. No algorithms 🧮. Just God’s rhythm. ⏳
This is Onecrossyoke (OCY) — Christ-centered courtship. Kingdom-focused marriage. Let’s get ready. 💍🙏
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PART ONE - ARE YOU SAVED?
Discover 5 deeply reflective questions every Christian single should ask before pursuing marriage. Rooted in the Bible (KJV), this guide helps you prepare for God’s covenant of marriage the right way
Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. For the Christian, it's a sacred, three-way bond with God at the center. Before pursuing a relationship, it’s essential to ask yourself: Am I truly ready for marriage, God’s way?
Here is the first of 5 self-reflective principles, rooted in Scripture, that can help you evaluate your readiness and align your path with God’s design.
1. Is Jesus Christ the Lord and Saviour of My Life?“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.” — John 14:6 (KJV)Jesus must be Lord of your life before He can be Lord of your marriage.
Marriage is a spiritual covenant. You, your spouse, and Christ must be equally yoked: “And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” — Ecclesiastes 4:12 (KJV) This is not optional. The Holy Spirit empowers the sweetness (love, joy, peace, patience), but also sustains you through trials designed to refine and sanctify. “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…” — 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV)
Ask yourself:Do I follow Christ daily, or just occasionally? Do I want someone who truly follows Jesus—or just calls themselves Christian? Can I commit to keeping God as the third strand in my future marriage? If not, stop. Your foundation isn't strong enough yet.
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Podcast by Pastor J the founder of One Cross Yoke (OCY), married to his wife of 13 years and father to two young boys.
OCY was founded because of a passionate call regarding preparing future marriages - we have helped many at the difficult seasons and realised we can help so many more based on what we learnt in stages of helping others who were in marital crises.
Christian marriages are at an alarming rate of divorce and the severity of choosing a godly spouse can be underplayed in the church. That is where we come in and with 13 years of marital experience - we understand the complex nature of finding a godly spouse.
We have set up OCY to help others get married and live 'happily ' married. We are in it for the business of planting OAK trees that can stand the test of time and create shelter for your future family to grow.
Modern dating is confusing — even for Christians. 💬 In this first episode, we lay the foundation for what biblical courtship should look like. 📖 It's not about swiping, guessing, or falling into marriage — it's about readiness.
👨👩👧👦 Men must become loving, protecting, clear-minded husbands who reflect Christ. 💪 Women are called to follow God’s divine path with strength and grace. 🌸 Together, godly couples build families that bless the Church and strengthen society. 🏛️
But it takes intentional work. 🔥 It means reconditioning our minds — unlearning the world’s ways and embracing God’s design. 🧠❤️
If you’re serious about marriage, we are here to coach you for greatness, prepare you, and maybe even match you —
No AI 🤖. No games 🎲. No algorithms 🧮. Just God’s rhythm. ⏳
This is Onecrossyoke (OCY) — Christ-centered courtship. Kingdom-focused marriage. Let’s get ready. 💍🙏
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