Most men have never been taught how to truly touch themselves—let alone how to touch a partner.
And it shows.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down again with Victoria Angel Heart to explore:
💔 The difference between genuine giving and manipulation disguised as generosity
⚡ How rushing to the finish or “taking” without awareness erodes connection
🛏️ Why your self-pleasure practice is the training ground for every touch you share with someone else
💓 The power of devotion—bringing reverence and presence into how you touch your own body
🧘‍♂️ How to fill your own cup so you’re not starving for connection or pleasure from others

I share my own experiences of where I’ve fallen into these patterns, and Victoria brings insight from a woman’s perspective—on what it feels like to receive from a man who is truly present vs. one who is just trying to get something.

Every time you touch your body, you’re programming how you touch others. This episode is about making that programming conscious—so your touch creates connection, not distance.

🎧 Listen now and learn how to rewire your relationship with your own pleasure.