The upside-down pineapple. The most common, well-known symbol associated with the lifestyle. Four years ago when Eva and I first started our lifestyle journey, we had no idea of its significance. It was like a well-guarded secret. Now, it seems like the cat is out of the bag. Everyone, whether involved with the lifestyle or not, now seems to recognize what it means. It is no longer a secret. In this episode I'll discuss some ideas for a NEW symbol. A way for swingers to recognize each other "in the wild." I'll also share a brief story about an online interaction I had recently with another couple that left us shaking our heads.