For centuries, sex was seen as sacred.
Not sinful. Not shameful. Not shallow.
But somewhere along the way—we lost that connection.

In Episode 50 of Men and Sex, I sit down with Hannah Haazal—a sacred sexuality educator, ritual artist, intimacy coach, herbalist, and death doula—whose work is about restoring the holy power of erotic energy and helping men become deeply embodied, present lovers.

We explore:
🌬️ How most men have been living (and having sex) from the neck up
🌹 The ancient world of temple arts and ritual erotic practice
🕯️ Why sex has always been sacred—and how it was distorted into something sinful
💀 The role of ceremony, ritual, and even death as initiations into deeper aliveness
💓 How to move from shallow sex into full-bodied intimacy
🔥 The courage it takes to feel again—and reclaim your vitality

This conversation is for any man who knows there’s more to sex than friction and release—
And who’s ready to step into a new relationship with his body, his heart, and the sacred fire of his sexuality.

🎧 Listen now and return to what was never meant to be lost.

Explore More from Hannah:
🌐 The Temple of Sacred Arts
💫 Sacred Eros Profile & Offerings
🔮 Witch Eye Awakened

Sex isn’t just physical.
It’s spiritual. Subtle. Mystical.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Jessica Bird—a powerful speaker, intuitive healer, and erotic channel—to explore the deeper truths of erotic energy and what it means to return to our erotic innocence.

We dive into:
🌬️ The subtle, sacred nature of sex—and how to become attuned to its presence in all of life
💓 What it means to be a heart-centered erotic man in today’s world
🌿 How sexual energy exists all around us—in nature, in creativity, in our breath
🧘🏽‍♀️ Jessica’s journey of discovering that her intuition was most powerful when rooted in eroticism
💡 The freedom that comes when we shed inherited shame and limiting beliefs about sex
💌 The potency of dating yourself, romancing your own being, and deepening your connection to source through pleasure

This episode is an invitation to slow down, open up, and remember that your erotic energy is not something to fix or hide—it’s something to honor, listen to, and live from.

🎧 Listen now and rediscover sex as a path to wholeness, reverence, and real power.

This episode is a doozy—and one of the most eye-opening conversations I’ve had on Men and Sex.

I sat down with a deeply informed anonymous guest, a man who has dedicated himself to understanding the full impact of circumcision—physically, emotionally, sexually, and culturally. And he came ready to share what most people never hear.

We dive into:
🔍 Why do we circumcise? Religious tradition, cultural habits, and outdated medical myths
📉 The truth behind the so-called “health benefits”—and why countries like the U.S. circumcise 80% of boys while Europe is under 20%
💔 What we actually lose in the process: sensitivity, function, and trust in our own bodies
💥 How circumcision is tied to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation
🧬 What is keratinization and meiosis—and how they affect your pleasure
🔄 Real steps men can take toward foreskin restoration—yes, it's a thing, and it’s been around for decades
💸 The billion-dollar industry behind it all—from the selling of foreskin to the explosion of lube and ED meds

We also ask:
❗ Why is this not called male genital mutilation—while the same practice in other cultures is?
❗ Why are men so unaware of the lingering impacts of this one early trauma?

If you're a man who’s ever wondered why your sexuality feels off, limited, or numbed—this episode could be the missing piece.

🎧 Listen now—and prepare to rethink everything you thought you knew about your body.

Resources Mentioned:🧰 Mantor DS – Direct Stretch Device – The personal device I’m using for foreskin restoration, designed for dual tension📘 Beginner’s Guide to Foreskin Restoration – A practical and detailed overview for men exploring restoration

🎭 ⁠Eric Clopper’s One-Man Show – Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story⁠ – A bold, brilliant 2-hour performance at Harvard that exposes the cultural, scientific, and political truths around circumcision

🔹 ⁠Intact America⁠ – Education and advocacy working to end routine infant circumcision in the U.S.🔹 ⁠Intact Global⁠ – Legal action and men’s rights defense, actively challenging circumcision through the courts (highly recommended)

If you are a heterosexual Male that wants deeper intimacy, better sex, and more embodied connection in your relationships—this episode is for you.

I sat down with Ashley Jones, a gifted love, intimacy, and embodiment coach who works with women, couples, and men to rewire the way we relate—inside and outside the bedroom.

Together, we explored:
💡 What’s actually required to create a deeply nourishing dynamic between a man and a woman
💦 How understanding a woman’s pleasure changes everything—emotionally and physically
🧘🏽‍♀️ Why many women struggle to fully receive pleasure due to unresolved insecurities and shame
🔄 The importance of receiving feedback from your partner without collapsing into “bad boy” self-judgment
💓 How the cervix connects to the vagus nerve—and why true feminine surrender requires emotional safety and presence
And we challenged the myths that keep so many people feeling stuck in performative or disconnected sex.

Want more fulfillment in the bedroom?
It starts with presence, communication, and the courage to actually learn what brings your partner—and yourself—into full-body “yes.”

🎧 Listen now and open the door to more nourishing, real-deal intimacy.

More from Ashley Jones:
💥 Men’s Sexual Mastery – A deep dive into understanding pleasure and embodiment:
👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/menssexualmastery

🌹 Reclamation – A powerful program for women reclaiming their sexuality and feminine essence:
👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/reclamation

💞 Intimacy Upgrade – Explore tools and practices to strengthen connection and communication:
👉 uplevellove.com/intimacy-upgrade

In this potent episode I sit down with Tyson Adams—a leading expert in porn addiction and semen retention—to explore one of the most urgent issues men are facing today.

We talk about:
📺 How porn has rewired our brains to crave novelty and disconnect from real intimacy. We've been trained to "bond" with screens
🤖 The rise of AI influencers and why more men are falling in love with digital women
💸 Why this conditioning is making us more likely to give our money—and our attention—to robots
🧠 The mental health fallout: ED, depression, loneliness, and even suicide

This episode takes us beyond porn.
It’s about what’s coming next—and what men can do now to stay human, whole, and awake in a world that’s becoming more synthetic by the day.

🎧 Listen now to hear the truth about where this is going—and how to take your power back.

More from Tyson -

Instagram - @tysonadams__

Working with Tyson - https://www.thriive.life/lifeforce

Most men were never taught how to touch themselves with intention.
They use masturbation to release pressure—not to build power.

In this live training, Victoria Angel Heart and I guide you through a whole new approach to self-pleasure: one that expands your nervous system, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your capacity to hold more sensation, emotion, and energy.

We cover:
🛑 Why most masturbation patterns are based in anxiety, shame, and quick escape
🛠️ 5 powerful tools—breath, sound, movement, intention, and awareness/touch—to rewire how you relate to arousal
🧘🏽‍♂️ How to use edging as a training ground for presence, stamina, and creative power
💥 The difference between masturbating to cope… and masturbating to grow

If you’re tired of feeling drained, stuck in habits that don’t serve you, or disconnected from your own body—this episode will shift the way you touch yourself forever.

This is about using pleasure to build strength—not just to survive.
🎧 Listen now and start training your nervous system for more power, more clarity, and more choice.

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Let’s be real:
A lot of the talk around semen retention is rooted in shame-based marketing.

Buy this course. Follow this guru. Stop ejaculating or you’re wasting your life force. Don't be a weak beta male.
Sound familiar?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Cam Fraser—a certified sex coach, sexologist, and men's work facilitator who brings real depth, skill, and compassion to this conversation.

We dive into:
🔍 How semen retention is often preached from a place of shame—not empowerment
🧠 Why negation-based thinking (“don’t do this”) doesn’t work for the brain
💦 Reframing semen retention around reverence, not repression
🌱 Why curiosity about your body beats trying to follow a one-size-fits-all standard
📊 The danger of clinging too tightly to studies instead of tuning into your unique body and energy

Cam has helped hundreds of men untangle their sexuality from guilt, pressure, and confusion—and this conversation is a breath of fresh air for anyone tired of rigid, performative teachings.

🎧 Listen now to reclaim your relationship with your body, your pleasure, and your power.

Follow Cam Fraser:
📲 Instagram: @thecamfraser
🌐 Website: https://cam-fraser.com/

Tapping Into Trust: Healing Performance Anxiety with Victoria Angel Heart 🧠💥🫀

This episode is action-packed and full of tools every man needs. I’m joined by Victoria Angel Heart, an incredible guide in nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodiment.

We dive deep into:
👐 EFT tapping as a practical tool for reducing performance anxiety and calming the body
💔 How many men have unknowingly broken trust with their own bodies—and what it takes to rebuild it
🧘‍♂️ Why mindful masturbation is key to reconnecting with sensation, pleasure, and presence
🔊 The importance of making noise, opening the vocal channel, and honoring the body’s boundaries
🚫 Learning to recognize when the body is giving a “no”—and how to respect it

This episode isn’t just talk—it’s transformation.
Victoria closes the conversation with a powerful 15-minute EFT tapping session specifically for performance anxiety that you can come back to anytime.

🎧 If you’re dealing with ED, PE, anxiety, or simply want to trust your body again—this is a must-listen.

“I am the POWER.”
These words have become a daily mantra for me since meeting Kevin Walton, aka Source Radiance.

Kevin is one of the most energized, creative, and aligned men I’ve ever encountered—a true embodiment of activated masculine presence.

In this episode, we dive deep into:
🧱 Facing guilt and shame as the gateway to reclaiming personal power
🔥 The razor-thin line between healthy desire and unconscious craving
🧘🏽‍♂️ How to walk in full ownership of your energy without becoming consumed by it

This conversation is potent. Raw. Expansive.
If you're ready to step into your power with clarity, responsibility, and purpose—this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen now and awaken the fire that’s already inside you.

Follow Kevin Walton / Source Radiance:
🌐 Website: https://unlimitedcreativepotential.com/aboutkevin/
📲 Instagram: @source.radiance

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What do you do after sex?
Do you rush to get dressed, check your phone, or dive back into your to-do list?

In this episode, I unpack a powerful practice that most men overlook—the art of staying with the energy after a sexual experience.

I share from my own story:
🌀 How I began to slow down and actually feel the vitality, pleasure, and turn-on pulsing in my body
💡 The realization that all of this goodness is coming from within me—not from anyone else
🧠 How I started to program my mind to return to this energy again and again throughout my day

This episode is about retraining your nervous system to feel more aliveness, more pleasure, more presence—long after the moment of climax is over.

🎧 If you’ve ever felt like sex ends too quickly… or that the high fades too fast… this one will shift how you relate to your own energy and turn-on.

🔥 Learn how to carry that post-sex power into every part of your life.

In this solo recorded episode of Men and Sex, I take you deep into my personal journey—from being a “good boy” obsessed with pleasing others… to becoming a man women naturally want to submit to.

I break down:
🔍 How early behaviors and belief systems shaped me into a performer and people-pleaser
🛑 Why being nice often leads to frustration, resentment, and lack of polarity
🗣️ The critical practice of speaking your desires clearly: “I want…”
⚡ How learning to be assertive and unapologetically direct changed everything—not just sexually, but in every area of my life

This is all pattern work.
It’s about studying your behaviors, examining your unconscious programming, and tweaking it at the root.
Small shifts. Massive results.
You don’t just act differently—you become a different man.

This episode is an invitation to stop performing, start leading, and tap into the magnetic power you were born with.

🎧 Tune in and take your first step from Good Boy ➔ Dominant Daddy.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with the radiant Jessica Begin to explore one of the most underrated tools for liberation: your voice.

Whether it’s moaning, toning, speaking your truth, or expressing your desires—your voice is a direct pathway to your power.

We dive into:
🔓 How liberating your voice can unlock deeper freedom in and out of the bedroom
😶 The fear of rejection and shame that keeps many of us silent
🗣️ Toning, vocal play, and other simple practices to reconnect with your sound
💦 The direct link between voice, nervous system regulation, and sexual expression

Your voice is primal, powerful, and deeply personal. When you suppress it, you suppress parts of yourself. This conversation will help you reclaim your sound—and all the truth and pleasure that comes with it.

🎧 Listen now and give yourself permission to make noise, speak up, and be fully heard.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Vince Chafin—a devoted leader with Sacred Sons and the Mankind Project, and someone I’ve been honored to learn from over the past year. Vince brings fierce love and clear truth to men’s work, and this conversation cuts right to the bone.

We dive deep into:
🌑 The sexual shadow—how porn, culture, and peer influence have shaped our sexuality in distorted ways
🌞 The process of transforming that shadow into sexual gold through ownership, honesty, and embodied integrity
🧱 Why many men’s spaces avoid talking about sex—and why that needs to change
📿 The sacred responsibility of leadership, and the courage it takes to face our darker impulses
💡 How integrating our desire can lead to more grounded, conscious power

Too many men were taught about sex by porn or peers who were just as lost. This episode is about breaking that cycle.

If you're a man ready to look at what’s been living in the dark—and ready to claim it with responsibility and reverence—this one is for you.

🎧 Listen now, and begin the journey from avoidance to embodiment.

Connect with Vince Matoska:
🌐 Website: vincematoska.com
📸 Instagram: @vincematoska

Want a version for YouTube, Spotify, or email as well? Just let me know.

Episode #36 – The Art of Taking: Consent, Power & Liberation

In this episode of Men and Sex, I’m joined by the incredible Phoenix Amara for a deep dive into the often-misunderstood topic of taking.

🌀 We explore the wisdom of the Wheel of Consent—a framework that reveals how healthy dynamics of giving and taking can lead to more freedom, clarity, and connection.

We talk about:
🔹 What it really means to take in a healthy, consensual way
🔹 How communication is the foundation of true liberation
🔹 The power of clearly defined dynamics in intimacy and life
🔹 Practices that help men step into their desires without guilt or confusion

If you’ve ever felt unclear about how to express your needs, desires, or boundaries—this conversation will shift your understanding of what’s possible.

Taking isn’t selfish. When done with integrity, it’s a doorway to deeper presence, power, and pleasure.

🎧 Listen in and learn how to take without taking away.

Connect with Phoenix Amara:
📸 Instagram: @thephoenixamara
🌹 Free Gift: Sensual Liberation Bundle
🛡️ Dive Deeper: Hero’s Quest Hybrid Journey

"The strongest individuals are those who can be dangerous but chose not to be."

For too long heartless men have created a lot of this world.

Powerful men that were very primal, but often thinking of themselves.

Many people have experienced pain and suffering under this type of leadership and in the recent years many have spoken up against it.

- An un intended impact?

A lot of nice guys. A lot of men afraid of their own power. A lot of men that have lost touch with their primal essence.

In this episode I interview Amber Kelly who guides men to mastering their hear, their mind, and their eros.

Join us as we dive deep into this conversation focused on calling men into their Heart-Led Primal energy.

For more info on Amber check out these links below.

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ambrklly?igsh=MWdtZ3M0ZjRrbWNjcQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/share/16AmskbbFi/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Book a call - https://calendly.com/ambrklly/30-minute-1-on-1-meeting

💥 Power, Pleasure, and Consent: A Path to Deeper Connection

In this episode, I sit down with Mischa Byruck, a consent educator who focuses on power and responsibility in sex, relationships, and life.

We explore:
🔥 The power dynamic between the penetrator and the penetrated
🗣️ How clear communication creates safety—and unlocks deeper pleasure
🌌 Sex as a portal to the divine
💪 Claiming power in a way that nourishes both you and your partner

This conversation is about more than just consent—it’s about stepping into your power with integrity.

If you’ve been exploring how to deepen your sexual experiences, communicate your desires, or lead with strength and responsibility, this episode is for you.

🎧 Listen now and learn how power, pleasure, and consent can transform your relationships—and your life.

More from Mischa:

Instagram - @mischabyruck

https://www.evolve.men/

🧠 Want to save yourself a ton of stress in your relationship?

When we as men better understand our woman's monthly cycle, we gain clarity—and avoid unnecessary frustration.

If you want to be a grounded leader in your relationship, this knowledge is key. Without it, you're more likely to take things personally, overreact, or unknowingly pressure her to operate like a man.

In this episode, I sit down with Jay, also known as Plant Healing Woman 🌿—a doula and herbalist who teaches men about women's cycles.

I asked Jay all the questions I believe every man needs to know—about PMS, pregnancy stress, and those unpredictable emotional shifts.

💡 If you've ever felt confused, frustrated, or overwhelmed in your relationship—this episode is for you.

In this episode I interview multi millionaire and dear friend Taylor Conroy.

We discuss a book that has sold over 100 million copies and is one of the most famous books on creating wealth.

Taylor said this book took him from making 50k a year to 500k a year.

Chapter 10 in this book is - The mystery of sexual transmutation.

You do not want to miss this one.

More from Taylor -

In this episode I interview Carly Rae. She does hands on, and hands in pelvic work with women.Carly guides women not only to understand their bodies, but to know them deeply through their own touch and self awareness.We dive DEEP and learn about what women need less of and more of.Bring what you learn here and practice it out in your life.Reclaim that wild animalistic part of you and have better sex.For more information about Carly :Website - www.carlyrae.caInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/carlyraebeaudry?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==