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Life Beyond Labels
Kelsey O'Connor
15 episodes
2 months ago
Life Beyond Labels is a space to embrace all the qualities, emotions, and stories that connect us as humans—beyond the labels that often define us. We all have them: jobs, titles, roles in relationships, and other parts of our outer identity. But here, we’re digging into what it means to go beyond those labels and dive into topics that affect us and connect us, regardless of the labels we wear. Join Kelsey O’Connor as she shares insights from her own life and brings on guests for authentic conversations. Together, we’ll dive into stories and experiences that connect us as human beings, encourage us to live more openly, more authentically, and embrace who we are at our core!
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Life Beyond Labels is a space to embrace all the qualities, emotions, and stories that connect us as humans—beyond the labels that often define us. We all have them: jobs, titles, roles in relationships, and other parts of our outer identity. But here, we’re digging into what it means to go beyond those labels and dive into topics that affect us and connect us, regardless of the labels we wear. Join Kelsey O’Connor as she shares insights from her own life and brings on guests for authentic conversations. Together, we’ll dive into stories and experiences that connect us as human beings, encourage us to live more openly, more authentically, and embrace who we are at our core!
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Mental Health
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Episodes (15/15)
Life Beyond Labels
Athlete Advocacy with Dr. Scott Lynch

In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey talks with Dr. Scott Lynch, a former Director of Athletic Medicine at Penn State, who shares his story of advocating for athlete safety. Dr. Lynch discusses the challenges he faced in prioritizing player health over coaching pressures and the systemic issues in college sports. He emphasizes the importance of speaking up against unethical practices and proposes solutions for better athlete care, including independent oversight in sports medicine. This conversation highlights the need for a cultural shift in how athletes are viewed and treated, advocating for the prioritization of their well-being and safety.

What to Expect:

  • Lynch’s journey from being an elite Penn State wrestler, studying engineering, to pursuing medicine.
  • Lynch emphasizes the importance of prioritizing athlete health over winning.
  • There are solutions (such as third-party oversight) possible to create change.
  • Lynch encourages players to speak up about their experiences.
  • The conversation highlights the need for cultural change in college sports.
  • Kelsey also shares her own experience with poor coaching behaviors, and they discuss how to move forward.

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction to Dr. Scott Lynch

02:09 Journey from Wrestling to Medicine

06:21 Becoming Director of Athletic Medicine

12:40 Challenges and Pressures in Medical Decisions

25:04 Proposed Solutions for Athlete Safety

34:23 The Future of College Sports and Player Rights

35:37 Viewing Athletes as People: A Cultural Shift

38:54 Navigating Injury and Pressure in Youth Sports

44:06 The Decision to Pursue Legal Action

54:34 The Importance of Speaking Up

 

Call to Action: If you are an athlete witnessing or experiencing some of these issues, talk to someone you trust and don’t be afraid to speak up.


Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.


Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

 Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is produced by QuietLoud Studios and featured on SportsE Media
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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2 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Steve Whitsitt on Connection, Authenticity, and Life Beyond the Lens

In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with photographer Steve Whitsitt, who shares how his shyness inspired him to challenge himself and pursue photography as a way to connect with others. Steve reflects on his time in the military, the path that brought him into photography, and the personal growth he’s experienced along the way. Though he is often recognized for photographing icons like Michael and Janet Jackson, as well as major events like Woodstock and Lollapalooza, his story extends far beyond his work with celebrities. Steve emphasizes the importance of connection, authenticity, and self-acceptance in both art and life. Together, he and Kelsey explore the value of being present, building meaningful connections, and finding deeper fulfillment through serving others.

What to Expect:

  • Photography as a vehicle for connection.
  • Self-acceptance is the foundation for genuine relationships.
  • Remembering that everything in life, including success, is temporary.
  • How authenticity disarms others and fosters trust.
  • We are defined by who we are, not what we do.
  • The richness of intergenerational relationships.
  • Embracing the past for the lessons it provides.
  • What to say when you don’t know what to say.
  • How volunteering can provide purpose during transitions.

Call to Action: Challenge yourself to connect with people, even if it’s outside your comfort zone. Curiosity creates connection!

Where to Find Steve: 

Website: https://www.spwhitsittphoto.com/

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.com

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is produced by QuietLoud Studios and featured on SportsE Media.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic

 

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2 months ago
1 hour 13 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
5 FROGS: Brenda K. Reynolds on Navigating Life Transition Fog

In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with Brenda K. Reynolds—international coach, TEDx speaker, and author—about navigating major life transitions and building resilience in uncertain times. Brenda shares how various life events (an unexpected divorce, the 2008 financial crisis, sending children off the college, and others) were the catalyst for her work on “transition fog.” She shares how she learned to move forward when there was no clear roadmap, and how those experiences shaped her approach to helping others through change. Brenda also talks about her new transformational journal, 5 FROGS, which outlines the stages we go through during periods of transition and growth.

Whether you're facing a career shift, personal change, or simply feeling stuck in the unknown, this episode offers actionable insights and inspiration to help you move through it with clarity and confidence.

What to Expect in '5 FROGS: Brenda K. Reynolds on Navigating Life Transition Fog':

  • Everyone experiences 'now what' moments in life.
  • Sometimes, we just need our low beams to see what’s right in front of us.
  • We can borrow confidence from others during tough times.
  • Life is not linear; we leap back and forth through stages.
  • Behind every “now what” is a “why not”.
  • Our words can change the trajectory of someone's life.

Call to Action: Listen to Brenda’s TEDX Talk and look up her 5 FROGS transformational journal!

Where to Find Brenda:
Website: https://www.brendakreynolds.com/
Socials: @brendakreynolds


Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.com

Credits:

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios podcast and featured on SportsE Media.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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3 months ago
47 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Struggle Into Strength: Tom Smalley’s story of resilience and life beyond OCD

In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, Kelsey sits down with Tom Smalley, MS, CMPC, for a candid conversation about mental health, OCD, and turning pain into purpose. Tom opens up about his diagnosis with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and the impact it’s had on his life, including a time when he faced a toxic environment and bullying from coaches. Tom shares how he took that struggle and turned it into strength: launching his own mental performance coaching practice, pursuing Olympic weightlifting, and becoming a successful speaker and advocate. Kelsey and Tom also dive into topics like therapy, faith, speaking, and people who have inspired them. If you're looking for real talk about mental health, resilience, and finding strength in your story, this one’s for you.


What to Expect:

This episode contains sensitive content including the mentioning of suicidal thoughts and mental health challenges. If you or someone you know are experiencing mental health challenges, please call the 988 Crisis Hotline or seek individual services from a professional. 

  • What is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)? 
  • The benefits and challenges of therapy 
  • Turning struggle into strength
  • How to keep a “North Star” during challenging times 
  • Navigating toxic environments
  • Becoming a speaker and advocate 
  • Why it is important to tell our stories 

Call to Action: Learn more about OCD at https://iocdf.org/

Where to Find Tom: 

Website: https://www.struggleintostrength.com/ 

Socials: @s2sfof


Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.com

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. 
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic 

Disclaimer: The opinions expressed by the individuals in this episode are individual opinions and do not reflect the opinions of the International OCD Foundation or their respective professions. This content does not replace therapy or mental health services. 

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4 months ago
46 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
A Sunshine State of Mind with Michele Doty

In this deeply heartfelt episode of Life Beyond Labels, host Kelsey O’Connor sits down with longtime family friend, Michele Doty. Michele shares how her world shifted when she was diagnosed with stage four ovarian cancer, but how she continues to show up with honesty, gratitude, and joy. Rather than being defined by her diagnosis, she talks about holding onto her identity, finding meaning (and movement) in each day, and more about who she is as a loving mother, business owner, and radiant human being.

What to Expect in 'A Sunshine State of Mind':

  • It is important to find our choices within situations that feel so far out of our control.
  • Staying positive doesn’t mean ignoring the negative feelings or hard days, it just means doing your best to choose to see the good as much as possible.
  • It can be helpful to have safe conversations with loved ones, who may have a diagnosis
  • or illness, about how they want to be helped. It is important to remember that their identity goes beyond their struggles and respect their autonomy.
  • If you are able to move or exercise, it can be extremely helpful for mental health.

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram| TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.com

Credits:

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios podcast. And Featured on SportsE Media. 
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube| Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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4 months ago
43 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Embracing Unexpected Endings: Discovering Meaning in What Feels Like Failure

Just because it ended differently than you expected doesn’t mean you failed. In this episode, we’re diving into navigating unexpected endings, especially when the ending feels like a failure. It’s hard to talk about what happens when the door shuts on a dream, goal, career, or relationship. What happens when you’ve done everything you can, but there’s no more pushing to be done? There is shame that can come with perceived failure, but this episode talks about radical acceptance and believing in the meaning of the journey, even when we don’t see it yet. With resilience, faith, and patience, every ending has the potential to lead to a full-circle moment just around the corner.

What to Expect:

  • Just because it ended differently than you expected, doesn’t mean you failed. 
  • Just because it ended differently than you expected, doesn’t mean it was a waste of time. 
  • Your full circle moment is possible and on the way. 
  • Radical acceptance can help in moving forward after setbacks.
  • Believe that there is meaning in your experience. 

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits:

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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9 months ago
27 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Beyond the Resolution: A Way to Stay Inspired All Year

You know that feeling when you kick off the New Year with ambitious goals and an endless to-do list? Everything feels possible until life happens. One skipped step turns into two, and suddenly, you’re off track, wondering where the spark went. In this episode, Kelsey shares her personal New Year’s Eve practices, including TWO types of resolutions: writing vision letters to herself and creating ‘to-be’ lists alongside her SMART goals. She emphasizes that it is important to take action, but it helps when we can re-inspire our ‘why’ at any given time to stay motivated long after January. If you’re ready to transform your resolutions into lasting change, this one’s for you!

What to Expect:

  • The process of creating two types of resolution lists to achieve goals and stay inspired. 
  • It's important to reflect on motivation alongside goals.
  • Daily actions should align with your vision for your life. 
  • You can kick-start your goals at any time!
  • Self-reflection is key to creating the right goals and visions. 
  • The journey to becoming your best self is ongoing.
  • Embrace the process of dreaming and taking action.

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits:

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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10 months ago
20 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Entrepreneurship, Athletics, and Alumni Networking with Rob Finkelstein

In this episode of the Life Beyond Labels podcast, host Kelsey O'Connor interviews Rob Finkelstein, CEO and founder of Alumni Direct. Rob shares his journey from being a collegiate athlete to an entrepreneur, the challenges of transition when your kids no longer play sports, and the importance of building community through alumni connections. Rob shares insights on networking, the value of relationships, and the impact of his podcasting journey. Join us for an episode that will inspire you to be bold and expand your circle! 

 

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction to Rob Finkelstein and His Journey

03:02 Transitioning from Athletics to Entrepreneurship

05:56 The Role of Parents in Sports Transitions

08:59 Building Community Through Alumni Connections

12:03 The Challenges of Starting a Business

15:03 Networking and Building Relationships

17:50 Creating Alumni Direct: A Platform for Connection

21:03 The Impact of Podcasting on Networking

23:48 Advice for Those Lacking a Network

27:07 The Importance of Intentional Connections

30:02 Vision and Goals for Alumni Direct

32:56 Conclusion and Where to Find Rob Finkelstein

 

What to Expect:

  • Rob emphasizes the importance of helping others and building relationships.
  • Transitioning from athletics to entrepreneurship can be challenging but rewarding.
  • Parents play a significant role in their children's sports journey and transition.
  • Building a community through alumni connections can provide support and opportunities.
  • Starting a business requires passion, perseverance, and a strong team.
  • It's essential to reach out and connect with people, even if it feels uncomfortable!
  • Intentional connections can lead to unexpected opportunities and collaborations!

 

Call to Action: Reach out and connect with someone new this week!

 

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

 

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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10 months ago
29 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Calm Amid the Chaos: Finding Stillness When Life Speeds Up

Hi friends, in this episode, we will talk about a common topic that sounds easy and seems simple but can be hard to implement into our lives: staying present. In this episode, I’ll share personal anecdotes and strategies I use to appreciate the moment and incorporate mindfulness into my day when life seems to race by me. Categorizing these into 8 specific practices, I encourage you to listen, try one of these practices, and take or leave what works for you. These tips will hopefully enhance your emotional well-being, improve your connections with others, and increase your awareness and appreciation for the present moment.

What to Expect:

8 unorganized tips for staying present and finding stillness so you are present in the moments of your life. 

  • Looking at our feet can anchor us in the moment (reference: Scott O’Neil)
  • Pay attention to the voices of those speaking to you.
  • Notice your surroundings engage our senses.
  • Fast forwarding helps us appreciate moments.
  • Take deep breaths and count (sorry, I know that’s cliche)
  • Capture moments intentionally.
  • Listen to movie music
  • Forgive yourself when you get caught up in the hustle

Call to Action: Try one of these mindfulness practices and see if it helps you to stay present in the moment.

Referenced:
“Be Where Your Feet Are”: Seven Principles to Keep you Present, Grounded, and Thriving - by Scott O’Neil

“Breathtaker” by SYML

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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11 months ago
18 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
One Way To vs How To

The internet is filled with “how to” guides, but what if it isn’t that simple? In this episode, we’ll talk about why it’s important not to be discouraged by how-to advice that seems to hand all the answers on a silver platter. We’ll discuss the importance of recognizing that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to personal growth and success. Through a few personal examples, we’ll highlight the need for individualized strategies and difficulties that arise with of oversimplifying complex topics into 'how-to' guides. This episode will include my experience with various self-help methods and encourage listeners to explore different paths to find what works best for them. The conversation highlights the significance of personalizing advice and being mindful of the sources from which we receive guidance.

What to Expect:

  • The advice shared on this podcast is not a definitive guide: take or leave what is best for you!
  • Everyone has different backgrounds and experiences, which impacts what kinds of self-help strategies individually work or don't work. 
  • Success is not a one-size-fits-all formula.
  • There are multiple ways to achieve goals.
  • Personalization in advice is crucial.
  • Keep trying different methods until you find what works.
  • Labeling advice responsibly is important.
  • Reflect on personal experiences with advice.
  • There is room for everyone's unique journey!

Call to Action: When you seek out or receive advice, try it consistently, reflect on if it works for you, and then take it or leave it without judgment until you find what truly helps you become the best version of you!

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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11 months ago
14 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Empowerment, Sports, and Storytelling with Sydney Supple

In this episode, Kelsey sits down with Sydney Supple. Sydney is infectiously energetic, strong, committed, and generously kind. She empowers others through her work in sports and storytelling.
 
Sydney Supple is a former D1 Softball player at Northwestern University and a current sports broadcaster. Kelsey and Sydney talk about Sydney's journey in sports, the importance of community and giving back, navigating confidence and self-perception, and the role of strong female figures in her life. Sydney shares her experiences transitioning from college sports to broadcasting, the challenges of maintaining confidence, and the valuable lessons learned from her family. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, mentorship, and the empowerment of young athletes.

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Background
03:05 Sydney's Journey in Sports
05:51 The Importance of Community and Giving Back
09:05 Navigating Confidence and Self-Perception
12:10 Transitioning from College Sports to Broadcasting
14:58 The Role of Strong Female Figures
17:59 Advice for Young Athletes
20:52 Closing Thoughts and Future Aspirations

What to Expect:

  • Sydney's journey growing up as a competitive travel softball athlete and playing for one of the best programs in the country.
  • Sydney’s defining moment of raising $110,000 to build a softball field in her hometown.
  • It's important to give oneself grace and not strive for perfection.
  • Valuable lessons learned about self-love and confidence through coaching.
  • The transition from college sports to professional life. 
  • Strong female figures who have greatly influenced Sydney’s journey and why.  
  • Inspiring young athletes to be courageous and confident. 
  • The power of storytelling and connection in sports.

Call to Action: Reflect on causes you care about, how you might want to give back to a community in your life, or ways you can inspire the next generation.

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Sydney Links:

  • Socials: Instagram | LinkedIn
  • Website: sydneysupple.com
  • SportsEpreneur: Finding Identity Outside of Sport

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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11 months ago
33 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Getting Authentic with Marques Ogden

In this episode, Kelsey sits down with Marques Ogden. Marques is hardworking and motivated — he strives to inspire people through his positive mindset and powerful story.

Marques Ogden shares how he went from living the dream as an NFL player and building a multimillion-dollar business to losing it all and rebuilding his identity and career. After overcoming failure and ego, Marques learned to embrace his authenticity, which has turned him into a renowned motivational speaker and podcaster. You won’t want to miss this authentic episode.

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to Marcus Ogden
03:15 The Journey from NFL to Entrepreneurship
09:49 Overcoming Adversity and Rock Bottom Moments
17:30 Mindset and Authenticity in Leadership
23:34 The Importance of Service and Relationships
30:02 Defining Authenticity and Leadership
39:12 Living Beyond Labels and Internal Values

What to Expect:

  • Authenticity, service, and relationships are key components of successful leadership.
  • Rock bottom moments can lead to significant personal growth.
  • Mindset is essential for overcoming adversity and thriving in life.
  • Every expert was once a beginner, and starting from the bottom is part of the journey.
  • Marcus's journey illustrates the power of resilience and determination.
  • Living beyond labels allows for a more authentic and fulfilling life.

Call to Action: Listen to this episode for a reminder that even the toughest setbacks can lead to incredible growth, and see how Marques Ogden’s story might inspire you to embrace your own authenticity!

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Connect with Marques Ogden:

  • LinkedIn | Instagram
  • Website: marquesogden.com

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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11 months ago
45 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Are My Best Days Behind Me?

In this episode, we dive into the idea that labeling our experiences can sometimes make us wonder if our best days are behind us. We challenge the whole concept of "the best years" by chatting about how we can look at our lives through a more balanced lens rather than just a lowlight or highlight reel. Your best days are not behind you, and, no, you’re not missing them!

What to Expect:

  • The expectations placed on phrases like “College is supposed to be the best 4 years of your life” or “golden days.”
  • I will talk about a lowlight reel and a highlight reel of my high school and college years.
  • Understand how labeling our experiences can create unnecessary pressure and expectations around specific life stages.
  • If you’re not having “the best years of your life,” it’s okay. You didn’t miss it.
  • We can choose to view our lives through the highlights, lowlights, or a more balanced perspective.
  • Both positive and negative experiences can coexist; life is complex.
  • Use gratitude lists to maintain perspective; raw feelings lists allow you to name what you really feel. It’s crucial to feel through difficult emotions rather than suppress them.
  • Acknowledge that social media often presents a skewed highlight reel, contributing to feelings of inadequacy.
  • Recognize that every chapter of life has its own unique challenges and blessings that shape our experiences.
  • Reframe expectations to reduce anxiety about the future.
  • Use intentional language to reshape our outlook on life to allow for a more balanced perspective.
  • Both joy and pain are essential parts of what we experience as human beings.

Call to Action: Embrace a balanced perspective of your life’s experiences and chapters.

Referenced: “We cannot selectively numb emotions. When we numb the painful emotions, we also numb the positive emotions.” -Brene Brown

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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12 months ago
36 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
10 Self-Talk Tips: Labeling the Voice in Your Mind for Positive Change

In this episode of Life Beyond Labels, we’ll talk about 10 practical ways to be kind to your mind, let go of the need for external validation, and improve your self-talk to improve your life.

What to Expect:

  • 10 ways to improve not only how you talk to yourself, but how you see yourself.
  • The voice you will have to listen to the most throughout your life is your own.

10 Tips to Improve Self Talk

  1. Start with going from Negative self-talk to Neutral self-talk.
  2. Don’t trust your thoughts when you’re tired, hungry, or thirsty.
  3. Ask yourself: is this my voice or someone else’s?
  4. If it is your voice, label it as someone else.
  5. Use intentional language.
  6. “What If” in the right direction: what if it all works out?
  7. Be a role model in how you speak to yourself.
  8. Self-discipline increases confident self-talk.
  9. Speak kindly about others.
  10. Set affirmations and intentions.

Call to Action: Apply one of these 10 tips! Speak to yourself like you’d speak to a friend or someone you love.

Special Links:
Life Beyond Labels is brought to you by KazCM. They aim to create space where businesses can build assets and drive revenue through writing and talking. Learn more at KazCM.com.

Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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1 year ago
23 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Welcome to Life Beyond Labels

Welcome to Life Beyond Labels
In our VERY first episode of Life Beyond Labels, we’ll explore what it truly means to be defined by more than just our external accomplishments, roles, jobs, or titles. While we often find ourselves influenced by things like our careers or relationships, this episode will focus on embracing our authentic selves and building our identity from the inside.

What to Expect:

  • What does Life Beyond Labels mean?
  • 3 things that define who you are on the inside: your attitude, how you treat others, and your unique qualities.
  • Understand how labels can help us make sense of our experiences while recognizing that our internal identity—our attitude, how we treat others, and our unique qualities—matters most.
  • I’ll share a glimpse of my personal story: the concussion that ended my athletic career, a viral speech, and the serious self-reflection that occurred along the way.
  • I’ll explain how my identity is rooted in faith, but it’s a daily choice to maintain a positive attitude, treat others well, and embrace my unique self.
  • Learn how to appreciate yourself and others for more than just roles, titles, or achievements, and see who people truly are at their core.

Call to Action: Describe people using three key things: 1) their attitude, 2) how they treat others, and 3) what makes them uniquely beautiful—their inner strengths and qualities.

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Let’s Connect!

  • Socials: Instagram | TikTok | Facebook: @kelsoconnor6
  • Website: kelseyoconnor.net

Credits

  • Life Beyond Labels is a QuietLoud Studios production. Featured on SportsE Media. Discover more at quietloudstudios.com.
  • Music provided by YoKram: YouTube | Spotify | TikTok @yokrammusic
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1 year ago
26 minutes

Life Beyond Labels
Life Beyond Labels is a space to embrace all the qualities, emotions, and stories that connect us as humans—beyond the labels that often define us. We all have them: jobs, titles, roles in relationships, and other parts of our outer identity. But here, we’re digging into what it means to go beyond those labels and dive into topics that affect us and connect us, regardless of the labels we wear. Join Kelsey O’Connor as she shares insights from her own life and brings on guests for authentic conversations. Together, we’ll dive into stories and experiences that connect us as human beings, encourage us to live more openly, more authentically, and embrace who we are at our core!