Let’s forget about the 5 am nonsense and start planning a simple morning routine. Elegance works best with calm mornings and soft luxury.

Maybe you only need to change up a few things, or maybe your morning routine needs a complete overhaul.

Let's talk about creating Elegant Morning Rituals for That Soft Luxury Life x

I’m ready to lock in, just like everyone else right now, so let’s glow up, dress well, work smart, make money, and educate ourselves, all while staying classy and elegant.

There are only ten more weeks left of this year, so let's make an action plan that balances ambition with reality, to glow up and look our best for the next ten weeks to stay effortlessly elegant.

Let's finish the year strong, darlings!

They told you to play by the rules, and you'll succeed in life. But I've found that when you start writing your own rules, that's when you step into your true power.

It’s time to stop seeking permission and start creating success your OWN way, darling.

So let's talk about the problem with living by certain rules, where they came from, and why you don't need to live by someone else's standards (just your own). How to rewrite your own rulebook, and even own the consequences (and power) of doing life your own way.

Women who change things are never the ones who play by the rules. So don’t be afraid to be the exception.

Everyone’s busy showing off, oversharing, and overreacting, ugh, but the real power move?

Staying calm, mysterious, and classy while the world spins around you.

Let's discuss what you can do to stay classy when it feels like everyone else is acting way too messy.

Smart women don't waste energy on self-pity; it just makes you weak. I know, I know, we’ve all been there, curled up under the covers with salted caramel ice cream, replaying everything that went wrong, convinced the world is unfair.

But, darling, here’s the truth: self-pity doesn’t make life better, it makes you stuck in one moment. That's not growth, and that's not taking your power back.

It's time to get your life together and start building that confidence back up. You've got this, baby girl x

Every classy woman needs her own set of rules. Think Blair Waldorf – she didn’t follow the crowd, she set the standard. Let’s talk about how creating your own code of class can make your life feel more magnetic, more powerful, and undeniably yours.

If you want to not only look confident, but actually feel confident and self-assured, and have it be something that comes easily and effortlessly, rather than just pretending and hoping others see you that way. Then, darling, this episode is for you.

Because what I’ve discovered is that confidence isn’t actually about how other people see you at all, but rather how you’re talking to yourself and your internal dialogue.

Once you’re not overthinking everything and constantly trying to determine how other people see you, and start to embrace yourself instead, that’s when you can truly shine.

Welcome back to the messy classy podcast, and in today's episode, we’ll be talking about how to exude confidence that looks effortless and genuine, personal growth, confidence building, and self-discovery.

So relax on the sofa, fire up the jazz, and let’s get into it.

Spring is the perfect season for glow-ups, and darling, we’re not sitting this one out. Let’s talk about how to reset, refresh, and become the most magnetic version of ourselves this spring.

Messy Classy is back for the spring season, full of fresh new episodes ready to help you on your glow-up journey to become the most elevated classy version of yourself.

But, since we're messy classy, darling, we don't mind having a little fun along the way.

Kisses x

The classiest, most successful women understand that real power doesn’t need to be broadcast; it needs results. There is power from someone who quietly transforms their life compared to someone who constantly posts about what they plan to do.

Let’s talk about why moving in silence will help you reach your goals and help you to maintain that class and grace along the way.

After all, messy classy girls still like to win, we just let our actions speak for themselves.

Stay messy classy, darlings x

Let's analyse some of Blair Waldorf's best traits and apply them in our own lives to become unstoppable. If you want some of Queen B's power and confidence, it comes down to planning strategically and going after what you want.

And you can do it with class and grace.

So if you've ever asked yourself what Blair Waldorf would do in a situation, let's break down why she's made some of the choices she has, and how we can do the same.

And do it the messy classy way.

Let’s talk about becoming the trifecta: hot, elegant, and unbothered. And as I was in Paris recently, I’ll also sprinkle in a few of my favourite Paris moments too.

So getting hot.

This encompasses two things. One is about looking the best you’ve ever looked, and the second is your attitude, since you CAN decide that you’re hot now.

Now elegance.

This comes down to three main areas: clothing, how you carry yourself, and how you interact with others.

And finally, unbothered, before we tie them all together.

So, becoming unbothered is the ultimate cool girl power move. If you want to win, you need to practice moving from a place of intelligence rather than emotion.

Enjoy the episode, and stay messy classy darlings x

Once you start choosing yourself and your goals, and taking that focus away from needing approval or validation from someone else, that’s when your life starts to change for the better.

Your self-worth does not belong in the hands of other people. You don’t need someone else's approval or validation to become the person you want to be. Let’s talk about growing from a people pleaser to a classy queen.

If you want to become irresistible, combining class and charm together is the key. That way, you get to be elegant and polished, but not cold. And magnetic, but not like you’re trying too hard. They intertwine and enhance each other.

So let’s talk about combining both class and charm to create that magnetic aura.

In this episode, we'll discuss body language, voice, confidence, emotional intelligence, and self-respect.

I’ll also mention some inspiring women who have nailed the charm/classy combo down. Sometimes it’s easier to have a role model to emulate when we’re trying to step into a new version of ourselves.

Enjoy the episode and stay Messy Classy darlings x

So let’s talk about one of the biggest glow-up hacks I’ve done this year. And that’s quitting alcohol.

Here are some of the benefits that I’ve discovered being alcohol-free:

You look better (glowing skin, weight loss), you save money, and these internal changes:

Mental clarity: better ideas, deeper reflection;

Confidence: real confidence, not wine-fueled;

Energy & routines: mornings feel sacred, not sluggish;

Stronger boundaries: less people-pleasing, more intentionality;

Elegance: the quiet power of being in control of yourself in social situations.

Enjoy the episode and stay Messy Classy darlings x

You want to be THAT girl. What if you could be her, but the classy version? The one who walks into a room and doesn’t need to say a word. With timeless style and magnetic habits, people will turn heads and want to know who you are. 

Today, I’m not giving you another basic routine, I’m showing you how to become THAT girl -the classy edition.

You already know the ‘that girl’ aesthetic online. Usually, it consists of matcha, green juice, and pilates in matching workout sets. Which is all fine, but what if you want timeless class over TikTok trends?

The ‘that girl’ I want to be is about elegance, confidence, and building a life I love.

So, let’s go over some tips and ideas in three sections: 1. How to refine your image, 2. habits & lifestyle, 3. your mindset to embody effortless elegance and confidence

Stay Messy Classy Darlings x

Your worth isn't determined by others, you get to decide it for yourself.

We often look to others for validation or to 'choose' us. But often, people can't see you for who you are because they don't see the world the same as you do.

But when you start to build your confidence and self-worth, it no longer becomes about whether someone else can see your worth or not, because who cares what they see.

That's why you need to choose yourself. Always. Believe in you. Because soon you will find the people who also believe in your worth AND can treat you accordingly.

But it always has and always will start with you and how you see yourself.

You've got this, my darling x

A good Sunday reset routine marks the end of one week and sets up the next for success. You can leave any chaos in the past and start fresh and have a clear mind for the new week.

It’s like a mini shakeup that you get to do every week, and it is excellent if you have anxiety. 

It’s my favorite day of the week, and I always look forward to it. And not because it’s the weekend, because it’s a reset. I get to continue doing things that are working well and reset those that aren’t.

It’s like the 1% rule, where you strive to get 1% better next time, so it’s not overwhelming. You don't have to have a dramatic change overnight. It’s simpler and more subtle. 

When I don’t do my usual Sunday reset, then my following week is less productive, less fun, and more stressful.

In this episode, I’ll go over my Sunday reset checklist so that you can get inspiration for your own best Sunday ever.

Need to shake up your life? Not sure if you should? Guess what, baby girl, you can rebrand yourself as many times as you like. 

Let’s explore the topic of rebranding and reinventing yourself. It’s my favourite thing to do when I need a change. I love a good life glow-up.

I’ll go over the aesthetic first, then lifestyle changes, and the mindset shifts to become the new version of you.

The empowering thing about rebranding is that you get to decide WHO you want to be and then make a plan HOW to get there. 

Enjoy the episode, and stay messy classy darlings x

Drinking alcohol made me weak and stupid, so I decided to cut it out. It was the biggest power move I’ve made so far this year.

In this episode, I’ll talk about why I gave up alcohol. How it's making me smarter and more successful, and why it’s leading me towards my dream life.

It was a bold move, but one that was oh-so easy to make. Now I’m reaching my goals so much faster and easier than ever. 

If you want to hear the full story, listen now.

Imagine you weren't scared to pursue your dreams? If you started to chase your goals relentlessly? How would people react if you were more bold and audacious? If you set boundaries and put yourself first?

In this episode I'll show you what I wrote in my notes app for more motivation and confidence to reach my goals. It came down to one main thing: Having more audacity to start asking for what I wanted.

Audacity is being bold. Taking risks. Having the courage to put yourself first and chase your dreams no matter what.

And baby girl, you (like me) need more audacity.