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In this heartfelt episode of "Literally My Life," Alexandra El-Amin opens up about her recent journey through a personal funk. She shares candid insights and practical tips on how to navigate life's lows and rediscover your inner strength. From embracing vulnerability to setting boundaries and finding solace in daily routines, Alexandra offers a relatable guide to shaking off the blues. Tune in to learn how small habits and a shift in mindset can lead to big changes. Whether you're in a funk or just looking for inspiration, this episode is your go-to guide for personal growth and resilience.
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The Carrie Bradshaw effect and why she was never the blueprint.
How to break the cycle of mixed signals and half-love.
The emotional rollercoaster of being “almost” chosen.
Your Ask Alex questions on love, dating, and knowing when to walk away.
If you’ve ever been caught up in a “what are we?” situationship or wondered if you were asking for too much (you’re not!), this episode is your sign to put your crown back on.
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In this episode of "Literally My Life," Alexandra dives into the transformative power of internal glow ups versus the allure of external changes. From personal anecdotes about choosing silence over clapbacks to the wisdom of journaling and prayer, she explores how true transformation begins within. Discover why the best glow-ups come from healing eras, not just hair salons, and how embracing your emotions can lead to lasting peace. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on growth, resilience, and the journey to self-discovery.
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In the Season 3 premiere of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m opening up about what it means to chase your dreams while quietly healing from heartbreak — the kind that leaves you crying in nail salons and still showing up like nothing’s wrong.
We’re talking about being seen as a person instead of a possession, choosing boundaries over breadcrumbs, and finding strength in softness.
This isn’t about perfection. It’s about permission — to feel, to grow, to glow.
Tune in for an honest convo on career, heartbreak, and the rebirth of girlhood.
💿 New era. New episode. Same girl, but different.
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From being diagnosed with Erb’s Palsy as a child to becoming a dancer, YouTuber, and a finalist for Ciara’s music video, Aashyrah is proof that no obstacle can stop you when you’re determined to win. In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, she opens up about her inspiring journey, the challenges she’s faced, and how she’s pushing past every barrier to chase her dreams.
But success doesn’t come without haters. We also dive deep into the mean girl epidemic, fake friendships, jealousy, and how to know when it’s time to walk away from toxic people. Whether it’s shade from so-called friends or silent competition, we’re breaking it ALL down.
🔥 PLUS! We need your help to get Aashyrah into Ciara’s music video! Vote for her, send us proof, and we’ll give you a special shoutout on the pod! 💖
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Ladies, we’ve all been there—waiting on that text back, making excuses for his bare minimum energy, and hoping he’ll finally act right. But guess what? We’re not doing that anymore! In this episode, I’m giving you the ultimate playbook on how to never get played again. We’re talking red flags, self-worth, and how to move like that girl. Plus, I’m answering some juicy Ask Alex questions—should you ever give a man a second chance? How do you know if he actually likes you or is just bored? And most importantly, how do you become so unplayable that the only game being run is the one you control? Tap in, because after this episode, you’ll never let another clown fumble you again.
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In this episode, we dive into the transformative power of choosing silence over reaction and faith over worry. Discover how not reacting to the people and situations around you can be a powerful form of emotional control. We also explore the concept that you can either pray or worry, but you can’t do both at the same time. Tune in for practical insights on cultivating inner peace, letting go of stress, and embracing a mindset that empowers you to stay calm in the face of life’s challenges.
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Ever have those days where you just don’t feel like that girl? When life feels overwhelming, and your confidence is nowhere to be found? In this episode, I’m here to remind you that you are still her—a highly valued, unstoppable, Proverbs 31 woman, even in your funks. This is your motivational girl talk to help you push through self-doubt, embrace your worth, and step back into your power. Because no matter what season you're in, your value never changes. 💕 Tune in for the encouragement you didn’t know you needed!
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So many of us struggle with surrendering our lives completely to God—myself included. In this episode, I open up about my journey with control, trust issues, and the fear of feeling powerless. I’ve battled mental health struggles and addiction, but I’m learning that the key to true healing isn’t holding on tighter—it’s letting go and giving it all to God.
We’ll talk about why surrendering feels so hard, how to release the guilt and shame that keep us stuck, and what happens when we finally leave our problems at the foot of the cross. I’ll also answer Ask Alex questions from you all and end with an inspiring message about Abraham’s unshakable faith—because if he could trust God with his greatest blessing, why can’t we?
It’s time to stop fighting battles that were never ours to begin with. God’s plan is always greater than ours—so why are we still holding on?
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As Valentine’s Day approaches, love is in the air—but what doesreal love actually look like? In this deeply personal episode, I break downCiara’s Prayer lyric by lyric, using it as a guide to explore healing from heartbreak, overcoming loneliness, and redefining love through faith.
Right now, I’m struggling—with addiction, with a love that’s long gone, and with the shame that’s keeping me from running back to God. But just like Ciara prayed for a love that was patient, kind, and godly, I know I need to pray for the same—not just in relationships, but in how I love myself.
We’ll talk about:
💔 Finding purpose in pain and trusting God when love has left you broken.
🙌 Learning to wait for the love you deserve instead of settling for less.
👑 Reclaiming your worth—because you are a queen, a warrior, and a child of God.
🙏 A powerful prayer for healing, surrender, and stepping back into faith.
And of course, I’ll be answering yourAsk Alex questions about love, self-worth, and relationships. If you’ve ever felt lost, lonely, or unworthy of real love, this episode is for you.
✨Because love isn’t just about finding the right person—it’s about becoming the person who’s ready to receive it. ✨
Tune in now. 🎙💖
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In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m diving deep into what it means to let go of negativity and focus on what truly matters. Forget the haters at school—I’m all about prioritizing my relationship with God, nurturing my inner circle, and gaining fresh perspective as I grow my social platforms. Join me as I share how shifting my focus to self-worth, faith, and purpose is transforming my mindset and helping me rise above the noise. If you’re ready to stop worrying about what others think and start building a life you love, this episode is for you!
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We’re back, girlies! After a two-week break, I’m excited to bring you this special video episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood. Let’s talk about letting go. In this episode, I’m getting real and personal about the things I’m releasing in 2025—like the shame that’s held me back, the lust that’s distracted me, and the anxiety that’s weighed on my spirit.
I’m also tackling overconsumption, whether it’s too much shopping, too much scrolling, or just doing too much, period. This is about creating space for peace, purpose, and joy. I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned, practical tips for letting go, and how we can all step into 2025 feeling lighter and more aligned.
It’s raw, it’s unfiltered, and it’s the reset you didn’t know you needed. Grab your journal, tune in, and let’s grow together!
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In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, I open up like never before, sharing the journey that shaped who I am today. From transferring to Whitney Young during my sophomore year and enduring relentless bullying to facing a life-changing illness that left me unable to walk, talk, or eat—this is my story of loss, resilience, and ultimate redemption.
I take you through the darkest moments of my life: a year spent battling physical and emotional pain, devastating MRI results, three weeks in the hospital, and the mental health struggles that followed. But I also share how God met me in my lowest moments, how my faith carried me through, and how I’ve come out stronger on the other side.
This episode isn’t just about overcoming obstacles—it’s about flourishing in front of those who tried to break you, confronting your past, and embracing the purpose God has for your life. From rebuilding my relationship with God to finding healing through interviewing athletes and rediscovering my passion for life, I hope this story inspires you to trust the process and know that your comeback will always be greater than your setback.
Tune in for raw honesty, powerful lessons, and a message of hope for anyone who’s ever felt lost or broken. This episode is proof that God’s plan is always greater than the pain—and He will put you back together in front of the people who tried to tear you down.
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In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m getting real about something I’ve had to learn the hard way—not everyone is going to like you, and honestly, that’s okay. I’m sharing my own experiences of being made fun of and misunderstood in high school and how I’ve grown to love myself despite it all.
I’ll talk about how my faith helped me heal, the steps I’ve taken to build confidence, and why letting go of the need for approval has been so freeing. Plus, I’m answering your questions about dealing with judgment, balancing self-improvement with self-acceptance, and how I stay grounded while navigating life as a beauty and lifestyle creator.
If you’ve ever felt judged, misunderstood, or just needed a reminder that you’re enough, this one’s for you.
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In this heartfelt episode, I dive into navigating life's challenges when things don’t go as planned. Drawing from my own experiences and faith-based insights, I explore the importance of trusting God’s timing and letting go of the pressure to follow a specific timeline. I share advice for building faith, finding peace in waiting seasons, and embracing the detours that shape us.
I also answer some listener questions in an extended Ask Alex segment, where I talk about overcoming self-doubt, staying motivated, and learning from life’s unexpected moments. With Bible verses, personal stories, and my signature uplifting tone, this episode is a reassuring reminder that life’s setbacks are often setups for greater things. It’s the perfect episode for anyone who needs a little inspiration and encouragement to keep moving forward.
In this episode of Literally My Life: My Guide to Girlhood, I’m sharing a full update on where I’ve been and what’s been happening in my life since my last episode. From my personal transformation and getting baptized to the exciting rebrand of the podcast, we’re covering it all. I’ll be reflecting on how I’m finding my balance between sharing my life in the public eye and keeping parts of me sacred. It’s no secret that living as an influencer or public figure can feel like your personal life is for sale, but how do we protect our privacy while remaining authentic?
In today’s Barbie’s Debate, I’m diving deep into this question—can you live your truth publicly without feeling like you’re losing yourself in the process? I’ll share my thoughts on why privacy is just as important as transparency and how I’m learning to navigate the fine line between the two.
We’ll also discuss some hot topics from the world of sports, especially the Chicago Bulls’ season opener and local high school football playoffs. Then, we’re getting into girlhood empowerment, faith, and how the lessons we’re learning can shape our futures. As always, I’m bringing you some listener questions in Ask Alex and exploring everything from self-love to career dreams.
Glory be to God for guiding me through this journey—join me as we talk about faith, growth, and how we can all live boldly and authentically in a world that loves to watch.
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