This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/05/04/kink-life-balance-is-24-7-really-for-you/

Power exchange delineated at 24/7 is commonly upheld as the "ultimate" or "most desirable" form of kinky relationship. The reality is, even in 24/7 relationships not all things are power exchange! If you have ever desired to enter into this type of dynamic, here are things to consider before pursing one.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/26/this-could-save-your-life/

Kink and BDSM play elicits strong physical and emotional reactions. Knowing what is a good reaction what what signals indicate a potential medical emergency is critical to staying safe. This post covers the most common medical emergencies, what they look like, and appropriate first aid.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/30/why-is-sexting-with-strangers-only-possible-on-a-secure-chat-site/

Sponsored post promoting online sexting with strangers through new app.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/08/19/is-your-kink-practice-missing-something-critical/

Is spirituality incorporated into your BDSM practice? Should it be?

After speaking with a ton of long-term kink practicitions, Auntie Vice discovers the one thing most think are missing from the current practice of BDSM is a spiritual aspect. This post covers the whys and hows of incorporating more ritual into your practice and the potential benefits of exploring the deeper side of kink.

We all have a lot of unlearning to do as we come to embrace pride. Here are a few ways to help unlearn what society has told you about LGBTQ+ folks and Pride.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/06/10/unfuck-yourself-for-pride/

Pride readings for 2022

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/06/02/pride-2022/

There is so much overwhelming bad news out there! From losing Roe, to the limitation of Miranda, to the gun violence we all face in the US it can feel like there is so much bad stuff that all we can do is curl up in a ball and cry. As an old activist, I offer a few words of advice on how to care for yourself and keep going.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/11/things-are-terrifying-how-do-i-keep-going/

Galen Fous is conducting academic research on sexual fantasies. Please consider learning about this survey and possibly participating.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/07/24/sexual-fantasy-research/

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/05/25/a-sexy-bucket-list-how-many-have-you-done/

Looking for a sexual bucket list which focuses on connection and intimacy? Too many bucket lists focus on individual activities or fetishize types of people. This one focuses on the events which allow you to connect with yourself and your partner. Bet you haven't done all of these yet!

During my conversation with Meg Elison (author of The Road to Nowhere series), she listed a great set of books which center fat, trans, and queer characters. This list will make an excellent reading list for anyone this summer!

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/11/summer-reading-list/

Taking a D/s or BDSM dynamic beyond just sexual play can help couples connect more deeply to each other and their dynamic. Here are seven ways to take you dynamic beyond the bedroom!

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/22/7-ways-to-expand-your-dynamic/

Imani Barbarin, disabilities activist, wished white people could have a list of readings we passed around to help us understand how race was experienced in America. Wish granted! Here is a list of great books to start to understand the viewpoints of different people on race in America.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/04/17/no-white-people-left-behind/

There is one behavior exhibited by submissive folks that dominants hate more than anything else in the world! Find out what it is and what you can do to avoid being the annoying submissive.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2022/03/28/the-1-things-domme-hate/

Submissives will not always agree with the decisions or actions of a dominant. This does not mean you should be quiet! Here are ways to honor your dynamic and express disagreement.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/09/21/what-can-you-do-if-you-disagree-with-your-dominant/

Visiting family? Want to stay kinky but not tip off the grandparents?

Here are a bunch of tips and tools for traveling and visiting fam, staying kinking, and not tipping off the parents.

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/11/02/home-for-the-holidays-ways-to-stay-kinky-while-visiting-relatives/

Have you tried to date in the kinky world and not been able to connect with the right person? Too many or too few good candidate?

Here are things which may be preventing you from meeting the dominant of your dreams!

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/10/14/cant-find-the-domme-of-your-dreams-this-may-be-why/

Everyone starts somewhere. Here are tips and tools to make you early foray into the kinky world a bit safer and more fun!

This episode is also available as a blog post: https://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/10/24/bdsm-tips-for-beginners/