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Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Elevate and Dommenate Podcast- powered by Trap Bootcamp
120 episodes
2 days ago
Welcome to the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, where power meets play! Join your hosts, Goddess Aroya, Mistress Odessa, and Orpheus Black, as they dive into the captivating world of alternative dominants. From exploring dom-sub relationships to celebrating the strength of women, and shedding light on the real stories in the sex work industry – this podcast is your invitation to a thrilling, empowering, and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms. Get ready to be enlightened, entertained, and empowered! Dommenate!
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Welcome to the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, where power meets play! Join your hosts, Goddess Aroya, Mistress Odessa, and Orpheus Black, as they dive into the captivating world of alternative dominants. From exploring dom-sub relationships to celebrating the strength of women, and shedding light on the real stories in the sex work industry – this podcast is your invitation to a thrilling, empowering, and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms. Get ready to be enlightened, entertained, and empowered! Dommenate!
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Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 42-The Rise of Kink Acceptance| 6 Min Story | Underground Sea- Audio

In this conversation, UndergrounsSea (FetLife) discusses the prevalence and acceptance of kink in society, drawing on personal experiences and research findings. He highlights the historical context of kink, its growing acceptance, and the importance of community in shaping identity. The conversation emphasizes that kink is a normal expression of human intimacy and connection, challenging societal misconceptions.00:00 Introduction to Kink and Community Engagement02:50 The Prevalence of Kink in Society05:39 The Evolution of Acceptance and Identity in Kink

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2 days ago
8 minutes 4 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 41 - Unforgettable DomCon Experiences in New Orleans | 6 Min Story | S- Type Exclusive

In this conversation, IObeyWomen (fetlife) shares his experiences at DomCon in New Orleans, highlighting the vibrant atmosphere, emotional connections, and unique activities he participated in, including a memorable twerking session. He reflects on the importance of connection in the kink community and encourages others to explore such events.Chapters00:00 Exploring DomCon: A Memorable Experience03:40 Intimate Connections: The Power of Protocols06:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement07:18 Season 3 Outro@IObeyWomen (FetLife)

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4 days ago
7 minutes 55 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 40 - Humor and Vulnerability in BDSM | 6 Min Story | Queen Hilarity

Humor and Vulnerability in BDSM | Queen Hilarity | DOMCON NOLA 2025 6 Min Story

In this conversation, Queen Hilarity shares her unique approach to kink, emphasizing the importance of humor and playfulness in BDSM dynamics. She discusses her experiences at DomCon, her role as a comedic domme, and how she fosters community and connection through her classes and interactions. Queen Hilarity highlights the significance of self-care, vulnerability, and authenticity in kink, encouraging others to embrace their individuality and creativity within the lifestyle.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Comedic Kink03:59 The Role of Humor in Kink Dynamics06:50 Community and Connection in Kink07:15 Season 3 Outro.MP4www.queenhilarity.com@queenhilarity

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6 days ago
7 minutes 52 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 39 - Daily Vlog: DomCon Nola 2025

Daily Vlog: Arrival & First Impressions | Goddess Aroya & IObeyWomenWelcome to Episode 1 of the DomCon New Orleans Vlog Series — where power, purpose, and play meet the vibrant heart of the South.In this episode, Goddess Aroya Lessons and her devoted submissive IObeyWomen arrive in New Orleans for DomCon 2025.Before the conference begins, we slow the energy down — taking a peaceful walk through the city’s soulful streets and soaking in the rhythm that makes New Orleans unlike anywhere else.Day Two brings a quick detour to a classic New Orleans Cigar Factory, a ritual of calm and reflection before the intensity of the weekend.Power doesn’t always look like control — sometimes it looks like presence, connection, and breathing in the moment before the storm.This is the beginning of something special: a week filled with education, elegance, play, and real conversations about domination, submission, and conscious power.🎧 Listen to the Elevate & Dommenate PodcastFor deeper talks on conscious kink, education, and the art of power exchange:

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1 week ago
7 minutes 22 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 38.5 - Polyamory: Rules or Anarchy

In this thought-provoking segment, Orpheus Black, Mistress Odessa, and Goddess Aroya Lessons discuss the concept of rules versus anarchy in polyamory. They explore how different approaches can impact relationships and the importance of finding a balance that works for everyone involved. Discover insights into maintaining healthy, open relationships and the role of communication and flexibility in navigating polyamorous dynamics.

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1 month ago
4 minutes 11 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 38- Navigating the Insecurities in Polyamorous Relationships

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, hosts Goddess Aroya Lessons, Mistress Odessa, and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation about polyamory. They explore personal experiences, the importance of communication, emotional dynamics, and the challenges of navigating relationships. The discussion also touches on the distinctions between polyamory and swinging, the significance of patience and timing, and offers advice for those considering entering polyamorous relationships. Throughout the conversation, the hosts reflect on personal growth and the impact of family dynamics on their relationships. In this engaging conversation, the speakers explore the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on commitment, polyamory, and the dynamics of dating. They discuss the importance of understanding personal patterns, the value of coffee dates, and the nuances of solo polyamory. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of communication and intentionality in relationships, while also addressing common fears and misconceptions surrounding polyamory. The speakers share personal anecdotes and insights, creating a rich tapestry of perspectives on modern relationships.

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1 month ago
1 hour 16 minutes 41 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep.37 - Amazon.Giantess. Domme: The Power and Play of Goddess Severa

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and her co-hosts engage in a deep conversation with Goddess Severa, a pioneer in the fetish world. They explore themes of dominance, submission, and the various archetypes that shape personal identities within BDSM. The discussion delves into Maslow's hierarchy of needs, the art of seduction, and the giantess fetish, while also addressing the complexities of masculinity and femininity in contemporary society. The episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and personal growth in the context of relationships and power dynamics. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of BDSM dynamics, exploring the significance of archetypes, the importance of authentic connections, and the journey of content creation within the community. They discuss the realities of safety, self-defense, and the responsibility of both dominants and submissives in navigating their relationships. The conversation also touches on the challenges newcomers face and the need for empowerment and awareness of potential predators in the BDSM community

.Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guests

02:02 Exploring Archetypes in Dominance

04:44 Understanding Archetypes and Their Impact

08 :43 The Hierarchy of Needs in BDSM

11:32 Self-Actualization and Dominance

14:20 Pushing Submissives to Self-Improvement

14:53 The Art of Seduction and Archetypes

16:50 The Art of Connection19:04 Navigating Challenging Dynamics

20:01 Finding Value in Unlikely Connections

21:32 The Professional Facade

22:55 Creating a Better World

24:14 Embracing the Giantess Fetish

26:09 The Allure of Height and Femininity

28:18 Exploring Femininity and Masculinity

31:16 The Duality of Gender Archetypes

33:26 Personal Journeys of Gender Identity

42:03 The Power of Presence in Connection

45:37 The Evolution of a Content Creator

47:24 The Journey of Content Creation

50:21 Exploring Creative Projects

52:55 Navigating the Industry and Personal Experiences (cut and put on Patreon

58:17 Advice for Newcomers in the Lifestyle

\01:03:50 Safety and Self-Defense in the Scene

01:12:39 Empowerment and Responsibility in Relationships

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1 month ago
58 minutes 17 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 36 -Rise to Power:Unveiling the Visionof SDFA's Rise Mini-Con | Mistress Leanne

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Mistress Leanne, the founder of the San Diego Femdom Alliance and creator of the Rise Power Mini-Con. They explore the importance of mentorship, intuition in leadership, and the dynamics of power within the BDSM community. Mistress Leanne shares her journey, the significance of creating inclusive spaces, and the legacy of those who have come before. The discussion also touches on the healing aspects of BDSM and the need for education to foster respect and understanding among practitioners. The episode concludes with insights into upcoming events and the vision for the future of the Rise Power Mini-Con.Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest02:15 The Birth of San Diego Femdom Alliance03:28 Mistress Leanne's Influences and Mentorship08:15 The Value of Mentorship in BDSM11:17 Intuition in Female Leadership14:19 The Difference Between Topping and Dominating18:54 Creating Inclusive Spaces in BDSM21:09 The Rise Power Mini-Con25:52 Legacy and Community in BDSM29:49 Quick Power Pulse Game34:28 Healing and Trauma in BDSM37:24 Future Vision for Rise40:18 Upcoming Events and Performances44:57 Addressing Animosity Between Male and Female Doms48:40 The Importance of Education in BDSM52:31 Closing Thoughts and Future Collaborations01:00:46 Season 3 Outro.MP4

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2 months ago
1 hour 1 minute 23 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 35 : Catching Up: Understanding Dominance & Women's Communication

join our patreon.com/elevateanddommenate to get the exclusive 23 minute BTS Interview woth Mistress Odessa and Goddess AroyaThe conversation highlights the layered language of female dominance. Attending DomCon provided valuable experiences and insights. Teaching and learning in kink is an ongoing journey.Confidence plays a crucial role in expressing dominance.Humor can enhance the experience of authority in kink.Exploring new experiences can lead to personal growth.Communication is key in establishing control and command.Subtlety can be more powerful than overt authority.The evolution of personal growth is essential in the kink journey.It's important to recalibrate and find one's path in life.

Chapters00:00 Introduction to Kink and Conversation03:20 Reflections on DomCon Experiences05:53 Teaching and Learning in Kink08:37 Navigating the Journey of Dominance10:39 The Evolution of Self and Community13:15 Understanding Power Dynamics in Kink16:03 Future Aspirations and Opportunities22:10 Navigating Boundaries in Kink Relationships26:11 Exploring the Dynamics of Trust and Comfort29:40 The Intersection of Performance and Kink33:45 Finding Sisterhood in the Kink Community37:29 Humor and Seriousness in Kink Practices39:44 The Joy of Playfulness in BDSM41:30 Unspoken Cues and Verbal Commands in Dominance44:11 The Art of Seduction and Control46:42 Humor and Humiliation in BDSM Sessions48:39 Navigating Personal Growth and Professional Identity52:04 Finding Balance and Recalibrating Life54:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Confidence57:36 Embracing Change and Future Aspirations01:01:40 Season 3 Outro.MP4

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3 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes 17 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 34 - Cigars X Kink : A Bold look at Ritual and Pleasure

Cigars X Kink: A Bold Look at Ritual and Pleasure In this intimate and atmospheric episode of the Elevate & Dommenate podcast, Orpheus Black gives Goddess Aroya a personal lesson at Genuine Cigar Lounge in Santa Clarita ,a space where smoke, power, and presence come together.Orpheus shares his deep knowledge of cigar culture, guiding Aroya through:    •    How to choose a quality cigar    •    The ritual and reverence of smoking    •    Ancestral and sacred uses of tobacco    •    The deep ties between cigars, leather, and the kink community    •    Cigar service dynamics in D/s relationships    •    The art of pairing cigars with the right alcoholThis isn’t just about indulgence—it’s about ritual, control, and the slow burn of intentional pleasure.🎙️ Tap in for a bold conversation on the intersection of tradition, dominance, and desire.#ElevateAndDommenate #CigarsXKink #GoddessAroya #OrpheusBlack #CigarPlay #LeatherAndSmoke #PowerRituals #SantaClaritaNights #BDSMVoices #CigarService #DommeEnergy #PleasureWithPurpose #KinkCulture

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3 months ago
21 minutes 32 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 33 - Get Real with Mx. Kitty | DomCon 2025 Exclusive | 6-Minute Story

In this fast and fiery 6-minute interview, we sit down with the radiant and unfiltered Mx Kitty Babylon, host of the Good Love Podcast, as she shares her powerful origin story—how the pulsating world of strip clubs opened the door to her journey into kink, power, and pleasure.In this candid DomCon 2025 conversation, she reveals:How the strip club became her first kink classroomThe evolution from entertainer to empowered dominantMx Kitty Babylon reminds us that good love starts with truth—and that kink is often the most honest place to begin. Whether you're a baby sub, a budding Domme, or just curious how the pole led to the playroom, this short interview delivers insight with bite.🔔 Subscribe for more DomCon exclusives, and drop a comment if you’ve ever found freedom in unexpected places…https://l.instagram.com/?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.mxkittybabalon.com%2F%3Ffbclid%3DPAQ0xDSwLVX4xleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp13VPS7JhAC90eHJ5iqXeVUiOqpPnpB_fogb_ehkayt5CgpLLKK0uOm5TPbA_aem_yiANSn0DnOt0BXGyxpzhOg&e=AT11KWxkAQ5nrAtE2qjOv6IBrnMYXGs2Qagfb_MIqd4bBYAOw_kg8bQ92VLoSeq0jA99e9imgqEYEz1fb6t7xp_WEz7RMe-bwLqDN6asF3G5xpp96c6bx9I#DomCon2025 #MxKittyBabylon #GoodLovePodcast #StripperToKink #KinkEducation #SexPositivity #ConsentCulture #ElevateAndDommenate #BDSMVoices #FemDomEnergy

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4 months ago
6 minutes 8 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 31 -The Commandant Unleashed | DomCon 2025 Exclusive| 6-Minute Story

Step into the shadowy embrace of The Dallas Devil, known to many as The Commandant—in this raw and revealing 6-minute interview captured at DomCon 2025. Based in Dallas, Texas, but ever eager to travel for the right submissive, The Commandant is a sensual succubus, a Dominatrix of precision and presence, and a master of the art of seductive torment. In this candid conversation, she opens up about her first experience in Kink.🔔 Subscribe for more exclusive DomCon content, and don't forget to like and comment if you’re ready to step into the darkness… https://hausofthecommandant.com/?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwLVFb9leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp-MPAyAXiHj1E0VP0r5fV7P0sWt3YyaeS7jgJayNmQTbKxa-0EltyBDlK_uq_aem_y0_FvuibJZBPnHEgJj3wCA#DomCon2025 #DallasDevil #Commandant #BDSM #DominatrixInterview #SensualSuccubus #KinkCommunity #FemDom #ConsentCulture #ElevateAndDommenate

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4 months ago
6 minutes 26 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep.32 - From Curiosity to Command:Goddess of Paine | DomCon 2025 Exclusive | 6-Minute Story

Meet Goddess of Paine, a fresh forces in the FemDom scene, as she sits down for an intimate 6-minute interview at DomCon 2025. New to the public kink community—but no stranger to dominance, Goddess of Paine shares her early insights, raw passion, and rising hunger for power and connection.In this brief but potent conversation, she discusses:What drew her into the world of BDSM and female-led power dynamics🔔 Subscribe to catch more voices from DomCon 2025 and follow Goddess of Paine as she carves out her throne.#DomCon2025 #GoddessOfPaine #NewDominatrix #FemDomRising #BDSM #KinkCommunity #ElevateAndDommenate #ConsentCulture #PowerExchange #DommeInTraining

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4 months ago
6 minutes 3 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 30: From Knot to Connection:The Magic of Rope Bondage | Kemo Burns

In this episode of Elevate and Dominate, Kemo Burns, a renowned rope artist, shares insights into the emotional and spiritual dimensions of rope bondage. The conversation explores the importance of negotiation, consent, and risk awareness in kink, as well as the misconceptions surrounding rope bondage. Kemo discusses their journey in the rope community, the influence of other artists, and their aspirations for the future, including teaching opportunities. In this engaging conversation, Kemo Burns shares insights into the world of rope bondage, emphasizing the importance of connection, communication, and experience. The discussion explores how integrating movement practices, such as contemporary dance and martial arts, can enhance the art of rope. Kemo reflects on personal experiences, the significance of consent, and the evolving nature of relationships within the kink community. The conversation also touches on upcoming events and the joy of learning and growing within this unique practice.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Kemo Burns and Rope Bondage03:04 The Emotional Aspects of Rope Bondage05:46 Negotiation in Kink: Setting Boundaries and Intentions08:59 Safe Words and Consent in Rope Bondage11:55 Risk Awareness and Communication in Rope Sessions14:55 Exploring Vulnerability and Intimacy in Kink18:05 Misconceptions About Rope Bondage20:58 Inspiration and Learning in Rope Bondage24:08 Future Aspirations and Teaching Opportunities27:31 The Art of Rope Bondage and Connection30:23 Deepening the Practice: Integrating Movement and Martial Arts37:30 The Importance of Experience in Kink42:04 Navigating Communication and Consent in Scenes50:24 Upcoming Events and Community Engagement

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5 months ago
52 minutes 31 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 29- The Newbie Frenzy & The Raw Real Road To DomCon | Mistress Mia Darque

In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons interviews Mistress Mia Darque, a prominent figure in the BDSM community. They explore Mia's journey from her early experiences in Mississippi to her current role as a mentor in BDSM. The discussion delves into themes of sexuality, personal growth, and the importance of mentorship, highlighting the complexities of love and limits within the BDSM lifestyle. Mia shares her candid reflections on her past, the evolution of her identity, and the significance of community support in navigating the kink world. In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons and Mistress Mia Darque explore themes of emotional support, overcoming adversity, body positivity, and the power of voice. They share personal stories of resilience, the importance of inclusivity in the community, and the challenges faced in the arts and education. The discussion also touches on financial responsibility and self-investment, emphasizing the need for individuals to take control of their narratives and experiences. In this engaging conversation, Goddess Aroya Lessons and Mistress Mia Darque explore themes of materialism, self-worth, and the pressures of societal expectations. They discuss the importance of budgeting for fashion, especially when attending events like DomCon, and share practical advice on how to present oneself stylishly without overspending. The conversation also touches on the etiquette of attending DomCon, emphasizing the importance of understanding boundaries and the professional nature of the event. The discussion concludes with reflections on personal growth and future plans, highlighting the importance of community and support in their respective journeys.Chapters00:00 Introduction to BDSM and Mistress Mia Darque07:17 Mistress Mia's Journey in BDSM18:13 Identifying Sexuality and Mentorship23:40 Reflections on Personal Growth and Experiences31:02 Emotional Support and Connection37:36 The Power of Voice and Expression43:44 Navigating the Arts and Education51:24 Confronting Challenges and Standing Ground01:01:31 Materialism and Self-Worth01:09:02 Budgeting for Style01:16:20 Navigating DomCon Etiquette01:21:25 Final Thoughts and Future Plans



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5 months ago
1 hour 19 minutes 42 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 28- Muscle. Mind. Mistress : The Power of Doc Domina

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, our host Goddess Aroya Lessons, miMistress Odessa and, Sir Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Doc Domina, a professional dominatrix, bodybuilder, and clinical psychologist. The discussion explores the intersection of kink, mental health, and identity, emphasizing the importance of radical acceptance and community engagement. The hosts share personal experiences, including fitness competitions and the journey into needle play, while also highlighting the role of Patreon in supporting their work and community. In this engaging conversation, the participants explore various themes surrounding body image, fitness, and the dynamics of BDSM. They delve into playful banter about challenges and personal experiences, discuss the intersection of humiliation and degradation in kink, and highlight the importance of trauma-informed care within these practices. The conversation also touches on gender dynamics in BDSM, emphasizing the differences in approach between male and female dominants. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the intricate dynamics of pain and pleasure within the BDSM community, exploring how these experiences can be both cathartic and restorative. They discuss the importance of communication, self-discovery, and understanding personal boundaries in kink. The conversation also touches on the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, emphasizing the need for practitioners to be aware of their own limits and desires. The speakers share insights on breath play, the art of pain, and the significance of creating a safe space for exploration.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Kink and Healing

03:24 Exploring Identity and Intersectionality

09:15 Radical Acceptance in Kink and Mental Health

17:30 Needle Play: A Journey of Discovery

25:15 Fitness Competitions and Personal Growth

32:26 Patreon and Community Engagement

36:52 Playful Banter and Challenges

38:29 Body Image and Fitness Dynamics

40:25 Humiliation and Degradation in Kink

42:40 Integrating Fitness and Kink

49:11 Gender Dynamics in BDSM

53:03 Trauma-Informed Care in Kink

57:36 Exploring Pain and Pleasure Dynamics

01:00:51 The Art of Breath Play

01:05:02 Understanding Pain and Discomfort

01:10:03 The Importance of Communication in BDSM

01:14:07 Self-Discovery and Boundaries in Kink

01:19:24 Therapeutic Aspects of BDSM

01:21:02 Closing Thoughts and Future Events

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6 months ago
53 minutes 33 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 27- Unzipping Authenticity: Behind the Catsuit | HithereCatsuit

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate Podcast, the hosts engage in a deep conversation with Hi ThereCatsuit, exploring the intersection of kink, authenticity, and personal identity. They discuss the importance of vulnerability, connection, and community within the kink scene, as well as the impact of media on perceptions of kink. The conversation emphasizes the need for safe spaces and the evolution of personal norms, ultimately highlighting the legacy of kindness and acceptance in the kink community.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Sensuality and Psychology03:04 Exploring Authenticity in Kink05:55 The Journey of Topping and Damselhood08:06 Unexpected Backgrounds and Authentic Journeys11:05 The Importance of Kindness and Human Connection13:50 The Stories of Catsuits and Personal Transformation18:58 The Evolution of Kink and Sensation Amplification23:04 The Allure of Spandex and Skin-to-Skin Touch24:32 The Essence of Kink: Connection Over Pleasure26:07 The Role of Anticipation in Kink28:26 Expectations vs. Anticipations in Kink30:15 Navigating Loneliness in the Kink Community35:08 Building Connections: The Importance of Munches40:55 A Journey Through Media and Kink47:23 Personal Stories: Kink and Relationships48:29 Exploring Kink and Sexual Identity50:51 Redefining Normal in Sexuality53:42 Personal Norms and Authenticity01:01:53 Legacy and Impact in the Kink Community01:08:29 Season 3 Outro.MP4

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6 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes 22 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 26 -Digging in the Fishbowl | Rope, Rhythm and Raw Truth

What happens when power, pleasure, and purpose collide? In this electrifying episode of Elevate and Dommenate, Goddess Aroya, Mistress Odessa, and Guru Orpheus Black pull back the curtain on BDSM—revealing the artistry, emotional depth, and radical truth behind kink.🎭 From the myth of Orpheus to the real-life mastery of rope play, this conversation weaves together personal storytelling, sensuality, and sharp insight. The trio explores:🔗 Rope as ritual, power, and connection⚡ The beauty and psychology of impact play🖤 Unpacking race, fetish, and body positivity with grace and grit🧠 The role of names, identity, and myth in the kink journey Why consent isn’t a checkbox—it’s a conversation with laughter, vulnerability, and magnetic energy, this episode is a masterclass in owning your identity, your desire, and your story. Whether you're just stepping into the scene or deep in the lifestyle, this one’s a must-listen.👉 Don’t just play—elevate and dommenate. Subscribe. Share. Surrender.

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6 months ago
57 minutes 32 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 25 -Healing through Kink- A Therapeutic Approach | Patrick Lyra Wilder

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, the hosts engage with Patrick Lyra Wilder, an expert in somatic psychotherapy, to explore the intricate relationship between therapy and kink. They discuss how both practices can complement each other, particularly in the context of trauma healing and identity formation. The conversation delves into the importance of self-awareness, ethical play, and the identification of green flags in relationships, while also addressing the challenges posed by trauma and the necessity of empathy in kink dynamics. This conversation delves into the complexities of kink communities, emphasizing the importance of safety, consent, and understanding power dynamics. The speakers discuss the cultural context of kink, the impact of trauma, and the significance of self-awareness in navigating these spaces. They also explore the role of neurodivergence in kink, highlighting the unique challenges and insights that neurodivergent individuals bring to the community. The discussion encourages a deeper understanding of how personal experiences shape interactions within kink and the necessity of fostering a supportive environment for all participants. This conversation delves into the complexities of neurodivergence, particularly ADHD and autism, within the context of kink. The speakers discuss how these neurotypes influence communication, power dynamics, and the importance of authenticity in relationships. They emphasize the need for understanding and accommodating each other's differences to create a safe and fulfilling kink experience. The discussion also touches on the intersection of neurodiversity and privilege, highlighting the importance of recognizing one's own biases and responsibilities in relationships.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Kink and Therapy03:06 The Intersection of Somatic Psychotherapy and Kink05:54 Navigating Trauma in Kink Dynamics09:00 Understanding Boundaries and Ethical Play11:49 Identifying Green Flags in Kink Relationships15:00 The Role of Confirmation Bias in Healing17:54 Building a Toolkit for Self-Regulation20:51 Empathy and Responsibility in Kink Dynamics22:51 Prioritizing Safety in Kink Communities26:01 Cultural Context of Kink and Power Dynamics29:48 Navigating Consent and Boundaries in Kink33:07 Understanding Trauma and Self-Awareness36:55 The Role of Neurodivergence in Kink48:47 Identifying Neurodivergence and Its Impact51:39 The Role of Communication in Kink Dynamics54:41 Navigating Power Dynamics in Neurodiverse Relationships01:01:03 The Importance of Authenticity in Kink01:04:17 Exploring the Intersection of Kink and NeurodiversityShow TakeawaysKink can be therapeutic, but it is not therapy.Self-awareness is crucial for navigating intimate relationships.Understanding trauma is key to engaging in kink safely.Green flags in relationships indicate safety and awareness.Therapists should have a referral list for kink practitioners.Kink dynamics require clear boundaries and ethical considerations

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7 months ago
1 hour 14 minutes 9 seconds

Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Ep. 24 -Nyomi Banks | Owning Your Story and Elevating Beyond Labels:

In this episode of the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, Goddess Aroya, Mistress Odessa, and Guru Orpheus Black engage in a deep conversation with Nyomi Banks, exploring themes of power, identity, and self-love. Nyomi shares her journey from the adult industry to becoming a successful entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of reclaiming one's narrative and the challenges of navigating self-worth and confidence. The discussion also touches on the differences between spirituality and religion, and the significance of embracing one's true self as a goddess. In this conversation, the speakers discuss their experiences in the adult industry, focusing on the stigma and judgment they faced, their spiritual growth, and the dynamics of personal and professional relationships. They explore the transition from performing in films to engaging in private sessions, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries and creating a safe space for clients. The conversation highlights the unique challenges and rewards of working in the adult industry, particularly from a female perspective. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of the BDSM lifestyle, exploring themes of authenticity, mastery, and personal growth. They share personal anecdotes that highlight the importance of self-care, healing, and trusting the process of life. The discussion emphasizes the significance of community and collaboration in navigating personal and professional journeys, particularly within the adult industry.TakeawaysNyomi Banks emphasizes the importance of self-love and empowerment.*Reclaiming one's narrative is crucial after being defined by others.*Transitioning careers can lead to profound personal growth.*Spirituality is distinct from religion and plays a vital role in self-discovery.*Confidence is built through embracing one's identity and experiences.*Nyomi's journey illustrates the power of reinvention and resilience.*Understanding one's body and sexuality is a key part of empowerment.*The adult industry can be a stepping stone to greater entrepreneurial ventures.*Labels can limit personal growth; it's essential to define oneself beyond them.*Embracing the goddess within is a journey of self-acceptance and love. The *adult industry can foster genuine connections despite the stigma.*Spiritual growth often requires stepping back from familiar environments.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Power and Identity02:54 Reclaiming Power and Self-Love06:01 Navigating Career Transitions08:58 The Journey of Reinvention11:56 Spirituality vs. Religion15:08 Embracing the Goddess Within19:34 Navigating Stigma and Judgment20:22 Spiritual Awakening and Personal Growth23:15 Entering the Adult Industry27:38 Transitioning from Film to Private Sessions35:23 The Dynamics of Personal Sessions41:01 Balancing Client Desires and Personal Boundaries43:13 The Goddess Experience: Understanding the Role of a Dominatrix46:54 Navigating the BDSM Lifestyle: Authenticity vs. Performance49:30 Mastery in BDSM: The Difference Between Lifestyle and Performance51:31 Embracing Authenticity: Lessons from Personal Experiences54:55 Healing and Self-Care: Managing Health Challenges57:31 Trusting the Process: Embracing Life's Journey01:00:06 Creating Community: The Importance of Connection and CollaborationFollow us on Patreon.com/elevateanddommenate🔗 Support the Podcast & Exclusive Content:✨ Join our Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/elevateanddommenate⁠✨ Explore resources & merch: ⁠dommenate.com⁠✨ Discover transformative experiences: ⁠Orpheusblack.com⁠👉 LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE for more conscious kink discussions, expert insights, and real conversations that elevate the BDSM community.#ElevateAndDommenate #BDSMCommunity #ConsciousKink #PowerExchange #DSRelationships #BDSMeducation

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Elevate and Dommenate Podcast
Welcome to the Elevate and Dommenate podcast, where power meets play! Join your hosts, Goddess Aroya, Mistress Odessa, and Orpheus Black, as they dive into the captivating world of alternative dominants. From exploring dom-sub relationships to celebrating the strength of women, and shedding light on the real stories in the sex work industry – this podcast is your invitation to a thrilling, empowering, and unapologetically bold journey with these remarkable Doms. Get ready to be enlightened, entertained, and empowered! Dommenate!