Conflict doesn’t destroy teams—unresolved conflict does.
In this episode of Leadership for Life and Business, I break down a simple, repeatable way to handle tension with clarity and respect so trust increases instead of erodes. I start with why leaders avoid conflict (fear of failure, hurting feelings, or making it personal) and how that avoidance quietly kills credibility. Then I share an early lesson from my military days that taught me to address issues directly, calmly, and quickly.
You’ll learn my CLEAR Framework for Resolving Issues:
C – Context: State what happened—factually, without blame.
L – Level-set: Restate expectations and standards.
E – Engage: Hear their perspective and gather context.
A – Agree: Align on specific next steps, owners, and timelines.
R – Review: Follow up to reinforce change and rebuild trust.
We walk through real examples (like teammates clashing in meetings), common pitfalls (reacting, lecturing, or avoiding), and the mindset shift from reacting to resolving. You’ll leave with conversation prompts, check-in rhythms, and a practical path to turn friction into forward momentum.
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Ever had three people give you three different directions on the same project? Marketing says one thing, Operations another, and your VP has a completely different idea. Deadlines slip, frustration builds, and no one knows who’s in charge.
That’s what happens when there’s no clear chain of command.
In this episode of Leadership for Life and Business, I break down why every organization—no matter how small—needs structure. A clear chain of command isn’t about control; it’s about clarity, speed, and accountability.
I share how the best leaders build systems that empower people instead of restricting them. You’ll learn:
When you get this right, decision-making becomes faster, accountability increases, and your team stops operating in chaos.
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What will people remember about your leadership after you’re gone? In this final episode of the series, I explore how humility builds lasting legacy by multiplying leaders, not just accomplishments. I’ll walk you through my R.I.S.E. model (Raise others, Institutionalize systems, Share credit, End well) and share ways you can start building a legacy today that outlasts titles, positions, and achievements.
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Decisiveness without humility is recklessness. Humility without decisiveness is hesitation. In this episode, I teach how to “listen wide, decide narrow”—gathering diverse input while still making clear, confident calls. I’ll share lessons from my own career about common pitfalls, how to run decision debriefs, and why humility actually speeds up execution by building trust and buy-in.
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Feedback reveals more about leadership than almost anything else. Do you absorb it or reject it? In this episode, I dive into how humility transforms feedback from a threat into fuel for growth. I’ll talk about how I’ve handled upward, downward, and peer feedback, introduce the P.A.C.E. model (Pause, Acknowledge, Consider, Engage), and show you how to build a culture where candor thrives and ego takes a back seat.
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Servant leadership isn’t about being a pushover. It’s about equipping your team with what they need to succeed while holding them accountable to high standards. In this episode, I break down the three dimensions of servant leadership (provision, protection, and development), bust the myths that make it misunderstood, and share practical ways I’ve served my teams without sacrificing authority.
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Humility isn’t weakness—it’s controlled strength. In this kickoff episode of the Humble Leadership Mini-Series, I explore why humility matters more than most leaders realize, how ego erodes trust, and three practices you can apply right away: admitting when you don’t know, listening before deciding, and giving credit while taking blame. I’ll share lessons from my own experience on how humility builds trust, credibility, and influence in every environment.
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Growth doesn’t live in comfort—it lives on the edge of it.
In this episode of Leadership for Life and Business, I explore one of the most important leadership skills you can build: getting comfortable being uncomfortable. From my military career to building businesses, I’ve learned that discomfort isn’t something to avoid—it’s a compass pointing you toward growth.
Here’s what I unpack:
Why waiting until you feel “ready” is a trap.
The three types of discomfort—Learning, Performance, and Danger—and how to tell the difference.
My GROW framework: Get clear, Reframe, Operate, and Welcome growth through discomfort.
Practical strategies like the 5-Second Rule and Worst-Case Scenario exercise to help you take action even when it feels tough.
The truth is, confidence doesn’t come before action, it comes after it. Leaders who succeed aren’t fearless; they’ve just trained themselves to operate in the uncomfortable.
If you’re ready to push past your comfort zone and accelerate your growth, this episode is for you.
Listen now and remember: get comfortable being uncomfortable. Your future self will thank you.
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In this episode, we discuss the three layers of Wave Top presenting along with the APEX framework for creating a solid presentation (Answer, Parameters, Evidence, and eXecution).
We also discuss a CEOs most valuable asset...their time. Master these concepts and you will become the person that other seek out to present ideas and make change within your organization.
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In this episode, we explore one of my core leadership principles: if you bring a problem, bring a solution. This isn't about discouraging people from raising issues—it's about developing critical thinking and building a team that solves problems instead of just identifying them.
We discuss the POSE framework for solution-oriented thinking:
We talk about creating the right environment by coaching people through the process initially rather than demanding perfect solutions immediately. When someone brings a problem without a solution, guide them with questions and give them time to develop approaches.
We discuss three types of solutions: immediate fixes (stop the bleeding), systematic solutions (address root causes), and preventive solutions (prevent future occurrences). We also cover handling complex problems where complete solutions aren't feasible by asking for partial solutions or next steps.
Key message: your role as a leader isn't to solve every problem, but to develop problem-solvers. This builds critical thinking skills, creates ownership culture, and frees you to focus on strategic work while preparing your team for higher responsibilities.
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In this episode of Leadership for Life and Business, we explore the critical but often overlooked concept of mental fitness for leaders. Just like physical fitness, mental fitness is a skill that can be developed to handle leadership pressure and stress more effectively.
We break down mental fitness into three key areas:
Building Baseline Resilience through "controlled stress exposure" - intentionally practicing in mildly stressful situations to build capacity for when real pressure hits.
Developing Stress Management Tools including tactical techniques like box breathing (4-4-4-4 pattern), cognitive reframing (changing "disaster" thinking to "challenge" thinking), and priority focus to avoid overwhelm.
Creating Recovery Systems with micro-recovery breaks throughout the day, daily recovery rituals, and periodic deep recovery periods where you completely disconnect from work.
Mental fitness isn't about eliminating stress, it's about building your capacity to lead effectively despite stress.
Key Takeaways: Mental fitness is trainable through progressive exposure, tactical tools are essential for high-pressure moments, and recovery is non-negotiable for sustained performance.
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In this episode of Leadership for Life and Business, we dive into the concept of command presence—an essential yet often misunderstood quality in leadership. It’s not about being the loudest or most intimidating person in the room, but about earning respect through quiet confidence, influence, and trust. We’ll explore the three key components of command presence: controlled composure, confident communication, and consistent character. I’ll also share practical strategies you can use to develop your own command presence, focusing on authenticity, clear communication, and staying true to your values. Join me as we break down how great leaders create commitment, not compliance, and how you can do the same.
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This week, we discuss the Pressure Protocol. A framework that allows you to work through chaos in a controlled, effective manner. And the bonus? It works no matter what the situation is. Four quick steps that allow you to work effectively and efficiently, no matter how many fires are going on around you.
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This episode is the first in a mini-series discussing leadership under pressure. We discuss why a pause is so important and how it translates to control.
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We're back and at it again! On today's episode, we discuss the art of creating a plan...then destroying it. Why would we do that? To ensure that we are seeing things from multiple angles and preparing for anything that comes at us. We also discuss why thinking like a CEO can elevate your skillset to insane heights.
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I'm back!!! And on today's episode, we are discussing the topic of too much information vs. not enough and why that is important. Enjoy!
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On this episode, we discuss why failure is such a beautiful thing. Enjoy!
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Flat squirrels?!?! Yep, we talk about those and how they relate to decision making. Enjoy!
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Today we discuss the dreaded topic of delegation. How do we do it? Why is it important? Those questions are answered so listen in and enjoy!
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