In this episode of Submission Part 2: Boundaries, Triggers & Traumas, we confront one of the greatest deceptions shaping marriages and families today.Our generation is obsessed with therapy trends, self-protection, and man-made fictions. We’ve traded God’s design for psychological language that soothes the flesh but never heals the spirit.👉 Full disclosure therapy leaves you suspicious instead of healed.👉 Generational “no-contact” preaches estrangement instead of honor.👉 Boundaries have become fortresses of fear instead of standards of righteousness.But here’s the truth:God did not design you with triggers.Boundaries without the Spirit are strongholds.Sons and daughters of God should not be governed by trauma, but moved by the Spirit.We are raising up a culture of believers discipled by psychology instead of transformed by Scripture—and it’s leaving homes out of order, marriages broken, and covenants without peace.In this episode we unpack:✅ Why boundaries are today’s language for strongholds✅ Why unclean spirits and fools are the only ones “triggered” in Scripture✅ How submission is about consecration, not control✅ How to stop studying your spouse’s sin and start walking in God’s peaceThis is a prophetic warning and encouragement: your boundaries are giving power to your spouse’s sin. But the blood of Jesus has the final word.📖 Key Scriptures: 2 Timothy 1:7, James 3:18, Proverbs 3:5–6, Galatians 5:16, Philippians 4:6–9, 2 Corinthians 10:4–5
Most Christian marriages aren’t stuck because of communication issues, intimacy struggles, or personality differences.
They’re stuck because of disorder — rebellion against God’s design for marriage, leadership, submission, and covenant.
In this episode, we confront the uncomfortable reality:
You can’t pray for restoration while resisting the order God established for it.
➔ If you’re still clinging to control, you’re fighting God.
➔ If you’re manipulating outcomes, you’re delaying healing.
➔ If you refuse submission to God’s design, you’re forfeiting the very breakthrough you’re asking for.
We walk through how control and manipulation take root in marriages,
how submission has been distorted by culture and religion,
and why true biblical order is the key to deliverance, restoration, and generational blessing.
You’ll learn:
Why biblical submission isn’t about domination or silence
How rebellion subtly hardens your heart (even when you think you’re "protecting" yourself)
How disorder in your home invites chaos, strife, and spiritual strongholds
What it really means to walk in the power, strength, and covering of God’s order
If you’re tired of surface-level advice…
If you’re desperate to see real change in your marriage…
If you’re ready to confront the spiritual roots that are holding you back—
This episode is for you.
🎙️ Listen now — and let the Holy Spirit open your eyes to the order that unlocks restoration.
Your marriage wasn’t designed to be fruitless, barren, or broken. But if it feels that way, you need to know this—the enemy has been working overtime to keep it that way.
Satan blinds, seduces, and strangles marriages—stealing their spiritual sight, twisting their design, and keeping spouses trapped in cycles of strife, lack, and division. But God’s design has never changed.
In this episode, we’re exposing the real spiritual war over your marriage and why so many couples stay stuck in deception, false judgment, and unrepentance. We'll uncover:
If you’ve been pleading with God for breakthrough in your marriage but feel stuck, this episode is for you. It’s time to open your spiritual eyes, step into alignment with God’s design, and start bearing the fruit of righteousness.
Are You Labeling Your Spouse… Or Are They Spiritually Captured?
We are living in the times that 2 Timothy 4:3-4 warned us about—where people reject sound doctrine in favor of teachings that satisfy their itching ears. And right now, Satan is gaslighting marriages with false labels.
Many spouses believe they’re married to a narcissist, a Jezebel, or an Ahab—and while we won’t pretend these things don’t exist, we also won’t ignore the massive plague of deception surrounding these labels.
The truth? Most spouses aren’t married to a narcissist. They’re married to a spiritually captured individual—governed by the flesh, deceived by unclean spirits, and lacking the wisdom, knowledge, and understanding of Christ.
And if you’ve been exhausted in your stand for marriage restoration, it’s not because you’re standing—it’s because you’re accusing. Demonic work is tiring. Satan is using your therapists, pastors, friends, and biased research to keep you in accusation instead of intercession.
In this episode, we expose the spiritual conditions behind destructive behavior in marriage
Using Scripture, spiritual wisdom, and years of marriage coaching, we break down why these conditions are fueling marital destruction—and why the solution isn’t a worldly label, but the power of God to deliver, disciple, and restore.
This episode will challenge you. But if you’re ready to stop using Satan’s blueprint and start walking in biblical restoration, healing, and breakthrough, listen now.
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Is God ignoring your spouse’s sin, or are you still living under the old law? Many believers are unknowingly governed by the law—trained to look for what is wrong, what is missing, and what is not being upheld. This mindset fuels hyper-vigilance, hyper-criticism, and hyper-legalism, leaving many feeling exhausted, anxious, and spiritually stuck.
In this episode, we unpack how the law blinds you from what God is resurrecting, how spiritual discernment is necessary to see beyond the surface, and why transformation in marriage requires stepping into the new covenant. Through scripture and practical insight, we challenge the mindset that keeps marriages in bondage and explore how to walk in the Spirit, not the letter of the law.
Scriptures referenced: 1 Corinthians 15:56-57, 2 Corinthians 3:14-18, Galatians 2:19, Romans 7:6, Romans 8:14-17, James 3:13-18, and more.
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Breaking Stubborn Strongholds in Marriage
In Season 2, Episode 2 of The Established Family Podcast, we tackle the topic of breaking the strongholds that affect every aspect of our lives—from our own minds and marriages to our families and future generations. This episode unpacks how false authority and entrenched spiritual deceptions create these fortresses and why many fail to recognize the need for active participation in dismantling them.
Drawing on powerful biblical passages (such as Psalm 18:2, Psalm 27:1, 2 Samuel 22:2-3, and 2 Corinthians 10:4) and the teachings of Jesus in Matthew 12:29, we explore:
Whether you’re facing recurring challenges in your marriage or seeking deeper spiritual renewal, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement to break free and experience lasting restoration.
What if your stand for marriage isn’t as Godly as you think?Many spouses believe they’re standing in faith, waiting for God to restore their marriage—praying, repenting, and holding on. But what if faith alone isn’t enough? What if your stand has become an idol? What if your obedience is incomplete?In this episode, we’re breaking down the hidden dangers of standing for your marriage the wrong way. We’ll expose false stands that look spiritual but are actually rooted in disobedience, fear, and self-preservation. We’ll walk through biblical examples of people who thought they were following God but were actually resisting His will—and how to avoid making the same mistakes in your marriage restoration journey.This is the season of faithful standing—the kind that produces real fruit. But that requires more than hope. It requires action. It requires obedience. It requires truth.⚡ If you're serious about standing the right way, join the Marriage Revival Hub now at MarriageRevivalHub.com. Inside, you’ll find masterclasses, teachings, and a community of spouses fighting for marriage restoration the right way—with wisdom, discernment, and strategy.
In the final installment of The Jezebel Series, we’re diving deep into the emotional, mental, and spiritual dynamics that destroy marriages and uncovering the biblical blueprint for restoration. This episode is not just about recognizing what’s broken—it’s about contrasting it with God’s perfect design for marriage and family.
We’ll press on the uncomfortable truths and challenge the lies that keep you bound:
If you’ve been defensive, blame-shifting, or dismissing hard truths in your marriage, it’s time to compare the condition of your soul to what scripture says about God’s design for restoration. Because restoration isn’t about returning to brokenness or cycles of dysfunction—it’s about returning to covenant.
With a prayer inspired by Paul’s letter to the Colossians, we’ll guide you through how to realign with God’s will for your life, walk in moral courage and personal integrity, and uproot the lies of the enemy.
Let’s take an account of where our hearts and homes stand and declare freedom from the curses of domination, apathy, and narcissism that threaten to steal your legacy.
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MAKE SURE YOU STAY FOR THE END WHERE WE FORGIVE AND RELEASE in order to walk in FREEDOM from these SPIRITS!
In Part 2 of our deep dive into the Jezebel and Ahab spirits, we’re going beyond awareness and into action. If you've recognized the oppressive hold these spirits have on your marriage—or if you feel like the patterns of control, manipulation, or spiritual complacency are keeping you from true freedom—this episode is for you.
Today, we confront the strongholds directly, uncovering how these spirits embed themselves in our lives and marriages, and why only Godly authority can drive them out. Prepare to walk in the power and authority of your God-given identity as we break the chains of control, rejection, and false peace.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
1. The True Path to Spiritual Freedom in Marriage
2. Exposing the Tactics of Jezebel and Ahab in Relationships
3. Why Legalism and Therapy Can’t Heal Spiritual Oppression
4. Embracing Godly Authority and True Deliverance
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In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most challenging but essential topics in marriage restoration: exposing and breaking the Jezebel and Ahab spirits operating within relationships.
Many couples struggle without understanding the underlying spiritual influences driving division, control, and passivity in their marriage.
If you’re exhausted from feeling like you’re the only one fighting for God’s will in your marriage, or if you’ve hit a ceiling in your relationship, this episode is for you.
Together, we’ll uncover these powerful spirits that attack covenant, reveal the biblical truths about their influence, and walk through the path to reclaiming your marriage under God’s authority.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Identifying the Spiritual Battle in Marriage
How the Jezebel and Ahab Spirits Operate
Recognizing the Two Paths of Manifestation
Breaking the Cycle: Standing Firm in Godly Authority
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In this episode, we dive deep into the spiritual and emotional void that many marriages experience when spouses fail to live according to God’s design.
We explore how missing moments, unmet expectations, and brokenness create a painful gap—leaving spouses confused, hurt, and struggling to find healing.
Through biblical truths, we’ll uncover how this “void” isn’t just about what was done wrong, but about who we were meant to be for one another.
We’ll also confront the dangers of willful blindness, hardened hearts, and spiritual laws.
Together, we’ll examine how personal responsibility, humility, and submission to God’s simple spiritual laws can lead to true restoration. Can't wait to hear your feedback fam!
In this episode of The Established Family Podcast, we tackle a tough question: Can your marriage survive an affair and other morally degrading behaviors?
Sin takes many forms, but God’s grace and the power of resurrection are greater.
When we invite God into the mess, He can bring clarity, healing, and hope—even when it seems impossible.
Join me as we explore:
Scriptural References:
If you’ve faced betrayal, spiritual exhaustion, or feel stuck in a cycle of shame and despair, this episode is for you. It’s time to stop giving dominion to the past and start embracing the resurrection power of Jesus for your marriage.
Let’s dive in and find the hope that only God can provide.
Idolizing Your Marriage Leads to Brokenness and Adopting the World's False Labels
In this powerful episode of The Established Family Podcast, we confront a dangerous pattern that is tearing marriages apart:
..."idolizing your spouse and adopting the world’s false labels for sin."
When we place our spouse or marriage on a pedestal, we set ourselves up for disappointment and brokenness.
Worse yet, the world often offers counterfeit solutions, giving sin new names and labels that sound helpful but only keep us stuck.
Join me as we explore:
Scriptural References:
If you're tired of searching for healing in all the wrong places, this episode will help you realign your heart and mind to God's truth and design.
Let’s break free from the labels and idols that keep us in bondage and embrace the spiritual clarity needed for restoration.
In this episode, we tackle a critical topic that could be secretly unraveling your marriage: chaos.
Does your marriage feel like it's caught in a cycle of constant turmoil?
You may be dealing with more than just conflict—you may be addicted to chaos. Today, we're exposing the traps that keep couples stuck in dysfunction and offering a path to freedom.
We’ll take a deep dive into what I call the "Five Faces of Chaos," showing how these forces manifest in your marriage and how they block your relationship from flourishing. Based on James 3:13-18 and other biblical insights, we’ll explore:
It’s easy to get trapped in the symptoms of chaos without realizing what’s truly going on.
Does this sound familiar?
These patterns may look like a dysfunctional relationship on the surface, but they stem from deeper spiritual roots.
As Galatians 5:19-21 tells us, these are the "deeds of the flesh" that open the door to demonic influence and chaos in our marriages.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Additional Key Verses:
James 3:16 (AMP) - “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every evil thing and morally degrading practice.”
Proverbs 14:12 - "There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end, it leads to death."
Isaiah 26:3 - "You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast because they trust in you."
Breaking the Chains of Chaos:
Marriage is meant to reflect God’s peace and covenant, but many couples unknowingly live in cycles of dysfunction that keep them from experiencing true joy and freedom. Whether you’re facing emotional abandonment, betrayal, or the fallout of unresolved conflicts, this episode will equip you with biblical truths to overcome chaos and step into God’s design for your marriage.
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If you’re ready to leave the cycle of chaos behind and embrace peace, this episode is for you. Take the next step toward healing and restoration.
In this episode, we dive deep into what active restoration and waiting look like in marriage.
Just like in health and fitness, where active recovery is essential for progress, the same applies to your relationship.
If you're passively waiting for change, you're missing the key to true healing and restoration.
We’ll unpack how a lack of urgency is rooted in a lack of peace, and how this leads to anxiety, misfocus, and prayerlessness.
Using the powerful formula found in Philippians 4:4-9, we’ll show you how to align your heart with God’s peace and embrace Godly urgency for your marriage.
Are you stuck between wanting change but not fully turning your heart to God?
If so, this episode will reveal why restoration is delayed and why you’re still battling the same issues.
We'll dismantle the false peace the enemy offers and help you rediscover true peace—peace that leads to action, urgency, and real progress in your marriage.
We’ll also explore Nehemiah’s story of rebuilding the broken walls and how his God-given burden and urgency offer a blueprint for restoring your marriage.
You’re called to restore, but first, you need to stop running from pain and start moving toward true peace and purpose.
If you want to break the cycle of destruction in your marriage and walk in Godly urgency, this episode is for you.
In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of the "manufactured marriage"—a relationship built on soothing mechanisms and surface-level appearances rather than God's true design for covenant and purpose. Are you merely creating an illusion of family without building a true foundation?
Discover how we often use marriage to soothe our pain, boredom, and addictions, missing the deeper calling God has for us. We'll explore the scriptural truths that reveal how God's purpose for marriage goes beyond self-serving desires and moves us into a life of purpose, leadership, and spiritual growth.
Join us as we unpack the difference between a manufactured marriage and a covenant marriage designed by God. Learn how to break the cycle of superficial living and embrace the true fear of the Lord, humility, and anointing that leads to a fulfilling, purpose-driven marriage.
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Don't miss this transformative episode that challenges you to break free from a life of manufactured marriage and step into the true covenant God intended for you and your spouse.
In this episode of The Established Family Show, we dive deep into the heart of what restoration truly means in the context of marriage.
For many, the pain and trauma of a broken relationship can feel overwhelming, but God’s plan for your marriage goes beyond the trauma you’ve experienced.
Restoration is more than just fixing what's broken—it’s about reclaiming what God originally designed for your marriage.
We explore biblical truths that redefine restoration: the call to return, to make new, to rebuild from the ashes. Through personal stories and scripture, we’ll unpack how many of us have settled for managing the symptoms of dysfunction, when God is calling us to something deeper—complete healing and freedom from spiritual strongholds.
We’ll discuss:
If you’ve been stuck in the cycle of dysfunction or simply praying for change, this episode will challenge you to take the next step in reclaiming your marriage and walking in true restoration.
In this first episode of The Established Family Show, we confront a difficult but necessary truth: your marriage isn't too broken for God to restore—it’s captured.
Together, we’ll uncover the spiritual strongholds that have led to the destruction and dysfunction in your home.
Using biblical principles and Hebrew word pictures, we’ll show how captivity is a spiritual battle that stems from giving access to the enemy.
You’ll learn to reframe the brokenness, identify the root cause of your marriage struggles, and recognize the symptoms of a house divided.
We dive deep into scriptures like 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 and Luke 11:17 to help you understand that God offers freedom and restoration—but it starts with acknowledging the captivity.
In this episode, we’ll explore:
It's time to reclaim your home, walk in God’s design for marriage, and move from brokenness to restoration. Plus, listen to learn how you can receive our free ebook, From Conflict to Connection, by leaving a review!
