In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Suzanne Knower Warye discuss the journey to sobriety, the cultural shifts surrounding alcohol consumption, particularly among mothers, and the importance of community and empowerment in breaking free from alcohol dependency. They share personal stories, insights on navigating relationships with partners and friends who drink, and the societal pressures that contribute to drinking culture. The discussion emphasizes the need for awareness about the dangers of alcohol and the benefits of living a sober life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Clare Morell discuss the significant impact of technology on children, particularly focusing on cell phone and screen use. They explore the addictive nature of interactive screens, the inadequacy of screen time limits, and the importance of fostering real-life social connections. Clare emphasizes the necessity of a digital detox for families and provides practical advice for parents on managing technology in their children's lives. The discussion highlights the challenges of navigating a tech-saturated world while prioritizing children's mental health and well-being. Clare Morell is a fellow at the Ethics and Public Policy Center, where she directs EPPC’s Technology and Human Flourishing Project. She is also the author of the book, The Tech Exit: A Practical Guide to Freeing Kids and Teens from Smartphones, published by Penguin Random House. Ms. Morell has had opinion pieces published in the Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, Fox News, Bloomberg News, The New York Post, Newsweek, among others. Ms. Morell has testified before Congress and her work has also been featured in The New York Times. Ms. Morell lives with her husband and three children in Washington, D.C. https://thetechexit.com https://claremorell.substack.com https://eppc.org/author/clare_morell/ Instagram: @thetechexit The best way to cook just got better. Go to HelloFresh.com/MAMAKNOWS10FM now to Get 10 Free Meals + a Free Item for Life!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Dr. Danica Harris delve into the complexities of trauma, particularly focusing on the concept of complex trauma. They discuss the differences between big T's and little t's, the impact of childhood experiences on emotional development, and the importance of repair in parent-child relationships. Dr. Harris explains how trauma can be trapped in the body and offers insights into recognizing and releasing tension. They also explore the connection between trauma and gut health, the ongoing nature of healing, and the significance of self-compassion in the journey. The conversation concludes with empowering advice for parents on how to navigate their own healing while supporting their children. 00:00 Understanding Trauma: Big T's and Little t's 02:55 Defining Complex Trauma 06:12 The Impact of Childhood Experiences 09:00 Repairing Relationships and Emotional Responses 11:57 Trauma Trapped in the Body 14:55 Recognizing and Releasing Tension 17:57 The Connection Between Trauma and Gut Health 23:54The Importance of Self-Compassion 26:55 Parenting and Trauma Awareness Dr. Danica Harris is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and complex trauma expert, working internationally as a coach, facilitator, presenter, and educator. Trained as a Counseling Psychologist, Danica prioritizes helping folks heal so they can live more embodied and empowered lives. Danica is the Co-Owner and Executive Director of Empowered Healing Dallas, a group therapy practice where her team provides trauma-informed therapy, using somatic and relational approaches when working with clients. Danica is also passionate about support for therapists and healers and provides mentorship and consultation to providers looking to increase their trauma-informed knowledge and business practices. She considers herself a co-journeyer, and hosts healing focused retreats and intensives for fellow complex trauma survivors. You can find Danica on her Instagram platform, @theempoweredtherapist where she provides education and support to the broader community. IG: @theempoweredtherapist www.theempoweredtherapist.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we are re-releasing one my personal favorite conversations and a fan favorite episode! This is a MUST listen (or re-listen!) Body image and and neutrality is something I didn't really learn about until I was an adult, after struggling for years. Especially after having my own kids I began to wonder, how do we do better for our kids so that they don't have to struggle with the same body image issues like most of us did as kids? On this weeks episode we dive into the topic and address some important questions! How can we talk to our kids about their body early on & in their teens to promote body neutrality? What are things we should avoid doing or saying to nurture body positivity in our daughters? Our kids are growing up surrounded by social media and are consuming damaging content for their views on themselves and their body. How can we help them avoid the comparison cycle of unrealistic body image on the internet? How can we help empower our daughters to stand up for themselves when their body is being negatively talked about by classmates, friends, family, or strangers? What are signs that we should be aware of that may indicate our child is struggling with an eating disorder? Dr. Morgan Francis is a Doctor of Clinical Psychology and a Licensed Mental Health Therapist. She is the owner of Scottsdale Premier Counseling, in Scottsdale, Arizona. At her private practice she treats young adults, individuals, couples, and families. Her mission is to break through the mental health shame game. With over 20 years of experience specializing in the treatment of Body Image and Eating Disorders, Dr. Francis can empower you to make peace with your body and food. She is a frequent guest on Fox News Phoenix, she has been featured in local and national publication, she is a public speaker and consultant on mental health helping churches, schools, and community organizations. You can work with Dr. Francis by accessing her online courses or attending her webinars. Dr. Francis lives in Scottsdale, Arizona with her three children and husband. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and psychologist Malina discuss the importance of having difficult conversations in relationships, the patterns that can lead to defensiveness and blame, and how to shift these dynamics towards understanding and effective communication. They explore the significance of awareness, the role of boundaries, and the potential benefits of written communication in navigating emotional discussions. Malina shares practical strategies for fostering a healthier dialogue between partners, emphasizing the need for vulnerability and teamwork. 00:00 Navigating Difficult Conversations in Relationships 02:13 Understanding Patterns and Personal Growth 04:53 Identifying Toxic Patterns in Relationships 06:30 Shifting Blame to Understanding 10:37 Effective Communication Strategies 12:37 Dealing with Defensiveness in Partners 16:38 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Conversations 20:38 Using Written Communication for Clarity Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Dr. Kara Natterson explore the complexities and awkwardness surrounding puberty discussions. They emphasize the importance of open communication between parents and children, addressing the emotional and physical changes that occur during puberty. Dr. Natterson shares insights on how to approach these conversations, the role of trusted adults, and the impact of social influences on children's understanding of their bodies. The discussion highlights the need for early education and normalization of these topics to foster a healthy understanding of puberty and sexuality. 05:01 Understanding Puberty: A Pediatrician's Perspective 09:54 The Role of Parents in Discussing Puberty 15:09 Normalizing Conversations About Bodies and Emotions 19:47 Setting Boundaries and Discussing Self-Exploration 24:48 The Importance of Early Conversations About Puberty 30:05 Empowering Kids Through Knowledge and Open Dialogue Cara Natterson, MD, is a pediatrician and New York Times bestselling author dedicated to demystifying the tween and teen years with science and humor. As the founder of Less Awkward and co-host of the This is So Awkward podcast, Cara empowers kids – and the adults who care about them – with essential knowledge about growing up. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Zara discuss the profound impact of labeling children, both positively and negatively. They explore how labels can limit a child's potential and the importance of fostering a growth mindset. The discussion also delves into the effects of parental venting, sibling comparisons, and gender labels, emphasizing the need for parents to advocate for their children and recognize the internalized effects of labels. Zara provides practical strategies for reframing conversations about children and highlights the importance of acknowledging both challenges and strengths in parenting. 04:32 Understanding Developmental Psychology in Labeling 06:30 The Fine Line of Complimenting Children 09:49 Venting and Its Effects on Parenting 16:27 Sibling Comparisons and Team Dynamics 23:10 The Impact of Child Comparisons 26:43 Understanding Gender Labels in Parenting 30:58 Reframing Shyness and Caution 38:24 Recognizing and Addressing Internalized Labels Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina Caviggiola and Alivia Hall explore the significance of understanding and processing emotions in the body. They discuss the importance of sitting with feelings, the challenges of emotional awareness, and the necessity of self-compassion. The dialogue also touches on how to navigate feelings of exclusion, the impact of core beliefs on emotional responses, and practical strategies for emotional regulation. Finally, they emphasize the importance of modeling emotional awareness for children, highlighting that parents must first regulate their own emotions to effectively teach their kids. Alivia Hall, LCSW, is a psychotherapist and the founder of LiteMinded, a boutique private practice based in New York City. Her work focuses on helping young adults in their 20s and 30s navigate the quiet struggles of modern adulthood—like anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, and complex trauma. Through a relational and compassionate lens, she supports clients in untangling what’s weighing them down so they can feel more grounded, connected, and like themselves again.You can find her on Instagram at @litemindedtherapy, where she shares honest insights about mental health, relationships, and the emotional growing pains no one talks about. 00:00 Understanding Emotions in the Body 03:03 The Importance of Sitting with Feelings 06:04 Navigating Emotional Awareness 08:47 Judgment and Self-Compassion in Emotions 14:49 Healing Core Beliefs 18:01 Accessible Emotional Practices 21:06 Modeling Emotional Regulation for Kids Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Karley explore the complexities of gender roles, ambition, and the unique shame that women often experience. They discuss how societal expectations shape women's self-perception and the pressure they feel from both themselves and other women. The conversation also highlights the importance of supportive relationships and the empowerment that comes from vulnerability and acceptance of needing help. 03:06 The Impact of Shame on Women 06:01 Societal Expectations and Self-Perception 11:51 Empowerment Through Vulnerability 20:48 Stereotypes and Shame Among Women 23:35 Navigating Shame and Self-Perception 27:35 Social Media's Influence on Self-Comparison 29:43 Coping Mechanisms and Acceptance Karley Weinberg is a working mom of two, stepmom of one, and content creator with a background in Sociology, Public Health, and Law. She is passionate about mental health and uses her social media platform to put complicated and sometimes contradictory emotions into words. With a focus on self-esteem, trauma, and neurodivergence, Karley’s goal is to use humor and relatability to help others feel seen and slightly less alone.  Episode Sponsor: Get started at Factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50% off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Charlotte delve into the complexities of perfectionism, exploring its protective nature and how it often leads to procrastination. They discuss the impact of perfectionism on self-worth and inner dialogue, and provide practical steps for breaking the cycle of self-sabotage. The conversation also touches on parenting and how to nurture children without imposing perfectionist standards. 00:00: Understanding Perfectionism06:11: The Protective Nature of Perfectionism12:00: Procrastination and Perfectionism: A Vicious Cycle16:26: Breaking the Cycle: Practical Steps to Overcome Perfectionism24:50: Parenting and Perfectionism: Nurturing Without Pressure Charlotte Grimmel is a psychologist (MSc) and holistic business coach who works at the intersection of mindset, high-performance psychology, and strategy. She helps high-achieving entrepreneurs develop the internal clarity and capacity to grow the business they actually want—without relying on hype, hustle, or someone else’s playbook. Her work focuses on the mental models, emotional habits, and self-concepts that shape how we lead, make decisions, and show up in the world. Through her coaching practice and platform @themindfriend (195k+ followers), Charlotte turns deep psychological insight into practical tools for navigating visibility, leadership, and growth. Known for her direct yet compassionate approach, she helps people transform their relationship with their minds—rather than fighting against themselves. Episode Sponsor: Build the best summer ever with KiwiCo! Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/MAMKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Cindy explore the concept of boredom, particularly in the context of parenting. They discuss how societal pressures often lead parents to keep their children busy, which can hinder emotional development. Dr. Cindy emphasizes that boredom is an emotion that needs to be acknowledged and managed, rather than avoided. The discussion highlights the importance of allowing children to experience boredom as a means of fostering creativity and emotional regulation. They also provide practical strategies for parents to support their children in coping with boredom and understanding their emotions. In this conversation, Cindy and Nina explore the importance of scaffolding in learning and emotional reflection for children. They discuss how to manage boredom, the impact of technology on emotional regulation, and the significance of teaching coping skills. The dialogue emphasizes the need for parents to validate their children's feelings and revisit emotional experiences to foster better emotional intelligence and regulation. 00:00: The Challenge of Boredom05:01: Understanding Boredom as an Emotion10:02: Supporting Children Through Boredom15:01: Coping Mechanisms for Boredom20:11: Practical Strategies for Parents21:09: Understanding and Managing Boredom24:42: The Impact of Technology on Emotional Regulation27:28: Teaching Emotional Coping Skills30:43: Revisiting Emotions and Validating Feelings Dr. Cindy Hovington, a mom of three and Ph.D. in neuroscience, is the founder of Curious Neuron—an evidence-based platform dedicated to helping parents understand and regulate their emotions, so they can model healthy coping strategies for their children. She also hosts The Reflective Parenting Podcast, where she dives into the emotional challenges of parenthood with compassion and science-backed insights. Many of us grew up without learning how to manage stress or emotions effectively, and now, as parents, we face the difficult task of unlearning old patterns while trying to teach our kids something better. Curious Neuron bridges that gap, offering not just information about emotions, but real tools to build emotion regulation skills through its Reflective Parent Club. Start building your self-awareness today by grabbing one of our free resources! Episode Sponsor:Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50 percent off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Alexandra Solomon explore the nuanced differences between secrecy and privacy in relationships, emphasizing the importance of trust and communication. They discuss how technology has changed relationship dynamics, the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior, and the necessity of understanding emotional needs in partnerships. The dialogue highlights the significance of approaching sensitive topics with curiosity rather than accusation, fostering a deeper connection between partners. In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Alexandra explore the complexities of vulnerability in relationships, the importance of understanding boundaries and privacy, and how healthy privacy can enhance intimacy. They discuss the significance of emotional safety and the need for couples to invest in connection and fun to maintain a strong relationship. The dialogue emphasizes self-awareness and the impact of past experiences on current relationships, providing insights into navigating challenges and fostering growth.00:00: Understanding Secrecy vs. Privacy in Relationships02:56: The Evolution of Relationship Dynamics06:00: The Impact of Technology on Trust08:56: Navigating Privacy and Secrecy11:55: Childhood Influences on Relationship Behavior15:11: Effective Communication in Relationships19:45: Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships24:43: Understanding Boundaries and Privacy28:31: The Role of Healthy Privacy in Intimacy35:55: Investing in Connection and Fun in RelationshipsAlexandra H. Solomon, PhD, is internationally recognized as one of today’s most trustedvoices in the world of relationships, and her framework of Relational Self-Awareness hasreached millions of people around the globe. A couple therapist, speaker, author, professor,podcast host, and media personality, Dr. Alexandra is passionate about translating cutting-edgeresearch and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity,and authenticity to their relationships. She is a clinician educator and a frequent contributor toacademic journals and research, and she translates her academic and therapeutic experience to the public through her popular and vibrant Instagram page, which has garnered over 200Kfollowers. She is an adjunct professor in the School of Education and Social Policy atNorthwestern University and is a licensed clinical psychologist in private practice. Her hitpodcast, Reimagining Love, has reached listeners across the globe and features high-profileguests from the worlds of therapy, academia, and pop culture. She is the award-winning authorof Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships YouWant, Loving Bravely: 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want,and Love Every Day: 365 Relational Self-Awareness Practices to Help Your Relationship Heal,Grow, and Thrive. You can visit her online at https://dralexandrasolomon.com/ and on Instagramat @dr.alexandra.solomon. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Carrie delve into the complexities of catastrophic thinking and high functioning anxiety. Nina shares her personal experiences with catastrophic thoughts, particularly in her roles as a professional and a mother. Carrie, a therapist specializing in high functioning anxiety, explains the nature of this anxiety and how it manifests in seemingly successful individuals. They discuss the disconnect between external appearances and internal struggles, the mechanisms behind catastrophic thinking, and the roots of these thought patterns. The conversation also explores the differences between anticipatory anxiety and healthy preparation, providing insights into managing these feelings effectively. In this conversation, Nina and Carrie Howard delve into the complexities of catastrophic thinking, exploring its roots in fear and anxiety. They discuss how different individuals experience catastrophic thoughts in various situations and provide practical strategies for recognizing and managing these thoughts. The conversation emphasizes the importance of sitting with discomfort and uncertainty, as well as offering support to loved ones who may struggle with anxiety. Carrie shares valuable techniques for grounding oneself and fostering a sense of safety, ultimately encouraging listeners to cultivate self-awareness and compassion in their mental health journeys. 00:00: Understanding Catastrophic Thinking03:05: High Functioning Anxiety Explained06:03: The Disconnect Between Appearance and Reality08:34: Defining Catastrophic Thinking09:13: The Mechanism of Catastrophic Thinking11:37: The Roots of Catastrophic Thinking17:51: Anticipatory Anxiety vs. Catastrophic Thinking19:10: Healthy Preparation vs. Catastrophic Thinking20:50: Understanding Catastrophic Thinking23:56: Practical Strategies to Combat Catastrophizing30:06: Sitting with Discomfort and Uncertainty34:00: Supporting Others Through Catastrophic Thinking Carrie Howard is a licensed anxiety therapist, mental health educator, and content creator who specializes in high-functioning anxiety, overthinking, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. With over a decade of clinical experience—and a personal journey with anxiety herself—she helps women face their fears, build self-trust, and navigate life with more confidence and calm. Carrie’s work has been featured in outlets like Good Morning America, Shape, HuffPost, and Verywell Mind, and she’s known for blending professional insight with a deeply compassionate, relatable approach. Episode Sponsor: Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50 percent off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Emily explore the complexities of setting boundaries in relationships, particularly focusing on family dynamics and the emotional challenges that arise. They discuss the importance of recognizing draining relationships, the cultural influences that shape our boundary-setting behaviors, and practical steps to establish healthier interactions. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness and the courage to prioritize one's own needs while navigating the guilt that often accompanies boundary setting. In this conversation, Nina and Emily delve into the complexities of setting boundaries, particularly in female friendships and family dynamics. They explore the feelings of guilt that often accompany boundary setting and provide strategies for effective communication. The discussion emphasizes the importance of self-advocacy and the need to manage one's emotional responses after asserting boundaries. Emily shares practical scripts and techniques for navigating difficult conversations, highlighting the significance of understanding personal values and the impact of emotional maturity in relationships. 00:00: Understanding the Roots of Boundary Issues 02:48: The Importance of Boundary Setting in Relationships 05:58: Identifying Draining Relationships 08:59: Navigating Family Dynamics and Boundaries 12:06: Cultural Influences on Boundary Setting 15:01: Overcoming Guilt in Boundary Setting 18:03: Practical Steps for Setting Boundaries 21:01: Scripts for Boundary Setting in Real Life 22:38: Navigating Guilt in Boundary Setting 26:12: Effective Communication Strategies for Boundaries 29:34: Setting Boundaries with Family Dynamics 37:07: Calming the Nervous System After Setting Boundaries Emily Sanders received her Bachelor’s degree from Life Pacific College in counseling ministry, and received her Master’s of Science degree from Vanguard University of Southern California. Emily has been practicing for over 13 years, and knows from personal experience the courage it takes to walk on the road to healing and self-discovery; she works with compassion to support others on their path to restoration, empowerment, and fulfillment. You can find Emily at emilysanders.com or emily.sanders.therapy on Instagram In her free time Emily can usually be found outside running, hiking, or riding her bicycle along Pacific Coast Highway. She also enjoys browsing Pinterest for new dinner recipes, chatting with her girlfriends, and spending quality time with her family. Episode Sponsor: Build the best summer ever with KiwiCo! Get $15 off on your Summer Adventure Series at kiwico.com/mamaknows Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Maggie delve into the complexities of binge eating disorder, emotional eating, and the journey towards healing and self-acceptance. They discuss the impact of upbringing on eating habits, the emotional triggers behind overeating, and the importance of reframing beliefs about food. Maggie shares her personal journey and coaching philosophy, emphasizing the need for self-love and understanding in overcoming disordered eating patterns. In this conversation, Maggie and Nina explore the complexities of parenting around food, particularly regarding sugar and treats. They discuss the challenges of instilling healthy eating habits in children while avoiding negative associations with food. Maggie shares practical tips for creating a healthier relationship with food, emphasizing the importance of planning meals and understanding emotional eating. The discussion also touches on the significance of body awareness and the impact of emotional factors on eating behaviors. Finally, Maggie provides resources for listeners seeking further support in their journey towards healthier eating habits. 00:00: Understanding Binge Eating Disorder02:52: Maggie's Journey and Coaching Philosophy06:06: Healing from Disordered Eating08:45: The Emotional Aspects of Overeating11:47: Indulgence vs. Overeating14:52: Guilt and Food Perception17:59: Reframing Beliefs Around Food25:12: Navigating Food Choices with Kids31:34: Practical Tips for a Healthier Relationship with Food39:25: Understanding Emotional Eating and Body Awareness46:14: Resources for Further Support As the host of the Why we Over eat podcast and founder of Vibe Club, I've spent the last 5 years helping women transform their relationship with food and their bodies. My approach combines neuroscience, emotional intelligence, and practical tools to create sustainable weight loss without restrictive dieting. Through my podcast and coaching program, I teach women how to tune into their bodies' natural hunger and fullness signals, process emotions without using food, and help women break free from diet mentality so they can develop a peaceful, intuitive approach to eating that works with their lifestyle. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Melanie McNally discuss the complexities of adolescence, focusing on emotional regulation, the impact of childhood experiences, and the importance of fostering independence in teens. They explore how early communication about emotions can shape a child's ability to cope as they grow, and provide practical advice for parents on how to support their children through these critical developmental stages. In this conversation, Dr. Melanie McNally discusses the challenges of parenting teens, focusing on the balance between granting independence and maintaining boundaries. She emphasizes the importance of logical consequences, scaffolding, and emotional awareness in helping teens navigate social pressures and develop resilience. The discussion also highlights the significance of open communication and creating a safe space for teens to express their feelings, especially regarding peer influence and emotional health. 00:00: Navigating Troubled Teen Years 02:02: Understanding Adolescent Psychology 04:24: The Impact of Childhood on Teen Emotions 09:29: Building Emotional Awareness in Children 16:55: Fostering Independence and Critical Thinking in Teens 22:25: Navigating Teen Independence and Boundaries 28:56: Coping with Social Pressures and Expectations 33:19: Understanding Emotional Contagion and Peer Influence 38:51: Processing Emotions and Building Resilience Dr. Melanie McNally is a licensed clinical psychologist and brain coach who helps people maximize their potential so they get the most out of life. From adolescents struggling with motivation to executives seeking direction, she helps people feel less overwhelmed, figure out their next steps, and reach meaningful goals. Dr. Melanie has worked in the field of psychology since 2005 and has written two books, The Emotionally Intelligent Teen and Helping Your Unmotivated Teen. Recognized nationally for her expertise, Dr. Melanie has been invited to the White House to discuss the paramount importance of teen mental health. She's appeared in The Huffington Post, Parents Magazine, Business Insider, Fast Company, and more. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $1.99 a meal. Go to everyplate.com/podcast and use code mamaknows199 to get started. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Caroline delve into the complexities of people pleasing, exploring its roots in childhood trauma and its impact on identity and self-esteem. They discuss how people pleasing manifests in various areas of life, including work and family, and the importance of setting boundaries. Caroline shares practical steps for overcoming people pleasing tendencies, emphasizing self-love and emotional regulation. The discussion also highlights the significance of parenting in shaping children's emotional health and the journey towards finding one's true self. 00:00: Understanding People Pleasing 03:50: The Roots of People Pleasing 10:08: Manifestations of People Pleasing 14:10: Impact of Childhood on People Pleasing 22:47: People Pleasing and Identity Crisis 29:04: Overcoming People Pleasing 36:30: Finding Your True Self Caroline is a German-born international psychologist, trauma expert, and devoted single mom, currently based in Amsterdam. Known for her warm, authentic approach and deep commitment to mental health awareness, Caroline has become a trusted guide for celebrities, athletes, coaches, and individuals from all walks of life. Her own healing journey fuels her passion, making her work deeply relatable, authentic and impactful. Caroline has dedicated her life to helping others navigate their healing paths. She’s the creator of a transformative trauma healing program Phoenix—rooted in her personal experiences—that has already helped countless people around the world break free from pain and step into their true selves. As the host of her own inspiring podcast (the Caroline Middelsdorf podcast). Caroline travels the globe, sitting down with experts, thought leaders, and public figures to share real, raw stories that remind us all: we each have a story worth telling. Her mission? To help 1 million people heal and create a ripple effect of awareness, compassion, and growth. Caroline leads with heart and soul, offering a guiding light for those who feel stuck in the dark. Her work is more than a profession—it’s a calling to make healing accessible, authentic, and to bring back connection, kindness, and care into the world. Above all, she strives to bring people closer together, reminding them that they are never alone in their struggles Episode Sponsors: Get started at factormeals.com/mamaknows50off and use code mamaknows50off to get 50% off plus FREE shipping on your first box. Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Dr. Morgan Cutlips delve into the complexities of the mental load in relationships, particularly focusing on the emotional labor involved in parenting and household responsibilities. They explore how the mental load affects attraction and communication between partners, the importance of recognizing and sharing responsibilities, and strategies to navigate resentment and achieve a fair balance in relationships. In this conversation, Morgan and Nina explore the complexities of household responsibilities and the mental load that often falls disproportionately on women. They discuss the importance of communication, appreciation, and the need for couples to navigate their roles in a partnership effectively. Morgan shares practical strategies for making invisible tasks visible and framing conversations about the mental load in a way that fosters understanding and collaboration. The discussion also touches on how the mental load can impact intimacy and connection within relationships, emphasizing the need for appreciation and teamwork. 00:00: Understanding the Mental Load 12:10: The Emotional Labor of Parenting 23:46: Navigating Resentment and Fairness in Relationships 24:29: Navigating Household Responsibilities 26:10: The Piling On of Precedence 28:31: Making the Invisible Visible 32:31: Communicating the Mental Load 36:24: Framing Difficult Conversations 40:25: The Impact of Mental Load on Intimacy Dr. Morgan Cutlip, PhD in Psychology and highly sought after relationship expert, knows what it feels like to lose yourself in motherhood, and she’s determined to help mothers navigate it better. Throughout her career, she has helped hundreds of thousands of people worldwide learn how to form and maintain healthy relationships. Dr. Morgan has been a featured relationship expert with Good Morning America, Teen Vogue, The New York Times, Women’s Health Magazine, MOPS International, Loveology, and Flo, the #1 app in health and fitness. Her new book, A Better Share, is available now! Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This conversation delves into the pressing issue of school violence and gun safety, particularly from the perspective of parents. Nina shares her emotional journey as a mother concerned about her child's safety in school, while Rep. Deb Andraca discusses her personal experiences and legislative efforts aimed at reducing gun violence. They explore the importance of responsible gun ownership, the need for preventive measures, and the role of community engagement in advocating for safer schools. The discussion emphasizes the significance of understanding statistics, recognizing warning signs, and promoting a culture of gun safety to protect children and communities. 00:00: The Impact of School Violence on Families 02:01: Personal Experiences with School Safety 04:43: Gun Ownership and Responsibility 06:13: Statistics on School Violence and Gun Safety 09:14: Identifying Warning Signs for Prevention 12:09: The Need for Legislative Change 15:34: Resources for Moms to Get Involved 18:15: Promoting Gun Safety in Homes 21:21: Advocating for School Safety Policies 26:14: The Importance of Community Engagement Rep. Deb Andraca is honored to serve as the representative for Wisconsin’s 23rd Assembly District, a role they have proudly held since making history in 2020. In the Wisconsin State Assembly, Deb serves on several key committees, including the Joint Committee on Finance, Education, and Forestry, Parks, and Outdoor Recreation. Their dedication and leadership have earned them numerous accolades, such as the Legislator of the Year Award from both the American College of Physicians Wisconsin Chapter and Mothers Against Drunk Driving (MADD), as well as the Champion of Commerce Award from the Metropolitan Milwaukee Association Chamber of Commerce. They have also been recognized as a Conservation Champion by the Wisconsin League of Conservation Voters and received the Building Wisconsin Award from the Associate Builders and Contractors of Wisconsin. Professionally, Deb brings a wealth of experience in education, communications, and policy. They have served as a substitute teacher and a former summer school math teacher at Bruce Guadalupe Community School, as well as a substitute teacher in the Whitefish Bay School District. Their background also includes work as a communications director and lobbyist at the Environmental Law and Policy Center of the Midwest, vice president at FleishmanHillard International Communications, and executive assistant at the Solar Energy Industries Association. Episode Sponsor: Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get 20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Caroline delve into the significance of self-care, particularly for mothers, and how it often gets misconstrued. They discuss the challenges of maternal mental health, the guilt that comes with prioritizing personal needs, and the importance of redefining self-care beyond traditional notions. Caroline emphasizes the need for systemic support for mothers while also encouraging them to embrace their worthiness and prioritize their well-being. The discussion highlights the journey of motherhood, the societal pressures faced, and the importance of community support in navigating these challenges. In this conversation, Caroline and Nina explore the complexities of guilt in motherhood, distinguishing between helpful and unhelpful guilt. They discuss the importance of self-care, emphasizing that it is not just about indulgence but also about making choices that support long-term well-being. The conversation highlights the need to let go of perfection in parenting and the significance of surrounding oneself with supportive influences to foster a healthier mindset. 00:00: The Importance of Self-Care 05:59: Navigating Guilt in Motherhood 11:49: The Role of Community and Support 17:53: Embracing Personal Worthiness 24:14: The Importance of Self-Care for Moms 32:44: Self-Care: A Holistic Approach Dr. Caroline Dickens is a San Francisco-based licensed clinical psychologist specializing in perinatal, reproductive, and maternal mental health. She is co-founder of the Palmetto Psychology Clinic, which specializes in treating mental health concerns uniquely impacting women across the lifespan. She loves supporting expecting and postpartum parents in navigating the anxiety, guilt, relationship challenges, and complex feelings that come with this transition. She is especially passionate about helping new moms let go of what they think they “should” be doing and clarify what they really want out of their own motherhood. Outside of the therapy room, she loves to support a wider audience of moms through her social media and as co-host of The Moms Are Alright podcast. As mom to a sweet and spicy 2 year old boy who is expecting her second baby this summer, she is also walking the journey right alongside the moms she supports. Carolyn has a mental health skills course for expecting & postpartum moms called Becoming Mom. Check out her therapy practice here: Palmetto Psychology Clinic Episode sponsor: New customers can enjoy this special offer of only $1.99 a meal. Go to everyplate.com/podcast and use code mamaknows199 to get started. Visit activeskinrepair.com  to learn more about Active Skin Repair and to get  20% off your order, use code: MAMAKNOWS Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices