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Healed and Holy
Shayla Varnado
24 episodes
4 days ago
Welcome to Healed and Holy, the podcast for believers ready to grow closer to Christ, build the marriage of their dreams, and step confidently into the life God has called them to live. Hosted by Shayla Varnado, this show combines biblical wisdom, practical advice, and real-life insights to help you navigate marriage and personal growth with purpose and intention. Whether you’re seeking encouragement in your current relationship, tools to strengthen your faith, or guidance to become your best self, Healed and Holy is here to inspire and equip you whatever God has in store for your journey!
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Welcome to Healed and Holy, the podcast for believers ready to grow closer to Christ, build the marriage of their dreams, and step confidently into the life God has called them to live. Hosted by Shayla Varnado, this show combines biblical wisdom, practical advice, and real-life insights to help you navigate marriage and personal growth with purpose and intention. Whether you’re seeking encouragement in your current relationship, tools to strengthen your faith, or guidance to become your best self, Healed and Holy is here to inspire and equip you whatever God has in store for your journey!
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Religion & Spirituality
Episodes (20/24)
Healed and Holy
How to love like JESUS (not the way you want) Pt 1

What does it really mean to love like Jesus in marriage?

The Bible gives us a blueprint — and when we follow it, our spouses should be able to testify that they feel loved like Christ commands. Not just in words, but in action.

📖 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 reminds us love is patient, kind, not self-seeking, not easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs.
📖 Galatians 5:22–23 shows us the fruit of the Spirit — love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. If the Spirit is in us, this fruit should be visible in how we love.
📖 Ephesians 5:22–25 calls husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and wives to submit as unto the Lord.
📖 John 13:34–35 tells us to love one another as Christ has loved us.
📖 Colossians 3:12–14 says to clothe ourselves in compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience — and over all these, put on love.
📖 Romans 12:10 calls us to honor one another above ourselves.

This week’s episode of Healed & Holy is a call to check our receipts: does our love for our spouse look like the love Jesus modeled?

🎧 Tune in to Episode 1 of this series: How to Actually Love Like Jesus in Marriage.

✨ Your dream marriage is possible — when Christ is at the center.

#HealedAndHolyPodcast #DreamMarriage #LoveLikeJesus #ChristianMarriage #MarriageGodsWay #BiblicalMarriage

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2 months ago
18 minutes 5 seconds

Healed and Holy
Forgiveness That Frees: Learning from Stephen’s Last Breath

Forgiveness isn’t easy… but it’s powerful.

In Acts 7:56–60, as Stephen was being stoned to death, he prayed, “Lord, do not hold this sin against them.” Even in his final moments, he chose forgiveness. And then Scripture says he fell asleep — he had peace while dying, because he trusted God completely.

Imagine how much more peace we could have while living if we gave our anger, offense, and frustration to God.

Marriage is one of the greatest classrooms for forgiveness. You’ll be tested, stretched, and challenged — but every time you choose forgiveness, you choose freedom, peace, and unity in your covenant.

🎧 Tune in to this week’s episode of Healed & Holy as we talk about the radical power of forgiveness and what it means to practice it in marriage.

✨ Tag your spouse or a friend who needs this reminder today.

#DreamMarriage #HealedAndHolyPodcast #MarriageGodsWay #Forgiveness #BiblicalMarriage

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2 months ago
22 minutes

Healed and Holy
What I’ve Learned from Loving Him: Lessons from My Husband, Led by the Holy Spirit

This episode is a love letter—
To my husband.
To God.
And to anyone believing that marriage can be beautiful when it’s built with Him at the center. 💛

Over the years, I’ve watched my husband grow into the man I prayed for—and I’ve grown right alongside him. His patience, his thoughtfulness, the way he sees me… it’s not just romantic—it’s holy. ✨

But here's the truth: This kind of love doesn’t just happen.
It’s cultivated. It’s refined.
It’s a result of prayer, patience, and the presence of the Holy Spirit.

Whether you’re married, preparing for marriage, or praying for restoration—this episode will meet you where you are and point you straight to the One who transforms hearts and unions.

  • Galatians 5:22–23 – The fruit of the Spirit in action—love, patience, kindness, self-control.

  • James 1:17 – Every good and perfect gift is from above.

  • 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 – Love is patient, love is kind…

  • Romans 12:2 – Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

  • Ephesians 5:21–33 – Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

  • Psalm 139 – You are fully known and deeply loved.

  • Philippians 1:6 – He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.

  • Matthew 6:33 – Seek first the kingdom and all these things will be added
    💍 Dream marriages are possible—with God in the middle.

#HealedAndHoly #DreamMarriage #GodlyLove #MarriageMinistry #ChristianMarriage #FruitOfTheSpirit #HolySpiritLed #WifeWisdom #LoveInAction #KingdomCouple #FaithFirstLove

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3 months ago
26 minutes 30 seconds

Healed and Holy
Marriage Hacks for 2025

In this episode I'm diving into my top FIVE marriage hacks. It's everything you need to shift NOW in order to get one step closer to being the man/woman GOD is calling you to be in your marriage so that he gets the glory. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage.

Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

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6 months ago
26 minutes 22 seconds

Healed and Holy
Are you TRIGGERED? Pt 2

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're continuing the conversation about TRIGGERS, how to move through so that you don't give the enemy a foothold to create contempt in your marriage.

Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

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7 months ago
17 minutes 18 seconds

Healed and Holy
ARE YOU TRIGGERED? PT. 1

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we're diving into what it means to feel TRIGGERED and how to work through in a healthy way. The enemy wants to kill your joy, steal your peace, and destroy your marriage with triggers-- but we can't let him win!

Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠

This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

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7 months ago
20 minutes 29 seconds

Healed and Holy
Let'er RIP Pt 2

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode we’re continuing our an in depth character analysis of one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse.


The Scriptures for this episode:

  • Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.”

  • Ephesians 5:28-29 – “In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body...”

  • 1 Thessalonians 5:11 – “Therefore encourage one another and build each other up…”

Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠⁠

This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be. 

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8 months ago
22 minutes 56 seconds

Healed and Holy
Let'er RIP!

Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this episode I'm diving into an in depth character analysis for one of my favorite TV show characters, RIP Wheeler. While the show doesn't ever discuss the topic of religion, RIP Wheeler is a character from which we can all learn from on how to show up and be an example of God's LOVE in action for our spouse.


The Scriptures for this episode:

  • Ephesians 5:25 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

    1 Corinthians 13:7 – “It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

    Philippians 2:3 – “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.


  • Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram ⁠@HealedandHolyPodcast⁠


    This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by ⁠Hazel Jane Collection⁠, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

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    9 months ago
    25 minutes 24 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Welcome Home

    Welcome to the Healed & Holy podcast! In this first episode I'm diving into why the name change and what you can expect moving forward. We're going to have fun on this journey to building a dream life and dream marriage.


    Want to keep the conversation going? Follow me over on Instagram @HealedandHolyPodcast


    This episode of Healed and holy is brought you by Hazel Jane Collection, jewelry curated to elevate your every day and honor the woman God called you to be.

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    9 months ago
    17 minutes 35 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Marrying Again: Disney Love Story Gone WRONG
    Marrying a Divorcée : Practical tips (and insight) for the never been married tying the knot with a divorced significant other.
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    1 year ago
    15 minutes 42 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 13 Spouse getting on your nerves? Try this!
    Listen, marriage has its tough moments! Often times we we want to start by pointing the finger at our partner but today I’m challenging you to do something different! This episode is for sure going to be a game changer for how you show up in your marriage + how you can truly work together to build the marriage of both your dreams.
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    2 years ago
    18 minutes 7 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 12 Y’all ain’t winning

    In this episode we discuss how to actually get in alignment with your spouse on the journey to co-creating the marriage of your dreams.

    Scripture: “Do everything without complaining and arguing,”

    Philippians 2:14 NLT

    “Then make me truly happy by agreeing wholeheartedly with each other, loving one another, and working together with one mind and purpose.”

    Philippians 2:2 NLT

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    2 years ago
    10 minutes 52 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 11 It’s not them, it’s YOU

    In this episode we talk about understanding the POWER in submission and how to win at marriage every single day.


    Scriptures referenced:

    In the same way, you wives must accept the authority of your husbands. Then, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, your godly lives will speak to them without any words. They will be won over”

    1 Peter 3:1 NLT

    https://bible.com/bible/116/1pe.3.1.NLT

    “And further, submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

    Ephesians 5:21 NLT

    “In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God’s gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered.”

    1 Peter 3:7 NLT

    “For wives, this means submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For a husband is the head of his wife as Christ is the head of the church. He is the Savior of his body, the church. As the church submits to Christ, so you wives should submit to your husbands in everything. For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her In the same way, husbands ought to love their wives as they love their own bodies. For a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself. So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.”

    Ephesians 5:22-25, 28, 33 NLT

    “Husbands, love your wives and never treat them harshly.”

    Colossians 3:19 NLT


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    2 years ago
    22 minutes 26 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 10 Ayesha Curry vs Everybody: Attention in Your Marriage
    If you haven’t watch the #RedTableTalk episode featuring Ayesha Curry you should check that out first. These are my very non-judgmental thoughts and response to everyone with a mouthful to say in response to this young woman’s need for validation. She never once says she wants it from others or anyone in particular. For all we know she simply needs it from herself. But what we won’t do here is judge her for being completely honest about her desire to feel wanted. That is human nature and no one is exempt from needing validation. That’s why we’re all on social media after all...
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    6 years ago
    18 minutes 42 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 9 How to WIN at Marriage in 2019
    Welcome back to another season of Wife Talks! I’m so excited for what God is going to do this season and how he’s going to grow us to become even more amazing wives! This season is already planned out and you can expect so much more from me! I’m taking listener questions! If you have questions or something you want to chat about just shoot me a DM or leave me a question @WifeSupport on Instagram! (https://www.instagram.com/wifesupport) Have an awesome week lovebirds!
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    6 years ago
    19 minutes 9 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 8 Undercover Marriage: What are you hiding?
    Too often as life passes us by we forget to share with our partners what’s really going on. Stop hiding in your marriage so that you can stay connected and in love! This episodes opens with an activity and provides tips on how to build more vulnerability into your marriage without even trying!
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    7 years ago
    25 minutes 23 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 7 How to BOUNCE BACK after a ROUGH patch
    Marriage goes through many seasons and not all of them are sunshine and rainbows. This week I'm taking you deeper behind the scenes of my own journey through a rough season in marriage and giving you 5 ways to bounce back from your rough patch. Winter doesn't last forever (unless you're in Wisconsin) haha! References: The 4 Seasons of Marriage x Gary Chapman
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    7 years ago
    24 minutes 44 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 6 - 5 FAST ways to ruin your marriage
    In this episode I'm spilling the beans. This week you'll learn the 5 things I realized were hurting my marriage tremendously and how God corrected me with a quickness! Your spouse cannot be your EVERYTHING-- that's what Jesus is for (John 10:10) which is the scripture I totally bombed midway through! Thank you for taking the time to laugh, learn, and GROW with me this week on Wife Talks.
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    7 years ago
    17 minutes 23 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep. 5 Be a KING builder
    The words you speak over your husband to his face and behind his back affect the man he becomes in your marriage. Learn how to use the power God gave you to bless your husband AND watch him become the man of your dreams!
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    7 years ago
    16 minutes 28 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Ep 4 Honor Your Crown
    Honor is huge part of marriage that goes unaddressed. Respect, Regard, Communication, Intimacy, & Love are all areas of your marriage that are affected when you do not honor your God, honor your mate, and your position. In this episode we're going to dive deep into what it means to express HONOR in your marriage.
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    7 years ago
    17 minutes 41 seconds

    Healed and Holy
    Welcome to Healed and Holy, the podcast for believers ready to grow closer to Christ, build the marriage of their dreams, and step confidently into the life God has called them to live. Hosted by Shayla Varnado, this show combines biblical wisdom, practical advice, and real-life insights to help you navigate marriage and personal growth with purpose and intention. Whether you’re seeking encouragement in your current relationship, tools to strengthen your faith, or guidance to become your best self, Healed and Holy is here to inspire and equip you whatever God has in store for your journey!