There are some lifestyle topics that some people (not all) find uncomfortable to talk about. I feel it is important to address topics like these. It helps to "tear down the walls" and erase negative stigmas. That's what this episode is all about. In this episode I tackle some topics that some would shy away from. Included are:
1. Erectile Disfunction
2. STI's/STD's
3. Buttholes
4. Penis size
What happens when Eva and I meet a sexy couple who don't speak our language? Find out in this episode. I'll tell the story of how we met a couple from "Colombia" at a club and how, although language was a barrier, we eventually met them for a very fun play date. Some other updates as well.
I keep notes regarding topics I wish to discuss on this podcast. Well, sometimes the things I wish to talk about do not warrant an entire episode's time. So in this episode, I will talk about a few different topics about which I had been hoping to dedicate some time to. I call them "quick bits." They include discussion about:
1. Etiquette when planning to attend a club event with another couple
2. Wealth in the lifestyle
3. Unattractive "Eskimo Brothers"
4. A morbid thought that makes reclaim sex so important to Eva and myself
5. The mystery surrounding a couple frequently returning to our profile after breaking ties with us
There are several factors that can cause what I call "selective ED." In this episode I discuss those factors and how my brain is often my worst enemy when it comes to play dates.
If you did not listen to Episode 50, please do so before listening to this episode. It is part 2 of my story of Ivy and our hotel adventure...as well as Eva's adventure at the same hotel that very night. Eva joins me in the second part of this episode to tell you all about it! Apologies if Eva's voice is low at times. We don't record together often and haven't quite figured out the perfect mic position yet.
After many, many experiences with fakes, flakes, scammers, and sextortionists, this episode is all about an experience with a single lady...who was actually REAL. Fair warning: this episode is part 1 of 2. I have never ended an episode on a cliffhanger before...until now. But I had a lot to say about this adventure with many different moving parts, twists, turns, and interesting components. So I decided to divide it into two separate episodes. Hope you enjoy and come back for part 2.
In this episode I'll talk about something of which I just learned the meaning: wife poaching. I did not learn from experience, thankfully! So even though Eva and I have not been victims of wife poaching, I wanted to discuss it and give my take on it. I also share a couple of short annoying stories regarding couples with whom I have interacted online.
*Back after an extra week hiatus due to a family vacation.
In this episode I discuss taking chances and trying something new in the lifestyle. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it does not.
Kind of a bummer (sometimes a HUGE bummer) when you think things are going well with another couple and then they unexpectedly end things. In this episode I talk about a recent experience with this.
The upside-down pineapple. The most common, well-known symbol associated with the lifestyle. Four years ago when Eva and I first started our lifestyle journey, we had no idea of its significance. It was like a well-guarded secret. Now, it seems like the cat is out of the bag. Everyone, whether involved with the lifestyle or not, now seems to recognize what it means. It is no longer a secret. In this episode I'll discuss some ideas for a NEW symbol. A way for swingers to recognize each other "in the wild." I'll also share a brief story about an online interaction I had recently with another couple that left us shaking our heads.
Has anyone had success with finding a unicorn? A single lady willing to play with you and your significant other? That is something that still alludes us in the lifestyle. It seems LOTS of couples are interested in finding a unicorn...and the scammers know it. And they are getting better and better at posing as single women. Thankfully, since we were previously the victims of attempted "sextortion," I have grown wiser and more aware of red flags. This episode is all about a con job that I avoided.
There's nothing really more to write. This is all about the worst kissers ever. Eva and I feel that kissing is an important part of play. So if you suck at it, it ruins the whole play date. We had the unfortunate experience of playing with the worst kissers...maybe on the entire planet.
Eva and I are shy when it comes to meeting people in person. We find it difficult to walk up to new people and introduce ourselves. Therefore, when we go to clubs, we like to attend with other couples...so we're sure to have others to talk to! But in this episode, find out what happens when we step out of our comfort zone and attend...just the two of us.
Episode 42: Eva and I love the Friends With Benefits dynamic of the lifestyle. But sometimes, that leads to unexpected feelings.
If you are in a strictly monogamous relationship, your chances of hooking up with a hot co-worker are 0%. But if you are a swinger...it's not out of the realm of possibility. In this episode I talk about taking a risk, exposing myself as a swinger to a very attractive co-worker, in hopes that one day it might lead to spicy date.
Never been to a hotel takeover? Hear all about them in today's episode. Eva and I have been to somewhere between 5 and 10 takeovers since joining the lifestyle. I'll talk about what to expect (including cost and themes) and discuss the pro's and con's. One thing is for sure: if you have never been to one, you should definitely give one a shot!
Will they ever stop? Part three of my (I guess) ongoing series of stories of our online interactions with couples. I can't make these up. These are all real stories. Eva and I love being in the lifestyle. But sometimes you run into people that make it less than fun.
Eva and I have discovered that we love occasional solo play. It is exciting for both of us. Sadly, it has been almost a year since I have been able to experience it due to a lack of options. Eva has had several opportunities with more on the horizon. A bit frustrating when you are eager to experience something again...but are unable to...while your partner gets to. Recently, I thought my solo play drought was about to end...but I was wrong. This episode will tell you all about it!
Have you ever been threatened with public physical assault in lifestyle? I have. In this episode I tell the tale of a dude who threatened to slap me the next time he saw me at a club or event. This is what happened when I tried to call someone out on their BS and it went badly.
After a long time, Eva finally joins me for again as co-host! In this episode we will talk about our very first MFM threesome we had recently. Please note: Eva and I have not done this together very often. We are still trying to figure out the best setup (mic position, seating arrangement, recording settings, etc.) for optimal audio. Apologies for the occasions in this episode where our speaking volume is low. We'll get it right one day.