What happens when you spend years behind a hotel front desk, handling some of the wildest guests and late-night stories… and then decide to pivot your entire career?

In this episode of the Desperate Times Podcast, we sit down with Shouvik — someone who made a bold shift from hospitality to marketing and moved from India to Canada in the process.

He shares what it’s really like to start over in a new country, why transferable skills matter more than you think, and the unforgettable experiences that only the hotel industry can offer.

🎙️ Whether you’re dreaming of a career pivot, moving abroad, or just love a good behind-the-scenes story, this one’s for you.

Music Credits:♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

That sinking feeling when a major festival like Diwali or a birthday passes, and you’re oceans away. We know the feeling. Homesickness isn't just missing home; it's a deep, desperate emotional impact that peaks during cultural celebrations. Join us as we get vulnerable about the pressure of cultural expectations from afar and how to find connection and community when you're navigating a new world. (Warning: Contains honest talk about emotional breakdowns and comfort food disasters.)

In this candid episode of Desperate Times, we explore why big festivals and milestones intensify the ache of being away. We discuss the intense guilt and pressure that comes with missing important traditions, and why it's crucial to acknowledge the feeling—remember, "It's okay to feel homesick."

We share our most desperate coping mechanisms—the good, the bad, and the slightly pathetic—and what it takes to form a supportive community in a new land. This conversation is about accepting change as an inevitable part of life and realizing that embracing it is the only way to build new, meaningful traditions right where you are.

If you are counting the days and time zones until you can go home, you are not alone. Hit the like button and leave a comment below sharing your best (or worst!) homesickness coping mechanism.

Subscribe to Desperate Times for more real talk on the messy parts of life.

#Homesickness #DiwaliAbroad #CulturalShock #ExpatLife #CopingMechanisms #DesperateTimes #EmotionalImpact #CommunitySupport #NewTraditions

In this episode, we dive into the all-too-familiar feeling of financial desperation — when you’re waiting for that paycheck to hit and every dollar counts. We talk about the stress of living paycheck to paycheck, the mental load of money struggles, and practical ways to manage your finances when times feel tight. From budgeting tips to breaking the cycle of constant money stress, this conversation is real, raw, and something so many of us can relate to.Whether you’re trying to stretch your last $20 or looking for smarter ways to plan ahead, this episode is here to remind you that you’re not alone in the grind.

Music Credits:♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)

Link : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

00:00 Introduction to Financial Struggles

01:50 Navigating Student Life and Finances

04:48 The Transition to International Student Life

07:42 Managing Expenses as a Student

10:27 Utilizing College Resources for Financial Relief

13:13 The Importance of Budgeting and Financial Planning

16:42 Navigating Public Transport Costs

19:03 Transitioning into Adulthood

21:42 Understanding Wants vs. Needs

24:21 The Thrifting Trend

28:57 Tracking Finances Effectively

In this week's episode of "Desperate Times," hosts Sakshi Jalan and Varun Raheja sit down with Mannan, who shares his journey from Mumbai to San Jose. With the latest news on H1B visa policy changes, Mannan's candid story couldn't be more timely. He shares the raw truth about the journey to America, from the initial cultural shock and the unexpected challenges of university life to the harsh realities of discrimination and the struggle to build a community.

This conversation is a must-listen for anyone considering a move abroad, or for those who want to understand the modern immigrant experience. We delve into how the AI economy is impacting careers, the importance of resilience, and the difference between the 'American Dream' as an ideal versus its lived reality.

Tune in to hear Mannan’s invaluable advice for new immigrants and his take on why facing challenges head-on is the only way to thrive.

Takeaways

• Cultural shock is a significant part of moving countries.
• Adjusting to a slower pace of life in the US can be challenging.
• Making friends in a new country can be difficult due to different priorities.
• The American dream may not align with reality for many immigrants.
• AI is currently inflating the economy, but its sustainability is uncertain.
• Experiencing discrimination can be a harsh reality for immigrants.
• Finding community is crucial for emotional support in a new country.
• Driving in California offers unique opportunities for exploration.
• It's important to take challenges head-on when moving abroad.
• Resilience is key to thriving in a new environment.

Sound bites

"What was the biggest shock?"

"You never feel at home."

"Take everything head on."

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction to Desperate Times Podcast

(00:51) Cultural Shock: Moving from Mumbai to LA

(03:24) Adjusting to Life in San Jose

(06:19) Navigating University Life in a New Country

(09:02) The Challenges of Independence and Daily Life

(10:37) Weather Woes and Seasonal Affects

(12:27) The Reality of Moving Abroad

(13:38) The American Dream: Expectations vs. Reality

(18:18) Cultural Differences and Social Connections

(19:39) Facing Discrimination and Prejudice

(24:02) Economic Contributions of Immigrants

(28:08) Driving and Lifestyle Adjustments

(28:27) Exploring California's Geographic Diversity

(32:20) Cultural Differences in Work Ethic

(36:42) The Challenges of Adulting Abroad

(38:25) Advice for First-Time Movers

39:34 Navigating Early Challenges in a New Country

(43:34) Outro.mp4

Ever wondered how to go from being a chef to building a career in product development and food innovation? 🍴✨ In this episode of Desperate Times, we talk to Saahil Shah, who transformed his culinary skills into a thriving career in R&D and the food industry.Saahil opens up about his culinary journey, the reality of culinary education, and the skills that helped him transition from the kitchen to product development. We also discuss career pivots, entrepreneurship lessons, life in a new country, and what it takes to navigate career setbacks while chasing opportunities in the Canadian food industry.Whether you're a chef exploring career growth, someone interested in food innovation, or just curious about career pivots and personal development, this episode has plenty of insights for you.📌 Chapters:(00:00) Introduction to Career Pivots(01:28) Sahil's Culinary Journey(04:14) The Reality of Culinary Education(07:17) Transitioning to R&D in Food(09:42) Defining Moments in Career Changes(12:19) Entrepreneurship and Its Lessons(15:12) Skills from Kitchen to Product Development(16:53) Imposter Syndrome and High Expectations(18:12) Navigating Expectations and Setbacks(19:31) Experiencing Life in a New Country(21:54) The Canadian Dream: Reality vs. Expectation(24:01) Desperate Times: Job Search Struggles(29:28) Hobbies and Work-Life Balance in Canada(31:17) Innovation in R&D: Personal Achievements and Insights(33:59) Outro🎧 Listen for insights on:Chef to product developer career transitionsCareer pivots in the food industryCulinary skills for product development & R&DLife and work experiences in CanadaFood innovation and personal growth lessonsMusic Credits:♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

In this episode of the Desperate Times Podcast, hosts Varun and Sakshi delve into the challenges of job hunting, particularly for international students. Sakshi shares her personal experiences navigating the job market, including the difficulties of transitioning to entry-level roles despite prior experience, the prevalence of job scams, and the frustrations of ghosting during the application process. The conversation also highlights the importance of networking and offers practical tips for effective outreach. Ultimately, the episode provides valuable insights for anyone facing the daunting task of job searching in today's competitive landscape.

Takeaways

• Job hunting can be particularly challenging for international students.
• Many applicants find themselves starting from entry-level positions despite prior experience.
• Job scams are prevalent, often disguising sales roles as marketing positions.
• Interviews should not require unpaid work or extensive preparation without compensation.
• Ghosting by employers is a common frustration in the job application process.
• Networking is crucial; building relationships can lead to job opportunities.
• Active engagement on platforms like LinkedIn can enhance networking success.
• Personalizing outreach messages increases the likelihood of responses.
• Expectations should be managed; not every outreach will yield results.
• Desperation can lead to unexpected job offers, even after multiple rejections.

Sound bites

"I had to start from ground zero."

"It was door to door sales."

"I had already rejected him."

Chapters

(00:00) Navigating Job Hunts as an International Student

(02:50) The Reality of Job Interviews and Expectations

(05:29) Identifying Job Scams and Misleading Interviews

(08:14) The Challenge of Ghosting in Job Applications

(11:08) Networking: Building Connections in a Competitive Market

(13:54) Desperate Times: Personal Stories of Job Searching Challenges

(23:58) Outro.mp4

In this episode of Desperate Times, host Sakshi engages in a heartfelt conversation with  @theclerisavarghese , who shares her journey from India to Canada, her experiences in human resources, and her transition into public speaking coaching. They discuss the importance of networking, the cultural differences in work environments, and the challenges faced by immigrants. Clerisa emphasizes the need for self-belief, the value of mentorship, and the significance of taking bold steps in life. The conversation also touches on personal growth, confidence building, and the impact of cultural conditioning on decision-making.

Where you can find Clerisa Varghese:Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/clerisavargheseNewsletter: https://www.topleaderlab.com/freeresource/newsletterYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/ ⁨@theclerisavarghese⁩ 

Takeaways

• Networking can lead to unexpected opportunities.
• Believing in yourself is crucial for success.
• Confidence requires internal work and visualization.
• Cultural differences can significantly impact work-life balance.
• Public speaking is a valuable skill for professionals.
• Investing in mentors can accelerate personal growth.
• Sharing your visions prematurely can hinder progress.
• Immigrants often have a unique perspective on bold choices.
• Personal growth often comes from overcoming desperate times.

• Taking action is essential for manifesting dreams.

Sound bites

"You have to create opportunities."

"Confidence is a lot of internal work."

"You have to dream big and take action."

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction and Networking Journey

(03:12) Clerisa's Background and Move to Canada

(05:56) Career Transition and Opportunities in Canada

(08:02) Cultural Differences in Work Environment

(10:31) Public Speaking Journey and Influences

(13:11) Challenges and Building Confidence in Communication

(15:44) Entrepreneurial Mindset and Overcoming Doubts

(17:26) The Journey of Learning and Mentorship/

(18:07) Influences of Family on Public Speaking

(20:56) Tailored Communication Coaching

(22:45) Building Confidence from Within

(26:26) The Power of Manifestation and Action

(27:38) Cultural Conditioning and Bold Choices

(30:01) Navigating Desperate Times with Faith and Action

(35:13) Outro.mp4

Music Credits:♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)

Link : https://www.youtube.com/watchv=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

Looking for a job in today’s world feels like a full-time job in itself. In this episode of Desperate Times, Varun opens up about his own rollercoaster job hunt — from scam job offers and sketchy freelance gigs to endless rejections and exhausting application processes. He even shares a wild interview experience in a taboo industry and reflects on what these moments taught him about persistence, red flags, and the state of hiring today.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in your job search or questioned the strange opportunities that land in your inbox, this conversation will feel all too familiar.

✨ Tune in for an honest look at the ups, downs, and “you won’t believe this” stories from the job market.

Music Credits:
♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)
Link : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

00:00 Desperate Times: The Job Hunt Begins

02:23 The Bizarre Job Interview Experience

05:15 The Unexpected Job Offer: Content Formatter at Aloe

07:57 Interviewing for a Job in the Adult Industry

10:51 The Frustration of Job Application Processes

13:45 Miscommunication in the Hiring Process

16:21 The Need for Change in Hiring Practices

17:05 Navigating LinkedIn Connections and Credibility

20:03 Safety Concerns in Networking

20:55 The Rise of WhatsApp Scams

22:36 Ghosting in Job Applications

26:41 The Importance of Communication in Hiring

28:20 Creating Opportunities in Desperate Times

30:03 Persistence in Job Applications

32:47 Lessons from Desperation in Job Searching

#JobSearch #CareerStruggles #JobHunt #ScamJobs #Rejected #FreelanceLife #WorkLife #CareerJourney #DesperateTimesPodcast #JobMarket #HiringProcess #CareerAdvice #JobInterview

In this episode of the Desperate Times Podcast, Varun and Sakshi engage with Christelle Rosario, who shares her journey from hospitality to public relations. Christelle discusses her initial passion for pastry and the challenges she faced in the culinary industry, including a toxic work environment. She reflects on her career pivot, the skills she transferred to PR, and the realities of working in the industry. The conversation also touches on Christelle's aspirations to open her own pastry shop in the future.

Takeaways

1. Christelle's journey from hospitality to PR showcases the importance of adaptability.
2. Career pivots can be non-linear and often involve trial and error.
3. Understanding the job requirements is crucial for success in interviews.
4. Toxic work environments can significantly impact one's passion for their profession.
5. Networking and mentorship play vital roles in career transitions.
6. The perception of glamour in PR often contrasts with the reality of hard work.
7. Self-doubt is common when transitioning to a new industry, but it can be a motivator.
8. Maintaining a support system is essential during challenging times.
9. Pursuing one's passion, despite setbacks, is a key to personal fulfillment.

Sound bites

"I will take any job that I get."

"It's not always glamorous in PR."

"I didn't mess up."

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction to Desperate Times

(00:29) Introduction to Christelle's Journey

(02:38) The Shift from Hospitality to PR

(07:34) Leveraging Skills from Past Experiences

(09:4) Overcoming Interview Anxiety

(12:20) Transitioning from Hospitality to PR

(14:54) The Reality of Working in PR

(17:55) First Days in PR: A Learning Curve

(22:02) Navigating Self-Doubt and Motivation

(26:02) Career Pivots and Global Perspectives

(27:17) Workplace Challenges and Transitions

(36:47) Support Systems in Difficult Times

In this episode of Desperate Times, Sakshi and Varun sit down with Madhu Sri — a former corporate leader who made a bold pivot into the world of leadership coaching through neuroscience. 🌱

We explore her journey of transitioning from the boardroom to building her own practice, how burnout led her to re-evaluate everything, and why so many high-achievers struggle with the same patterns.

Madhu shares actionable insights on:

• What truly makes a great leader in today’s world
• How neuroscience plays a powerful role in decision-making and empathy
• Why burnout is often a sign of disconnection — not weakness
• And what it really takes to pivot careers with purposeWhether you’re feeling stuck, burned out, or just curious about the science of leadership, this one’s for you.

Where you can find Madhu Sri:

• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mathurasrinivasan/
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bbcoachella_/

(00:00) Introduction to Desperate Times Podcast

(01:12) Madhu's Journey: From Corporate to Coaching

(01:29) Cultural Dynamics and Career Shifts

(04:11) The Role of Psychology in Leadership

(07:01) Identifying Transferable Skills

(09:52) The Transition from VP to Coach

(12:31) Finding Fulfillment in Career Pivots

(15:19) Overcoming Fear in Career Changes

(18:09) The Role of Coaching in Career Development

(19:50) Navigating Career Progression

(22:27) The Role of Neuroscience in Coaching

(29:24) Understanding Burnout in Leadership

(38:38) Changing Careers: Myths and Realities

Music Credits:♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)

Link : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

In this episode of Desperate Times, co-hosts Sakshi and Varun engage with Simran Parekh, who shares her transformative journey from studying psychology to leading a marketing team. Simran discusses the challenges of navigating career pivots, the impact of COVID-19 on job opportunities, and the importance of personal growth and adaptability. She reflects on her experiences with imposter syndrome, cultural identity, and the value of education in her career. The conversation emphasizes the significance of pursuing happiness in one's professional life and the lessons learned from overcoming obstacles.

Takeaways

• Simran transitioned from psychology to marketing, discovering her creative side.
• COVID-19 significantly impacted job opportunities for recent graduates.
• Internships can provide valuable experience and open doors to full-time positions.
• Cultural adjustments are a common challenge for those moving between countries.
• Imposter syndrome is a prevalent feeling among professionals, regardless of experience.
• It's essential to find a balance between work and personal life.
• Education can be applied in unexpected ways in different careers.
• Asking 'so what?' can help alleviate the weight of challenges.
• Career paths are not linear; it's okay to pivot and explore new opportunities.
• Pursuing what makes you happy is crucial for long-term satisfaction.

Sound bites

"The grass is green on both sides."

"I learned to ask myself, so what?"

"So what? It works out."

Chapters

(00:00) Introduction to Desperate Times and Guest Introduction

(01:11) Simran's Journey: From Psychology to Marketing

(03:54) Navigating Career Changes and Internships

(06:41) Growth and Opportunities in Marketing

(09:37) Imposter Syndrome and Self-Doubt in Marketing

(10:28) Analyzing Marketing Strategies and Personal Growth

(12:35) Navigating Imposter Syndrome

(15:52) Cultural Reflections: Moving Between Countries

(22:19) Building a Career After Transitions

(26:12) Embracing Uncertainty in Career Planning

(28:36) Mindset Shift and Career Reflections

(33:01) Navigating Career Choices and Happiness

(36:28) Overcoming Desperate Times and Personal Growth

In this episode, Sakshi and Varun get real about what it feels like to be brown in 2025. From offhand comments and casual stereotyping to outright hostility, we’re unpacking the microaggressions and racism we’ve faced outside of India—some subtle, others not so much.

We talk about how the global narrative around brown identities is shifting—how it's suddenly become “cool” to hate on brown people, and how that plays out in day-to-day life, from the workplace to public spaces.

Whether you’re part of the diaspora or just trying to understand what it’s like walking around in brown skin today, this one’s for you.

🎙 Let’s talk about the things people still whisper about. It’s time we said them out loud.

👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments.

📢 Share this with someone who needs to hear it.

00:00) Introduction to Desperate Times
(00:35) The Bad Rep on Brown People
(03:32) Microaggressions and Subtle Racism
(09:01) Cultural Misunderstandings and Language
(13:45) Experiences of Discrimination
(16:41) The Impact of Viral Videos
(21:32) The Need for Positive Representation
(24:06) Outro

Music Credits:

♪ Marshmallow (Prod. by Lukrembo)

Link : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y7KYdqVND4o&ab_channel=LuKremBo

In this episode of Desperate Times, co-hosts Varun and Sakshi chat with Dr. Rupali, who shares her experiences of moving to the UK from India. We discuss the challenges of starting over, navigating work-life balance, cultural adjustments, and the differences in lifestyle between the UK and India. Rupali also shares her thoughts on the food scene, weather comparisons, and the struggles of finding accommodation in a new country. The conversation highlights the importance of adaptability and the unique experiences that come with relocating to a different culture.
Find Rupali on:Website: https://sites.google.com/view/rupsgotnochill/homeYoutube: www.youtube.com/@rupsgotnochillInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rupsgotnochill/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rupali-sachdev/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/RupsGotNoChill

Chapters00:00 Starting Life in the UK03:25 Navigating the NHS and Mobility05:13 Choosing the UK: A Personal Journey07:18 Work-Life Balance: Reality vs. Expectations10:51 Cultural Shifts: From India to the UK13:38 Life in the South: A New Perspective16:29 Commuting Challenges and Adaptations17:50 Driving Test Fails and Cultural Comparisons19:09 Weather: UK Rains vs Mumbai Monsoon21:23 Food Adventures: Cooking and Culinary Adjustments26:32 Desperate Times: Finding Accommodation in a New Country

#DesperateTimesPodcast #lifeinUK #AboutNHS #FoodinUK #immigrantstories

Ever feel like everyone your age is ahead while you’re still rebuilding from scratch?

In this episode of Desperate Times, we talk about the pressure of “catching up,” moving countries, career changes and why your timeline is still valid.

Join the conversation and let us know: Do you feel behind, or just starting fresh? ✨

#DesperateTimesPodcast #ImmigrantStories #StartingOver #LifeInYour20s #CareerPivot #RealTalk

Two cities. Endless chaos.We’ve lived in both Toronto and Mumbai—and the similarities are hilariously real. In this episode:

• Dug-up roads & constant construction
• TTC delays vs. Mumbai locals
• Sweaty summers, freezing winters, and monsoon floods
• Food, space, and finding “home” in the chaos

If you’ve ever lived in either city—or love immigrant stories—this one’s for you.🎧 New episodes drop every Thursday. Tune in wherever you listen!

Friendship in your 20s is nothing like the movies.

In this episode, we talk about what it really takes to build and maintain friendships as adults—when schedules are packed, social circles are shifting, and boundaries actually matter.

From making new friends in a new country to navigating conflict, growing apart, and learning what healthy friendships look like—we’re unpacking it all. If you’ve ever felt like no one warned you how hard friendship would get as you grow up… this one’s for you.

🎧 Tune in now to Desperate Times—new episodes every Thursday.

Toronto is vibrant, loud, fast-paced and honestly, kind of exhausting.

In this episode, Varun and Sakshi get real about living in Canada’s busiest (and most expensive) city:

🚆 The TTC chaos that makes you question everything

💸 The rent? Let’s not even go there

🏙️ But also, the city’s energy that somehow keeps you going

If you’ve ever tried to survive in Toronto or found joy in the madness, this one’s for you.

#TorontoLife #TTCStruggles #GroceryPrices #DesperateTimesPodcast #ImmigrantDiaries #LifeInCanada #CostOfLivingCanada #NewcomerLife

From fashion-forward streets to icy sidewalks, Montreal is equal parts charm and chaos, especially when you’re new, hungry, and only fluent in English.

In this episode, Sakshi and Varun dive into what it’s really like living in Montreal:

👠 Fashion that rivals New York

🥐 Bureaucracy that’ll test your patience

📈 Inflation that hits hard

🍛 And the never-ending quest for good Indian food

Plus, we talk about navigating life in French (with Google Translate, of course), getting directions from strangers, and why Montreal is a whole vibe, just not always an easy one.

If you’re a newcomer, immigrant, or just someone who’s been there, this one’s for you.

From freezing winters to sweaty summers, Canada really gives us everything. In this episode, your hosts Varun and Sakshi share how we actually cope with the extreme seasonal shifts — from layering up like marshmallows in February to pretending it’s summer the second it hits 10°C.We chat about:☃ Our winter survival tips (mental + physical!)🌞 Why summer here feels so sacred🍂 Seasonal routines, mood swings, and how we actually feel about daylight savings🌧 The weird in-between weather and how it messes with our wardrobesWhether you're new to Canada or just here for the relatable rants, this one’s for you.👇 Let us know in the comments: Which Canadian season is YOUR villain origin story?🎧 Listen in and laugh with us — because if we don’t joke about the weather, we’ll probably cry.

In this episode of Desperate Times, we’re talking about the emotional, cultural, and logistical rollercoaster of finding part-time jobs as international students in Canada. On-campus, off-campus, underpaid, under-the-table — we’re laying it all out.Whether you’ve lived it or are living it now, this one’s for you. 🎧#DesperateTimesPodcast #InternationalStudentLife #StudentJobsCanada #SurvivalStories #PartTimeHustle