In this episode of Found & Crowned, I sit down with my twin sister, Jerica (a.k.a. Je), for a raw and honest conversation about one big question: Can people really change?

We explore the tension between wanting our partners to grow, the cycles of self-sabotage we all fall into, and the difference between true transformation and simple behavior modification. From relationships to faith to personal growth, we dig into how change is possible—but only when it starts from within.

Together, we talk about:

• Why so many of us repeat cycles in relationships and life.

• The difference between surface-level change and transformation through God.

• The danger of excusing flaws with “I’m only human.”

• Why grace matters, but boundaries matter too.

• Brendan Bouchard’s insight that only 2% of people truly commit to growth.

This conversation is part testimony, part tough love, and all grace. Whether you’re wrestling with relationships, faith, or your own habits, this episode reminds you that yes—people can change. But the real breakthrough comes when you choose it for yourself and invite God into the process.