Reinventing Yourself After Heartbreak: The Beginning of Meaningful Pursuits
In this episode, Jaira shares inspiring reinvention stories from JK Rowling, Sarah Blakely, and Whitney Wolfe Herd — women who turned heartbreak, rejection, and ruin into resurrection.
She opens up about her own journey of rediscovering joy after pain — from her time in prison to learning how to build, create, and trust God again. You’ll learn how to:
Find healthy ways to be happy again, even when it’s hard
Transform heartbreak into a new purpose
Build meaning through faith and intentional living
Forgive and move forward without going back
This episode is your gentle reminder that the end of a relationship can be the beginning of your resurrection story. God can make something beautiful out of your broken pieces — if you let Him. 💛
“We are God’s masterpiece, created anew in Christ Jesus to do the good things He planned for us long ago.” — Ephesians 2:10
In Day Five of the 30-Day Detox from Toxic Relationships, we’re talking about healing — not the pretty kind, but the real, raw kind. The kind that requires responsibility.
Because while grief and heartbreak look different for everyone, you are responsible for getting back up. You decide how long you’ll stay down.
In this episode, we unpack the five deep layers of healing:
Healing from betrayal — rebuilding trust and learning to see people clearly again.
Healing from projection — owning your patterns and breaking the blame cycle.
Healing from cynicism — choosing hope over hardness and faith over fear.
Healing from identity wounds — reclaiming your self-worth and remembering who you are.
Healing from pain avoidance — daring to be vulnerable again and risking love even after loss.
We dive into the power of discernment, boundaries, and self-awareness — how to pause before reacting, how to stop recycling hurt, and how humility becomes your greatest strength.
You’ll learn that healing isn’t about erasing pain — it’s about integrating what you’ve learned so it no longer controls you. It’s about responding instead of reacting. Boundaries instead of bitterness. Growth instead of guilt.
At the end of the day, healing is freedom.
And freedom begins when you decide not to go back to what broke you.
In this powerful episode, Jaira David dives deep into Day 4 of the How to Break Free from Counterfeit Love journey — exposing the hidden traps that keep us stuck in toxic relationships and emotional bondage. From pornography and deception to the dopamine addiction of toxic love, Jaira unpacks how the enemy uses false intimacy to destroy our peace and disconnect us from God’s design for love.
You’ll learn how to reset your mind, reclaim your self-worth, and rewire your brain through biblical truth, prayer, and no-contact discipline. This is your call to stop chasing counterfeit love and start walking in real freedom, real healing, and real intimacy with God.
✨ Key topics:
The top 3 traps that keep you bound to toxic love
How dopamine addiction fuels toxic relationship cycles
Healing from betrayal, deception, and porn in a biblical way
Journal prompts for emotional detox and spiritual renewal
How to starve counterfeit love and feed what’s real
The neuroscience of healing (dopamine reset + renewing your mind)
If you’re tired of repeating destructive cycles and ready to rebuild your heart on solid ground — this episode will guide you step by step toward God’s version of love, not the counterfeit one.
We’re hurt in relationships… but we’re also healed in relationships. 💔➡️❤️
Day 3 is all about dusting off your contact list and finding the right, God-sent people who help you grow, not break you. In this episode, we dive into:
How to spot safe, honest community
The difference between God’s design of love vs. counterfeit love
Practical steps to reconnect with people who restore hope instead of draining it
Because ultimate healing doesn’t come from people — it comes from God, who uses the right ones as vessels of His love.
If the wrong people wounded you, maybe the right people will be part of your healing. ✨
In this episode, we dive into the convictions of Charlie Kirk — a bold Christian voice in today’s culture wars. We talk about why the family unit is the backbone of society, how mainstream media pushes confusing narratives about gender and identity, and why biblical principles bring clarity in a world full of lies.
From Netflix shows to government policies, to stories of prison inmates receiving sex-change operations, we expose how culture glorifies confusion instead of truth. We also discuss why self-rejection never leads to peace, and how knowing who God made you to be is the real path to freedom.
Whether you agree or not, this conversation is about standing firm in faith, honoring convictions, and protecting the next generation from a culture of chaos.
What do you do when betrayal breaks your heart — but God is still calling you higher? 💔
In this episode, I share the most painful call I’ve ever received: finding out my ex was unfaithful. Instead of drowning in self-pity, I chose to confront heartbreak with faith, gratitude, and the truth of Scripture.
This is Day 2 of my 30-Day Detox from Counterfeit Love, where we uncover how toxic patterns, infidelity, and counterfeit intimacy can leave us empty — and how God’s design for love restores, rebuilds, and makes us truly irreplaceable.
Through Numbers 11 and my own testimony, I’ll show you:
How to overcome betrayal without staying stuck in bitterness
Why gratitude shifts your mind from victimhood to victory
The difference between chemistry vs. character in relationships
Practical ways to journal, heal, and set non-negotiable boundaries
How to trust God’s design for real, lasting love
If you’ve ever felt replaced, unseen, or unloved, this episode is your reminder that God has something greater for you — and that you don’t have to settle for counterfeit love when His love has already redeemed you. ✨
Welcome to Day 1 of the 30-Day Detox from Counterfeit Love. In this episode, Jaira opens up about her own recent breakup and the painful patterns that keep so many women stuck in toxic cycles. Together, we’ll uncover the 10 red flags that reveal counterfeit love, why we crave affection even when it hurts us, and how to lay a solid foundation for healing and freedom.
If you’ve ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationships, settling for less than you deserve, or struggling to let go of someone who drains you—this series will help you move from deceived and bound to discerning and free.
Your healing starts today.
Still with Jerica David :)
Turning 30 soon made us look back on the hardest lessons of our twenties—about money, boundaries, family, healing, and faith. In this episode, we share the 10 things we wish we knew earlier so you can find more peace, joy, and purpose in your own life. Because sometimes, peace doesn’t come from avoiding pain—it comes from finding the courage to grow through it.
In this episode of Found & Crowned, I sit down with my twin sister, Jerica (a.k.a. Je), for a raw and honest conversation about one big question: Can people really change?
We explore the tension between wanting our partners to grow, the cycles of self-sabotage we all fall into, and the difference between true transformation and simple behavior modification. From relationships to faith to personal growth, we dig into how change is possible—but only when it starts from within.
Together, we talk about:
Why so many of us repeat cycles in relationships and life.
The difference between surface-level change and transformation through God.
The danger of excusing flaws with “I’m only human.”
Why grace matters, but boundaries matter too.
Brendan Bouchard’s insight that only 2% of people truly commit to growth.
This conversation is part testimony, part tough love, and all grace. Whether you’re wrestling with relationships, faith, or your own habits, this episode reminds you that yes—people can change. But the real breakthrough comes when you choose it for yourself and invite God into the process.
Are you tired of feeling stuck, ashamed, or afraid to grow? In this powerful episode, Jaira David shares her journey from prison to purpose—and how God’s strength is made perfect in our weakness. Through personal stories, Scripture (2 Corinthians 12:9, Hebrews 11:6), and raw reflections on fear, obedience, and healing, she unpacks how to overcome trauma and step into your calling with courage.
Whether you’re recovering from grief, battling imposter syndrome, or just hungry for a fresh start, this message will speak to your soul.
Plus: Discover the “Know Thyself, Grow Thyself” inner healing course designed to help you break generational patterns, renew your mind, and build the life God destined you for.
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📖 Topics in this episode:
How to overcome fear and shame through faith
What it means to walk in obedience, not perfection
The danger of performance-based Christianity
Why knowing yourself is key to spiritual growth
Breaking cycles and healing your past with God’s help
🙌 Let’s rise together. Healing is possible. Change is real. You are not too far gone.
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In this vulnerable episode, Jaira reflects on how bitterness, anger, and jealousy almost consumed her before her incarceration—and how God used prison to transform her from the inside out. From growing up in a loud, angry household to realizing her worth behind bars, she unpacks the truth: bitterness doesn’t just sit quietly in the soul—it spreads. You’ll hear raw reflections on culture, connection, shame, and healing, and an invitation to do the deep inner work through her new course, Know Thyself to Grow Thyself. This is not just a podcast episode—it’s a wake-up call to stop surviving and start healing.
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Need a daily reminder that God still works in hopeless situations? Check out The Prison Pslams, a Daily Devotional for people who are incarcerated and feel trapped by their own prisons: https://a.co/d/84Xre6Q
Why does God allow people to hit rock bottom before redeeming them? In this raw and redemptive episode of Found & Crowned, Jaira David dives deep into one of the most personal and painful questions believers and skeptics alike wrestle with. Sharing her own testimony of finding Christ in prison—and reflecting on others who found God in their lowest moments—Jaira explores how rock bottom can become sacred ground for transformation.
Rooted in 1 John 4 and packed with honest insights, this episode challenges the idea that success or self-sufficiency leads to true freedom. Instead, it reveals how God's perfect love casts out fear, breaks down pride, and teaches us how to love ourselves and others the way He designed.
If you've ever wondered why suffering seems to be the doorway to faith—or how to rebuild a meaningful life after failure—this one is for you.
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After prison, freedom came with new choices—and new struggles. In this deeply personal episode, Jaira David opens up about the invisible tug-of-war between serving God and chasing worldly success. From the wisdom of Hebrews 3 to Jesus’ words about serving two masters, this episode explores spiritual rest, purpose, and the reality of a soul that can’t be filled by fame, wealth, or work.
Whether you’re tired from striving or stuck in survival mode, this message is for you. It’s a raw and honest reflection on surrender, identity, and the rest that only Jesus can give.
Have you ever wondered why your faith is being tested? In this episode of Found & Crowned, Jaira David unpacks James 1:5–12 to reveal what it means to truly endure — not just with grit, but with joy. From wrestling with doubt to learning how to persevere with purpose, she breaks down the difference between endurance, perseverance, and steadfastness.
You’ll hear raw reflections on spiritual growth, real trials, and the truth about why so many of us live faith-limited lives. If you’ve ever felt stuck, frustrated, or unstable, this episode is your call to stability, strength, and surrender.
Learn why asking in faith changes everything, why God allows the wilderness seasons, and how your trials are shaping you for something eternal — the crown of life.
✝️ Scriptures: James 1:5–12, Revelation 2:10
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Found & Crowned is for modern-day prodigals ready to rise. Where gritty grace meets God-given glory.
In this raw and honest episode of Found and Crowned, host Jaira David reflects on the invisible war that begins even after the bars are gone. Sharing her personal struggle with staying committed, facing discomfort, and resisting old patterns, she explores Romans 7. From the depths of prison to the complexity of post-freedom living, Jaira opens up about how only Jesus can rescue us from ourselves.
This episode dives deep into:
Why doing hard things is essential after prison (and how it rewires your brain)
The inner conflict Paul describes in Romans 7—and why it still matters
What it really means to be made in God’s image
The purpose of community and the revelation of the Trinity
A prayer to break spiritual prisons and walk in freedom
Whether you’re still searching or already found, this is your sign: you were made for more. You are deeply loved. You are not disqualified.
🙏🏽 Ready to rise? Let’s do hard things—together.
What if your biggest block to healing… is your own mouth?
In this unfiltered debut episode, Jaira David confronts a hard truth: the way we talk about our pain can keep us stuck in it. From inside prison walls to the pages of Philippians 4, she shares how trauma dumping, toxic friendships, and negativity can quietly destroy your peace—and what scripture says to do instead.
You’ll learn:
Why venting isn’t healing (and when it becomes emotional bondage)
How to rewire your speech using Paul’s letter from prison
The surprising power of godly perspective, even in the darkest places
Why Christ—not community—is the first place to bring your trauma
A simple prayer that invites Jesus into your healing journey
This episode isn’t about silencing your pain—it’s about surrendering it. Because when Christ becomes the center of your speech, your mind, and your relationships, everything changes.
🕊️ “WHATEVER is true… think about such things.” — Philippians 4:8
What does conviction really mean—especially when you’ve lived through it both legally and spiritually?
In this raw and redemptive episode, Jaira shares her personal story of being incarcerated and how the Bible became more than just a book—it became a lifeline. From prison walls to spiritual awakening, she explores how scripture doesn’t just inform—it convicts, heals, and restores.
If you've ever wrestled with shame, struggled to find direction, or felt distant from your purpose, this episode offers deep encouragement and practical insight. Jaira unpacks the difference between worldly self-help and divine transformation, revealing how intimacy with God begins when we stop performing and start listening.
With honest prayers, key Bible verses, and real talk about identity, this episode is for:
Women healing from trauma
Anyone curious about faith or rebuilding after hitting rock bottom
Those tired of surface solutions and hungry for lasting peace
🧡 Main takeaway: Let the Word of God shape you, not shame you. Read the Bible not as a rulebook, but as a love letter from your Creator.
When Jaira walked out of prison, she didn’t just pray for freedom—she prayed for her family. In this raw and healing episode, she opens up about the journey of rebuilding broken relationships, healing from church hurt, and redefining what family means in a world where blood doesn’t always equal belonging.
From island life to isolation, dysfunction to divine connection, this episode dives deep into:
Rebuilding trust with your family after trauma
Navigating toxic environments and broken circles
How to recognize your God-sent community
The pain of church hurt and the beauty of healing
Why chosen family matters in your spiritual walk
Whether you’re stuck in family drama, burned out from fake support, or looking for a new tribe that really sees you—this episode is for you.
🕊️ Main takeaway: God often uses people—flawed and faithful—to stretch, sharpen, and strengthen you. You don’t have to heal alone.
A Daily Devotional especially for Prisoners, The Prison Psalms, available now in Amazon: https://a.co/d/079ryje
What happens when society writes you off—but God doesn’t?
In this powerful and personal episode, Jaira reads a letter from her dear friend AD, a woman still serving time in prison. AD’s story is raw and real: addiction, grief, loss, and incarceration. But even behind bars, she shines with faith, hope, and grace—a spiritual mother to many, and a living testimony of the love of Jesus.
Jaira reflects on:
How God works through the lives of those society has forgotten
The transformative power of faith behind bars
Why grace—not perfection—rewrites our story
Stories of healing, redemption, and spiritual legacy in prison
The impact of Prison Psalms on those still inside
AD may be confined, but her spirit is free. Her letter is more than a message—it’s a mirror of God’s unrelenting love, a reminder that redemption can rise from the ruins.
📖 Main takeaway: No one is too far gone. Jesus meets us in our mess, restores our dignity, and calls us to shine—even in the darkest places.
Ever felt too broken, too young, or too unqualified to walk in your purpose?
In this raw and reflective episode, Jaira opens up about her personal wrestle with insecurity, fear, and self-doubt—and how the call of the prophet Jeremiah gave her the courage to rise. From a prison cell to a public platform, she shares how God’s faithfulness and mercy stayed constant, even when she questioned her worth.
You’ll hear:
A powerful reflection on Jeremiah 1 and the Hebrew meaning behind God's promises
How Lamentations 3 speaks to trauma recovery and spiritual renewal
The struggle between calling and confidence
Real stories of emotional paralysis—and how God gently leads us through
Why your past doesn’t disqualify you from your purpose
God’s not asking for perfection. Just a willing heart.
Even if you're hesitant, unsure, or healing—He still calls you.
🕊️ Main takeaway: You don’t have to feel ready to be chosen.
His mercies are new. His calling remains. And He is with you—always.